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NowISeetheLight

(4,002 posts)
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 03:12 PM Jul 2024

Today in a Red Bar

I live near Palm Springs. Being gay, retiring here was an easy choice (compared to the Deep South where I was).

So today I stopped by my local bar for a couple drinks and a fish n'chips. I will say right off the bat this is a Red bar, so I never talk politics. Well, I walked in and on the TV was "Biden backs out of race". The first I'd heard of it.

What I heard was "We are fucxxd" from the Republican crowd. There was a guy in an Elephant T-Shirt there and he was pissed. "Now Kamala is running, there goes the blacks! ." Another guy was ranting about who the VP pick would be. He was bitching it would probably be the Democrat Governor of Pennsylvania "Josh sonething". "They'll take the state then, we need that state."

I heard people in panicked distress. I sat there, nodded a lot, and I was laughing inside. It was a good lunch.


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Today in a Red Bar (Original Post) NowISeetheLight Jul 2024 OP
Lunch with a floor show! NameAlreadyTaken Jul 2024 #1
No kidding! calimary Jul 2024 #82
Interesting observations. dchill Jul 2024 #2
Thanks for the in person reporting. GreenWave Jul 2024 #3
You had a very good lunch indeed! chia Jul 2024 #4
May your silent observations ring true Traurigkeit Jul 2024 #5
The gqp's expect Harris/Shapiro. Love it! lindysalsagal Jul 2024 #6
I prefer to win PA WITH Fetterman Captain Zero Jul 2024 #9
I thought his popularity was fading in PA Lulu KC Jul 2024 #25
No, a governor is better. ananda Jul 2024 #28
Oh god no, not Fetterman! Sky Jewels Jul 2024 #47
Why? Haven't kept up with him but he ran a decent campaign ... tia uponit7771 Jul 2024 #66
the fear of Josh Shapiro as the VP, is my subsitute for maga tears until nov Nimble_Idea Jul 2024 #7
That's because the MAGAts believed the MSM. StarryNite Jul 2024 #8
Well, it still IS an age issue. . . DinahMoeHum Jul 2024 #10
Now it's our turn. StarryNite Jul 2024 #14
Or as I've been pointing out to anyone who's still willing to mention President Biden's cognitive ability to me EverHopeful Jul 2024 #19
Well, the comments I've heard Farmer-Rick Jul 2024 #74
TN was never in play. Too few people ever actually vote for the Democrats. yardwork Jul 2024 #77
Well that's good Farmer-Rick Jul 2024 #80
I'm in NC and grateful for your help! yardwork Jul 2024 #81
TV Commercials NowISeetheLight Jul 2024 #84
Shapiro would be great at the top PennRalphie Jul 2024 #11
We would be handing PA to an R gov in 2026 Deminpenn Jul 2024 #20
Not necesarily Joe Cool Jul 2024 #42
There's lots of ambitious Rs in the legislature Deminpenn Jul 2024 #44
Who? Joe Cool Jul 2024 #50
He's the rep in southern Beaver Deminpenn Jul 2024 #55
Our Lt. Gov is a Democrat PennRalphie Jul 2024 #45
He'd have an advantage of incumbency Deminpenn Jul 2024 #48
What is more important quakerboy Jul 2024 #62
We've been under Republican goverance Deminpenn Jul 2024 #67
agree debm55 Jul 2024 #73
I'm now all in on Kamala for President. MLAA Jul 2024 #27
Uh, no. Kamala is the top of the ticket. No white guys for President. Sorry flying_wahini Jul 2024 #59
No. Kamala on top for many reasons onetexan Jul 2024 #61
Begging your pardon but we already have a Top of the Ticket. calimary Jul 2024 #83
That is good news and BittyJenkins Jul 2024 #12
Nice! NowISeetheLight Jul 2024 #85
Your experience DownriverDem Jul 2024 #13
Republicans did not want this Sympthsical Jul 2024 #15
Good to know. Thanks for sharing. KPN Jul 2024 #16
Wow. djacq Jul 2024 #17
