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edhopper

(37,370 posts)
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:03 PM Jul 2024

I think we should be able to talk about our anxiety, dread and fear here.

This is one group of like minded people who understand the possible firestorm of fascism that some of us see coming is a very real threat.
Some of us see that Trump winning is more likely now. Some of us don't. That is fine. The reality says it's a toss up.
But shouting down, or belittling a post that conveys very real concerns does not help.
Telling us the polls are bullshit, the media is bullshit, the other Democratic politicians are bullshit, and that Biden will will by 10 points is not an answer, it just reeks of toxic positivism.
NO ONE is saying we should give up. NO ONE! So please don't drag out that canard. In fact, if you just want to tell someone to not post anything negative, maybe don't engage that thread at all.

We will Vote, We will Help, We will Donate!

But some of us also need to talk about the dire situation we see in a very probable second Trump term.

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I think we should be able to talk about our anxiety, dread and fear here. (Original Post) edhopper Jul 2024 OP
Credit to Admin for recognizing this. It might change any minute, but appears they recognize situation. Silent Type Jul 2024 #1
I'm moving between worry and hope nt XanaDUer2 Jul 2024 #2
I see people all over the map. Which is understandable. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #13
It feels like a roller-coaster lately.: Dave Bowman Jul 2024 #84
We should be able to talk about it. You're right. AllyCat Jul 2024 #3
OP wants to talk about feelings. Not told how to think or feel. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #5
I'm not telling OP what to think or feel. AllyCat Jul 2024 #8
Getting our backs up is part of the problem. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #18
Well, I have been today. AllyCat Jul 2024 #24
Tearing each other apart is not a solution. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #31
Your positivity and loyalty is very important ecstatic Jul 2024 #30
Thank you. It's more than loyalty. AllyCat Jul 2024 #95
I commend you orangecrush Jul 2024 #77
Right there with ya senseandsensibility Jul 2024 #22
Very well put. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #23
While we may not all by doctors or psychologists on here, slightlv Jul 2024 #74
++++ KPN Jul 2024 #83
You know I overheard a conversation the other day edisdead Jul 2024 #102
Wait XanaDUer2 Jul 2024 #16
Yes. It's on the Greatest Page right now. Third one down. AllyCat Jul 2024 #25
Thank you! XanaDUer2 Jul 2024 #62
And yet edhopper Jul 2024 #35
And what does that mean? 58Sunliner Jul 2024 #89
That the media edhopper Jul 2024 #93
Click bait. scipan Jul 2024 #100
I agree with you. StarryNite Jul 2024 #45
Time to move on, volunteer, donate and GOTV! PortTack Jul 2024 #85
Some can not fully talk about the debate performance DontBelieveEastisEas Jul 2024 #68
I agree. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #4
Thank you edhopper Jul 2024 #7
I agree. sharing emotions and facts is key to our success delisen Jul 2024 #6
agreed. and I agree that reality and principle-based behavior are on our side and definitely also keys to our success. somaticexperiencing Jul 2024 #10
Catharsis. It's a good thing. dobleremolque Jul 2024 #9
Unfortunately edhopper Jul 2024 #11
Facing reality is hard and painful at times. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #29
I am deely distressed about the election edhopper Jul 2024 #33
Yes I have talked with a number of people who have the same thoughts and feelings. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #39
I think about GWB edhopper Jul 2024 #43
Yes it was so shocking, all the Bush horrors. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #53
As a soon to be 70 year old retiree edhopper Jul 2024 #55
Yes I know. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #59
Part of me wants to turn it all off edhopper Jul 2024 #61
Some of this we will not be able to control. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #64
Some people don't understand that talking through a problem Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #12
What is your answer to Trump winning the election? Kaleva Jul 2024 #15
Preserving our democracy is the #1 goal. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #21
People will most likely do what they do in normal times Kaleva Jul 2024 #67
Talk accomplishes little. Actual preparation is needed Kaleva Jul 2024 #14
How do you think preparation is accomplished? Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #20
Message auto-removed Name removed Jul 2024 #32
A basic knowledge of history gives one the knowledge Kaleva Jul 2024 #70
This is why talking about it is helpful. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #91
That isn't what is happening here. edisdead Jul 2024 #104
Yes of course I see the same thing. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #106
Oh Please edhopper Jul 2024 #36
It will be your fault if you aren't prepared for a fascist takeover Kaleva Jul 2024 #71
Did you even read edhopper Jul 2024 #87
Did you? Kaleva Jul 2024 #96
We don't yet know what is going on in DC. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #42
Hope for the best and prepare for the worst Kaleva Jul 2024 #73
This has always been my motto. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #92
Yes Kaleva Jul 2024 #97
This is exactly the mindset we need right now. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #98
Agree. DU got us through other ugly times. MOMFUDSKI Jul 2024 #17
I today had to tell a couple of close moonscape Jul 2024 #19
Many of us have been going through a grieving process. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #50
Hear LeftLife Jul 2024 #26
I don't think trump is going to win this election DEM1955 Jul 2024 #27
We don't know what will happen. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #56
Message auto-removed Name removed Jul 2024 #28
Thank You! Think. Again. Jul 2024 #34
No one is telling you not to express that edhopper Jul 2024 #37
I'm not going to call any DUer out, but I read a post in the last 48hrs Model35mech Jul 2024 #41
Amazing. Irish_Dem Jul 2024 #94
The OP specifically does tell the people who express... Think. Again. Jul 2024 #44
I said please don't respond edhopper Jul 2024 #49
Just to clarify... Think. Again. Jul 2024 #52
My OP was about response to peoples serious cocerns and fears. edhopper Jul 2024 #54
Oh, okay... Think. Again. Jul 2024 #66
Fully agree Dorian Gray Jul 2024 #38
People are so scared. I know I am New Breed Leader Jul 2024 #40
The germans under Hitler thought that. edhopper Jul 2024 #47
I think excessive navel contemplation over a dog and pony show is what makes TFg even more dangerous. I ... marble falls Jul 2024 #46
☝☝☝☝☝☝☝☝ 58Sunliner Jul 2024 #86
Don't let the bastards wear you down. usonian Jul 2024 #48
Thanks for edhopper Jul 2024 #51
Never has it been more appropriate to vote Democratic. SleeplessinSoCal Jul 2024 #57
I agree with you. llmart Jul 2024 #58
Thank you for saying this. I'm pretty tired of the Pollyannas Scrivener7 Jul 2024 #60
K&R Solly Mack Jul 2024 #63
Can I talk about how fucking pissed off I am? rzemanfl Jul 2024 #65
We all know Joe and his team are fit to serve SpankMe Jul 2024 #69
I feel anxiety dread and fear are contagious so I try not to share those feelings. Xipe Totec Jul 2024 #72
Biden's performance did not cost him one vote from his base Pototan Jul 2024 #75
Now we know what Americans felt like before the election of 1860. roamer65 Jul 2024 #76
You aren't alone. orangecrush Jul 2024 #78
I agree completely Stinky The Clown Jul 2024 #79
Maybe it should be in a mental health forum. 58Sunliner Jul 2024 #80
Post your concerns. It helps me to know I'm not the only one Ohioboy Jul 2024 #81
I agree we should be able to discuss this without rancor, name calling or bashing those that disagree. surfered Jul 2024 #82
I am angry about each and every delay vapor2 Jul 2024 #88
I think there is a difference Texasgal Jul 2024 #90
I agree. I always thought of DU as a discussion board where dems are allowed to discuss mucifer Jul 2024 #99
The situation may seem "dire"... appmanga Jul 2024 #101
Refreshing post Stuckinthebush Jul 2024 #103
1000%. I don't like being controlled and being told how to act. kerry-is-my-prez Jul 2024 #105
 

