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BlueWaveNeverEnd

(13,447 posts)
Fri May 24, 2024, 03:43 PM May 2024

Republican Ben Baker's daughter, son-in-law shot dead

https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/family/republican-ben-baker-s-daughter-son-in-law-shot-dead/ar-BB1mZJXF

Republican Ben Baker's daughter, son-in-law shot dead

Apolitician from Missouri, US said in a statement Thursday evening that his daughter and son-in-law have been killed by gangs while they were working as missionaries in Haiti.

Ben Baker, who is a Republican member of the House of Representatives, said in a statement: "Most of you know my daughter and son-in-law Davy and Natalie Lloyd are full-time missionaries in Haiti. They were attacked by gangs this evening and were both killed. They went to Heaven together.”
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Ben Baker added: “Please pray for my family we desperately need strength. And please pray for the Lloyd family as well. I have no other words for now.”
His daughter Natalie and son-in-law Davy worked for Missions in Haiti organisation. It said on their post on social media that the couple was ambushed by a gang of three trucks full of men after coming out of the church.

It added that Davy was taken to a house, tied up, and then beaten before the gang stole the group's trucks and all they had.

The charity organisation further stated: “After that gang left the area, another arrived with one member being shot and killed causing them to going into full attack mode.”

The couple sought help using Starlink internet but eventually the gangs continued shooting at the house and they were killed.
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Republican Ben Baker's daughter, son-in-law shot dead (Original Post) BlueWaveNeverEnd May 2024 OP
They had no business being there. Insane. #PoisonwoodBible TomDaisy May 2024 #1
Awful Awful post... y ou should be ashamed of yourself. Srkdqltr May 2024 #5
Agreed BannonsLiver May 2024 #17
Why malaise May 2024 #19
In reality.... MyOwnPeace May 2024 #26
Not much peace in Haiti, not for centuries. Worst ever long wave outcome for a Caribbean island nation. Celerity May 2024 #58
They never forgave Haiti fir winning the revolution malaise May 2024 #70
Perhaps for the same reason there are outsiders in Gaza. Igel May 2024 #69
No,they had no business there Conjuay May 2024 #21
THIS malaise May 2024 #34
Damn straight! IrishAfricanAmerican May 2024 #54
Exactly. Jirel May 2024 #8
What do you think is the goddamn prize that they won? SoFlaBro May 2024 #29
The stupidest prize of all. Think. Again. May 2024 #79
I agree -- they shouldn't have been there. Sky Jewels May 2024 #74
WTF? Horrible post. There is a place for missionaries. brush May 2024 #78
I am very sorry to read this Delphinus May 2024 #2
How horrible. :( 50 Shades Of Blue May 2024 #3
How Awful. I have no other words. Srkdqltr May 2024 #4
We are doing something there..their weapons and ammunition are coming from the States. Deuxcents May 2024 #82
That's really sad. LuvLoogie May 2024 #6
Religious missions are only making it worse. Jirel May 2024 #9
"Religion is what keeps the poor from eating the rich" - Napoleon maxrandb May 2024 #12
Napoleon wasn't remotely an authority on the matter NanaCat May 2024 #23
Shhhhhhhh malaise May 2024 #20
My condolences to their family and friends MustLoveBeagles May 2024 #7
missionaries don't do anything to help. What happened is horrible and sad JI7 May 2024 #10
I honestly didn't think any charities were allowing their mcar May 2024 #11
Hmmmm RussBLib May 2024 #13
Sorry for their deaths. We all need to understand that RELIGION is KILLING people in every country bluestarone May 2024 #14
How awful. I'm so sorry for the loss to all of those who loved them. chowder66 May 2024 #15
horrible Skittles May 2024 #16
Sad story. BannonsLiver May 2024 #18
I don't think anyone was grave dancing, just questioning why they were still there. we can do it May 2024 #22
The thread is full of grave dancing. former9thward May 2024 #36
no... just read above. WarGamer May 2024 #43
I'm saving my grave dancing JustAnotherGen May 2024 #59
I'm 56 and getting stiff and old, newdayneeded May 2024 #84
God's plan HAB911 May 2024 #24
