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surfered

(13,465 posts)
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 03:41 PM Jun 2024

The Elderly - Author unknown

We were born in the 40s-50s-60s.
We grew up in the 50's-60's-70's
We studied in the 60s-70s-80s.
We were together in the 70s-80s-90s.
We got married or not and discovered the world in the 70s-80s-90s.
Adventuring into the 80s - 90s
We're settling in to the 2000s.
We became wiser in 2010s.
And we’re going strong into 2020 and beyond.
Turns out we went through EIGHT different decades...

TWO different centuries...
TWO different millennials...

We've gone from phone with operator for long distance calls, pay booths, video calls worldwide.

We’ve gone from slides to YouTube, vinyls to online music, handwritten letters to emails and Whats App.

Live games on the radio, black and white TV, color TV, then HD 3D TV.

We went to the video store and now watching Netflix.

We've known the first computers, punch cards, disks and now we have gigabytes and megabytes on our smartphones.

We wore shorts all through our childhood, then trousers, ep pants or mini-skirts, Oxfords, Clarks, Palestinian scarves, jumpsuits, and blue jeans.

We avoided childhood paralysis, meningitis, poliomyelitis, tuberculosis, swine flu and now COVID-19.

We've done roller skating, roller skating, tricycle, bicycle, moped, gasoline or diesel and now we drive hybrids or electric.
We played with the little ones
horses and checkers, ostrich and marbles, 1000 threshold and monopoly, now there's candy crush on our smartphones
And we read... much
And our schoolmates religion was not a subject...
We used to drink tap water and lemonade in glass bottles, and the vegetables on our plate were always fresh, today we get meals delivered
Yes, we have been through a lot but what a beautiful life we have had!

They might describe us as “ex-annuals”; people who were born in this 50s world, who had an analog childhood and digital adulthood.
We should add the Biological Revolution that we have witnessed. In 1960, biology was very descriptive. We have witnessed the event of Molecular Biology: the molecules of Life have been discovered: DNA, RNA etc. When you see everything that has come from it: gene therapy, gene fingerprints, and others the progress is considerable.

We kind of have "seen it all"!

Our generation has literally lived and witnessed more than any other in every dimension of life.
This is our generation that has literally adapted to "CHANGE".

A big congratulations to all the members of a very special generation, which will be UNIQUE.. "

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The Elderly - Author unknown (Original Post) surfered Jun 2024 OP
Thanks for this post. I like it, if I'm allowed to be a little self-congratulatory. Particularly the part about our... EarnestPutz Jun 2024 #1
K n R Faux pas Jun 2024 #2
Very good captain queeg Jun 2024 #3
We have also ran up a debt that can't be sustained. The next generation will probably not have doc03 Jun 2024 #4
That can be remedied by revising that tax structure for the rich and corporations jmbar2 Jun 2024 #8
I agree but we have been going in the opposite direction for doc03 Jun 2024 #11
Wait just a minute. There is no problem with SS or Medicare/cade. It only takes the will flashman13 Jun 2024 #17
The no tax for me billionaires did that. dchill Jun 2024 #22
BS. Don't fucking blame all Boomers for the evil Dark n Stormy Knight Jun 2024 #27
Also the first generation to both clip glurge out and put it on the fridge with magnets, and to share it via email. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2024 #5
Glurge? Help me out with this please. EarnestPutz Jun 2024 #28
We watched H2O Man Jun 2024 #6
Waterman! What an insight! Nicely done, my man, nicely done. EarnestPutz Jun 2024 #29
Thank you! H2O Man Jun 2024 #30
You're welcome. Any mention of Winnie the Pooh just makes me happy. EarnestPutz Jun 2024 #31
Did anyone else read "The Bobsey Twins"? young_at_heart Jun 2024 #7
Yep in second grade Tree Lady Jun 2024 #13
I read one Bobbsey Twins book. ShazzieB Jun 2024 #18
Yes, my sister and I read The Bobbsey Twins PatSeg Jun 2024 #20
This is great! Thank you for sharing. StarryNite Jun 2024 #9
I take issue with the definition of "elderly." PeaceWave Jun 2024 #10
What a long strange trip it's been! Gaugamela Jun 2024 #12
And as one of the "Elderly"...I can't wait to, hopefully, see the... Tikki Jun 2024 #14
1974 ✊ sarchasm Jun 2024 #15
No wonder we're so tired. DavidDvorkin Jun 2024 #16
My grandmother saw incredible fundamental changes during her lifetime. FuzzyRabbit Jun 2024 #21
As a young boy, my grandfather traveled by covered wagon from Texas to Oklahoma surfered Jun 2024 #24
I got the mumps before there was a mumps vaccine. Mumps bad. hunter Jun 2024 #19
Should also mention Codifer Jun 2024 #23
Great essay. And that didn't even cover B.See Jun 2024 #25
Yes, we bought vinyl, then 8 track, then cassette, then CD surfered Jun 2024 #26
Well actually I was speaking of the evolution of genres, but yes B.See Jun 2024 #32
Yes, many genres in a relative short amount time. surfered Jun 2024 #33
 