Silent Type

(12,412 posts)
1. Credit to Admin for recognizing this. It might change any minute, but appears they recognize situation.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:06 PM
Jul 2024

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
13. I see people all over the map. Which is understandable.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:28 PM
Jul 2024

We have had a big shock and much is at stake.

AllyCat

(18,842 posts)
3. We should be able to talk about it. You're right.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:11 PM
Jul 2024

What I’m tired of hearing and seeing is all the talk that one candidate should drop out because of a bad debate performance. The other candidate literally outed today as a child sex offender. And DUers posting about our guy quitting. Felon45 should drop out. There should be calls for him to drop out here and from the M$M.

I’m uninterested in articles and opinion pieces from DC press asking for Biden to drop out.

In fact, I would say it is against DU rules.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
5. OP wants to talk about feelings. Not told how to think or feel.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:20 PM
Jul 2024

OP is saying what they want and need.

If it is tiring to hear feelings/thoughts, then might not be a good idea to read these kind of posts.

AllyCat

(18,842 posts)
8. I'm not telling OP what to think or feel.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:23 PM
Jul 2024

Guess I got my back up because I’ve been roundly criticized by DUers for supporting our POTUS.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
18. Getting our backs up is part of the problem.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:37 PM
Jul 2024

We are at war, trying to preserve our democracy.

We have had some big shocks and are reeling.

The focus has to be on defeating Trump.

It is not personal, it is a neutral decision making process.
It is not about any one person.

I have not seen people getting slammed for supporting POTUS.

I have seen people called vile names for exploring their feelings
and thoughts right now. Wondering what the heck is going on,
what options do we have, brainstorming. All appropriate in a
crisis situation.

Personally I think Biden is our best bet right now.
However, I saw the debate and I can see something is going on
behind the scenes right now.

So there is some doubt about what is going to happen.

I am OK with whatever happens, I just want to preserve our democracy.
I have no agenda about how we do that.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
31. Tearing each other apart is not a solution.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:02 PM
Jul 2024

And counterproductive.