Some of the opinions in the answers are really heartless and small minded. Srkdqltr May 2024 #25
You can..... MyOwnPeace May 2024 #27
These were not the first people killed in this governmental overthrow Conjuay May 2024 #80
Good post RazorbackExpat May 2024 #81
Such a sad thing for us all to lose ANYONE to violence. Think. Again. May 2024 #28
Bullshit post TexasDem69 May 2024 #33
I do actually... Think. Again. May 2024 #37
It happened at a church. A Haitian was also killed. Haiti is crazy right now. Americans shouldn't be there. LeftInTX May 2024 #39
Yes, I agree with all of that... Think. Again. May 2024 #41
I doubt if that was why they were killed. The mission runs a school and group home. LeftInTX May 2024 #42
I have no idea why they were killed... Think. Again. May 2024 #44
What if they were working for the UN? Often UN workers get killed in conflicts. Even vaccine workers get killed. LeftInTX May 2024 #45
You do realize that the UN.... Think. Again. May 2024 #46
What does the Taliban think? That's what matters. LeftInTX May 2024 #47
Is that relevant somehow... Think. Again. May 2024 #48
This couple was murdered and you are blaming the couple for their own deaths because you say they LeftInTX May 2024 #49
Please don't falsely attribute a quote to me that I did not make.... Think. Again. May 2024 #50
You are the one who brought that up in response to the OP. LeftInTX May 2024 #51
yes, THAT was my response, my response was NOT what you quoted as my response. Think. Again. May 2024 #52
Seems to be a pattern, eh? Brenda May 2024 #60
Yeah, it seems creating division among DUers... Think. Again. May 2024 #62
Right. Brenda May 2024 #63
Sure we do. Voltaire2 May 2024 #64
Not true (at least for me and others), see post 57 Celerity May 2024 #71
Does not matter. When people loose loved ones Srkdqltr May 2024 #83
This is Awful, But.... Deep State Witch May 2024 #30
Serving as missionaries. LisaL May 2024 #31
Haiti has been hell for Haitians for generations, at this point. AnrothElf May 2024 #32
I hope the Bakers reflect on the misery guns cause dickthegrouch May 2024 #35
You are correct - Many of the guns JustAnotherGen May 2024 #61
Jamaica now... guns are being smuggled in from America BlueWaveNeverEnd May 2024 #65
So now we're turning this tragedy into a call to ban guns? TexasDem69 May 2024 #88
It's odd. Patton French May 2024 #38
This message was self-deleted by its author dalton99a May 2024 #40
Let this one go Wifes husband May 2024 #53
Horrendous Freethinker65 May 2024 #55
Our church growing up suppoted Hatian missionaries. czarjak May 2024 #56
So much horror and sadness. niyad May 2024 #57
Weird... I don't see any of the grave dancing in this thread that people keep mentioning. AnrothElf May 2024 #66
some consider statements of "missionaries shouldnt go there" as victim blaming BlueWaveNeverEnd May 2024 #67
Any criticism of christianity gets angry responses, and in this case Voltaire2 May 2024 #68
Really, is that it? Patton French May 2024 #72
Nobody cheered their assassination. Voltaire2 May 2024 #73
The word missionary always makes my skin crawl. ananda May 2024 #75
Peace and condolences to their loved ones. Dulcinea May 2024 #76
I hope now it is obvious why migrants come to the United States and seek asylum. They could be killed at any minute Walleye May 2024 #77
Thoughts and prayers.... Sogo May 2024 #85
Just an add on: I think missionaries sometimes leftyladyfrommo May 2024 #86
The missionary's mission was to offer themselves as sacrificial lambs for the slaughter, they must be euphoric. msfiddlestix May 2024 #87

malaise

(294,261 posts)
19. Why
Fri May 24, 2024, 05:33 PM
May 2024

What were they doing in Haiti?
People were told to leave ages ago. The Haitian people need to be left in peace.

MyOwnPeace

(17,460 posts)
26. In reality....
Fri May 24, 2024, 07:24 PM
May 2024

there’s no peace to be had there. There’s o country that has the stomach to do what needs to be done.

Celerity

(54,006 posts)
58. Not much peace in Haiti, not for centuries. Worst ever long wave outcome for a Caribbean island nation.
Sat May 25, 2024, 03:02 AM
May 2024

The essence of white systemic socio-economic racism and brutally invasive power fangs sunk deep into a country.

The whole topic makes me weep and rage.