well, for once I like their point of view. somaticexperiencing Jul 2024 #18
Am familiar with the area Attilatheblond Jul 2024 #21
I recall the scene in APOCOLYPSE NOW about the smell of napalm in the morning. ProudMNDemocrat Jul 2024 #22
Love it! Lulu KC Jul 2024 #23
Lovely DontBelieveEastisEas Jul 2024 #24
Fish, chips and maga tears make a fine combo! MLAA Jul 2024 #26
interisting pov. thanks . listen to kgay now and then . AllaN01Bear Jul 2024 #29
It's funny how she's just as much Indian as black Dem4life1234 Jul 2024 #30
"there goes the blacks! ."... It's mind boggling, that this death cult of a party hasn't Carlitos Brigante Jul 2024 #31
They were hoping to peel off just enough Black male voters to Trump. yardwork Jul 2024 #78
Good to hear. Bet is was enjoyable. Silent Type Jul 2024 #32
I live part-time in beautiful Palm Springs OMGWTF Jul 2024 #33
No Signs NowISeetheLight Jul 2024 #86
This makes me feel better. MiKenMi33 Jul 2024 #34
Lol.. your Red Bar story Cheered me UP! Cha Jul 2024 #35
No wonder Shady Dunce didn't want to debate her! peppertree Jul 2024 #36
NowISeetheLight ............ Upthevibe Jul 2024 #37
That' hilarious! Warpy Jul 2024 #38
I am rooting for Pete Buttigieg for VP.... FarPoint Jul 2024 #39
Buttigieg Is the Man FrankTC Jul 2024 #54
He's my choice too. I hope he's under consideration. livetohike Jul 2024 #65
Heads Explode NowISeetheLight Jul 2024 #87
Awesome. SunSeeker Jul 2024 #40
She picks Josh Shapiro of PA, it's over. Joe Cool Jul 2024 #41
Josh was the AG in PA when Trump wanted the PA votes recounted, Josh refused debm55 Jul 2024 #75
I am in a Utah airport, and was surprised to hear pto Dem comments Liberty Belle Jul 2024 #43
Thanks for that, NowISeetheLight peggysue2 Jul 2024 #46
I love this post! Gaytano70 Jul 2024 #49
Welcome to DU, Gaytano! summer_in_TX Jul 2024 #58
Thank you! Gaytano70 Jul 2024 #70
Welcome to DU! AllyCat Jul 2024 #63
Happy to be here! Gaytano70 Jul 2024 #72
Welcome NowISeetheLight Jul 2024 #88
This warms my heart. I love to see MAGA in turmoil. badhair77 Jul 2024 #51
Very cheering indeed Hekate Jul 2024 #52
In a Red State with MAGA coworkers - initial jubilation followed by PANIC. Deep, Maru Kitteh Jul 2024 #53
Love it! Sky Jewels Jul 2024 #60
One of them said "Trump should make hime stay in the race, this isn't FAIR." Maru Kitteh Jul 2024 #71
Omg! Sky Jewels Jul 2024 #79
I'm glad someone is talking about Josh Shapiro besides me - TBF Jul 2024 #56
The Philadelphia Inquirer BlueSky3 Jul 2024 #68
I live here too. Heard a comedian state a funny description of PS. beaglelover Jul 2024 #57
Gay Utopia NowISeetheLight Jul 2024 #89
Yeah, we moved here from L.A. at the end of June 2023. We moved up our move to the desert by a year as living in beaglelover Jul 2024 #90
Desert Paradise NowISeetheLight Jul 2024 #91
Now every lead in can be about the oldest nominated candidate ever Old Crank Jul 2024 #64
Good to hear an anecdote like this travelingthrulife Jul 2024 #69
That sounds like a fun lunch LetMyPeopleVote Jul 2024 #76

Lulu KC

(8,411 posts)
25. I thought his popularity was fading in PA
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 04:56 PM
Jul 2024

But I've only seen that in MSM so it may be completely false. Don't quote me.

 

Nimble_Idea

(2,849 posts)
7. the fear of Josh Shapiro as the VP, is my subsitute for maga tears until nov
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 03:21 PM
Jul 2024

I'll be sampling on that for a bit

StarryNite

(11,951 posts)
8. That's because the MAGAts believed the MSM.
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 03:23 PM
Jul 2024

They actually thought it was an age issue. They don't know it was never about that. Follow the money.