EarnestPutz

(2,843 posts)
1. Thanks for this post. I like it, if I'm allowed to be a little self-congratulatory. Particularly the part about our...
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 03:51 PM
Jun 2024

.....schoolmates religion not being a subject (of any concern).

doc03

(39,086 posts)
4. We have also ran up a debt that can't be sustained. The next generation will probably not have
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 04:16 PM
Jun 2024

SS or Medicare. Few of the next generation will ever be able to retire with any dignity, most will work until
they are dead or disabled. The Boomer generation has pretty much fucked up the country for future generations.

jmbar2

(7,989 posts)
8. That can be remedied by revising that tax structure for the rich and corporations
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 05:00 PM
Jun 2024

Buffet says Berkshire is in the top 800 companies in the US.

...we sent in over $5 billion last year [in taxes]. If 800 companies had done the same thing, no other person in the United States would have had to pay a dime of federal taxes, whether income taxes, no social security taxes, no estate taxes...







doc03

(39,086 posts)
11. I agree but we have been going in the opposite direction for
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 05:26 PM
Jun 2024

over a half century. I don't see it changing for the better.The Republicans get elected and give tax cuts tax cuts to the rich
and drive up the debt. When Democrats gain power and try to raise taxes they get voted out and it is more tax cuts for the rich
and more debt. It has been the same in my entire lifetime. Nothing will change unless we could get a super majority in congress
and that will never happen. Maybe it will change when we are dead and gone.

flashman13

(2,403 posts)
17. Wait just a minute. There is no problem with SS or Medicare/cade. It only takes the will
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 05:40 PM
Jun 2024

of voters, via the Congress, to not only continue to fund both, but to actually improve the system.

How you ask? Make the rich people that own the vast majority of the country's wealth pay their fair share. Raise the maximum income on which social security is levied from the current $168,600 to say a nice round number like $1,000,000. Problem solved.

Vote BLUE!

WhiskeyGrinder

(26,955 posts)
5. Also the first generation to both clip glurge out and put it on the fridge with magnets, and to share it via email.
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 04:21 PM
Jun 2024

H2O Man

(79,052 posts)
6. We watched
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 04:31 PM
Jun 2024

Winnie the Pooh and Eeyore. We didn't create either character, and thus deserve neither credit nor blame. Yet we recognized both as human potentials. And our generation produced both types.

young_at_heart

(4,042 posts)
7. Did anyone else read "The Bobsey Twins"?
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 04:38 PM
Jun 2024

I remember listening to radio soap operas after school, "Portia Faces Life" and "Sergeant Preston of the Yukon" were a couple of my favorites. In 1950 my parents bought a strange new thing called a television and I really loved "Beany and Cecil"!

Tree Lady

(13,282 posts)
13. Yep in second grade
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 05:30 PM
Jun 2024

And Nancy Drew.

I still send cards but only one friend and I do this. My mom use to but she died last year at 96.

ShazzieB

(22,590 posts)
18. I read one Bobbsey Twins book.
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 05:43 PM
Jun 2024

Just the one, and a few Nancy Drews. But Trixie Belden was my favorite, hands down. Still love Trixie.

PatSeg

(53,214 posts)
20. Yes, my sister and I read The Bobbsey Twins
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 06:14 PM
Jun 2024

and after that we moved on to Nancy Drew.

We listened to My Friend Irma and The Shadow Knows on the radio before we got the first TV on the block. Later my sister and I rushed home from school to watch Flash Gordon serial episodes and the original Mickey Mouse Club.

We loved Beany and Cecil as well!

PeaceWave

(3,383 posts)
10. I take issue with the definition of "elderly."
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 05:24 PM
Jun 2024

A car isn't ready for the scrap heap so long as it still looks good and drives well. Similarly, you aren't "elderly" so long as you're still fully functioning both physically and mentally. Continuing with the car analogy, I would suggest that you're only "elderly" once parts start failing and/or falling off and once the cost of repairs exceeds the benefit gained.

Tikki

(15,140 posts)
14. And as one of the "Elderly"...I can't wait to, hopefully, see the...
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 05:35 PM
Jun 2024

wondrous changes and adaptations all generations, now and in the future, will achieve.


Tikki

sarchasm

(1,309 posts)
15. 1974 ✊
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 05:39 PM
Jun 2024
It wasn't until 1974, when the Equal Credit Opportunity Act passed, that women in the U.S. were granted the right to open a bank account on their own. Technically, women won the right to open a bank account in the 1960s, but many banks still refused to let women do so without a signature from their husbands.


how far we have come

FuzzyRabbit

(2,217 posts)
21. My grandmother saw incredible fundamental changes during her lifetime.
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 06:16 PM
Jun 2024

She was born in 1891 and died in 1964.

