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edhopper

(37,370 posts)
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 04:18 PM Feb 2024

Why do some people feel they need to declare they are not watching the Superbowl?

Last edited Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:27 PM - Edit history (1)

I am watching because I like football. About 100 million other Americans are watching too. But that means a lot of people are not watching. This is all fine, free country and all. What people enjoy is up to them. Sometimes it comes up in conversation and people will say they are watching or not. It's all good.
But then there are those people who feel they must announce in public or social media that THEY ARE NOT WATCHING THE GAME, usually adding how they will be reading a book or seeing an art film. The condescension is palpable.
Not sure why this disdain is reserved for football or why they are so proud of themselves, but my thought is usually, go fuck yourself you sanctimonious blowhard.

Rant ended.

For those who have replied to explain why you don't watch. I think you missed the entire point of my post.

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Why do some people feel they need to declare they are not watching the Superbowl? (Original Post) edhopper Feb 2024 OP
I will not be watching the Super Bowl Mossfern Feb 2024 #1
Crap. Were we supposed to declare?? Scrivener7 Feb 2024 #131
Given the sentiment of the OP Mossfern Feb 2024 #132
Dunno. I am not watching because I don't care for football, elleng Feb 2024 #2
I will not watch, because I do not like or understand football yellowdogintexas Feb 2024 #120
I'm hoping to see both Nancy Pelosi and Taylor Swift. :-) spooky3 Feb 2024 #3
I'm not watching because I don't like team sports Raine Feb 2024 #4
Same here. Beartracks Feb 2024 #38
Okey-dokey Rebl2 Feb 2024 #96
Love football...I'm a Rabid Detroit Lions Fanatic... MiHale Feb 2024 #5
Sorry for your loss edhopper Feb 2024 #12
LOL Lochloosa Feb 2024 #80
I was rooting for the Lions MorbidButterflyTat Feb 2024 #14
This Dolphins fan says edhopper Feb 2024 #19
Ouch! MorbidButterflyTat Feb 2024 #82
Always had a soft spot for the Lions TheProle Feb 2024 #52
The vehemence with which some declare "they won't be watching" AZSkiffyGeek Feb 2024 #6
Yes edhopper Feb 2024 #13
lol exactly. Also, why do they think EllieBC Feb 2024 #114
Lol tazkcmo Feb 2024 #128
I can show you where where football hurts people.... Happy Hoosier Feb 2024 #150
Well, Ed, now that you mention it..... Conjuay Feb 2024 #7
Is that a edhopper Feb 2024 #17
No, I love soccer just as much. Golf too! Conjuay Feb 2024 #34
I can't watch pro golf anymore edhopper Feb 2024 #40
Is this the place where I make my declaration ? stopdiggin Feb 2024 #8
You are missing out edhopper Feb 2024 #18
Ed, you and I agree! Conjuay Feb 2024 #37
So you should drink a lot NoRethugFriends Feb 2024 #69
From Wisconsin. Curling is great. LakeArenal Feb 2024 #47
I used to think curling was silly Diamond_Dog Feb 2024 #54
Yep. I like that the best curlers don't have to be 16 years old. LakeArenal Feb 2024 #65
+++ agree Diamond_Dog Feb 2024 #83
Yes it is. SarahD Feb 2024 #108
I enjoy curling ripcord Feb 2024 #59
I love to watch curling. Don't know why but I do. yellowdogintexas Feb 2024 #121
It is the most exciting edhopper Feb 2024 #122
Curling is the BOMB!!!! Lochloosa Feb 2024 #81
Self righteousness Daylily Feb 2024 #9
i have to admit I'm interested because of the Taylor Swift drama MadameButterfly Feb 2024 #70
I just found out which teams are playing in the Super Bowl. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #10
I always do my food shopping on SB Sunday, marybourg Feb 2024 #11
Dunno, I like cooking something yummy to share.... we can do it Feb 2024 #15
Not only am I not watching TheProle Feb 2024 #16
With You Nearly 100% ProfessorGAC Feb 2024 #20
I did edhopper Feb 2024 #23
To You, And Everybody Else ProfessorGAC Feb 2024 #25
I cant tell yuo edhopper Feb 2024 #30
Brilliant! 3catwoman3 Feb 2024 #41
Well Played! (nt) ProfessorGAC Feb 2024 #42
When making the pronouncement, cloudbase Feb 2024 #21
Or AITA ? dweller Feb 2024 #28
When is it on? intrepidity Feb 2024 #22
Former pizza delivery guy here. Conjuay Feb 2024 #43
Just got back from Costco Sympthsical Feb 2024 #89
I have a different set of events and holidays NJCher Feb 2024 #64
If my tv was working I would be watching. LiberalFighter Feb 2024 #24
I cut the cord so it can be challenging to watch games but today I think Paramount is streaming it. Demsrule86 Feb 2024 #92
I'm not watching because I don't like football. Polly Hennessey Feb 2024 #26
Go Niners RANDYWILDMAN Feb 2024 #27
Would an unijured Purdy edhopper Feb 2024 #31
I might not watch spinbaby Feb 2024 #29
I think it's because the world stops, the gazillions $$ involved in football bucolic_frolic Feb 2024 #32
And it has the ecstatic air of the roman collisseum. limbicnuminousity Feb 2024 #103
Because it's their way SocialDemocrat61 Feb 2024 #33
Or maybe they just don't watch football. Scrivener7 Feb 2024 #133
Then they just don't watch it SocialDemocrat61 Feb 2024 #140
Maybe they don't like football and don't see anything Scrivener7 Feb 2024 #141
If someone asks them, sure SocialDemocrat61 Feb 2024 #142
People tell me unsolicited all the time Scrivener7 Feb 2024 #144
False analogy SocialDemocrat61 Feb 2024 #146
Lol! Trigger, trigger, trigger! Scrivener7 Feb 2024 #148
I'm taking the Sanctimonious Award ! dweller Feb 2024 #35
furiously scrolling the net now to find the 'superb owl' stopdiggin Feb 2024 #117
You know, I WOULD watch a supberb owl. Scrivener7 Feb 2024 #134
To answer your question: PCIntern Feb 2024 #36
Maybe because it's shoved down the throats intheflow Feb 2024 #39
It seems to get later every year Retrograde Feb 2024 #48
Happy Birthday, anyway! Easterncedar Feb 2024 #49
Maybe they want someone to invite them to something else Sanity Claws Feb 2024 #44
