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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsJust got a call from my son @ Walmart
He said it's insane there, people tearing down displays to get to the early door-busters... officers walking the building with three patrol cars out front. He's been verbally accosted at the register four times so far, and pushed once. They aren't doing a walkout here, and they need to.
He called me from the break area, and you could hear him breathing heavy. He's ticked, and told me "I'm hope you're not shopping this weekend, these people are F---ing crazy. One more person touches me and I don't give a sh-t, I'm walking." I told him I'd have his back if that's what he wanted to do. He's working till midnight
He told me "You don't want any of this crap Mama, shop online and just stay inside." I wasn't planning on going anywhere this weekend and his call makes me VERY glad I chose to stay in.
Oh... and he only gets paid 8.05 an hour. Freaking bastages.
leveymg
(36,418 posts)Panic (shopping) in the Year Zero (1962)
johnp3907
(3,733 posts)Nice "classic" film reference!
heaven05
(18,124 posts)I got it. All this shit is going to end one day. That's all I know.
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)...Walmart, at the corporate and upper management level, are a bunch of "farging Iceholes". As one parent to another, all the best to your son.
PEACE!
Mother Of Four
(1,716 posts)MarianJack
(10,237 posts)PEACE!
R. Daneel Olivaw
(12,606 posts)MarianJack
(10,237 posts)...I'm the Pope!
PEACE!
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)You are making me tempted to go...as media...crazy.
Mother Of Four
(1,716 posts)Can you please make a thread maybe tomorrow? I'd really like to know how it goes, because even though he's quitting he's got alot of friends there that he would love to see in a union.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)Just finished getting gear ready...due to your note taking the zoom. I was not planning too, to be honest.
Mother Of Four
(1,716 posts)The zoom is a great idea...so you don't have to get in close.
Drive and be safe
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)Will go earlier to make sure...
Mother Of Four
(1,716 posts)rDigital
(2,239 posts)nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)Will do better shoes.
femmocrat
(28,394 posts)Good grief.... you must be so worried about him. I'm sure you will be happy to seem him as soon as his shift ends. to you both!
Could he get a job ANYWHERE else?
Mother Of Four
(1,716 posts)His manager is actually a nice guy, oddly enough. When my son hurt his knees slinging produce he moved him to a register instead of letting him go. So when he asked him to please stick around till this weekend - "I really need you here." my boy agreed, because he's got a good heart. Good heart or not, he's close to his breaking point.
We live in a pretty small town, about 5k people and the only other jobs that pay anything are 25-30 mins away. What he would get in a raise would be eaten up by gas.
He's getting his ducks in a row to start college in Jan, thank goodness. I told him we'll just tighten the belt and stick it out because I hate him working for a non living wage. He's going into auto tech, learning how to fix the newer cars and hybrids. They do the older cars as well, but the fact they expanded the training is what made him decide. It's a two year degree.
Yeah...I'm worried about him. I don't want someone hurting him because he can't over ride the register and give them a deal they think they deserve when the sale times haven't started yet or something.
femmocrat
(28,394 posts)Best wishes to him on school and a much better career!
Mother Of Four
(1,716 posts)<3
StatGirl
(518 posts)I don't know where you are, but in my state, that entitles a worker to workers' compensation, not being fired.
Sending good vibes his way!
radical noodle
(8,013 posts)Any injury will raise their insurance rates, and their workers comp will have to pay for all medical expenses and some of his time off the job. If they can convince their worker "no problem, I'll just move you" Wal-Mart comes out way ahead.
freshwest
(53,661 posts)This is not even necessary, most stores where I live are closed and this is a very busy area.
Mother Of Four
(1,716 posts)That's all I can say about it. Just plain nuts.
Thank you for the crossed fingers.
geckosfeet
(9,644 posts)on edit: not even salted....
Maynar
(769 posts)at least one was a"salted."
OK, ok, I know the way out....
susanna
(5,231 posts)It was ridiculous. The northbound side of the freeway leading to the mall was at a crawl, stretching almost four miles. I simply can't understand any of this...it makes no sense to me.