Igel

(37,433 posts)
69. Perhaps for the same reason there are outsiders in Gaza.
Sat May 25, 2024, 05:22 PM
May 2024

Maybe to tend to the poor, the ailing. Maybe try to help in some way.

Conjuay

(2,975 posts)
21. No,they had no business there
Fri May 24, 2024, 05:53 PM
May 2024

Every culture that has existed for the last two thousand years has been destroyed by missionaries "preaching the word"

Their people have been slaughtered, their culture overrun.Mind you own damned business - your religion is a constant flow of contradictions and is A GUILT BASED con. Christianity has not been the panacea promised.

 

Sky Jewels

(9,148 posts)
74. I agree -- they shouldn't have been there.
Mon May 27, 2024, 10:19 AM
May 2024

There is nothing more arrogant than missionaries imposing their STUPID fucking stories on other cultures.

Srkdqltr

(9,536 posts)
4. How Awful. I have no other words.
Fri May 24, 2024, 03:48 PM
May 2024

Haiti is an awful place right now. Can't anything be done? Why aren't we doing something there?

LuvLoogie

(8,650 posts)
6. That's really sad.
Fri May 24, 2024, 03:52 PM
May 2024

Good intentions are often left to to pick up the pieces of centuries of colonialism. One can hold faith and spread love, but Haiti is not a clean slate. NGOs can't fix the failures of government.

 

NanaCat

(2,332 posts)
23. Napoleon wasn't remotely an authority on the matter
Fri May 24, 2024, 06:18 PM
May 2024

Given how abusive he was to the lower ranks when he was a leader.

What keeps the poor from eating the rich is giving them political and economic legs to stand on. Religion is the very last institution that brings the people what they really need. In fact, religion, and christianity in particular, always--ALWAYS--instigates and escalates class warfare to serve its own agenda.

JI7

(93,375 posts)
10. missionaries don't do anything to help. What happened is horrible and sad
Fri May 24, 2024, 04:16 PM
May 2024

but they weren't doing anything to help by going there as missionaries.

mcar

(45,820 posts)
11. I honestly didn't think any charities were allowing their
Fri May 24, 2024, 04:19 PM
May 2024

people into Haiti now. I know several volunteers who were called home last year and have never been able to return.

My sympathy to the families.

bluestarone

(21,654 posts)
14. Sorry for their deaths. We all need to understand that RELIGION is KILLING people in every country
Fri May 24, 2024, 04:27 PM
May 2024

RELIGION is partially what is destroying our country, and i believe EVERY COUNTRY. It's a FACT. We need to keep religion OUT of our politics, or we will face the same problem the holy land is facing today.

 

newdayneeded

(2,493 posts)
84. I'm 56 and getting stiff and old,
Mon May 27, 2024, 11:45 AM
May 2024

But if trump drops dead I'll do Micheal Jackson's "Billie Jean" solo dance to the step on donny's grave.

Srkdqltr

(9,536 posts)
25. Some of the opinions in the answers are really heartless and small minded.
Fri May 24, 2024, 07:19 PM
May 2024

You don't like religion OK I get that. I have no use for it either but some of the posts are just unnecessarily heartless and just downright mean. I"m ashamed for some on here. The people died real people say, it's a shame so sorry and leave it at that not attack the dead or their religion. We have no clue why they were there and it isn't up to us to judge anyway.
Some people on DU have really become rather nasty . Can I say heartless enough??

MyOwnPeace

(17,460 posts)
27. You can.....
Fri May 24, 2024, 07:32 PM
May 2024

and it would be correct. I don’t think it is a far step from that to what some want regarding the ‘immigration problem.’

Conjuay

(2,975 posts)
80. These were not the first people killed in this governmental overthrow
Mon May 27, 2024, 11:00 AM
May 2024

BUT THEY SEEM TO BE THE ONLY ONES THAT PEOPLE ARE TALKING ABOUT.
That folks, is the real disgraceful behavior I see here.




 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
28. Such a sad thing for us all to lose ANYONE to violence.
Fri May 24, 2024, 07:33 PM
May 2024

And perhaps taking advantage of people's traumatic circumstances to attempt to indoctrinate them into one's own beliefs should be given a second thought.

LeftInTX

(34,031 posts)
39. It happened at a church. A Haitian was also killed. Haiti is crazy right now. Americans shouldn't be there.
Fri May 24, 2024, 09:04 PM
May 2024

They were killed by violent gangs. I really don't think religion had anything to do with this. Haiti is one of the most Christian countries in the western hemisphere. (96% of the population).


