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niyad

(132,440 posts)
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 09:14 PM Feb 2024

At 18, tyler boebert is a legal adult. yet so many are saying "kid". The

framing is deliberate. The murdering menendez brothers were called "boys". Trayvon Martin, age 17, legally a minor child, was called a scary black man. Minor victims of sexual assault are called "underage women", an insane oxymoron.

The words we use are important. The words being used to us are important.

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At 18, tyler boebert is a legal adult. yet so many are saying "kid". The (Original Post) niyad Feb 2024 OP
Well, Motherfucker still calls his whelps "children" when the need arises Aviation Pro Feb 2024 #1
They also call them "boys" BigmanPigman Feb 2024 #9
We've restructured the entire basis of adulthood. jimfields33 Feb 2024 #12
And the crimes they commit, pranks... B.See Feb 2024 #57
Or else they use silly words like "shenanigans" BigmanPigman Mar 2024 #64
Yes. niyad Mar 2024 #74
Yes. niyad Mar 2024 #73
A perfect example. niyad Feb 2024 #22
Well spotted Hekate Feb 2024 #2
Thank you. It makes me crazy, knowing what the intent is. niyad Feb 2024 #21
Is this OP trying to tell me bucolic_frolic Feb 2024 #3
No, this OP is trying to tell you drmeow Feb 2024 #6
Thank you! niyad Feb 2024 #20
Always. LoisB Feb 2024 #54
This uponit7771 Mar 2024 #84
I said that tyler is a LEGAL adult. niyad Feb 2024 #19
In fairness to the poster I think they were making a joke about Eliot Rosewater Feb 2024 #29
Yes, I think you are quite correct, both about the poster's intent, and about niyad Feb 2024 #30
My stepdaughter recently entered into her first lesbian relationship and in her 40s Eliot Rosewater Feb 2024 #32
I keep trying to remind people that magas intend to deport citizens... getagrip_already Mar 2024 #82
FOX news still treats the Trump kids like minors Johonny Feb 2024 #4
yes niyad Feb 2024 #17
And all MSM treats any con with tremendous kit gloves vs practically outright contempt for any non con. Eliot Rosewater Mar 2024 #86
We should listen to Fetterman on this ripcord Feb 2024 #5
What did he say? niyad Feb 2024 #18
Basically asked us to stop the "recreational cruelty" Hekate Feb 2024 #24
He said MsLeopard Feb 2024 #25
No we shouldn't ForgoTheConsequence Feb 2024 #35
THANK YOU Skittles Feb 2024 #53
So this is how we should treat all 18 year olds going forward? ripcord Feb 2024 #60
No he should get a slap on the wrist. ForgoTheConsequence Mar 2024 #69
He will get a slap on the wrist ripcord Mar 2024 #71
Somehow that is not how this works Keepthesoulalive Mar 2024 #81
When is the last time you have been to prison? ForgoTheConsequence Mar 2024 #85
You are 100% correct, niyad. sheshe2 Feb 2024 #7
Thank you. It makes me ill every time I see the different, intentional, niyad Feb 2024 #16
The GOP showed Hunter Biden porn on the floor of Congress. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #8
EXACTLY! niyad Feb 2024 #15
Boebert's Adult son.. Cha Feb 2024 #10
Thank you. niyad Feb 2024 #14
Fully adult Monica was called a child by republicans... Gaetz' 17 year old suddenly became a young woman. keithbvadu2 Feb 2024 #11
EXACTLY. niyad Feb 2024 #13