DinahMoeHum

(23,310 posts)
10. Well, it still IS an age issue. . .
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 04:32 PM
Jul 2024

. . .only now, the focus is on Trump, who can barely string two sentences together.

EverHopeful

(635 posts)
19. Or as I've been pointing out to anyone who's still willing to mention President Biden's cognitive ability to me
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 04:46 PM
Jul 2024

That other guy can't even speak complete words, let alone complete sentences.

Farmer-Rick

(12,386 posts)
74. Well, the comments I've heard
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 09:43 AM
Jul 2024

In red rural TN is that it's a race issue now.

Libertarians and independents who were repulsed by Pedo Trump were leaning towards Biden.......now it's no go for them because of race and I think gender too. A Lot of sexism around here too. More so with the older folks who always vote.

Maybe give it a few months and they may get use to the idea.....

yardwork

(68,838 posts)
77. TN was never in play. Too few people ever actually vote for the Democrats.
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 09:56 AM
Jul 2024

It's the swing voters in swing states where this election hinges. PA, MI, WI, and MN are must-wins, and we have to win some of GA, NC, AZ.

Farmer-Rick

(12,386 posts)
80. Well that's good
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 10:32 AM
Jul 2024

But it could be in play.

It was very close when Obama ran. At least in East TN. I campaigned for Obama in North Carolina.

We kind of knew we couldn't totally move TN but we had a real impact on North Carolina. They are just 30 miles East of where I live.

yardwork

(68,838 posts)
81. I'm in NC and grateful for your help!
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 10:43 AM
Jul 2024

Every vote counts. I didn't mean to imply that we should write off TN and other states. We can get them back if we fight.

NowISeetheLight

(4,002 posts)
84. TV Commercials
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 03:48 PM
Jul 2024

Start running TV commercials with his crazy rants (shark vs electricity?). Clips of him just mumbling to finish sentences and freezing like Mitch McConnell.

The wanted to play the age game. OK with me.

 

PennRalphie

(448 posts)
11. Shapiro would be great at the top
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 04:35 PM
Jul 2024

Of the ticket. Kamala can stay VP. Shapiro wins PA, MI, WI and maybe even OH. He is that well liked.

Deminpenn

(17,258 posts)
20. We would be handing PA to an R gov in 2026
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 04:46 PM
Jul 2024

instead of coasting to 4 more years of Dem control if Shapiro becomes VP nominee.

Deminpenn

(17,258 posts)
44. There's lots of ambitious Rs in the legislature
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 05:56 PM
Jul 2024

Josh Kail, HD-15, comes to mind right away to me. He's young, ambitious and has a base of support in SW Pa. He's like Shapiro in that he's been getting his ticket punched for higher office for awhile now.

Deminpenn

(17,258 posts)
55. He's the rep in southern Beaver
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 08:00 PM
Jul 2024

County and part of Washington County. HD runs along the Ohio border and west of the urban areas, long and skinny. He's a protege of Jim Christiana who held the seat before him. Kail's young, he's been in the state house 5 years or so. He'd probably like to be a state senator but he's kind of boxed in by Vogel and Barlotta.

 

PennRalphie

(448 posts)
45. Our Lt. Gov is a Democrat
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 05:56 PM
Jul 2024

Austin Davis becomes Governor and the incumbent. A republican wouldn’t stand a chance.

Deminpenn

(17,258 posts)
67. We've been under Republican goverance
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 07:31 AM
Jul 2024

for years. Prior to the fair redistricting we got in 2020 that allowed Dems to take control of the state house, the only thing protecting us from being subjected to the same kind of culture wars nonsense going on in Ohio and other red states were our Dem governors, Wolf and now Shapiro. We'll keep them thank you.

Let me also point out that a candidate who was born and raised in Pennsylvania before his family moved out of state and his wife who was also born and raised in Pennsylvania recently were unceremoniously dumped by the Democratic party leadership. The party can look elsewhere for it's unicorn VP.

MLAA

(19,647 posts)
27. I'm now all in on Kamala for President.
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 05:00 PM
Jul 2024

Is there something she is missing that would disqualify her as president?

calimary

(88,778 posts)
83. Begging your pardon but we already have a Top of the Ticket.
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 01:03 PM
Jul 2024

And SHE will make an outstanding President. And I’m GREATLY looking forward to voting for her in November!