I'm not watching because I don't care for football Retrograde Feb 2024 #45
I will be working. pfitz59 Feb 2024 #46
Maybe to push back against the hype. Basic LA Feb 2024 #50
I usually avoid commenting on something just to let the world know my negative take on it underpants Feb 2024 #51
Perfect response, Mr. Underpants. This is what the OP was hoping for. I try to do the same. RussellCattle Feb 2024 #109
❤️ underpants Feb 2024 #123
Same reason some people boast about not owning a televsion. RandySF Feb 2024 #53
Exactly. Diamond_Dog Feb 2024 #58
Same reason people announce they're not fans of Taylor Swift or other entertainers; are unsubscribing betsuni Feb 2024 #55
I am in the Virgin Islands iamateacher Feb 2024 #56
Lol Faux pas Feb 2024 #57
Huh. Is that today? bif Feb 2024 #60
Eh, it's boring and there are too many commercials. greatauntoftriplets Feb 2024 #61
The same reason you posted this. Lunabell Feb 2024 #62
Is what I posted edhopper Feb 2024 #68
I can't answer that without getting alerted on, so Lunabell Feb 2024 #73
I don't think edhopper Feb 2024 #86
Nope. Understood you perfectly stopdiggin Feb 2024 #118
It's on today??? niyad Feb 2024 #63
I haven't watched the Super Bowl since the first one MurrayDelph Feb 2024 #66
I'm not watching. That doesn't make me morally superior. teach1st Feb 2024 #67
Not this Niners fan! shanti Feb 2024 #71
Why do some people have to declare they Are watching the stupor bowel? Voltaire2 Feb 2024 #72
Don't think there's anything wrong with saying that unless senseandsensibility Feb 2024 #74
Just not a football fan, even though the Niners are my hometown team. ificandream Feb 2024 #75
Because, as you say, they feel superior. Elessar Zappa Feb 2024 #76
The same is true in reverse though BlueKota Feb 2024 #85
I am not meaning to be condescending BlueKota Feb 2024 #77
Some people are not a fan-base of football. Niagara Feb 2024 #78
What about the "I NEVER WATCH TELEVISION " people... Funtatlaguy Feb 2024 #79
Well, I don't have TV because cable is too expensive and antenna is a hassle. LeftInTX Feb 2024 #163
I like football. I understand your rant. I'm going to bed . My sleep is more important to me than any game. apcalc Feb 2024 #84
I once did this on a different website (Reddit) IcyPeas Feb 2024 #87
That is funny edhopper Feb 2024 #93
I know right...I am announcing now...I am watching the superbowl! I made all sorts of snacks Demsrule86 Feb 2024 #88
Agree 100% with OP brettdale Feb 2024 #90
I have a general disdain for all nearly all sports, but I haven't announced that I'm not watching... Silent3 Feb 2024 #91
Me either. I'm disdaining quietly. Scrivener7 Feb 2024 #136
I am NOT watching the Super Bowl... petronius Feb 2024 #94
Remember that when facebook started, people would post that they were doing their laundry ms liberty Feb 2024 #95
Anyone who watches cable news can't criticize my viewing choices Sympthsical Feb 2024 #97
I don't know. I know that I won't be watching it... and I don't know why I just said that. Oopsie Daisy Feb 2024 #98
Baseball season starts in about 4 hours. Kingofalldems Feb 2024 #99
Let me get this straight. You are declaring that you are watching because you like football Chainfire Feb 2024 #100
think IcyPeas completely won the thread stopdiggin Feb 2024 #119
Why thank you IcyPeas Feb 2024 #166
Virtue Signaling. Liberal In Texas Feb 2024 #101
Same as people who brag about not watching TV redqueen Feb 2024 #102
It does seem odd to make an announcement about something you *aren't* doing. Ocelot II Feb 2024 #104
Puppy Bowl rocks! n/t shanti Feb 2024 #167
The need to be validated. nt Hotler Feb 2024 #105
It's an identity thing. It's funny. SYFROYH Feb 2024 #106
I got the point. SarahD Feb 2024 #107
Why do some people feel the need to declare they'd not going to read the New York Times? brooklynite Feb 2024 #110
I'm only a sanctimonious blowhard not about watching the Super Bowl commercials. Rocknation Feb 2024 #111
I don't feel the need.....but since you brought it up... sdfernando Feb 2024 #112
Football is the all-American sport DBoon Feb 2024 #113
I'm watching and watched NHL this morning. EllieBC Feb 2024 #115
Copyright rules, or something, say . . . Aussie105 Feb 2024 #116
Dunno but this is one of edisdead Feb 2024 #124
and virtue signalling Celerity Feb 2024 #168
I'm not watching because choie Feb 2024 #125
Not watching canetoad Feb 2024 #126
I know. I once invited a neighbor to a Super Bowl party. LisaM Feb 2024 #127
Live and let live, sagetea Feb 2024 #129
There's always got to be haters. Initech Feb 2024 #130
Watching the what? WestMichRad Feb 2024 #135
I don't think it's self-righteousness, exactly. ShazzieB Feb 2024 #137
It depends on where they say it. LisaM Feb 2024 #151
Also, NFL football is Sky Jewels Feb 2024 #158
Exactly. They think this is the airport where they announce their departure from American culture. SoFlaBro Feb 2024 #138
Why? You ask. Because we're not watching, so are available MyMission Feb 2024 #139
It's their way of saying it's a ridiculous and overpriced spectacle... Chakaconcarne Feb 2024 #143
I always do food shopping during the Superbowl BigmanPigman Feb 2024 #145
For the same reason that a bunch of people felt the need to Bettie Feb 2024 #147
I didn't announce... but I think the NFL is destructive. Happy Hoosier Feb 2024 #149
Because they want you to know they're "above" it. BlueTsunami2018 Feb 2024 #152
Theres more to life than a dumb game gay texan Feb 2024 #153
You know edhopper Feb 2024 #155
and you miss the entire point gay texan Feb 2024 #157
Sorry edhopper Feb 2024 #162
I'm not watching the Cricket championship: Alpeduez21 Feb 2024 #154
Blashemy! Kennah Feb 2024 #156
Was the Super Bowl held recently? DFW Feb 2024 #159
The Super Bowl has become utterly ridiculous. Sky Jewels Feb 2024 #160
I forgot it was on. catbyte Feb 2024 #161
Because western capitalism. LeftInTX Feb 2024 #164
Truly amazed edhopper Feb 2024 #165