 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
41. Yes, I agree with all of that...
Fri May 24, 2024, 09:18 PM
May 2024

...but why did you say my post about being missionaries (and therefore attempting to indoctrinate people into one's own belief system) is bullshit?

Do you disagree that the ultimate goal of missionaries is to "convert" people, otherwise known as indoctrination?

Or do you disagree that the people of Haiti are currently going through a trauma that makes them vulnerable to people looking to take advantage of that trauma to achieve that goal of indoctrination?

LeftInTX

(34,031 posts)
42. I doubt if that was why they were killed. The mission runs a school and group home.
Fri May 24, 2024, 09:24 PM
May 2024

If the government isn't providing basic services then often missionaries fill the void.

 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
44. I have no idea why they were killed...
Fri May 24, 2024, 09:36 PM
May 2024

...but I do know that

" (when) the government isn't providing basic services then often missionaries fill the void."

...is doublespeak for

"...taking advantage of people's traumatic circumstances to attempt to indoctrinate them into one's own beliefs ..."

LeftInTX

(34,031 posts)
45. What if they were working for the UN? Often UN workers get killed in conflicts. Even vaccine workers get killed.
Fri May 24, 2024, 09:39 PM
May 2024

UN condemns brutal killing of eight polio workers in Afghanistan

https://news.un.org/en/story/2022/02/1112612

Should we blame the vaccine workers for their own death because Afghan men think vaccines are a "colonial conspiracy".
 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
46. You do realize that the UN....
Fri May 24, 2024, 09:52 PM
May 2024

...is not a religious organization looking to indoctrinate people to build their "donation" base, right?

LeftInTX

(34,031 posts)
49. This couple was murdered and you are blaming the couple for their own deaths because you say they
Fri May 24, 2024, 10:05 PM
May 2024

are "exploiting Haitians".

 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
50. Please don't falsely attribute a quote to me that I did not make....
Fri May 24, 2024, 10:16 PM
May 2024

What I wrote was...

"Such a sad thing for us all to lose ANYONE to violence.

And perhaps taking advantage of people's traumatic circumstances to attempt to indoctrinate them into one's own beliefs should be given a second thought."

Thank you.

LeftInTX

(34,031 posts)
51. You are the one who brought that up in response to the OP.
Fri May 24, 2024, 10:19 PM
May 2024

A missionary couple was killed and that was your response.

Brenda

(1,972 posts)
60. Seems to be a pattern, eh?
Sat May 25, 2024, 06:19 AM
May 2024

Your first response was spot on. No one deserves to die like they did but there comes a point when people have to take responsibility for their own actions. They were either absurdly naive or thought themselves untouchable in their religious bubble. There is no common sense involved when a young white couple goes into the middle of desperate, violent, historically abused Haiti and expects a good outcome.

 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
62. Yeah, it seems creating division among DUers...
Sat May 25, 2024, 06:31 AM
May 2024

...is more important than considering any of the opinions expressed by DUers.

Brenda

(1,972 posts)
63. Right.
Sat May 25, 2024, 06:44 AM
May 2024

Black and white thinking is never good. But the gaslighting, putting words in people's mouths thing is just so blatant.

Nice to see you!

Voltaire2

(15,377 posts)
64. Sure we do.
Sat May 25, 2024, 07:46 AM
May 2024

They were there to indoctrinate people into their religion. It’s literally their mission statement.

Celerity

(54,006 posts)
71. Not true (at least for me and others), see post 57
Sat May 25, 2024, 06:13 PM
May 2024
to niyad

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100218974769#post57

So much horror and sadness.

After reading some of the comments about missionaries upthread, I went to check out the organization the three victims were with, Missions in Haiti. Founded by Davy Lloyd's parents some 20+ years ago with this breathtakingly arrogant statement "thousands malnourished, uneducated, and doomed to hopeless lives without christ."

Srkdqltr

(9,536 posts)
83. Does not matter. When people loose loved ones
Mon May 27, 2024, 11:21 AM
May 2024

Real people say something like "sorry for your loss" or some other condolence. Then shut up, rather than slapping them in the face by saying the dead were too religious, didn't belong there or any other way to demean the victim.

