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Nevilledog

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Thu Apr 11, 2024, 03:13 PM Apr 11

This is what Christian Nationalists think of women





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Christian Nationalist boasts about not letting his wife read books because he doesn't want her to "outpace" him. @Meltart.


3:43 AM · Apr 11, 2024
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This is what Christian Nationalists think of women (Original Post) Nevilledog Apr 11 OP
There's no way I would marry a man like that. Boomerproud Apr 11 #1
"Marry?" No way I would agree to even be around him unless I was afforded immunity for hlthe2b Apr 11 #3
My first question? Yes! Arthur_Frain Apr 11 #25
He is soooooooo evil. Jesus would slay him in a second. Jesus loved and respected women Trueblue1968 Apr 11 #33
yeah. barbtries Apr 11 #2
One of the reasons that some women are forced to vote Repub. nature-lover Apr 11 #4
I love mail in voting & how it increases voter turnout & I think it's pretty secure, CrispyQ Apr 11 #9
I'm sure it does too. Hopefully the R's keep insisting that mail in voting is bad and they shouldn't do it. nature-lover Apr 11 #13
Wow DET Apr 11 #26
How desperate does a woman have to be madashelltoo Apr 11 #5
Or how indoctrinated? Scrivener7 Apr 11 #18
Yeah, my first thought. Sigh. electric_blue68 Apr 12 #38
Depends on the community she comes from. haele Apr 11 #21
Yup, and they wonder why women get pissed off. Joinfortmill Apr 11 #32
I'm old enough to remember when more women than not were that desoerate. soldierant Apr 11 #24
I dated a guy like that as a young woman kimbutgar Apr 11 #6
That should be a message all girls need to learn. LiberalFighter Apr 11 #22
No fault divorce elimination should help to enshrine this Chakaconcarne Apr 11 #7
That guy can't be married. LuckyCharms Apr 11 #8
I don't judge the kink that married folks agree to... haele Apr 11 #10
We were talking about this with friends once Diamond_Dog Apr 11 #11
Sounds like a guy with inadequacy issues Redleg Apr 11 #12
We do know that their god isn't very fond of women so this is no surprise. In truth their god is Autumn Apr 11 #14
U.S. slave states had anti-literacy laws for slaves. The Taliban wants their females to be ignorant. Timeflyer Apr 11 #15
She wouldn't have to read nany books to outpace him bedazzled Apr 11 #16
sounds to me, pal Conjuay Apr 11 #17
My grandfather wouldn't allow my grandmother to go to college. Coventina Apr 11 #19
My mother worked hard in school to get a scholarship. littlemissmartypants Apr 12 #34
Sigh. {hug} I'm sure she loved sharing what she learned with you. electric_blue68 Apr 12 #39
Thank you so much, electric_blue68. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Apr 12 #40
Wow. What a piece of Bettie Apr 11 #20
I know. What an ---hole. Bluepinky Apr 11 #27
I realize that many women are culturally brainwashed by their niyad Apr 11 #23
This douchebag reminds me of my father. no_hypocrisy Apr 11 #28
That is mental and emotional abuse... DET Apr 11 #29
On the wheel of abuse it would fall under isolation and more, no doubt. littlemissmartypants Apr 12 #35
What a chickenshit. The Unmitigated Gall Apr 11 #30
Who raises these fucks? Oh, yeah, other fucks. Joinfortmill Apr 11 #31
F**k him . I will read whatever I want. I have all my life. You can't stop me. I will find a way. Ignorant fools! scarletlib Apr 12 #36
Want to know what christo-fascism would be like? There it is. Liberal In Texas Apr 12 #37

hlthe2b

(102,343 posts)
3. "Marry?" No way I would agree to even be around him unless I was afforded immunity for
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 03:21 PM
Apr 11

some "well-targeted" responses (if you get my drift).