elleng

(141,926 posts)
2. Dunno. I am not watching because I don't care for football,
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 04:22 PM
Feb 2024

certainly when 'my' team's not in the game.

yellowdogintexas

(23,696 posts)
120. I will not watch, because I do not like or understand football
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 08:59 PM
Feb 2024

I grew up in Kentucky where basketball is the Official State Religion and one can still find a high school here and there without a football team.

So it just ain't my thing.

Raine

(31,179 posts)
4. I'm not watching because I don't like team sports
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 04:31 PM
Feb 2024

and I actually don't like sports in general. I only watch the individual sports in the Olympics. I like seeing people from all over the world compete.

Beartracks

(14,602 posts)
38. Same here.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:21 PM
Feb 2024

Just didn't grow up in a sports household, so never got into it. Also, there were no pro teams in my town anyway.

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MiHale

(13,032 posts)
5. Love football...I'm a Rabid Detroit Lions Fanatic...
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 04:31 PM
Feb 2024

And, of course, I’m watching those two loser teams play patty cake with each other.
Wouldn’t miss it.

MorbidButterflyTat

(4,513 posts)
14. I was rooting for the Lions
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 04:44 PM
Feb 2024

I really like Dan Campbell, and I think what the Rams did to Jared Goff stinks. I was so sorry they lost.

As a Bills fan, I feel your pain.

AZSkiffyGeek

(12,744 posts)
6. The vehemence with which some declare "they won't be watching"
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 04:31 PM
Feb 2024

Almost has a “show me on the doll where football hurt you” tone.
That does not apply to the respondents here, mostly just my FB feed.

stopdiggin

(15,463 posts)
8. Is this the place where I make my declaration ?
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 04:34 PM
Feb 2024

I have obviously been remiss ...

I also don't watch NASCAR, mixed martial, curling, downhill or skateboard ... Have been know to read a book occasionally ... I'll try to do better.
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Diamond_Dog

(40,579 posts)
54. I used to think curling was silly
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:39 PM
Feb 2024

Until one year I started watching it in the Olympics and realized all the strategy that goes into it, then I really got into it! now I think it’s great and look forward to seeing more Olympic curling!

 

SarahD

(1,732 posts)
108. Yes it is.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 07:47 PM
Feb 2024

When the president of my college proposed spending big bucks to build a super hyper ultra football program, I told him our athletic program should be hurling, curling, burling and twirling. He couldn't see the humor in my remark.

 

ripcord

(5,553 posts)
59. I enjoy curling
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:42 PM
Feb 2024

When you get to where you understand the sport the strategy is fascinating.

yellowdogintexas

(23,696 posts)
121. I love to watch curling. Don't know why but I do.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 09:02 PM
Feb 2024

There is something just so off the wall about sliding a heavy stone down the ice and sweeping it with a broom that makes me feel good.

 

Daylily

(51 posts)
9. Self righteousness
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 04:34 PM
Feb 2024

I have to admit I’ve never watched the Kardashian group. So I do have self righteous tendencies. And I’m not a real big fan of many sports, especially those that destroy brains and bodies. However, this year with the Lions coming so close and the indomitable Taylor Swift, who I admire, I’m a gonna watch. Besides, hopefully it will take the spotlight off Orange Jesus for a few hours.

MadameButterfly

(4,039 posts)
70. i have to admit I'm interested because of the Taylor Swift drama
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:59 PM
Feb 2024

and my husband will be thrilled.