Sorry to hear you and others are being attacked.
I have seen it too.
And been a target as well.

Unless we get our act together we could lose a lot.

ecstatic

(35,075 posts)
30. Your positivity and loyalty is very important
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:01 PM
Jul 2024

I know it's probably extremely draining to see negative posts but if you can maintain your positivity then it will change minds and calm some people down and also help the other optimists to keep their spirits up.

I'm trying to be mindful of not being too negative but some issues I really have to voice here because I don't know a single person IRL who is into politics as much as I am.

AllyCat

(18,842 posts)
95. Thank you. It's more than loyalty.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 10:35 PM
Jul 2024

It’s practicality also. How do we get a new candidate when so many states have already voted? We know who is out there, but the average person doesn’t know Newsom, from Whitmer, to Buttigieg. They just don’t. Where do we get the MONEY for a new candidate? Biden has an impressive list of accomplishments. How to we run without that? If we pick someone OTHER THAN Harris, how do we explain to millions of POC “hey, we just didn’t think she could do it”.

I’m for Joe and Kamala.

senseandsensibility

(24,973 posts)
22. Right there with ya
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:50 PM
Jul 2024

Every thread is not for everyone. I know what "triggers" me and I just don't click on it. Problem solved. Just jumping into a thread to criticize or nitpick is a strange hobby that some seem to have.

slightlv

(7,790 posts)
74. While we may not all by doctors or psychologists on here,
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 08:37 PM
Jul 2024

we ARE friends to each other, if only by digital "like minds," for the most part. One of the things that made this forum my only long-time place to read and post is the way we support each other. That includes, to me, those of us who are deeply feeling the pain and worry this election season brings. We've lived through what?... three "must vote" elections, where our democracy could be in danger. That is wearing on anyone, and I tend to worry about the "boy who cried wolf" syndrome in the greater public. But to me, there is no doubt this is the do or die election for our country... and for many of us. There are a majority of us here (I think) who are older, dependent upon Social Security and Medicare to live, as well as young ones who might be dependent on SNAP and other earned (or unearned) benefits. For some of us, winning this election could be the difference between continued life and death, democracy or not. We're all over the map as far as income is concerned. I believe the majority of us here on DU are of the empathetic, sensitive people who are most easily harmed by the cruelty we see in the alternative administration and the people of the U.S. in general.

For better or worse, DU is a place where we feel safe in coming to vent, to worry, as well as to push for better outcomes. It's a time of transition and change is never easy. As one who worries a lot... and in that lower range of incomes... maybe I don't have a righteous opinion to voice. But I would hate to see the overall vibe of DU change from one of help and caring to one of pushing one agenda or opinion only. I think we care too deeply for that here.

edhopper

(37,370 posts)
35. And yet
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:08 PM
Jul 2024

even the huffpost buries the story and has calls for Biden to drop out as the Banner headline.

scipan

(3,041 posts)
100. Click bait.
Wed Jul 3, 2024, 04:22 PM
Jul 2024

That is where we have some power. If we posted more about other subjects, like the immunity decision and/or the released Epstein call logs with TCF all over it, it might have some influence on what the news orgs write or make prominent.

A little influence.

StarryNite

(12,116 posts)
45. I agree with you.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:22 PM
Jul 2024

I get that people want to talk about it but post after post after post about the exact same thing is getting old. This has been going on since last Thursday. Unless something changes President Biden is our candidate and I am proud to support him!

DontBelieveEastisEas

(1,211 posts)
68. Some can not fully talk about the debate performance
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 08:18 PM
Jul 2024

If we want to criticize the performance in an area that Biden has no hope of improving, it would not be constructive.

Doesn't

We should be able to talk about it

and
it is against DU rule

seem at odds?

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
4. I agree.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:13 PM
Jul 2024

Some people are uncomfortable and threatened by the fear and anxiety being discussed.

delisen

(7,366 posts)
6. I agree. sharing emotions and facts is key to our success
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:22 PM
Jul 2024

and we will succeed . It is going to be a tough course.

We have millions of people of good will and we are not going to scatter. We will be coming together with a common purpose, feeling the energy and we will even have some fun..

10. agreed. and I agree that reality and principle-based behavior are on our side and definitely also keys to our success.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:25 PM
Jul 2024

dobleremolque

(1,121 posts)
9. Catharsis. It's a good thing.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:23 PM
Jul 2024
"Catharsis is from the Ancient Greek word [NB: Greek letters but they don't display here,] katharsis, meaning "purification" or "cleansing", commonly used to refer to the purification and purgation of thoughts and emotions by way of expressing them. The desired result is an emotional state of renewal and restoration." Wikipedia

There's a balance somewhere between Debbie Downer and Pollyanna. I hope that DU can serve as an arena to help folks find the "renewal and restoration" to carry on.

edhopper

(37,370 posts)
11. Unfortunately
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:25 PM
Jul 2024

some see any post with bad news as "Debbie Downer" .