Arthur_Frain

(1,855 posts)
25. My first question? Yes!
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 06:37 PM
Apr 11

He’s like, the original incel.

Very odd, by the way, that my spellcheck did not want to let me type “incel”. First choice was “uncle”.

Weird.

Trueblue1968

(17,237 posts)
33. He is soooooooo evil. Jesus would slay him in a second. Jesus loved and respected women
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 07:18 PM
Apr 11

This man hates women. If I had the power, I would make him wear a mask in jail like the mystery French man for 50 years.

He makes me soooooooooo angry. He is an abusive horrible man.

He is headed to He'll and Satan will enjoy tormenting him.

nature-lover

(1,470 posts)
4. One of the reasons that some women are forced to vote Repub.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 03:26 PM
Apr 11

He fears that he could be "outpaced" rather quickly.

CrispyQ

(36,502 posts)
9. I love mail in voting & how it increases voter turnout & I think it's pretty secure,
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 03:41 PM
Apr 11

except at the home where a bully can confiscate all the ballots & vote them. I'm sure it happens quite often, too.

nature-lover

(1,470 posts)
13. I'm sure it does too. Hopefully the R's keep insisting that mail in voting is bad and they shouldn't do it.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 04:07 PM
Apr 11

haele

(12,674 posts)
21. Depends on the community she comes from.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 05:25 PM
Apr 11

Close knit religious communities, especially in rural areas, hide a lot of sins and bullying. Girls are often taught from a young age the only thing they're valuable for is tending to a house and popping out kids.
A friend of mine back in the 90's went back to very rural Arkansas to help take care of her uncle on "the family homestead from 1834" and got into the local genealogy when she noticed the family Bible may have shown girls being born, but only sons had named or were showed getting married and dates of death. The girls just disappeared after it was noted they were born - until the early 1960's after about 8 generations of entries. Girl children did show up on censuses with names, but apparently after the age of 10, they are no longer recorded as part of their families; next census showed they had either been married off -usually with children of their own, or they just dead-end disappeared from all the records.
And the local church only kept records of their births, marriages, and deaths under their married names.
No female deaths other than the wife/mother under the family name. It was if women were livestock. Valuable only for sale and having kids. Other established families in that area didn't seem to be so misogynistic, but it seemed there weren't a lot of women who made it past the age of 45 or 50 in that region as compared to the men.
Consider what sort of pressure the women in that local area were living under. If the man valued her enough so she would live in relative comfort above the local slaves (and they were well off enough to have slaves antebellum), she probably thought herself luckier than her sisters, even if she had to remain silent about her feelings and desires, and put up with intercourse whether she wanted to or not.
If a girl survived long enough to have it drilled into her that she's only good enough to serve her father, brothers, and other boys, that's what she'll resign herself to do in most cases. And marry jerks petty enough they won't let her read or dress as she might want to. She'll probably also end up resentful or hateful to other women (including daughters and sisters) who have freedoms she's not allowed to have especially if they tell her she shouldn't put up with her man's bullshit and stand up for herself and her daughters.

Haele

kimbutgar

(21,181 posts)
6. I dated a guy like that as a young woman
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 03:36 PM
Apr 11

He told me he wanted his wife to put him on a pedestal and obey his every word and that he was going to put his wife on an allowance. It was very hard me for to have a straight face and I ended the date early saying I just got my period ! ( I lied) but the look on his face he couldn’t wait to drop me off !

LiberalFighter

(51,054 posts)
22. That should be a message all girls need to learn.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 06:00 PM
Apr 11

Using their period to protect them.

Unless they were Sheldon boys wouldn't know how long a period lasts.

LuckyCharms

(17,455 posts)
8. That guy can't be married.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 03:40 PM
Apr 11

Any man that thinks he can "allow" his wife to do anything is terrifyingly mistaken.