Sending good wishes for you and your poor son...hope things calm down. IMHO, no one should have to work under those conditions.
northoftheborder
(7,575 posts)Mother Of Four
(1,716 posts)Thank you for the good thoughts, I'll pass them on.
susanna
(5,231 posts)...how many people were there. We took a different route home after that that passed no malls. One was enough!
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)So I have to go crazy and shop in a herd!
The television tells me so!
Brigid
(17,621 posts)(((vibes))) for your son.
Mother Of Four
(1,716 posts)SheilaT
(23,156 posts)But don't feel sorry for me at all. I work the information desk at the local hospital. Normally, volunteers work the desk from 8am to 4pm, then I work 4pm to 8pm, Monday through Friday. Understandably, the volunteers don't work major holidays. I volunteer to work 9am-8pm on days like Thanksgiving. The only complaint I can make is that it's boring and tedious, but that's trivial. I'm not dealing with the shopping or travelling public. I was an airline ticket agent for 10 years in the distant past.
Anyway, I hope your son survives this idiocy and gets a new start with school.
Oh, and on the way home it looked like the K-Mart was open and doing a lot of business. The only other things that were open were the gas stations and one liquor store, but I did not drive by any of the other retailers who might have been open.
Mother Of Four
(1,716 posts)For being willing to work today. I'm glad you made it ok and the traffic wasn't too bad.
SheilaT
(23,156 posts)I was happy to work today. And no, I had not traffic to deal with either this morning or this evening. I live in Santa Fe, which has no traffic to speak of. It's possible there was a line of cars on the roads leading to the two WalMarts in town, but I wasn't on those roads. Lucky me. I have a very easy commute.
Dawson Leery
(19,348 posts)sheshe2
(83,945 posts)HiPointDem
(20,729 posts)but an atmosphere of short supply & competition means people make impulse purchases and buy more.
Walmart likes that.
AndyTiedye
(23,500 posts)47of74
(18,470 posts)The government should tax it out of existence.
SunSeeker
(51,740 posts)snot
(10,538 posts)More than enuf to make a bleeding-heart liberal's heart bleed.
wordpix
(18,652 posts)There's some weird psychology going on when people feel they have to push, shove and abuse others to get some plastic Walmart crap at low prices that aren't any lower than at other times of the year when things are on sale. E.g. I only buy new clothes at the end of the season when they're clearing out for the next one. There are great deals then.
ReRe
(10,597 posts)It truly is a Mad World. I don't do Black Friday... heck, I usually wait on any regular day till the evening so I won't have a nervous breakdown at the grocery store trying to find a parking place. And I just don't do Wal-Mart at all, period. Well... unless it's Christmas time and I'm making my church mice candy and can't find stemmed maraschino cherries anywhere in town. Hope your son gets home safe and unaccosted from his shift.
malokvale77
(4,879 posts)She had to go to work at 7:00 tonight. She called me nearly in tears, because she went through this last year and it was chaos.
Similar situation: small town, no other jobs for many miles. Difference is she has 2 kids to support.
I understand your worry.
rDigital
(2,239 posts)he will take away one gem. Assuming he's a youngster, he'll learn how important it is to treat people with respect and to expect the same in return....
i.e. The "Nice person" who isn't nice to the Wal-Mart Cashier, isn't a nice person. You learn a lot about character flaws working in retail. It definitely builds character.
Shop Online: Sounds like he has a good head on his shoulders.
DonCoquixote
(13,616 posts)Has it's parking lot FULL.
Honestly, I can see some places being open to get that carton of milk, but this idea of making the shopping a holiday in and of itself is nuts. I see families by my Best Buy actually set up CAMPS, I mean full blown camps where people bring their grills and coolers. Don't get me wrong, if people kept civil about it, I would not mind; I'll even bet some of the Campers are having a good old time. However, when you encourage the sort of looting and aggression that normally happens after a class 5 hurricane, then you have become a public nuisance.
CrispyQ
(36,537 posts)ellisonz
(27,711 posts)RoccoR5955
(12,471 posts)Before capitalism ends the Human Race!