We must deal with how we see things. Grim or not.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
29. Facing reality is hard and painful at times.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:59 PM
Jul 2024

Some people are not ready or able to do it.
Some need more time.
Others need to process it right away.
Some are all over the map.

This is not right or wrong, it is just differences in processing styles.

But calling each other vile names just is not the way to handle things.

So Ed what are your feelings? This is what your OP is about.

edhopper

(37,370 posts)
33. I am deely distressed about the election
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:04 PM
Jul 2024

And See Trump more likely than not as the winner. I do not know how bad it will get or how we will live in a fascist State.
I think most Americans will go along with whatever he does. And I see him wrecking the country. There will be no check to his power.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
39. Yes I have talked with a number of people who have the same thoughts and feelings.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:17 PM
Jul 2024

It is a very scary time.

But we have to face reality and not kid ourselves.

Nothing is certain. This could all go south and fast.

We are still reeling from last week, debate night, very much rattled many of us.
Then the SC rulings, so the hits keep happening.

Yes it is fairly predictable what Trump will do if he is installed back into the WH.
He is a ruthless and dangerous sociopath.
And backed by Putin who is even more dangerous and ruthless.

Yes some of it is unknown, we don't know how bad it will get.
Who will be targeted, how it will unfold.

My thoughts:

The iconic human condition is the fight between good and evil.
We know that from history.

And we are not immune from that fight.
We ride the tide of history like those before us.

I do think humans are hard wired for freedom and will alway fight to be free.

People are also experiential learners and have to learn things the hard way.
So we may be seeing a steep learning curve.

It may have to get worse before it gets better.
But history also tells us humans make progress each century.
Slowly but surely, even with major setbacks.
I think eventually freedom will always prevail.

edhopper

(37,370 posts)
43. I think about GWB
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:21 PM
Jul 2024

it was worse than most thought it would be. A terrorist attack, an immoral and illegal war, a financial meltdown, a city drowned. All because he was President, while we went backwards on Climate Change, Civil Rights...
And Trump will be so much worse.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
53. Yes it was so shocking, all the Bush horrors.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:37 PM
Jul 2024

He did so much damage to this country, it is hard to quantify it.
And people just let it happen. No consequences.

And here we are again.

This is what I mean, the fight between good and evil is the iconic human condition.
We got a break after WWII, the greatest generation came home from the war and just
wanted peace in the valley which we had.

It was break from the fight and we thought it would last forever.

But the fight for power and wealth is really ongoing and never stops.
Not at all.

Every generation has to fight in some way.
The younger generation will learn some hard lessons.
We cannot stop that.

edhopper

(37,370 posts)
55. As a soon to be 70 year old retiree
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:38 PM
Jul 2024

I have to say "I am getting too old for this shit."

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
59. Yes I know.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:44 PM
Jul 2024

That is why the younger generation is going to have to fight the good fight.
This is a tough planet, nothing is ever handed to us.

The GOP has knocked the stuffing out of us during our lifetimes and we
are exhausted. All the rights we fought so hard for are being taken away.

I have a knack for pattern analysis and connecting dots.
So I have seen this coming for some time.

So I worked through my grieving process to a large extent.

So I have a degree of detachment as I view events.
Though I admit it is tough, the shocking debate, Trump, the SC ruling.
Tough material to deal with.

edhopper

(37,370 posts)
61. Part of me wants to turn it all off
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:51 PM
Jul 2024

and lice peacefully through my retirement.
But I know Trump will screw all that up.
My Savings, my SoSec could be gone.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
64. Some of this we will not be able to control.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 08:00 PM
Jul 2024

We will have to go with the flow.
Roof over our head, food on the table might be the goal.

But hopefully it will take some time for the GOP to dismantle all of it.
We might be OK, we are at the end of our lives.

Right maybe we will need to take breaks from politics.
Watch Netflix and play pickleball like normal people.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
12. Some people don't understand that talking through a problem
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:28 PM
Jul 2024

is the best way to resolve it.

To share the thoughts and feelings about a crisis or difficult situation is the
best way to move forward.

We are facing a very dire possible future and we have to talk about it.

We are also in a major political crisis right now and we should be
dealing with it constructively. That means brainstorming and being adaptable.
Getting many thoughts and opinions. Not shutting it all down.

Kaleva

(40,365 posts)
67. People will most likely do what they do in normal times
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 08:10 PM
Jul 2024

Vote, volunteer and donate.

Much like when Romney and McCain were the R nominees.

Kaleva

(40,365 posts)
14. Talk accomplishes little. Actual preparation is needed
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:29 PM
Jul 2024

If one isn't actually making preparations, then maybe the perceived threat isn't that bad.

The greater the threat, the greater and more vigorous is the response.