 

AnrothElf

(923 posts)
32. Haiti has been hell for Haitians for generations, at this point.
Fri May 24, 2024, 08:08 PM
May 2024

It's interesting what Americans choose to "care" about, isn't it?

dickthegrouch

(4,399 posts)
35. I hope the Bakers reflect on the misery guns cause
Fri May 24, 2024, 08:33 PM
May 2024

And change their stance on allowing anyone to have one.

Unless they become part of the solution, they will remain part of the problem.

And yes I understand this didn’t happen in gun-crazy amerkkka. Odds are the guns were manufactured here.

JustAnotherGen

(37,774 posts)
61. You are correct - Many of the guns
Sat May 25, 2024, 06:20 AM
May 2024

Come from America.

When Haiti’s gangs shop for guns, the United States is their store
https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/2024/04/05/haiti-gangs-american-guns/

O’Neill said last week it was “incredible” that “weapons and bullets are still going to the gangs, mostly from the United States.”

“There’s got to be much, much more vigorous enforcement of the arms embargo by everybody, but certainly the United States,” he said, “because if the gangs don’t have guns or bullets, they lose their power.”

The influx of U.S. guns to criminals is a growing problem across the Caribbean.


It's been a problem in Mexico too.



 

TexasDem69

(2,317 posts)
88. So now we're turning this tragedy into a call to ban guns?
Mon May 27, 2024, 05:40 PM
May 2024

Despite the 2d Amendment? I question your priorities, grasp of the Constitution and understanding of how our government works

Patton French

(1,824 posts)
38. It's odd.
Fri May 24, 2024, 08:52 PM
May 2024

Some people who are dancing on those poor souls’ graves are the same ones decrying the lack of aid in Gaza. Whatever you think of their beliefs, they were in Haiti to provide aid to people in need. They were there at great personal sacrifice to help other human beings. I’m sure the people they helped were grateful. Aren’t we comforted when people help other people? Good grief. And just wow.

Response to BlueWaveNeverEnd (Original post)

Wifes husband

(714 posts)
53. Let this one go
Fri May 24, 2024, 10:30 PM
May 2024

The man's daughter and son-in-law were killed. It is inappropriate to make snotty comments about religion or politics at a time like this, even if they may or not be accurate.

His daughter and son-in-law were doing what they thought was a good thing, and are dead.

Condolences are in order.

Let this one go

niyad

(130,565 posts)
57. So much horror and sadness.
Sat May 25, 2024, 02:30 AM
May 2024

After reading some of the comments about missionaries upthread, I went to check out the organization the three victims were with, Missions in Haiti. Founded by Davy Lloyd's parents some 20+ years ago with this breathtakingly arrogant statement "thousands malnourished, uneducated, and doomed to hopeless lives without christ."

 

AnrothElf

(923 posts)
66. Weird... I don't see any of the grave dancing in this thread that people keep mentioning.
Sat May 25, 2024, 12:13 PM
May 2024

Maybe because I've ignored all those posters for other reasons, so I can't see those threads?

Voltaire2

(15,377 posts)
68. Any criticism of christianity gets angry responses, and in this case
Sat May 25, 2024, 03:38 PM
May 2024

as these people got killed,, outrage. People generally don't see christian privilege as they swim in a christian sea.

Patton French

(1,824 posts)
72. Really, is that it?
Sun May 26, 2024, 07:58 PM
May 2024

This isn’t about Christianity. These people had fed hundreds of needy women and children over years. The fact that many here are cheering their assassination is disheartening.

Voltaire2

(15,377 posts)
73. Nobody cheered their assassination.
Mon May 27, 2024, 07:19 AM
May 2024

And the literal mission statement of this mission is to convert people to their religion. That is what they are trying to do, anyone fed is also proselytized.

leftyladyfrommo

(19,965 posts)
86. Just an add on: I think missionaries sometimes
Mon May 27, 2024, 01:57 PM
May 2024

believe so strongly in their religion that they start to believe that God will protect them.
That's really naive and it is dangerous.

msfiddlestix

(8,171 posts)
87. The missionary's mission was to offer themselves as sacrificial lambs for the slaughter, they must be euphoric.
Mon May 27, 2024, 02:17 PM
May 2024

no, I won't be offering "prayers". Next thing we'll be reading is a 'go fund me" to end up being spent on Baker's next election campaign.


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