Years ago my daughter was a cheerleader. She led us to watch her high school team win NY State. Fun to get to know the players and watch them perform a miracle. So I get that's what it's like for you guys who really know your stuff.

My daughter also introduced me to Taylor Swift even before the cheerleading years. So how could I miss this? And like the high school games, I'll enjoy the football too. I don't mean to compare the caliber of play but all athletes who can deliver an oblong ball 30 yards or more to the right person running at breakneck speed while in danger of attack is a miracle to me. My husband will happily explain who's who on the field.

Irish_Dem

(81,277 posts)
10. I just found out which teams are playing in the Super Bowl.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 04:41 PM
Feb 2024

I watch college ball, but rarely professional ball.

I knew one team must be from California since Pelosi was attending.
The other team, no idea.

But I know all about Taylor Swift having a boyfriend on one of the teams.
Which one I didn't know.

I am supposed to watch some of the Super Bowl tonight at a gathering at a friend's home.
So I am now up to speed.



marybourg

(13,642 posts)
11. I always do my food shopping on SB Sunday,
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 04:41 PM
Feb 2024

to make up for not going on the Fri. Night just prior in order to avoid people shopping for SB entertaining and snacking.

we can do it

(13,024 posts)
15. Dunno, I like cooking something yummy to share....
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 04:46 PM
Feb 2024

…drinks with friends. Funny and not so funny commercials. Halftime- oh and there’s a game, too💖💖💖 What’s not to like?

TheProle

(3,982 posts)
16. Not only am I not watching
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 04:46 PM
Feb 2024

I don’t have a tv. I can’t stand being around anyone with one. I also reject radio and the mass communication of bystander conversation. I chopped off my hands as they are newfangled evolutional technology. This, of course, makes me intellectually superior to the knuckledraggers.

Actually will be watching and rooting for the Niners because I’m a Raiders fan and fuck the Chiefs.

ProfessorGAC

(76,706 posts)
20. With You Nearly 100%
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 04:54 PM
Feb 2024

However,

The condescension is palatable.

Pretty sure you meant "palpable". You may be the victim of auto-type.

edhopper

(37,370 posts)
23. I did
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:08 PM
Feb 2024

must have misspelled palpable and then spell correct gave me the wrong word. Not the first time that has happened, won't be the last.

edhopper

(37,370 posts)
30. I cant tell yuo
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:11 PM
Feb 2024

how mnay posts I right that have errers. I should have lerned by now to profread everythink.

cloudbase

(6,270 posts)
21. When making the pronouncement,
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:03 PM
Feb 2024

it's always a good idea to start off with "Am I the only one who. . .?"

Conjuay

(3,067 posts)
43. Former pizza delivery guy here.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:28 PM
Feb 2024

You can be an ax murderer and show up for
the job interview with fresh blood on your ax, but as long as you are willing to work Superbowl Sundays you've got a job.

It's amazing how quiet the streets are during the game. Only ones out are food delivery people.

Sympthsical

(10,969 posts)
89. Just got back from Costco
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:41 PM
Feb 2024

Pizza line is out in the parking lot somewhere.

I was there for milk, thank god.

NJCher

(43,167 posts)
64. I have a different set of events and holidays
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:50 PM
Feb 2024

Superbowl Sunday: once a year opportunity to shop on a weekend in Northern NJ

Christmas, Thanksgiving, and Easter: Leaf blower-free days where one can garden in peace and quiet.


Demsrule86

(71,542 posts)
92. I cut the cord so it can be challenging to watch games but today I think Paramount is streaming it.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:52 PM
Feb 2024

I digress though NFL + works on a phone...it is an app and not expensive. We wanted to watch the games. It would probably work on a tablet too. You can send it to your TV but in your case, you could just watch it on your device. If you have Google Home it works on that too. I think there may be a free trial for NFL+ not sure.

Polly Hennessey

(8,834 posts)
26. I'm not watching because I don't like football.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:09 PM
Feb 2024

All the rest of my family is huddled around the TV. I might sneak some snacks. Sorry, but I had to declare!!!!! 🥹

RANDYWILDMAN

(3,163 posts)
27. Go Niners
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:09 PM
Feb 2024

and I always watch the game even after some devastating losses in the NFC championship game.

spinbaby

(15,389 posts)
29. I might not watch
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:11 PM
Feb 2024

If I think of it and am in the mood, I might tune in for the commercials and to see how the Taylor Swift thing is working out, but I generally don’t follow football. I won’t be doing anything culturally uplifting while I’m not watching, although I do have plans for a hot bath.

bucolic_frolic

(55,143 posts)
32. I think it's because the world stops, the gazillions $$ involved in football
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:13 PM
Feb 2024

The taxpayer subsidies, and it's the #1 day for wife beating. There are negatives to this humongous sport.

I rarely watch unless it's a local team.

limbicnuminousity

(1,416 posts)
103. And it has the ecstatic air of the roman collisseum.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 07:32 PM
Feb 2024

It's very end-stage. May as well enjoy the party, the music is supposed to be pretty good.

SocialDemocrat61

(7,648 posts)
33. Because it's their way
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:13 PM
Feb 2024

of announcing to the world that they are superior to everyone else.

Same is true of those who announce that they don’t own a TV.

Scrivener7

(59,522 posts)
141. Maybe they don't like football and don't see anything
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 09:56 AM
Feb 2024

wrong with saying that.

Does it really bother people that much?

Do you really think someone saying, "No, I don't like football. I won't be watching," is them claiming superiority over you.

Damn, friend.