An approaching forest fire generates a greater response then a hot, humid day does.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
20. How do you think preparation is accomplished?
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:47 PM
Jul 2024

It does not happen by magic.

People have to identify the problem, identify options, then come up with an action plan.
This involves talking.

Without thought and planning people are just spinning their wheels.

And we are handcuffed right now.

We know something is happening behind the scenes, we are not sure what.

Response to Irish_Dem (Reply #20)

Kaleva

(40,365 posts)
70. A basic knowledge of history gives one the knowledge
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 08:25 PM
Jul 2024

If one thinks that Trump and the Magahats are Nazis, then read how people successfully or unsuccessfully resisted them. Learn from their triumphs and mistakes.

Jews that survived Hitler had fled when there was still time to do so. Those who stayed died by the millions

The life of the resistance fighter was extremely tough. Death on the battlefield. Capture was often followed by torture and execution. Families of Resistance fighters were sometimes arrested. Whole villages were killed in retaliation.

Waiting until 4 months before the election to begin talking about what to do is probably not enough time.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
91. This is why talking about it is helpful.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 10:02 PM
Jul 2024

The historical context.

I agree the timing is terrible.
But this is real life and like a war.

Timing is often not optimal.
It is what it is.

On the battle field you have to be flexible, think outside the box and adapt.

We may have to work with what we have, not what we want.


edisdead

(3,396 posts)
104. That isn't what is happening here.
Wed Jul 3, 2024, 05:06 PM
Jul 2024

I know trolls when I see them. And I know many have been here for a while. And I also know some of them have people completely snowed.

And no I am not accusing you of being one.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
106. Yes of course I see the same thing.
Wed Jul 3, 2024, 05:16 PM
Jul 2024

The trolls are obvious because they are so poorly trained and doing a terrible job.
I saw one the other day insist that Eugene Robinson (a Pulitzer Prize winning author) was
a total unknown and using a fake name! And that New Hampshire is a red state.

Yes it is disappointing to see some buy it hook, line and sinker.

Calling me a troll would be laughable. There is no amount of money on the planet
that would make me sell out my party or country. Freedom is the most valuable
thing on our planet. We are hard wired for freedom and will aways fight for it.

That said, I do think there are people here who are legitimately afraid, worried
shocked. And trying to express it and get support. I hate seeing them be called
vile names. It is ridiculous and counterproductive.

edhopper

(37,370 posts)
36. Oh Please
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:11 PM
Jul 2024

Now you are blame shaming us for Biden maybe losing.
Sorry, I could donate every cent I have and volunteer 7 days a week for the campaign and he can still lose.
And it won't be my fault.
Did Hillary lose because I didn't try hard enough?

Kaleva

(40,365 posts)
71. It will be your fault if you aren't prepared for a fascist takeover
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 08:29 PM
Jul 2024

Assuming you believe Trump and his minions are fascists.

If you don't believe they are fascists, then there's no reason to prepare. You can continue to go about your daily life as you normally do.

Kaleva

(40,365 posts)
96. Did you?
Wed Jul 3, 2024, 12:30 AM
Jul 2024

Your comment:

"This is one group of like minded people who understand the possible firestorm of fascism that some of us see coming is a very real threat."

Those who think the threat is actually real are already prepared for it. Those who don't think that have done nothing.

With just 4 months till the election, there isn't enough time to prepare if one hasn't already done so. Thus there isn't much to talk about. All one can do then is to sit back and hope for the best.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
42. We don't yet know what is going on in DC.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:21 PM
Jul 2024

Biden is said to be in talks making decisions.

We are in the dark.

We don't know what to prepare for.

Kaleva

(40,365 posts)
97. Yes
Wed Jul 3, 2024, 12:32 AM
Jul 2024

Enjoy what life has to offer but have a plan for when things may go south and be flexible as the situation can change

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
98. This is exactly the mindset we need right now.
Wed Jul 3, 2024, 07:00 AM
Jul 2024

This is what I am advocating for.

Russia, China, Trump and the GOP are at war with America, and conditions can change rapidly
and be quite fluid. We need to adapt, and quickly.

 

MOMFUDSKI

(7,080 posts)
17. Agree. DU got us through other ugly times.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:34 PM
Jul 2024

This is our safe place to unload. Less sliding across the dinner table to punch the other guy. Chill. Thank you.

moonscape

(5,722 posts)
19. I today had to tell a couple of close
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:39 PM
Jul 2024

friends, liberal democrats, that I had to go dark for a while. Why?

My emotional state is not good. I am experiencing intense grief over the death of our country as I knew it and believed it to be. If not dead, it’s in hospice. This isn’t a point for argument, it’s how I =feel= and I’m inconsolable.

I’ll figure it out, how to survive. But right now my grief is intense.

Will be calling a younger close Lebanese friend who has talked to me about survival in the midst of intense corruption (“they would sell the air if they could”) but that’s all he knew. We Americans have a different frame of reference.