Married people know that. Single people may not know that.

haele

(12,674 posts)
10. I don't judge the kink that married folks agree to...
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 03:48 PM
Apr 11

And it sure sounds like they're into role playing.
I don't care to look for him online. Is he really married, or is he a never/formerly married woman hater? Because unless he locks his woman up or has her constantly monitored, he has no idea what she really does when he's out on one of his "business" trips blathering at incels and nazis.

Haele

Diamond_Dog

(32,047 posts)
11. We were talking about this with friends once
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 03:51 PM
Apr 11

About how some men tell their wives how to vote, and Mr. D said, Oh brother, I could just see telling *MY* wife how to vote! I told him yeah, your belongings would all be out in the front yard!

Redleg

(5,827 posts)
12. Sounds like a guy with inadequacy issues
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 04:05 PM
Apr 11

I kind of expected these fools to be more exemplars of the Dunning-Kruger phenomenon than admitting they are concerned about a little book reading by the little lady leading to female dominance of the household.

Autumn

(45,120 posts)
14. We do know that their god isn't very fond of women so this is no surprise. In truth their god is
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 04:07 PM
Apr 11

not fond of anyone.

Timeflyer

(2,001 posts)
15. U.S. slave states had anti-literacy laws for slaves. The Taliban wants their females to be ignorant.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 04:36 PM
Apr 11

These guys really don't think women should expect to be treated like full human persons. Using their little lady brains, with the ability to think their own thoughts and have opinions--dangerous, need to be corrected.

bedazzled

(1,769 posts)
16. She wouldn't have to read nany books to outpace him
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 04:47 PM
Apr 11

In spite of the fact that she married him in the first place

Ugh

Coventina

(27,169 posts)
19. My grandfather wouldn't allow my grandmother to go to college.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 04:57 PM
Apr 11

(He married her right after she graduated high school).

He gave the same reason: he wouldn't tolerate a wife who was more educated than he was.

When I learned that, it really diminished my memory of him.
He died when I was 5.

littlemissmartypants

(22,746 posts)
34. My mother worked hard in school to get a scholarship.
Fri Apr 12, 2024, 06:01 AM
Apr 12

She was awarded a full ride to college but her parents, primarily her father, wouldn't let her go.

They didn't just rob her, they robbed themselves, imo.

She was so smart, always reading and sharing the things she learned with me. She would have gone very far in college I feel sure. She was the smartest and sweetest person I've ever known.

I miss her so much.

niyad

(113,532 posts)
23. I realize that many women are culturally brainwashed by their
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 06:13 PM
Apr 11

families, churches, local society, whatever, to accept this shit. But it always amuses me to think about the day that woman wakes up, especially if she is in a rural area with lits of vegetation, or in the kitchen.

I remember, in my teens and 20's (wayyyyy back in the Dark Ages), listening to some of the older women I knew, about how they dealt with their. . . shall we say. . .less than perfect husbands. Most enlightening. And I recall two conversations with such men, one conversation mine, another related to me by one of the women mentioned above. She had been having a conversatiin with the husband of a friend of hers, one extremely arrogant pos. He started on the, "if you were MY wife. ." bs, and she said, "If I were, I would have been a widow in the first six months." That shut him up. Another time, another one of these jerks tried to bully me with the "if you were MY wife. ." "I looked at him and said, "What makes you think I would ever be stupid enough to marry you in the first place." That ended that little encounter!

DET

(1,323 posts)
29. That is mental and emotional abuse...
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 06:55 PM
Apr 11

And it’s just as bad as physical abuse. I can’t imagine the daily hell his wife must go through.

The Unmitigated Gall

(3,828 posts)
30. What a chickenshit.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 06:59 PM
Apr 11

Relevant movie rec: “Born Yesterday”. She’d probably run circles around this incel douchebag.

scarletlib

(3,418 posts)
36. F**k him . I will read whatever I want. I have all my life. You can't stop me. I will find a way. Ignorant fools!
Fri Apr 12, 2024, 08:30 AM
Apr 12
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