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Christian Nationalist boasts about not letting his wife read books because he doesn't want her to "outpace" him. @Meltart.
3:43 AM · Apr 11, 2024
Boomerproud
(7,963 posts)hlthe2b
(102,343 posts)some "well-targeted" responses (if you get my drift).
Arthur_Frain
(1,855 posts)Hes like, the original incel.
Very odd, by the way, that my spellcheck did not want to let me type incel. First choice was uncle.
Weird.
Trueblue1968
(17,237 posts)This man hates women. If I had the power, I would make him wear a mask in jail like the mystery French man for 50 years.
He makes me soooooooooo angry. He is an abusive horrible man.
He is headed to He'll and Satan will enjoy tormenting him.
barbtries
(28,810 posts)the man runs the woman. and fuck the patriarchy by the way.
nature-lover
(1,470 posts)He fears that he could be "outpaced" rather quickly.
CrispyQ
(36,502 posts)except at the home where a bully can confiscate all the ballots & vote them. I'm sure it happens quite often, too.
nature-lover
(1,470 posts)I never thought about that. Youre probably right.
madashelltoo
(1,699 posts)For a husband to settle for a lifetime of this loud lunacy?
Scrivener7
(50,993 posts)electric_blue68
(14,932 posts)"Blessed be the fruit"
haele
(12,674 posts)Close knit religious communities, especially in rural areas, hide a lot of sins and bullying. Girls are often taught from a young age the only thing they're valuable for is tending to a house and popping out kids.
A friend of mine back in the 90's went back to very rural Arkansas to help take care of her uncle on "the family homestead from 1834" and got into the local genealogy when she noticed the family Bible may have shown girls being born, but only sons had named or were showed getting married and dates of death. The girls just disappeared after it was noted they were born - until the early 1960's after about 8 generations of entries. Girl children did show up on censuses with names, but apparently after the age of 10, they are no longer recorded as part of their families; next census showed they had either been married off -usually with children of their own, or they just dead-end disappeared from all the records.
And the local church only kept records of their births, marriages, and deaths under their married names.
No female deaths other than the wife/mother under the family name. It was if women were livestock. Valuable only for sale and having kids. Other established families in that area didn't seem to be so misogynistic, but it seemed there weren't a lot of women who made it past the age of 45 or 50 in that region as compared to the men.
Consider what sort of pressure the women in that local area were living under. If the man valued her enough so she would live in relative comfort above the local slaves (and they were well off enough to have slaves antebellum), she probably thought herself luckier than her sisters, even if she had to remain silent about her feelings and desires, and put up with intercourse whether she wanted to or not.
If a girl survived long enough to have it drilled into her that she's only good enough to serve her father, brothers, and other boys, that's what she'll resign herself to do in most cases. And marry jerks petty enough they won't let her read or dress as she might want to. She'll probably also end up resentful or hateful to other women (including daughters and sisters) who have freedoms she's not allowed to have especially if they tell her she shouldn't put up with her man's bullshit and stand up for herself and her daughters.
Haele
Joinfortmill
(14,449 posts)soldierant
(6,914 posts)It sucked.
kimbutgar
(21,181 posts)He told me he wanted his wife to put him on a pedestal and obey his every word and that he was going to put his wife on an allowance. It was very hard me for to have a straight face and I ended the date early saying I just got my period ! ( I lied) but the look on his face he couldnt wait to drop me off !
LiberalFighter
(51,054 posts)Using their period to protect them.
Unless they were Sheldon boys wouldn't know how long a period lasts.
Chakaconcarne
(2,460 posts)LuckyCharms
(17,455 posts)Any man that thinks he can "allow" his wife to do anything is terrifyingly mistaken.
Married people know that. Single people may not know that.
haele
(12,674 posts)And it sure sounds like they're into role playing.
I don't care to look for him online. Is he really married, or is he a never/formerly married woman hater? Because unless he locks his woman up or has her constantly monitored, he has no idea what she really does when he's out on one of his "business" trips blathering at incels and nazis.
Haele
Diamond_Dog
(32,047 posts)About how some men tell their wives how to vote, and Mr. D said, Oh brother, I could just see telling *MY* wife how to vote! I told him yeah, your belongings would all be out in the front yard!
Redleg
(5,827 posts)I kind of expected these fools to be more exemplars of the Dunning-Kruger phenomenon than admitting they are concerned about a little book reading by the little lady leading to female dominance of the household.
Autumn
(45,120 posts)not fond of anyone.
Timeflyer
(2,001 posts)These guys really don't think women should expect to be treated like full human persons. Using their little lady brains, with the ability to think their own thoughts and have opinions--dangerous, need to be corrected.
bedazzled
(1,769 posts)In spite of the fact that she married him in the first place
Ugh
Conjuay
(1,396 posts)that reading Fun With Dick and Jane would outpace you.
Coventina
(27,169 posts)(He married her right after she graduated high school).
He gave the same reason: he wouldn't tolerate a wife who was more educated than he was.
When I learned that, it really diminished my memory of him.
He died when I was 5.
littlemissmartypants
(22,746 posts)She was awarded a full ride to college but her parents, primarily her father, wouldn't let her go.
They didn't just rob her, they robbed themselves, imo.
She was so smart, always reading and sharing the things she learned with me. She would have gone very far in college I feel sure. She was the smartest and sweetest person I've ever known.
I miss her so much.
electric_blue68
(14,932 posts)littlemissmartypants
(22,746 posts)Bettie
(16,121 posts)shit that "man" is.
Bluepinky
(2,276 posts)niyad
(113,532 posts)families, churches, local society, whatever, to accept this shit. But it always amuses me to think about the day that woman wakes up, especially if she is in a rural area with lits of vegetation, or in the kitchen.
I remember, in my teens and 20's (wayyyyy back in the Dark Ages), listening to some of the older women I knew, about how they dealt with their. . . shall we say. . .less than perfect husbands. Most enlightening. And I recall two conversations with such men, one conversation mine, another related to me by one of the women mentioned above. She had been having a conversatiin with the husband of a friend of hers, one extremely arrogant pos. He started on the, "if you were MY wife. ." bs, and she said, "If I were, I would have been a widow in the first six months." That shut him up. Another time, another one of these jerks tried to bully me with the "if you were MY wife. ." "I looked at him and said, "What makes you think I would ever be stupid enough to marry you in the first place." That ended that little encounter!
no_hypocrisy
(46,160 posts)PTSD
DET
(1,323 posts)And its just as bad as physical abuse. I cant imagine the daily hell his wife must go through.
littlemissmartypants
(22,746 posts)The Unmitigated Gall
(3,828 posts)Relevant movie rec: Born Yesterday. Shed probably run circles around this incel douchebag.
Joinfortmill
(14,449 posts)scarletlib
(3,418 posts)Liberal In Texas
(13,570 posts)The man is a pig.