Still, he was very politically well-informed, still is, but he did leave and become a Canadian citizen last year. In Lebanon he managed to remain plugged in yet shield himself emotionally from things over which he had no control. I’m natively a more emotional person so that has me at a disadvantage, but am calling him shortly for yet another lecture on how best to survive..

Feeling bereft but not wanting to bring down friends who are in a more walled-off space or more effective at dealing with what yesterday meant. But, it’s important not to isolate and let it all stew without outlet.

Long way of saying: I appreciate this post.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
50. Many of us have been going through a grieving process.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:27 PM
Jul 2024

The loss of our country as we knew it.
The loss of our democracy and freedom.

The possibility of having a ruthless sociopath in charge.

But that said, I think we are hard wired for freedom and will fight for it at some point.
But first there may be a huge learning curve, things may have to get worse before they get better.

And have faith the human race will continue to make tiny steps forward.

DEM1955

(96 posts)
27. I don't think trump is going to win this election
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 06:56 PM
Jul 2024

things may look rough right now but it will turn around. No sane person will vote for that "thing". November will prove we outnumber them! The right wingers will be dumbfounded when he loses, saying " I thought trump had this" " The polls said he was ahead".

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
56. We don't know what will happen.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:39 PM
Jul 2024

Yes in an honest election Biden would win.

But Trump/GOP/Putin are desperate and will stop at nothing to get what they want.

So Trump could be installed again by any means possible.

Response to edhopper (Original post)

 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
34. Thank You!
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:05 PM
Jul 2024

I appreciate your support for those of us who feel the need to express our fears that "...the polls are bullshit, the media is bullshit..."

It does help to able to speak freely knowing that we won't be chastised for our opinions.

Oh, wait...

edhopper

(37,370 posts)
37. No one is telling you not to express that
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:14 PM
Jul 2024

so please don't belittle us who think the polls and what the media is doing is significant.

 

Model35mech

(2,047 posts)
41. I'm not going to call any DUer out, but I read a post in the last 48hrs
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:20 PM
Jul 2024

which made it clear that DUers should keep their fears to themselves.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
94. Amazing.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 10:14 PM
Jul 2024

This is not the way to resolve upset and anxiety.

Yes you cannot keep beating a dead horse, at some point you have to move on.
But you cannot do that overnight. It takes a bit of time.

 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
44. The OP specifically does tell the people who express...
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:22 PM
Jul 2024

...that they think the polls and media are bullshit to not express that.

(Calling out hypocrisy is a fetish of mine.)

edhopper

(37,370 posts)
49. I said please don't respond
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:26 PM
Jul 2024

to someone who post a serious concern about the polls that it is all bullshit and they are being stupid to listen to any polls.

Do you think saying "All polls are meaningless" is in any way constructive?

 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
52. Just to clarify...
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:35 PM
Jul 2024

Which one is it?

Responding to someone who posts a serious concern about the polls that it is all bullshit and they are being stupid to listen to any polls.

Or

Saying "All polls are meaningless" is not in any way constructive.

Because those are two very different scenarios.


edhopper

(37,370 posts)
54. My OP was about response to peoples serious cocerns and fears.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:37 PM
Jul 2024

The second was just a question to you.

 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
66. Oh, okay...
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 08:08 PM
Jul 2024

Warning others that polls are used primarily to increase viewership of for-profit media companies, and are therefore tools to be manipulated to that end, or, in worst-case scenarios, used to influence public perception through false or misleading statistics (otherwise known as misinformation) can help to reduce poor decision-making by those who fall victim to them.

New Breed Leader

(928 posts)
40. People are so scared. I know I am
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:18 PM
Jul 2024

the thought of Trump being back in the WH and Project 2025 terrifies me beyond rational thought. I need to talk about it

I bring it up with my therapist but she's all hippy-dippy about it and only says stuff like "we'll be ok no matter what happens"

um...NO WE WON'T. STOP IT.

the fear in addition to the frustration that those outside our circle don't see the urgency is so stressful

I just don't know what I'm going to do.

edhopper

(37,370 posts)
47. The germans under Hitler thought that.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:23 PM
Jul 2024

The Russians under Stalin too.
No we won't be all right.

marble falls

(71,926 posts)
46. I think excessive navel contemplation over a dog and pony show is what makes TFg even more dangerous. I ...
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:22 PM
Jul 2024

... think he has no trouble digesting his dinner after he reads some of expressions of self flagellation out there. You notice he isn't encouraging Joe to stay in, right? We're doing his dirty work for him: beating up our own candidate, our own President.

usonian

(25,324 posts)
48. Don't let the bastards wear you down.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:25 PM
Jul 2024

Things are never as bad as we imagine them. It's human nature.

Do not speculate unless you are making firm plans. There is a psychological war going on. Resist it.

