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Nevilledog

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Thu Apr 11, 2024, 02:13 PM Apr 2024

This is what Christian Nationalists think of women





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Christian Nationalist boasts about not letting his wife read books because he doesn't want her to "outpace" him. @Meltart.


3:43 AM · Apr 11, 2024
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This is what Christian Nationalists think of women (Original Post) Nevilledog Apr 2024 OP
There's no way I would marry a man like that. Boomerproud Apr 2024 #1
"Marry?" No way I would agree to even be around him unless I was afforded immunity for hlthe2b Apr 2024 #3
My first question? Yes! Arthur_Frain Apr 2024 #25
He is soooooooo evil. Jesus would slay him in a second. Jesus loved and respected women Trueblue1968 Apr 2024 #33
yeah. barbtries Apr 2024 #2
One of the reasons that some women are forced to vote Repub. nature-lover Apr 2024 #4
I love mail in voting & how it increases voter turnout & I think it's pretty secure, CrispyQ Apr 2024 #9
I'm sure it does too. Hopefully the R's keep insisting that mail in voting is bad and they shouldn't do it. nature-lover Apr 2024 #13
Wow DET Apr 2024 #26
How desperate does a woman have to be madashelltoo Apr 2024 #5
Or how indoctrinated? Scrivener7 Apr 2024 #18
Yeah, my first thought. Sigh. electric_blue68 Apr 2024 #38
Depends on the community she comes from. haele Apr 2024 #21
Yup, and they wonder why women get pissed off. Joinfortmill Apr 2024 #32
I'm old enough to remember when more women than not were that desoerate. soldierant Apr 2024 #24
I dated a guy like that as a young woman kimbutgar Apr 2024 #6
That should be a message all girls need to learn. LiberalFighter Apr 2024 #22
No fault divorce elimination should help to enshrine this Chakaconcarne Apr 2024 #7
That guy can't be married. LuckyCharms Apr 2024 #8
I don't judge the kink that married folks agree to... haele Apr 2024 #10
We were talking about this with friends once Diamond_Dog Apr 2024 #11
Sounds like a guy with inadequacy issues Redleg Apr 2024 #12
We do know that their god isn't very fond of women so this is no surprise. In truth their god is Autumn Apr 2024 #14
U.S. slave states had anti-literacy laws for slaves. The Taliban wants their females to be ignorant. Timeflyer Apr 2024 #15
She wouldn't have to read nany books to outpace him bedazzled Apr 2024 #16
sounds to me, pal Conjuay Apr 2024 #17
My grandfather wouldn't allow my grandmother to go to college. Coventina Apr 2024 #19
My mother worked hard in school to get a scholarship. littlemissmartypants Apr 2024 #34
Sigh. {hug} I'm sure she loved sharing what she learned with you. electric_blue68 Apr 2024 #39
Thank you so much, electric_blue68. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Apr 2024 #40
Wow. What a piece of Bettie Apr 2024 #20
I know. What an ---hole. Bluepinky Apr 2024 #27
I realize that many women are culturally brainwashed by their niyad Apr 2024 #23
This douchebag reminds me of my father. no_hypocrisy Apr 2024 #28
That is mental and emotional abuse... DET Apr 2024 #29
On the wheel of abuse it would fall under isolation and more, no doubt. littlemissmartypants Apr 2024 #35
What a chickenshit. The Unmitigated Gall Apr 2024 #30
Who raises these fucks? Oh, yeah, other fucks. Joinfortmill Apr 2024 #31
F**k him . I will read whatever I want. I have all my life. You can't stop me. I will find a way. Ignorant fools! scarletlib Apr 2024 #36
Want to know what christo-fascism would be like? There it is. Liberal In Texas Apr 2024 #37

hlthe2b

(113,196 posts)
3. "Marry?" No way I would agree to even be around him unless I was afforded immunity for
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 02:21 PM
Apr 2024

some "well-targeted" responses (if you get my drift).

Arthur_Frain

(2,273 posts)
25. My first question? Yes!
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 05:37 PM
Apr 2024

He’s like, the original incel.

Very odd, by the way, that my spellcheck did not want to let me type “incel”. First choice was “uncle”.

Weird.

Trueblue1968

(19,141 posts)
33. He is soooooooo evil. Jesus would slay him in a second. Jesus loved and respected women
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 06:18 PM
Apr 2024

This man hates women. If I had the power, I would make him wear a mask in jail like the mystery French man for 50 years.

He makes me soooooooooo angry. He is an abusive horrible man.

He is headed to He'll and Satan will enjoy tormenting him.

CrispyQ

(40,806 posts)
9. I love mail in voting & how it increases voter turnout & I think it's pretty secure,
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 02:41 PM
Apr 2024

except at the home where a bully can confiscate all the ballots & vote them. I'm sure it happens quite often, too.

haele

(15,190 posts)
21. Depends on the community she comes from.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 04:25 PM
Apr 2024