SocialDemocrat61

(7,648 posts)
142. If someone asks them, sure
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 10:13 AM
Feb 2024

But the OP is talking about people who unsolicited go out of the way to announce that they won't watch it, as if anyone really cares.

It's just a way for certain people to try to feel superior to everyone else.

Scrivener7

(59,522 posts)
144. People tell me unsolicited all the time
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:17 AM
Feb 2024

they WILL be watching.

I have no problem with the fact that they don't wait for me to give them permission to tell me their plans.

SocialDemocrat61

(7,648 posts)
146. False analogy
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 12:12 PM
Feb 2024

It’s not remotely the same. Sharing positive and very common information is different than those who feel the need to be negative.

Why are you so triggered by this subject?

dweller

(28,411 posts)
35. I'm taking the Sanctimonious Award !
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:16 PM
Feb 2024

As I’ve never ever watched a single superb owl in my almost 70yr life …

I also didn’t know declarations were expected … learned something new !

🏆


✌🏻

stopdiggin

(15,463 posts)
117. furiously scrolling the net now to find the 'superb owl'
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 08:27 PM
Feb 2024

'cause I had no idea this was on! This is an absolute must .. !

PCIntern

(28,369 posts)
36. To answer your question:
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:17 PM
Feb 2024

Attention…and it’s ok…I don’t care what someone’s tastes or preferences are. Sports as a subject is a very complex psychological issue for the vast number of people, since virtually everyone has been subjected to the people, rules, limitations, and role-playing of sports. One way or another, for good or evil, sports has played with our minds.

intheflow

(30,179 posts)
39. Maybe because it's shoved down the throats
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:22 PM
Feb 2024

of non-football fans? Football is a barbarous game that causes brain damage. It should be illegal. For those of us who feel this way about football, the constant hype is annoying AF.

For me in particular: Super Bowl often falls on my birthday weekend. My entire life has been some version of “Hey, I’m having a birthday party! Wanna come over?” “Sorry, we’re having a Super Bowl party. You’re welcome to join us.”

Yeah, no.

Retrograde

(11,419 posts)
48. It seems to get later every year
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:31 PM
Feb 2024

It used to be around the time of my birthday in mid January, then it's been slowly creeping into February. In another decade - should we all last that long - it will be bumping into March Madness.

Easterncedar

(6,269 posts)
49. Happy Birthday, anyway!
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:33 PM
Feb 2024

I’m just going to listen to radio and cook me some seriously good food. Party adjacent behavior.

Sanity Claws

(22,413 posts)
44. Maybe they want someone to invite them to something else
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:28 PM
Feb 2024

If you don't want to watch the Super Bowl, feel free to drop by and help me clean my apartment! I will play whatever music you want, as long as it is disco!

Retrograde

(11,419 posts)
45. I'm not watching because I don't care for football
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:29 PM
Feb 2024

not to mention all the hype about it (I live between San Francisco and Santa Clara, where the 49ers stadium actually is, so I've heard a lot of the hype). Mr. Retrograde will be watching the game, I'll be in another room doing something else, probably reading.

 

Basic LA

(2,047 posts)
50. Maybe to push back against the hype.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:34 PM
Feb 2024

To maybe assert that they don't follow the mainstream.
Like people who would say they don't watch television.

underpants

(196,502 posts)
51. I usually avoid commenting on something just to let the world know my negative take on it
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:35 PM
Feb 2024

So let’s say I see a post on Facebook about I don’t know -Pat Benatar’s music - I’m not at all a fan but if a bunch of her fans are reminiscing about those days, they don’t need to hear from me.

The only exception is brussel sprouts. I HATE the devil’s little cabbages with a passion as hot as a thousand Suns.

 

RussellCattle

(1,928 posts)
109. Perfect response, Mr. Underpants. This is what the OP was hoping for. I try to do the same.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 07:51 PM
Feb 2024

betsuni

(29,078 posts)
55. Same reason people announce they're not fans of Taylor Swift or other entertainers; are unsubscribing
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:41 PM
Feb 2024

to a newspaper; boast about not watching or reading or doing something; complain about tweets, nitpick sources without discussing the content, assume Teen Vogue is trash without knowing the first thing about the publication; live a pure TV-free lifestyle but have long lists of people and programs on TV they hate; brag about being atheists; when the topic is junk food making sure everybody knows they never darken the doors of a McDonald's (vulgar).

It's fine if there's an explanation, but just announcing things isn't interesting and comes off as rather snobby.

iamateacher

(1,120 posts)
56. I am in the Virgin Islands
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:41 PM
Feb 2024

Need I say more?
As an Eagles/Ravens fan I will watch the score since Andy Reid was the Eagles coach and we still love him in Philly. Well, some of us do.

greatauntoftriplets

(179,008 posts)
61. Eh, it's boring and there are too many commercials.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:42 PM
Feb 2024

Instead I'm watching the Puppy Bowl and will make dinner and do laundry later on. My building's laundry room is nuts on weekend, but usually empty around 6 or so on Sundays.

stopdiggin

(15,463 posts)
118. Nope. Understood you perfectly
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 08:31 PM
Feb 2024

And so did 98% here - both pro and con. You're good, son.

MurrayDelph

(5,752 posts)
66. I haven't watched the Super Bowl since the first one
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:52 PM
Feb 2024

And then it was because I knew that of the players personally.