I went through boot camp. A physics grad. Hated every minute and feared for weeks. NCO's screaming at me constantly. I Imanaged

See the first half of "Full Metal Jacket"

I replace intrusive thoughts with chanting, and fight for Joe and Kamala and all Dems here.

For once, it's not you. They really are after you. If you watched "The Prisoner" series, you'll understand undefeatable human courage in the face of 24 by 7 psychological war.

We normally flee fires, but firefighters put fear aside in order to save lives and march into hell.

Old timers here have seen it all. We'll fight like Diane Feinstein did, and Ruth Bader Ginsburg did with their last breaths.

I grew up with the Red Sox and liked Jimmy Piersall. He struggled to play, and a movie called "Fear Strikes Out" was made with his story.

Keep your eyes on the prize. When they break your will to take action, they have won. Fascist playbook.

Do take action.

Follow user Wednesday's posts (latest one here)
https://democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=19084444

or just drop by democrats.org to find powerful ways to take action.
https://democrats.org
Specific actions:
https://democrats.org/take-action/

Democrats.org has tons of ways to help, and even online courses in how to make an impact.

---

I am not putting down your feelings. I know PTSD.
And I know how to recover, even when people close to me didn't even see it.

There are friends here.

Joe is fighting for me, and I'm fighting for Joe.

To flaming hell with the trolls.



llmart

(17,617 posts)
58. I agree with you.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:41 PM
Jul 2024

When I woke up this morning, I felt exactly how I did the day after the 2016 election. Numb, depressed, worried about what he would do to the country. It was very much warranted back then. We can't even remember all the crap that he did there was so much of it. The incessant lies, the awful inauguration, the immediate unravelling of everything we've felt sacred. The pardons of his criminal buddies. The gutting of the National Park system.....I could go on and on and of course the killing of people because he did nothing about Covid.

We have every right to be worried and afraid. If people think our country's mental health is abysmal now, just wait if he gets in again.

Scrivener7

(59,522 posts)
60. Thank you for saying this. I'm pretty tired of the Pollyannas
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 07:45 PM
Jul 2024

who greet every unprecedented disaster by blowing sunshine up our butts.

This is not ok. No miracles are being engineered behind the scenes. It would be idiotic not to be worried and many of us see nothing wrong with expressing that.

rzemanfl

(31,376 posts)
65. Can I talk about how fucking pissed off I am?
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 08:03 PM
Jul 2024

This is ridiculous, how can that miserable, lying, children and women molesting, thieving, ignorant, racist, misogynist, disgusting fascist piece of shit even be in the running? I hate TSF and Republicans with every fiber of my being.

I am depressed too, but anger is my primary emotion. That Corrupt Motherfucker has been screwing up my life since 2017.

SpankMe

(3,720 posts)
69. We all know Joe and his team are fit to serve
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 08:20 PM
Jul 2024

But there are times to be loyal to the man, and times to consider the party and the agenda. These can be in conflict sometimes.

It should be fair to at least DISCUSS long term strategy (getting younger Dems in the pipeline). But anyone who dares discuss this gets their posts flagged as bashing Democratic figures.

Make no mistake, DU members and posters aren't exactly models of free speech. I've supported Democrats and the Democratic platform and agenda over certain individual Democrats and have had posts hidden by jury. Some of us on DU can be quite prickly.

But, I agree with the OP. The events of late are extraordinary and we are in an existential crisis. We must be allowed to express our fears and propose solutions that are a bit outside the box - without being censored.

We are Americans, progressives and Democrats. No one here waivers on the progressive agenda, even if we express a preference for one Democrat over another or suggest that one Democrat defer to another.

Xipe Totec

(44,558 posts)
72. I feel anxiety dread and fear are contagious so I try not to share those feelings.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 08:31 PM
Jul 2024

Call me a Pollyanna.

Pototan

(3,132 posts)
75. Biden's performance did not cost him one vote from his base
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 08:38 PM
Jul 2024

Last edited Wed Jul 3, 2024, 03:53 AM - Edit history (1)

Most of us like President Biden, but we fear and hate Donald Trump more. I printed Biden President bumper stickers before he even declared. I felt then that the only Democrat who could beat Trump was Biden. My wife and I donated nearly $1,000 to his campaign during both the Primary and the Genral Election. I've met President Biden and have a cherished photograph of us together. I have sent that photograph to some of the posters here.

Having said that, the Debate performance makes it very, very difficult to win over any wavering or uncommitted voters. It's just what I've encountered.

I'm very worried.

roamer65

(37,953 posts)
76. Now we know what Americans felt like before the election of 1860.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 08:40 PM
Jul 2024

It was pretty obvious where things were heading.

Stinky The Clown

(68,952 posts)
79. I agree completely
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 08:45 PM
Jul 2024

Speaking for myself, I want Joe to stay in the race and step down and give Harris incumbency and call for Whitmer to get Newsom into the race while Biden uses his new immunity.

And that was all in the past 3 seconds.

