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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsAt 18, tyler boebert is a legal adult. yet so many are saying "kid". The
framing is deliberate. The murdering menendez brothers were called "boys". Trayvon Martin, age 17, legally a minor child, was called a scary black man. Minor victims of sexual assault are called "underage women", an insane oxymoron.
The words we use are important. The words being used to us are important.
Aviation Pro
(15,578 posts)I'm talking about Duh Jr., the Spare Moron and Princess Sparkle Pony. Tiff is pretty much an afterthought to the adjudicated rapist.
BigmanPigman
(55,137 posts)Since when are middle aged men "boys"? Both the right and left wing leaning media reporting is guilty of this.
jimfields33
(19,382 posts)No drinking, smoking until 21. Can be on parents healthcare to 27. Cant rent a car until 25. Yes using child is not far fetched. We as a society did it to ourselves.
B.See
(8,503 posts).. it's called PRIVILEGE.
BigmanPigman
(55,137 posts)which are easily brushed off as not serious crimes. It makes my blood boil.
niyad
(132,440 posts)Hekate
(100,133 posts)niyad
(132,440 posts)bucolic_frolic
(55,141 posts)that Boeberts reach adulthood? Ignoring all evidence to the contrary?
drmeow
(5,989 posts)that the media manipulates you into considering girls and black boys to be more mature, more responsible for their actions, and more deserving of an adult fate than white boys of the same age.
niyad
(132,440 posts)Eliot Rosewater
(34,285 posts)Such a person being an adult, when they are anything but.
Reminds me of how I would love to ask Donald Trump five basic business questions in front of a maga crowd, not that it would matter, he would not know the answer to any of them and any person at any level of business including an assistant manager at a 7 Eleven convenience store would know the answers to these questions.
niyad
(132,440 posts)TRAITOR**'s, lack of knowledge.
Eliot Rosewater
(34,285 posts)And her girlfriend is a highly educated executive in the medical field and an accomplished musician. Stepdaughter has been known to be easily influenced by right wingers because of her love of country music and lack of education though recently she has gotten some medical education in that she is a nurse's assistant, but her girlfriend I was worried was she one of those that supported Trump and I found out at a dinner last night, thank to God, that she despises trump as much as I do and that made my day.
These Women are not safe, because they are Women and they are Gay. Their actual lives are in danger, as are all Women and all Gay/Trans. This is a fact.
Some of us have been sounding the alarm for a long time, some of us called trmp a traitor 6 yrs ago only to be talked down to because Didn't we know the meaning of the word treason Etcetera. Or suggesting that of course Epstein was murdered and he did not kill himself was met with ridicule, surely we had to believe the story trump wasn't capable of that or his maga crowd weren't, sigh.
And then recently the immediate kick back when we criticize Garland, who may be one of the main reasons this democracy fails.
I even remember once suggesting that Maga would be OK with thousands of us being killed or dying and I was yelled at and called absolutely irresponsible. Of course I was proven right when maga hoped that more Black people in blue states would die from COVID Etcetera. And if maga could put all of us in prison or deport us, who here will tell me that is ridiculous?
getagrip_already
(17,802 posts)Right after they legally strip them of their citizenship for reasons (LGBT, dem, non Christian, whatever).
Mass deportations are not just for undocumented aliens. They will bag, tag, and ship anyone they don't like.
That's if they don't kill them outright.
Johonny
(26,178 posts)Eliot Rosewater
(34,285 posts)ripcord
(5,553 posts)Unless we are prepared talk about and accept hoping for the worst to happen to all 18 year olds who break the law.
niyad
(132,440 posts)Hekate
(100,133 posts)the piling on of Bobert was recreational cruelty. Heres a link https://www.democraticunderground.com/100218729893
ForgoTheConsequence
(5,186 posts)She has spent her career giving parenting advice from her bully pulpit. The MAN robbed a woman with a brain tumor, stealing her last 75 dollars. She needs to get her house in order and shut the fuck up and he needs to go to prison.
Skittles
(171,716 posts)these fucking hypocrites routinely judge the morals of others - FUCK them
ripcord
(5,553 posts)How progressive of you.
ForgoTheConsequence
(5,186 posts)And the woman with brain cancer who was robbed of her last few dollars should bear the burden of the crime by an entitled white adult male.
How progressive of you!
ripcord
(5,553 posts)Due to protections put in place by liberals to keep young offenders lives from being ruined. He deserves the same opportunities as any other defendant regardless of how you feel about his mother.
Keepthesoulalive
(2,304 posts)If he was Black or Hispanic he would be called a thug and shown no mercy , he would be tried as an adult. Because hes white he gets the benefit of the doubt and sympathy.
ForgoTheConsequence
(5,186 posts)I've been to both jail and prison and it's full of young men. Justice isn't color blind.
sheshe2
(97,629 posts)niyad
(132,440 posts)framing.