I just don't find sports interesting. If you do, I have you'll enjoy.

teach1st

(6,024 posts)
67. I'm not watching. That doesn't make me morally superior.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 05:55 PM
Feb 2024

I don't like football. At all. I will answer so if asked, but I don't announce. Besides, I like pro baseball, a sport that is not without its faults. I don't think my sports-watching habits make me morally superior.

You know what I think makes me morally superior? My support of choice, my understanding that climate change is real and is caused by humans, and especially my disdain for a rapist, self-centered authoritarian creamsicle who has no clue about United States history or what really makes America great.

Enjoy the game if you watch, and, if not, enjoy whatever you do.

shanti

(21,799 posts)
71. Not this Niners fan!
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:00 PM
Feb 2024

Not a major football fan, but I like both teams this year, and "my" team is there. Also, kind of fascinated by the Swift/Kelce drama. He's a cutie patootie/eye candy, and I like their politics. So, yeah.

senseandsensibility

(24,978 posts)
74. Don't think there's anything wrong with saying that unless
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:02 PM
Feb 2024

they put others down who do watch. Everyone I know is watching (I'm from the SF Bay Area, so of course it's a big deal), and although I couldn't care less I don't gain anything by being a debbie downer either.

ificandream

(11,837 posts)
75. Just not a football fan, even though the Niners are my hometown team.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:02 PM
Feb 2024

Oh, I may look for score updates, but it's unlikely I'll watch the game.

Elessar Zappa

(16,385 posts)
76. Because, as you say, they feel superior.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:03 PM
Feb 2024

Same with food snobs, coffee snobs, music snobs, etc.

BlueKota

(5,351 posts)
85. The same is true in reverse though
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:24 PM
Feb 2024

I have had people try to make me feel like a geeky nerd for not watching it, so I'd just be happy if we all agree on saying, "you do you, I'll do me." It's not meant as a judgment on those who watch it because they enjoy it themselves, only on the ones who insist I should enjoy it too. Believe me those types exist too, and are equally annoying to we non-fans.

BlueKota

(5,351 posts)
77. I am not meaning to be condescending
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:04 PM
Feb 2024

when I say I am not watching football. I have to be honest though, I feel that in reverse. It's kind of my admittedly childish f you back to all the people, who act like you have 3 heads, are nerdy, and unpatriotic, if you tell them you don't like football, and don't want to watch it with them.

My sister has really gotten into it over the past few years and is always telling me about it, but yet complains when I talk about my favorite actors or TV shows. I keep quiet to not start an argument, but sometimes I want to say, "can we please talk about something else," like she does to me.

Niagara

(11,857 posts)
78. Some people are not a fan-base of football.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:06 PM
Feb 2024

I can't speak for everyone but I find anything related to football obnoxious. I placed specific words into my DU trash can like football, NFL, and Buffalo Bills.


Looks like I'll have to add a few more football related words to my DU trash can since Superbowl wasn't included.


Also, the entire point of DU is for members to start discussions. When I find a topic obnoxious, specific words go right into my trash can or I simply trash the thread.



Thank you for DU administrators for creating this wonderful forum feature.


P.S. None of my response was meant to be snarky or condescending, I'm only expressing how I feel about football and how I deal with it on DU.

Funtatlaguy

(11,878 posts)
79. What about the "I NEVER WATCH TELEVISION " people...
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:08 PM
Feb 2024

They think they are “above it”. Supposedly. But then start talking about some series or things you’ve seen on tv and they join in and say…”oh I did see that, it was good “. Annoying.

LeftInTX

(34,302 posts)
163. Well, I don't have TV because cable is too expensive and antenna is a hassle.
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 03:02 PM
Feb 2024

Hubby has a small TV with an antenna, but he only gets a few channels. (NBC and CBS) It's his muzak.

However, we both have Rokus.

apcalc

(4,528 posts)
84. I like football. I understand your rant. I'm going to bed . My sleep is more important to me than any game.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:18 PM
Feb 2024

IcyPeas

(25,475 posts)
87. I once did this on a different website (Reddit)
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:32 PM
Feb 2024

It was a subreddit about a certain TV show. I said I was bored with the characters and the show now and wouldn't be watching it anymore. To which someone replied:

This isn't an airport - you don't have to announce your departure.

I cracked up. I was both amused and insulted by that reply. LOL 😅

Demsrule86

(71,542 posts)
88. I know right...I am announcing now...I am watching the superbowl! I made all sorts of snacks
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:39 PM
Feb 2024

Taco, Chips and cheese and other stuff, Mac and Cheese...vegie platter, and for dessert lemon squares and chocolate chip cookies I made! Folks it doesn't sound Highbrow to announce you won't watch the superbowl- more like snobbish.

 

Silent3

(15,909 posts)
91. I have a general disdain for all nearly all sports, but I haven't announced that I'm not watching...
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:46 PM
Feb 2024

...yet.

petronius

(26,696 posts)
94. I am NOT watching the Super Bowl...
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:56 PM
Feb 2024

...because it hasn't started yet. But I will be in 43 minutes...

ms liberty

(11,237 posts)
95. Remember that when facebook started, people would post that they were doing their laundry
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:58 PM
Feb 2024

Some people gotta share

Sympthsical

(10,969 posts)
97. Anyone who watches cable news can't criticize my viewing choices
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 07:03 PM
Feb 2024

That's my axiom for American cultural events.

Oopsie Daisy

(6,670 posts)
98. I don't know. I know that I won't be watching it... and I don't know why I just said that.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 07:05 PM
Feb 2024

Other than to let people know that I'm not watching it.