Years ago, the fourteen-year-old girl that was raped and killed in Iraq by American soldiers was described as spike jones Feb 2024 #31
I remember both of those instances. niyad Feb 2024 #42
I get what you are saying but while not children TheKentuckian Feb 2024 #23
Fred Guttenberg: Let me Understand this... Cha Feb 2024 #26
You got it correct, Fred. niyad Feb 2024 #34
He's an actual thug. Lock him up. onecaliberal Feb 2024 #27
He didn't even get a tap on the wrist for the traffic incident, prior to niyad Feb 2024 #33
It's not like he was walking home with skittles and tea. THAT would have been bad. onecaliberal Feb 2024 #37
Exactly! niyad Feb 2024 #43
The use of "kid" with this very active criminal sticks in my craw. This isn't even his first go around ... marble falls Feb 2024 #28
Kid? phxjurist Feb 2024 #36
Have you seen the gun his mother gave him? Remember that christmas card? niyad Feb 2024 #39
Not if he is convicted of a felony JoseBalow Mar 2024 #63
I don't know anything about Tyler Boebert. former9thward Feb 2024 #38
tyler is legally an adult. And you completely ignored the point of the OP. niyad Feb 2024 #40
Are we a court here? former9thward Feb 2024 #41
I think the point of this circle jerk is to try and say Tyler should be treated worse because of who his mother is ripcord Feb 2024 #61
I've always acted years younger than my age Polybius Mar 2024 #65
The point was about framing the narrative, not about how some people act. niyad Mar 2024 #66
I read he was out stealing for his mother. She's the credit card/ID theft ring leader. A modern day Fagin. Hassin Bin Sober Feb 2024 #58
An 18-year-old" is still a kid. The legal definition of adult is just a threshold for certain rights, Martin68 Feb 2024 #44
tyler. and way to miss the point. niyad Feb 2024 #45
Looks like you never got the point in spite of suggesting that Trayvon Martin was a kid. Lotsa points on Martin68 Feb 2024 #46
I was not "suggesting" that Trayvon was a kid. As I clearly stated, legally, niyad Feb 2024 #47
A "dude" is just a good person in my parlance. What does it mean in yours? I'm sorry, but I really don't get your Martin68 Mar 2024 #75
In standard dictionaries, "dude" refers to males. I do not speak niyad Mar 2024 #77
How easily you dismiss and forego the possibility of communication. One might almost assume that was never your Martin68 Mar 2024 #80
I was in the military when I was 18 Skittles Feb 2024 #52
Maybe. But why restrictions on alcohol and tobacco? jimfields33 Mar 2024 #79
Republicans and their progeny Retrograde Feb 2024 #48
Sadly, you are quite correct. niyad Feb 2024 #49
I was in the military at that age Skittles Feb 2024 #50
Yes! niyad Feb 2024 #51
Thank you for that important point. NNadir Feb 2024 #55
You are most welcome. niyad Feb 2024 #56
Calling adult males "boys" discounts and minimizes their actions dlk Feb 2024 #59
Thank you. niyad Feb 2024 #62
At least "kid" seems to put a bit more blame/resentment on mombert. Silent Type Mar 2024 #67
Sexual predator father blamed it on covid shutdown. niyad Mar 2024 #68
Not me malaise Mar 2024 #70
Yes!!! niyad Mar 2024 #72
Can you imagine the outrage if it was a Democratic congressman's child? kimbutgar Mar 2024 #76
We would still be hearing the screaming. Look how quickly tyler disappeared. niyad Mar 2024 #78
It isn't, and it is, a clear-cut issue... Think. Again. Mar 2024 #83