CrispyQ
(36,537 posts)Our entire culture needs to change. It's not just Walmart. The article linked to at this post is very long, but should be read by everyone.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10021871479
on edit: It's about temporary warehouse workers who fill online orders.
madmom
(9,681 posts)I worked in the deli, on the food side. Who comes in to buy food on black Friday? We stood there and watched in amazement at the idiots shopping, we barely had a customer.
aletier_v
(1,773 posts)madmom
(9,681 posts)name brand foods, sold in other stores as well, so I guess you shouldn't eat from their deli either.
southernyankeebelle
(11,304 posts)only one lady standing there screaming and all the workers turned and looked at her and didn't know what she was screaming about. But other than that he said they had 2 cops and 3 sheriff officers roaming around and there were no problems. He doesn't usually work the register and he said he had a long line but the customers in his line were not evil. He said he had to call for help a couple of times because of the register was having problems. But each customer that was next in line he apologized for the long line and thanked them for their patience. The customers were good to him he said. Things went smoothly for their store. He said a couple of people asked about the 50" flat screen tv's and he told them where they would be but he also told them that many people were camped out last night waiting to get their tv so they had first bids on them. People were ok with it.
Manifestor_of_Light
(21,046 posts)Reverend Billy and the Church of Stop Shopping
Movie: "What Would Jesus Buy?"
Thought provoking and great street theater.
plethoro
(594 posts)at 4:30 AM because Big Five Sporting Goods was opening at 5:00 AM and I needed to buy shoes. Anyway, I was up and I thought I'd stop at Walmart and see if there was a protest going on. There were five police cars parked in front of the place. About ten or eleven cops were right inside the front door operating as if they were store security. They regarded me disdainfully with Elliot Ness frowns. I started walking throughout the store. There were maybe a hundred people in the store--not even remotely crowded. This may have been because it was so foggy outside you couldn't see past your wipers. Seeing no sign of a riot I started for the door. As I moved through a register isle I came upon a group of five or six blue-vested employees chatting. They were commenting to one another how few people were in the store and how those few were not buying anything, just leaving like me with nothing. I observed this myself as I walked slowly out the door. I was thinking that maybe people had gotten the word and were beginning to understand about our quickly approaching third-world existence. I left Walmart and went to a Petsmart to buy mock Prairie Dog antlers. The store wasn't to open for 45 minutes, 7:00 AM with their own sale, but they let me in anyway, which I thought was unusual. There were two other people besides me in this huge store. I found the antlers, which seemed expensive to me who didn't even know Prairie Dogs had antlers, paid for them and left. I asked the cashier about why there were so few people in the store and she said business had been going down for them despite what the tv was saying.
Sorry for this boring tale, but I wanted to give it enough reality flavor in the hopes someone else could compare it to their Black Friday morning. I am nearing 67. From my perspective, life in this country is as different from when I was a young man as night from day. It is like we are moving backward toward the forties, maybe even the thirties. We need a Johnny Tremayne--and fast.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)She dragged me shopping and to the movies with her all the time. I don't remember this kind of weirdness ever going on in the forties.
plethoro
(594 posts)ddddddddddd
Cleita
(75,480 posts)We lived in a house, something I have never been able to afford when I grew up. I never remember any homeless until 1980. As for rational thinking, most of the adults in my life would have laughed out loud at the nonsense people believe today. The worst thing that happened that doesn't today is the adults, who were recovering from the Great Depression, wouldn't let anything go. They saved everything, string, paper, rubber bands, you name it, just in case. I remember my friends and I discussing it and calling it a Depression mentality.
When my grandfather on my dad's side passed away 5 years ago, we found boxes upon boxes of paperclips, rubber bands, and neatly organized boxes full of cigarette lighters. My grandmother passed 2 years ago and she would keep the original boxes to things stored away in the attic. Both of them were born in 1929.
1monster
(11,012 posts)up at ungodly hours to shop the Black Friday sales when the same deals are available online throughtout the weekend.
to our local Wal-Mart at 8pm. We were done by 10:30. Everyone was civil. Only two officers walking around. No cursing, yelling. All was orderly. Most people, like us, pre-shopped online.
I thanked EVERY worker who was there who answered questions and helped me find items that weren't online. The manager also apparently had food and drinks brought in for the entire staff and the police.
It was surprising to say the least.
1monster
(11,012 posts)at her store were going to strike on Black Friday. She's a sales associate, not management.