When she was born personal transportation was by horse. She witnessed the introduction of the internal combustion engine and automobiles.

When she was a girl, it took a whole day's work to feed yourself. By the end of her life, with industrial farming it took only a couple hours worth of labor (or less) to feed yourself.

In the early 20th century she experienced the first public electricity and the appliances that we still use to this day: refrigerators instead of ice to preserve our food, washing machines (still the greatest labor saving device ever invented) that saved one or two days of hard labor hand washing clothes.

Women got the vote 10 years after she became an adult.

Electronic communications and entertainment: The widespread use of telephones in nearly every home. The advent of record players, radio, then TV, then color TV.

She witnessed the invention of the airplane, then passenger aircraft, then jet passenger aircraft. When she was a young mother, it took a full two weeks to travel from her home in Fairbanks, Alaska to Seattle. By the end of her life you could have breakfast in one city and eat lunch 4-1/2 hours later in the other.

Traditional jazz, the big band era, and rock'n'roll.

And the bad: the atomic bomb.

I wish I could live to see what changes happen in the next century. Maybe we will yet see everyone traveling to work in flying cars and our housework done by robot maids.




surfered

(13,465 posts)
24. As a young boy, my grandfather traveled by covered wagon from Texas to Oklahoma
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 06:27 PM
Jun 2024

But lived to see a man walk on the moon.

hunter

(40,690 posts)
19. I got the mumps before there was a mumps vaccine. Mumps bad.
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 06:07 PM
Jun 2024

Went to the hospital for that.

Very severe chickenpox too.

And asthma... some doctors were still blaming my mom and her "smothering" personality for that, and all the now-called autistic spectrum stuff too.

I was maybe fortunate to have a mom who'd go full-on Berserker in my defense, but all in all, I'd rather have skipped those parts.

I ran away from my mom (and my grandmom too...) in their Berserker rolls by becoming a semi-homeless person living out of a P.O. box for several years. I think my crazy grandma saw me as a kindred spirit and sent a hundred dollars a month to that post office box, which sort of tethered me in place, even when I was living in my broken car in a church parking lot. Conniving bitches, I was near ready to walk to Alaska. (I can say that because that's what they called themselves, and I was clearly a dumpster diving son of a bitch.)

As a young adult too many friends died of AIDS and suicide and I'll never get over that. Ronald Reagan is burning in hell. In my later work I witnessed our hemophilia patients dying of AIDS.

As for my privileges, I witnessed the births of BSD and the World Wide Web.

I've been on the internet since the later 'seventies. There are even naked pics, as I was briefly someone's Lenna. We don't talk about that because she'd hunt me down and kill me. I once saw her handcuff a pimp to a urinal and beat the hell out of him. We broke up when I jumped out of her moving car.

When I was a kid we had a five digit telephone number, starting with either a five or a seven, and it was a party line. Long distance calls meant someone in close family had died, or my mom's work, or just my grandmas being queen bitches. My grandmas had the money to call long distance. My parents, artists with day jobs, did not.


Codifer

(1,205 posts)
23. Should also mention
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 06:20 PM
Jun 2024

that we were handed the knowledge and lessons that our elders learned by living through world wars and economic collapse and epidemics and variable moral codes. Our parents were time machines giving us some often bitterly earned insights.

In my own circumstance... I was born in 1944, my father was born in 1902 and his father (whom I never knew) was born in 1857.

That is a lot of accumulated experience (for good or bad).

Change happens at an ever quickening pace. My father 's early life was not that much different that his father's experience. Horse and buggy for travel, 6 day work weeks for little pay and almost constant darkness. Get up before dawn, walk to the mine in the dark and work in the dark until sundown and then walk home. My father knew the sky before it was filled with airplanes and lived to see some folks walk on the moon on a TV right there in the living room. He raised a family during the depression and sent a son to WW II and another (me) to Vietnam. He loved Roosevelt and he passed that love down. My father and brother could safely talk about the politics of the time. My father and I could only safely talk about baseball. ... and that was ok.

B.See

(8,503 posts)
25. Great essay. And that didn't even cover
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 06:32 PM
Jun 2024

the myriad evolutions of music we've witnessed.

Interestingly I just saw a report on CBS's Weekend News broadcast about a poll that showed nearly 90% of those 65 or older plan on voting this November, compared to 30% of those classified as young voters.

It's almost as if we boomers are more worried about the future than they are.

Why is that?

surfered

(13,465 posts)
26. Yes, we bought vinyl, then 8 track, then cassette, then CD
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 07:56 PM
Jun 2024

I bought the same album 4 times!

B.See

(8,503 posts)
32. Well actually I was speaking of the evolution of genres, but yes
Mon Jun 24, 2024, 05:18 PM
Jun 2024

evolutions in formats as well.

surfered

(13,465 posts)
33. Yes, many genres in a relative short amount time.
Mon Jun 24, 2024, 05:53 PM
Jun 2024

My father was immersed in the Big Band period of music and was disheartened by Rock & Roll.

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