 

Chainfire

(17,757 posts)
100. Let me get this straight. You are declaring that you are watching because you like football
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 07:27 PM
Feb 2024

but can't understand why people declare that they aren't watching because they don't give a damn about football? A lot of folks think that there is something wrong with, especially men, not watching football. Maybe it makes us sissies.... If it was a game, it may be fun to watch, but it is not a game even at the high school level any more.

I haven't watched a football game in years and tonight is no exception.

Liberal In Texas

(16,271 posts)
101. Virtue Signaling.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 07:29 PM
Feb 2024
vir·tue sig·nal·ing
nounDEROGATORY
the public expression of opinions or sentiments intended to demonstrate one's good character or social conscience or the moral correctness of one's position on a particular issue.
"it's noticeable how often virtue signaling consists of saying you hate things"


Oh, we're watching a Netflix movie tonight and not watching the Super Bowl.


redqueen

(115,186 posts)
102. Same as people who brag about not watching TV
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 07:29 PM
Feb 2024

Or never shopping at Walmart. Or eating at McDonald's or whatever other nonsense that makes them feel superior.

Some people just want to feel self righteous and you can't feel that way without waving it around to let everyone know.

Ocelot II

(130,538 posts)
104. It does seem odd to make an announcement about something you *aren't* doing.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 07:34 PM
Feb 2024

I probably won't watch the Superb Owl this evening (although the possibility that Taylor Swift will do something to annoy MAGA makes it tempting), but I also don't plan to go bungee jumping or to sing an aria at the Metropolitan Opera. Since the rest of the world, and DU in particular, probably cares very little about what I am doing, I can't imagine that anybody at all cares about what I'm not doing. Just in case anyone does, though, right now I'm watching the Puppy Bowl.

 

SarahD

(1,732 posts)
107. I got the point.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 07:42 PM
Feb 2024

Football fans think I am sanctimonious, self righteous, virtue signaling, picky and superior. And they are correct! I don't tell them I'm not watching. In fact, I go to some length to avoid offending them. When they talk about it, which they do a lot, since it's the only thing on their radar right now, I just make noncommittal grunts. I could enjoy football if it didn't cause so many people to get so crazy and obsessive. And it's not because I'm a girl. I liked football in college, even though we had a pretty bad team. We concentrated on the social aspect and didn't worry about stats or tech stuff or what a flea flicker was.

 

brooklynite

(96,882 posts)
110. Why do some people feel the need to declare they'd not going to read the New York Times?
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 07:52 PM
Feb 2024

Or not watch their favorite hated MSNBC correspondent?

Rocknation

(45,006 posts)
111. I'm only a sanctimonious blowhard not about watching the Super Bowl commercials.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 07:53 PM
Feb 2024

which currently cost 7 MILLION dollars a minute. And I've ignored the halftime shows since I learned that performers are paid only for reimbursement of their production expenses, and sing and play over pre-recorded tracks in exchange for "exposure"


Rocknation

sdfernando

(6,084 posts)
112. I don't feel the need.....but since you brought it up...
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 07:57 PM
Feb 2024

I was on an extended business trip this past week…it was a very busy 6 long work days. Got home late last night. Into bed about 2am. Totally forgot the SB was today….but really I couldn’t care less. Haven’t watched in years.

DBoon

(24,989 posts)
113. Football is the all-American sport
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 08:09 PM
Feb 2024

To not watch the Superbowl is to admit that you disdain the founding ideals of this country and are hence a covert communist agent.

We communists look towards our peers to support us in undermining America.

We also carry a ripped Jello box to find our comrades when in public.

EllieBC

(3,639 posts)
115. I'm watching and watched NHL this morning.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 08:22 PM
Feb 2024

We are a sports family though. Kids play a lot of team sports and we all enjoy watching.

Aussie105

(7,927 posts)
116. Copyright rules, or something, say . . .
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 08:24 PM
Feb 2024

I can't watch it live here in Australia.

I'd record it anyway, and fast forward the boring bits.

Wishing all those players who got injured during the game and felt nothing at the time a speedy recovery.

That's one side of the game hidden from public view.

choie

(6,906 posts)
125. I'm not watching because
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 09:32 PM
Feb 2024

1. The game is dangerous and causes concussions and brain injuries

2. The overwhelming and sickening commercialization and the never ending talk about Taylor Swift.

LisaM

(29,634 posts)
127. I know. I once invited a neighbor to a Super Bowl party.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 09:35 PM
Feb 2024

I think a polite "no" would have been a better response than being told that she hated football. Just don't come to the party, geesh.

sagetea

(1,559 posts)
129. Live and let live,
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 09:40 PM
Feb 2024

Baaabbbyyy!!

I didn't miss the point of your post, just wanted to remind you to live and let live. Who cares?

sage

ShazzieB

(22,593 posts)
137. I don't think it's self-righteousness, exactly.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 10:28 PM
Feb 2024

Last edited Mon Feb 12, 2024, 06:06 PM - Edit history (1)

At least not always. I think for some of us it's just a weird feeling to see what *feels* like the whole country losing its shit over something that you're not interested in.

I know it's not really the whole country, but it can feel that way because of all the hype. And speaking as a person who doesn't actively hate football but is just not that into it, all that hype can get pretty tiresome. I don't have anything against football or football fans, but too much of anything can get tiresome.