Close knit religious communities, especially in rural areas, hide a lot of sins and bullying. Girls are often taught from a young age the only thing they're valuable for is tending to a house and popping out kids.
A friend of mine back in the 90's went back to very rural Arkansas to help take care of her uncle on "the family homestead from 1834" and got into the local genealogy when she noticed the family Bible may have shown girls being born, but only sons had named or were showed getting married and dates of death. The girls just disappeared after it was noted they were born - until the early 1960's after about 8 generations of entries. Girl children did show up on censuses with names, but apparently after the age of 10, they are no longer recorded as part of their families; next census showed they had either been married off -usually with children of their own, or they just dead-end disappeared from all the records.
And the local church only kept records of their births, marriages, and deaths under their married names.
No female deaths other than the wife/mother under the family name. It was if women were livestock. Valuable only for sale and having kids. Other established families in that area didn't seem to be so misogynistic, but it seemed there weren't a lot of women who made it past the age of 45 or 50 in that region as compared to the men.
Consider what sort of pressure the women in that local area were living under. If the man valued her enough so she would live in relative comfort above the local slaves (and they were well off enough to have slaves antebellum), she probably thought herself luckier than her sisters, even if she had to remain silent about her feelings and desires, and put up with intercourse whether she wanted to or not.
If a girl survived long enough to have it drilled into her that she's only good enough to serve her father, brothers, and other boys, that's what she'll resign herself to do in most cases. And marry jerks petty enough they won't let her read or dress as she might want to. She'll probably also end up resentful or hateful to other women (including daughters and sisters) who have freedoms she's not allowed to have especially if they tell her she shouldn't put up with her man's bullshit and stand up for herself and her daughters.

Haele

kimbutgar

(26,984 posts)
6. I dated a guy like that as a young woman
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 02:36 PM
Apr 2024

He told me he wanted his wife to put him on a pedestal and obey his every word and that he was going to put his wife on an allowance. It was very hard me for to have a straight face and I ended the date early saying I just got my period ! ( I lied) but the look on his face he couldn’t wait to drop me off !

LiberalFighter

(53,544 posts)
22. That should be a message all girls need to learn.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 05:00 PM
Apr 2024

Using their period to protect them.

Unless they were Sheldon boys wouldn't know how long a period lasts.

LuckyCharms

(22,172 posts)
8. That guy can't be married.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 02:40 PM
Apr 2024

Any man that thinks he can "allow" his wife to do anything is terrifyingly mistaken.

Married people know that. Single people may not know that.

haele

(15,190 posts)
10. I don't judge the kink that married folks agree to...
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 02:48 PM
Apr 2024

And it sure sounds like they're into role playing.
I don't care to look for him online. Is he really married, or is he a never/formerly married woman hater? Because unless he locks his woman up or has her constantly monitored, he has no idea what she really does when he's out on one of his "business" trips blathering at incels and nazis.

Haele

Diamond_Dog

(40,080 posts)
11. We were talking about this with friends once
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 02:51 PM
Apr 2024

About how some men tell their wives how to vote, and Mr. D said, Oh brother, I could just see telling *MY* wife how to vote! I told him yeah, your belongings would all be out in the front yard!

Redleg

(6,866 posts)
12. Sounds like a guy with inadequacy issues
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 03:05 PM
Apr 2024

I kind of expected these fools to be more exemplars of the Dunning-Kruger phenomenon than admitting they are concerned about a little book reading by the little lady leading to female dominance of the household.

Autumn

(48,867 posts)
14. We do know that their god isn't very fond of women so this is no surprise. In truth their god is
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 03:07 PM
Apr 2024

not fond of anyone.

Timeflyer

(3,724 posts)
15. U.S. slave states had anti-literacy laws for slaves. The Taliban wants their females to be ignorant.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 03:36 PM
Apr 2024

These guys really don't think women should expect to be treated like full human persons. Using their little lady brains, with the ability to think their own thoughts and have opinions--dangerous, need to be corrected.

Coventina

(29,442 posts)
19. My grandfather wouldn't allow my grandmother to go to college.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 03:57 PM
Apr 2024

(He married her right after she graduated high school).

He gave the same reason: he wouldn't tolerate a wife who was more educated than he was.

When I learned that, it really diminished my memory of him.
He died when I was 5.

littlemissmartypants

(32,803 posts)
34. My mother worked hard in school to get a scholarship.
Fri Apr 12, 2024, 05:01 AM
Apr 2024

She was awarded a full ride to college but her parents, primarily her father, wouldn't let her go.

They didn't just rob her, they robbed themselves, imo.

She was so smart, always reading and sharing the things she learned with me. She would have gone very far in college I feel sure. She was the smartest and sweetest person I've ever known.

I miss her so much.

niyad

(130,461 posts)
23. I realize that many women are culturally brainwashed by their
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 05:13 PM
Apr 2024

families, churches, local society, whatever, to accept this shit. But it always amuses me to think about the day that woman wakes up, especially if she is in a rural area with lits of vegetation, or in the kitchen.

I remember, in my teens and 20's (wayyyyy back in the Dark Ages), listening to some of the older women I knew, about how they dealt with their. . . shall we say. . .less than perfect husbands. Most enlightening. And I recall two conversations with such men, one conversation mine, another related to me by one of the women mentioned above. She had been having a conversatiin with the husband of a friend of hers, one extremely arrogant pos. He started on the, "if you were MY wife. ." bs, and she said, "If I were, I would have been a widow in the first six months." That shut him up. Another time, another one of these jerks tried to bully me with the "if you were MY wife. ." "I looked at him and said, "What makes you think I would ever be stupid enough to marry you in the first place." That ended that little encounter!

DET

(2,409 posts)
29. That is mental and emotional abuse...
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 05:55 PM
Apr 2024

And it’s just as bad as physical abuse. I can’t imagine the daily hell his wife must go through.

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