Aviation Pro

(15,578 posts)
1. Well, Motherfucker still calls his whelps "children" when the need arises
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 09:16 PM
Feb 2024

I'm talking about Duh Jr., the Spare Moron and Princess Sparkle Pony. Tiff is pretty much an afterthought to the adjudicated rapist.

BigmanPigman

(55,137 posts)
9. They also call them "boys"
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 09:26 PM
Feb 2024

Since when are middle aged men "boys"? Both the right and left wing leaning media reporting is guilty of this.

 

jimfields33

(19,382 posts)
12. We've restructured the entire basis of adulthood.
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 09:34 PM
Feb 2024

No drinking, smoking until 21. Can be on parents healthcare to 27. Can’t rent a car until 25. Yes using child is not far fetched. We as a society did it to ourselves.

BigmanPigman

(55,137 posts)
64. Or else they use silly words like "shenanigans"
Fri Mar 1, 2024, 12:14 AM
Mar 2024

which are easily brushed off as not serious crimes. It makes my blood boil.

bucolic_frolic

(55,141 posts)
3. Is this OP trying to tell me
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 09:19 PM
Feb 2024

that Boeberts reach adulthood? Ignoring all evidence to the contrary?

drmeow

(5,989 posts)
6. No, this OP is trying to tell you
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 09:22 PM
Feb 2024

that the media manipulates you into considering girls and black boys to be more mature, more responsible for their actions, and more deserving of an adult fate than white boys of the same age.

Eliot Rosewater

(34,285 posts)
29. In fairness to the poster I think they were making a joke about
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 09:54 PM
Feb 2024

Such a person being an adult, when they are anything but.

Reminds me of how I would love to ask Donald Trump five basic business questions in front of a maga crowd, not that it would matter, he would not know the answer to any of them and any person at any level of business including an assistant manager at a 7 Eleven convenience store would know the answers to these questions.

niyad

(132,440 posts)
30. Yes, I think you are quite correct, both about the poster's intent, and about
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 10:00 PM
Feb 2024

TRAITOR**'s, lack of knowledge.

Eliot Rosewater

(34,285 posts)
32. My stepdaughter recently entered into her first lesbian relationship and in her 40s
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 10:08 PM
Feb 2024

And her girlfriend is a highly educated executive in the medical field and an accomplished musician. Stepdaughter has been known to be easily influenced by right wingers because of her love of country music and lack of education though recently she has gotten some medical education in that she is a nurse's assistant, but her girlfriend I was worried was she one of those that supported Trump and I found out at a dinner last night, thank to God, that she despises trump as much as I do and that made my day.

These Women are not safe, because they are Women and they are Gay. Their actual lives are in danger, as are all Women and all Gay/Trans. This is a fact.

Some of us have been sounding the alarm for a long time, some of us called trmp a traitor 6 yrs ago only to be talked down to because Didn't we know the meaning of the word treason Etcetera. Or suggesting that of course Epstein was murdered and he did not kill himself was met with ridicule, surely we had to believe the story trump wasn't capable of that or his maga crowd weren't, sigh.

And then recently the immediate kick back when we criticize Garland, who may be one of the main reasons this democracy fails.

I even remember once suggesting that Maga would be OK with thousands of us being killed or dying and I was yelled at and called absolutely irresponsible. Of course I was proven right when maga hoped that more Black people in blue states would die from COVID Etcetera. And if maga could put all of us in prison or deport us, who here will tell me that is ridiculous?

getagrip_already

(17,802 posts)
82. I keep trying to remind people that magas intend to deport citizens...
Fri Mar 1, 2024, 11:34 PM
Mar 2024

Right after they legally strip them of their citizenship for reasons (LGBT, dem, non Christian, whatever).

Mass deportations are not just for undocumented aliens. They will bag, tag, and ship anyone they don't like.

That's if they don't kill them outright.

Eliot Rosewater

(34,285 posts)
86. And all MSM treats any con with tremendous kit gloves vs practically outright contempt for any non con.
Sat Mar 2, 2024, 07:43 PM
Mar 2024
 

ripcord

(5,553 posts)
5. We should listen to Fetterman on this
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 09:20 PM
Feb 2024

Unless we are prepared talk about and accept hoping for the worst to happen to all 18 year olds who break the law.

ForgoTheConsequence

(5,186 posts)
35. No we shouldn't
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 10:28 PM
Feb 2024

She has spent her career giving parenting advice from her bully pulpit. The MAN robbed a woman with a brain tumor, stealing her last 75 dollars. She needs to get her house in order and shut the fuck up and he needs to go to prison.

ForgoTheConsequence

(5,186 posts)
69. No he should get a slap on the wrist.
Fri Mar 1, 2024, 07:04 PM
Mar 2024

And the woman with brain cancer who was robbed of her last few dollars should bear the burden of the crime by an entitled white adult male.