In response to this feeling of being bombarded by Superbowl stuff some people feel an urge to pipe up and point out that "Hey, guess what? Not everyone is into this! Some of us are actually tired of hearing about it!" It can feel downright refreshing to say, "I'm not watching the Superbowl" and hear others say "I'm not, either." It's nice to know you're not the only one!

There may be a tinge of self-righteousness for some in these "No Superbowl for me!" proclamations, but I don't think that's true for most of us non-Superbowl fans." Imo, most of us are just tired of the whole thing and want to feel seen.

LisaM

(29,634 posts)
151. It depends on where they say it.
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 01:24 PM
Feb 2024

If I post on Facebook about the game and someone goes on my wall and says she or he won't be watching, then it comes off as self-righteous. If someone asked you directly which team you wanted and you politely say you aren't interested,. that's different.

The worst are the people who disdainfully say they don't watch "sportsball". No longer funny or original and clearly designed to mock someone else's interest (they say it for baseball and basketball and soccer, too, believe me, I have heard it all).

 

Sky Jewels

(9,148 posts)
158. Also, NFL football is
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 02:01 PM
Feb 2024

violent, militaristic and misogynistic. I hate it and make no apologies for my hatred.

SoFlaBro

(3,790 posts)
138. Exactly. They think this is the airport where they announce their departure from American culture.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 10:31 PM
Feb 2024

MyMission

(2,010 posts)
139. Why? You ask. Because we're not watching, so are available
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 10:47 PM
Feb 2024

To chat about other topics, or to chat about why we're not watching.
That's my answer.

BigmanPigman

(55,171 posts)
145. I always do food shopping during the Superbowl
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:42 AM
Feb 2024

The stores are empty, except at half time. Therefore, I love the Superbowl.

Bettie

(19,704 posts)
147. For the same reason that a bunch of people felt the need to
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 12:19 PM
Feb 2024

post about how they don't like Taylor Swift's music?

I'm not a sports person, but if you like it, enjoy it. Life is short and we're not all the same. How boring would that be?

Happy Hoosier

(9,535 posts)
149. I didn't announce... but I think the NFL is destructive.
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 01:18 PM
Feb 2024

Not only does it gobble up the live of young athletes, give them brain damag,e and then leave to suffer, but it eats public resources in the form of public funding of stadiums and other huge good delas for NFL owners.

I admit I hold pro football in disdain. I do not hold pro football FANS in disdain, though I think they helping to perpetuate a destructive force.

But I certainly support some things that aren't terrible positive either, so there we are.

BlueTsunami2018

(4,990 posts)
152. Because they want you to know they're "above" it.
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 01:25 PM
Feb 2024

Only Neanderthal incels suffering from extreme toxic masculinity watch such meaningless and barbaric athletic endeavors, you know?

You can’t just be entertained, there has to be something wrong with it.

gay texan

(3,218 posts)
153. Theres more to life than a dumb game
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 01:38 PM
Feb 2024

I hate football. I hate the culture around it. I hate the fact that it's assumed that i must like it.

Everyone at work seems to have a point of asking me about XYZ's team and if they're going to the super bowl. People seem to be completely dismayed at me for not following this dumb sport. Was even told once that i wasn't a real man!!!!

I spent most of my weekend outside doing stuff for my ham radio station. New antennas, repairs, etc.

So yes i take great pleasure in spinning up the little diehards.

Now you know

On edit: I really don't go out of my way to piss people off. I only go off when they won't leave me alone about it.

edhopper

(37,370 posts)
155. You know
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 01:48 PM
Feb 2024

there is a thing called the internet where you can speak and see everyone else on Earth.
What is with using 19th Century technology. Am I suppose to be impressed that you can talk to someone in China on a scratchy speaker? I can video with them on Zoom or WhatsAp.

See, it's easy to be condescending with what other people like. What's the point. No one said you should like or watch football. But why announce it? Do you announce other things you don't do.

gay texan

(3,218 posts)
157. and you miss the entire point
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 01:58 PM
Feb 2024

I personally do not like football.

I normally don't give a rats ass about it. However, for some inexplicable reason the diehards in my little town and my work ALWAYS try to make conversation with me about it. Uninvited conversation, and they will not shut up about it. For some reason people in this dump think i have "I WORSHIP THE GOD OF FOOTBALL" tattooed on my forehead.

It's amusing when i say "I don't like football" to them. You can literally watch the blue screen of death crawl over their faces. Their jaws literally drop!!!!

It's cheap entertainment my dear edhopper

 

Sky Jewels

(9,148 posts)
160. The Super Bowl has become utterly ridiculous.
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 02:12 PM
Feb 2024

There’s SO MUCH hype over one stupid game. It reminds me of the Christmas build up — there is no way for Jews, Muslims, atheists, etc. to just tune it all out. I try to tune out all the endless dumb sportsing talk, but it’s impossible to avoid it entirely.

I’ve had a visceral negative reaction to football since I was a little girl and my dad would watch games with the volume way up and impose that shit on my mom and sister and me. Even the sound of helmets clashing made me feel a little queasy.

Yeah, yeah, I can see your eye roll and tiny violin from here — I don’t expect you to care; I’m explaining how football feels a bit like a psychological invasion to a lot of us, especially women.

LeftInTX

(34,302 posts)
164. Because western capitalism.
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 03:05 PM
Feb 2024

Usually I join the threads because I don't watch football (I prefer to figure skating or something that resembles dancing)

edhopper

(37,370 posts)
165. Truly amazed
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 04:20 PM
Feb 2024

that my rant on something that is admittedly trivial garnered over 150 replies.

But that's DU for you.

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