58Sunliner

(6,330 posts)
80. Maybe it should be in a mental health forum.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 08:46 PM
Jul 2024

Last edited Tue Jul 2, 2024, 09:31 PM - Edit history (1)

Most people have some concerns right now. Nothing is concrete. I just don't think it advances our cause or supports the site to post my personal fears when what we are here for is to support our party. I assume we all have some measure of anxiety right now. The last thing I want is to discourage others with my anxiety. No offense and nothing personal. I don't see you owning your feelings and fears, you state them as facts. As for your framing of "toxic positivism" I have to disagree and question your framing. The media is bullshit, the polls don't vote, and not every self-identified dem is supporting the dem party. You saying a second term of Trump is very probable is IMO, toxic pessimism. This isn't the forum for that. By the rules you should delete your post. You are discouraging dems.

Ohioboy

(3,893 posts)
81. Post your concerns. It helps me to know I'm not the only one
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 08:47 PM
Jul 2024

I'm glad there are people concerned. We all should be. I'm surprised at the people who aren't.

With Trump, we've been there before. We've seen what he can do. We remember how he was helped in 2016 by disinformation, and a last minute investigation of Hillary Clinton. We remember his connections to Russia through crooks like Paul Manafort, the Flynn phone call, the Trump tower meeting, all the stuff contained in the Mueller report that got misrepresented.

We watched him get a pass on two impeachments!
Most recently, we see how the Supreme Court enabling him to delay any consequences for trying to overturn an election.

And now the election is our only hope.

surfered

(13,465 posts)
82. I agree we should be able to discuss this without rancor, name calling or bashing those that disagree.
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 08:52 PM
Jul 2024

I believe Biden should keep doing short press briefings, like he did after the Supreme Court decision on immunity. He appeared sure of himself and the subject matter.

I also believe there are more landmines without him than with him. The election is 4 months away, let’s give him a chance.

vapor2

(4,509 posts)
88. I am angry about each and every delay
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 09:33 PM
Jul 2024

and angry about how Aileen Cannon has not been removed even after over 1000 complaints. I have lost much hope after the SCOTUS ruling but we can't let fascism prevail. I also fail to understand why republicans hated to be told to wear masks during covid but yet not afraid of a dictator who will tell us all what to do and when to do it. Wish there was more reassurance here.

Texasgal

(17,240 posts)
90. I think there is a difference
Tue Jul 2, 2024, 09:57 PM
Jul 2024

between talking about the issue as opposed to advocating for it.

Bottom line is, Biden will be the one that decides whether or not he drops. In my mind, he understands the absolute brevity of this election and is hanging on, as he should!

We need to back our nominee. We need to work to GOTV. We still have a lot of work to do.

Can we have fear? Sure! I see no problem with that. Let's just not mixed up in advocating for something that will not happen right now. We need to rally!

mucifer

(25,667 posts)
99. I agree. I always thought of DU as a discussion board where dems are allowed to discuss
Wed Jul 3, 2024, 07:16 AM
Jul 2024

But, now I feel like I have to be careful about what I post because I am not at all optimistic anymore. I really appreciate this thread.

Also, I saw with my own eyes President Biden at the debate. I can't discuss my thoughts and opinions about the reality of what is going on.

But, I love DU and will continue to edit myself here. I just wish I didn't have to.

appmanga

(1,493 posts)
101. The situation may seem "dire"...
Wed Jul 3, 2024, 04:52 PM
Jul 2024

...but you beat anxiety, fear, and dread with action. WE ARE THE CALVARY. Kamala Harris isn't the savior, neither is Gavin Newsome or Gretchen Whitmer. There's no guarantee any of them will win anymore than there is Biden will, but the only piece of courage we need is to stand by our presumptive nominee and explain to people why they should as well. If saving democracy isn't enough for them, they can look forward to the bread and circuses Trump will bring.

I've said before I'm not going to tell anyone not to be afraid, but I know acting now in the way we must will be easier than doing it under an authoritarian. In my mind, there's a real possibility I will be one of those who will die in the street fighting against what Trump will bring. My best chance for continuing to live is to do all I can to stop him from becoming president again. And I believe we can do that if we can stop with the "what-ifs" and get to work.

Stuckinthebush

(11,203 posts)
103. Refreshing post
Wed Jul 3, 2024, 05:03 PM
Jul 2024

I'm surprised it hasn't gotten more push back. I just don't want to discuss on DU anymore because of the attacks if you say anything that doesn't toe the line that there is nothing wrong here.

kerry-is-my-prez

(10,283 posts)
105. 1000%. I don't like being controlled and being told how to act.
Wed Jul 3, 2024, 05:07 PM
Jul 2024

That is what Republicans do. As long as people are not beating up any Dems. I’m not going to blindly cheer on any candidate until I know who has the best chance of winning. If that’s Biden, then go Biden. I will vote for anyone that runs against Trump in the end.

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