How progressive of you!

 

ripcord

(5,553 posts)
71. He will get a slap on the wrist
Fri Mar 1, 2024, 07:09 PM
Mar 2024

Due to protections put in place by liberals to keep young offenders lives from being ruined. He deserves the same opportunities as any other defendant regardless of how you feel about his mother.

Keepthesoulalive

(2,304 posts)
81. Somehow that is not how this works
Fri Mar 1, 2024, 11:04 PM
Mar 2024

If he was Black or Hispanic he would be called a thug and shown no mercy , he would be tried as an adult. Because he’s white he gets the benefit of the doubt and sympathy.

ForgoTheConsequence

(5,186 posts)
85. When is the last time you have been to prison?
Sat Mar 2, 2024, 07:31 AM
Mar 2024

I've been to both jail and prison and it's full of young men. Justice isn't color blind.

Irish_Dem

(81,269 posts)
8. The GOP showed Hunter Biden porn on the floor of Congress.
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 09:26 PM
Feb 2024

But we are supposed to give GOP adult children a complete pass when they commit real crimes.

Nope.

keithbvadu2

(40,915 posts)
11. Fully adult Monica was called a child by republicans... Gaetz' 17 year old suddenly became a young woman.
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 09:30 PM
Feb 2024

spike jones

(2,020 posts)
31. Years ago, the fourteen-year-old girl that was raped and killed in Iraq by American soldiers was described as
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 10:05 PM
Feb 2024

a “young woman” by the army. Before that, during the Clinton-Lewinsky investigation, one news person described Lewinsky as a “woman/child.”

 

TheKentuckian

(26,314 posts)
23. I get what you are saying but while not children
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 09:46 PM
Feb 2024

young adults are conversationally "kids" to the long in the tooth.

Having been 16, 17, 18 there isn't that much difference. One 15 year old may be more mature than the 19 year old next to them despite the difference in legal status.

If your parents are still able to carry you on their major medical, you might at least sorta be a kid.

 

onecaliberal

(36,594 posts)
27. He's an actual thug. Lock him up.
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 09:51 PM
Feb 2024

Isn’t that what they do to people there. Tough on crime. Sounds like a violent crime.

marble falls

(71,926 posts)
28. The use of "kid" with this very active criminal sticks in my craw. This isn't even his first go around ...
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 09:53 PM
Feb 2024

... the criminal law process.

niyad

(132,440 posts)
39. Have you seen the gun his mother gave him? Remember that christmas card?
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 10:32 PM
Feb 2024

I am guessing that he will still be armed.

former9thward

(33,424 posts)
38. I don't know anything about Tyler Boebert.
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 10:32 PM
Feb 2024

But if you are living with your parents (not caring for them, spare me the lectures) you are a kid no matter your age. If you are on your parents health or car insurance you are a kid.

 

ripcord

(5,553 posts)
61. I think the point of this circle jerk is to try and say Tyler should be treated worse because of who his mother is
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 11:54 PM
Feb 2024

I see a lot of very small, revenge minded people in this thread.

Polybius

(21,901 posts)
65. I've always acted years younger than my age
Fri Mar 1, 2024, 12:37 AM
Mar 2024

Last edited Fri Mar 1, 2024, 01:07 PM - Edit history (1)

Now it's fine, but trust me, when I was 18, 19, and 20, I was 100% a kid.

Hassin Bin Sober

(27,461 posts)
58. I read he was out stealing for his mother. She's the credit card/ID theft ring leader. A modern day Fagin.
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 11:31 PM
Feb 2024

Martin68

(27,749 posts)
44. An 18-year-old" is still a kid. The legal definition of adult is just a threshold for certain rights,
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 10:42 PM
Feb 2024

such as driving. Trayvon Martin was a kid, and most people entirely understand that. Yes, people use words to manipulate the truth, but Taylor Boebert is a kid.