Her replied was a horrified, "Oh I hope not! I love Walmart. They've been very good to me here."
She hadn't even heard about the proposed strike and wanted to know more. It is rare to hear any employees here complain about this Walmart, other than an occasional worry about hours being cut during less than boom times. They do seem to have a high turnover of workers who only stay a few months, but a large core of workers stay there year after year after year.
Local management can do a lot to make employees either happy or unhappy despite or inspite of the corporate headquarters.
AngryOldDem
(14,061 posts)For a lot of people, it's also become "tradition," especially with women in families.
Don't ask me. My philosophy is, if I can't find it online, I don't need it.
tabasco
(22,974 posts)that the U.S.A. is a nation of idiots.
The Wizard
(12,551 posts)Fargin iceholes and corksuckers too.
Sekhmets Daughter
(7,515 posts)of WalMart shoppers in Moultrie, GA....Disheartening to say the least.
http://www.businessinsider.com/black-friday-shoppers-attack-walmart-display-2012-11?nr_email_referer=1&utm_source=Triggermail&utm_medium=email&utm_term=Business%20Insider%20Select&utm_campaign
Hope your son makes it home safely!
savebigbird
(417 posts)Black Friday mania definitely does not make the US look good.
Sekhmets Daughter
(7,515 posts)I couldn't help but be reminded on the scenes we've seen of people in war torn countries clamoring after supplies ... or the poor people in NO after Katrina.
savebigbird
(417 posts)because I was reminded of what a group of cats do when you're trying to put a bowl of food down on the floor for them. They were behaving like animals. Or children with no manners. It embarrasses me.
Caretha
(2,737 posts)that there are police officers in the parking lots and the store. Is Wal-Mart paying these officers or are once again we, the public picking up the tab for the corporate welfare for Wal-mart?
AngryOldDem
(14,061 posts)mimi85
(1,805 posts)Wow, that's insane. Remember when that woman got trampled to death on Black Friday a few years ago? It was also at a WalMart. They should at least pay like triple time for working on BF! It's amazing what greed will turn people into. Not even going to say animals as that would be an insult to animals.
Totally OT, but my grandson just became a manager for an In N Out down there. Not sure how many "stores" they have down there, but they start people off at $10.25 (give or take) and have matching 401Ks, good vacation and sick day policy and all sorts of good benefits - can't forget great health insurance also.
You might tell your son he can apply online - the people there are pretty close as they don't have a lot of turnover. My GS has been working there for almost 10 years, he's worked really hard and now he'll be making over six figures. They got 1700 applications - can't imagine why. We're super proud of him as he couldn't stand school and wasn't sure what he wanted to do after HS graduation. It's not just about the money, although that is def nice (maybe he can support his Mimi in my old age - I was 35 when he was born - yikes!)
It's about the respect that the owners show them and how well they treat their employees. And his self-esteem - he's such a strong person. Scott's never been ashamed of being a burger fipper as In N Out is SO unlike McDs, BK, etc.
I don't blame your son - the whole Black Friday thing (especially at WM) is wrong on so many levels. He'll be exhausted when he gets home, poor guy. At least he has a mom that treats him right! Take care....
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)AngryOldDem
(14,061 posts)...and am 100% in solidarity with the workers at these stores.
A mob mentality takes over. And I'm so sick of seeing CEOs on the news gloating at how good their sales are, and patting themselves on the back for giving the public what it so obviously "wants." It would not hurt their bottom line ONE IOTA to take ONE day off from this frenzy. I'm convinced that a lot of these people who storm the doors would gladly buy dogshit if it came wrapped in a pretty package and was going for 10% off. It's sick.
This is just one more example of the growing phenomenon of employee abuse in this country as employers are taking full advantage of the weak economy to exploit their workers.
The older I get, the more disgusted I am with the whole holiday season, and every year I am just all the more tempted to donate to charities like Heifer International in the name of others rather than get them more shit that they don't need.
(And one more thing...who the hell in their right mind would wait for DAYS in front of a BEST BUY in order to be the first through the doors?)
ELI BOY 1950
(173 posts)At least on companies making an obscene amount of money...not small businesses.