Irish_Dem
(81,269 posts)But we are supposed to give GOP adult children a complete pass when they commit real crimes.
Nope.
niyad
(132,440 posts)Cha
(319,077 posts)keithbvadu2
(40,915 posts)niyad
(132,440 posts)spike jones
(2,020 posts)a young woman by the army. Before that, during the Clinton-Lewinsky investigation, one news person described Lewinsky as a woman/child.
niyad
(132,440 posts)TheKentuckian
(26,314 posts)young adults are conversationally "kids" to the long in the tooth.
Having been 16, 17, 18 there isn't that much difference. One 15 year old may be more mature than the 19 year old next to them despite the difference in legal status.
If your parents are still able to carry you on their major medical, you might at least sorta be a kid.
Cha
(319,077 posts)niyad
(132,440 posts)onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)Isnt that what they do to people there. Tough on crime. Sounds like a violent crime.
niyad
(132,440 posts)this spree.
onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)niyad
(132,440 posts)marble falls
(71,926 posts)... the criminal law process.
Will this "kid" still be able to own a gun?
niyad
(132,440 posts)I am guessing that he will still be armed.
JoseBalow
(9,489 posts)former9thward
(33,424 posts)But if you are living with your parents (not caring for them, spare me the lectures) you are a kid no matter your age. If you are on your parents health or car insurance you are a kid.
niyad
(132,440 posts)former9thward
(33,424 posts)I did not know that. Sorry....
ripcord
(5,553 posts)I see a lot of very small, revenge minded people in this thread.
Polybius
(21,901 posts)Last edited Fri Mar 1, 2024, 01:07 PM - Edit history (1)
Now it's fine, but trust me, when I was 18, 19, and 20, I was 100% a kid.
niyad
(132,440 posts)Hassin Bin Sober
(27,461 posts)Martin68
(27,749 posts)such as driving. Trayvon Martin was a kid, and most people entirely understand that. Yes, people use words to manipulate the truth, but Taylor Boebert is a kid.
niyad
(132,440 posts)Martin68
(27,749 posts)hypocrisy, dude.
niyad
(132,440 posts)at 17, he was a minor child. But continue ignoring the points.
And, as most posters here know, I am not a "dude".
Martin68
(27,749 posts)"point." Could you clarify please?
niyad
(132,440 posts)contemporary slang, or, apparently, your parlance. Therefore, there is no communication possible.
Martin68
(27,749 posts)intention considering how hard you work to avoid it. You sound smug, self-assured, and very insecure. Good luck with that, my friend. Oh, I apologize, that is probably not in your vocabulary either.
Skittles
(171,716 posts)EIGHTEEN IS AN ADULT
jimfields33
(19,382 posts)Why can you be on your parents health care to 27. Cant rent a car until 25. I think adulthood is now almost 30. Yes some go into the military but its a small percentage.
Retrograde
(11,419 posts)don't reach maturity until they're in their 40s, at least
Before that, it's all "youthful indiscretions".
Caution: if you're not related to a prominent Republican, this extra 20+ years of youthful passes doesn't apply to you.
niyad
(132,440 posts)Skittles
(171,716 posts)HE IS AN ADULT
NNadir
(38,049 posts)niyad
(132,440 posts)dlk
(13,247 posts)The idea that boys will be boys, too often gives bad behavior a pass. Tyler Boebert is a man and should be treated as such.
Silent Type
(12,412 posts)Just as soon leave kids and grown up offspring out of most political discussion.
niyad
(132,440 posts)malaise
(296,114 posts)Lock him up
kimbutgar
(27,248 posts)niyad
(132,440 posts)And how suddenly silent the Rifle mouth is.
Think. Again.
(22,456 posts)Isn't clear cut;
Laws against drinking and smoking at certain ages are based on the medical effects of substances on developing physiology, car rental ages are based on the number of accidents of inexperienced drivers who have only been driving a few years, health insurance ages are based on the rcent lack of solid employment compensation offered to everyone these days. There are specific reasons for various "adult" thresholds that have nothing to do with personal maturity.
Is clear-cut;
We can not adapt the justice system, or any other 'legal' classifications to each individual defendant or person and so a median age of responsibility has to be established. The concept of "trying as an adult" or not is one way the justice system does try to compensate for the very different maturity levels reached by different offenders at that age, but the overall classification must exist at some given age.
Tyler Boebert is INDEED a legal adult in the eyes of the justice system and as such must be prosecuted and, if found guilty, sentenced accordingly. But, in my opinion, he is NOT a psychological or emotional adult yet (some people never get there), and that is certainly not due to any fault of his own.
All of that said, I ABSOLUTELY agree with the OP's assessment of the semantic manipulation that the media and our society uses to protect certain people and harm others, and that manipulation goes far, far beyond just the legal age of maturity.