Martin68

(27,749 posts)
46. Looks like you never got the point in spite of suggesting that Trayvon Martin was a kid. Lotsa points on
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 10:49 PM
Feb 2024

hypocrisy, dude.

niyad

(132,440 posts)
47. I was not "suggesting" that Trayvon was a kid. As I clearly stated, legally,
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 11:04 PM
Feb 2024

at 17, he was a minor child. But continue ignoring the points.

And, as most posters here know, I am not a "dude".

Martin68

(27,749 posts)
75. A "dude" is just a good person in my parlance. What does it mean in yours? I'm sorry, but I really don't get your
Fri Mar 1, 2024, 10:50 PM
Mar 2024

"point." Could you clarify please?

niyad

(132,440 posts)
77. In standard dictionaries, "dude" refers to males. I do not speak
Fri Mar 1, 2024, 10:58 PM
Mar 2024

contemporary slang, or, apparently, your parlance. Therefore, there is no communication possible.

Martin68

(27,749 posts)
80. How easily you dismiss and forego the possibility of communication. One might almost assume that was never your
Fri Mar 1, 2024, 11:03 PM
Mar 2024

intention considering how hard you work to avoid it. You sound smug, self-assured, and very insecure. Good luck with that, my friend. Oh, I apologize, that is probably not in your vocabulary either.

 

jimfields33

(19,382 posts)
79. Maybe. But why restrictions on alcohol and tobacco?
Fri Mar 1, 2024, 11:03 PM
Mar 2024

Why can you be on your parents health care to 27. Can’t rent a car until 25. I think adulthood is now almost 30. Yes some go into the military but it’s a small percentage.

Retrograde

(11,419 posts)
48. Republicans and their progeny
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 11:10 PM
Feb 2024

don't reach maturity until they're in their 40s, at least Before that, it's all "youthful indiscretions".

Caution: if you're not related to a prominent Republican, this extra 20+ years of youthful passes doesn't apply to you.

dlk

(13,247 posts)
59. Calling adult males "boys" discounts and minimizes their actions
Thu Feb 29, 2024, 11:37 PM
Feb 2024

The idea that “boys will be boys,” too often gives bad behavior a pass. Tyler Boebert is a man and should be treated as such.

 

Silent Type

(12,412 posts)
67. At least "kid" seems to put a bit more blame/resentment on mombert.
Fri Mar 1, 2024, 01:21 AM
Mar 2024

Just as soon leave kids and grown up offspring out of most political discussion.

niyad

(132,440 posts)
78. We would still be hearing the screaming. Look how quickly tyler disappeared.
Fri Mar 1, 2024, 11:00 PM
Mar 2024

And how suddenly silent the Rifle mouth is.

 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
83. It isn't, and it is, a clear-cut issue...
Sat Mar 2, 2024, 06:21 AM
Mar 2024

Isn't clear cut;

Laws against drinking and smoking at certain ages are based on the medical effects of substances on developing physiology, car rental ages are based on the number of accidents of inexperienced drivers who have only been driving a few years, health insurance ages are based on the rcent lack of solid employment compensation offered to everyone these days. There are specific reasons for various "adult" thresholds that have nothing to do with personal maturity.

Is clear-cut;

We can not adapt the justice system, or any other 'legal' classifications to each individual defendant or person and so a median age of responsibility has to be established. The concept of "trying as an adult" or not is one way the justice system does try to compensate for the very different maturity levels reached by different offenders at that age, but the overall classification must exist at some given age.


Tyler Boebert is INDEED a legal adult in the eyes of the justice system and as such must be prosecuted and, if found guilty, sentenced accordingly. But, in my opinion, he is NOT a psychological or emotional adult yet (some people never get there), and that is certainly not due to any fault of his own.

All of that said, I ABSOLUTELY agree with the OP's assessment of the semantic manipulation that the media and our society uses to protect certain people and harm others, and that manipulation goes far, far beyond just the legal age of maturity.

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