BittyJenkins

(602 posts)
12. That is good news and
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 04:35 PM
Jul 2024

My son and his lady just got married in Palm Springs. They eloped and had a very sweet time there even in 100 degree weather! Glad you have a nice safe spot to live.

DownriverDem

(6,950 posts)
13. Your experience
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 04:36 PM
Jul 2024

is helping me feel better. I still say we need a non-threatening, white, male Dem to run with Harris as VP.

Sympthsical

(10,819 posts)
15. Republicans did not want this
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 04:40 PM
Jul 2024

Every conversation I've had and bit of reading I've done in Republican spaces had more or less the same flavor: "We want it close enough so he doesn't leave the race, but bad enough that it's an easy win." Once the swing state polls started tanking, a lot of Republicans started going, "Uh oh." I do believe "Shit." is the universal reaction I'm hearing and seeing right now.

djacq

(1,771 posts)
17. Wow.
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 04:42 PM
Jul 2024

"there goes the blacks!"

As an African American, the majority of us are not so monolithic.

ProudMNDemocrat

(20,514 posts)
22. I recall the scene in APOCOLYPSE NOW about the smell of napalm in the morning.
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 04:49 PM
Jul 2024

"It smells like VICTORY!"

Only this time the shoe is on the other foot...MAGAts are running around like chickens with their heads cut off in desperation. The day of reckoning is coming.

Dem4life1234

(2,533 posts)
30. It's funny how she's just as much Indian as black
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 05:05 PM
Jul 2024

But all they see is black. American view of race is interesting.

Good to see them scared.

 

Carlitos Brigante

(26,848 posts)
31. "there goes the blacks! ."... It's mind boggling, that this death cult of a party hasn't
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 05:06 PM
Jul 2024

been winning the black vote by double digits for years, with this kind of thinking.

yardwork

(68,838 posts)
78. They were hoping to peel off just enough Black male voters to Trump.
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 09:59 AM
Jul 2024

It's been Trump's strategy for a while, to make inroads in traditionally Democratic voting blocs.

The 2020 election was won with only 40,000 votes spread across four key battleground states. This election will be the same, I think.

OMGWTF

(4,992 posts)
33. I live part-time in beautiful Palm Springs
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 05:22 PM
Jul 2024

and wonder which bar you’re referring to. I used to frequent a bar with live music but stopped going after they put up a “Let’s go Brandon” sign. I’m not giving those fkers any of my money.

NowISeetheLight

(4,002 posts)
86. No Signs
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 03:59 PM
Jul 2024

No signs here and the staff are very neutral in public. It's kind of a western place so they get a lot of white folks. The funny thing is there are several African American regulars. They sit with us regulars and are very welcome. I guess thats why the "there goes the blacks" comment from one guy shocked me.

I'm in there 2-3x a week and usually there is no talk of politics. I hear occasional things which led ne to conclude it's a Red bar, but it's not crazy.

Still I really enjoyed yesterday.

peppertree

(23,079 posts)
36. No wonder Shady Dunce didn't want to debate her!
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 05:27 PM
Jul 2024

He knows she'd wipe the floor with his fascist, kleptocratic face.

Upthevibe

(9,950 posts)
37. NowISeetheLight ............
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 05:33 PM
Jul 2024

That's wonderful!

Thank you soooooooooooo much for sharing your experience


FarPoint

(14,450 posts)
39. I am rooting for Pete Buttigieg for VP....
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 05:42 PM
Jul 2024

He is young, brilliant, a warrior and can shut down any MAGA even on a rainy day...

He cleans up when he goes on Fox Noise.... Yea...if we are going for gusto...let's do it justice.

FrankTC

(259 posts)
54. Buttigieg Is the Man
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 07:05 PM
Jul 2024

Totally agree about Buttigieg for VP. He’s thoughtful, knowledgeable, articulate, poised, and unflappable. Nominating Harris will cause visceral distress among the MAGATs, transgressing their gender and racial prejudices, but adding Buttigieg to the ticket will cause MAGAT heads to explode. A delightful symphony of self-immolating bigotry.

livetohike

(23,927 posts)
65. He's my choice too. I hope he's under consideration.
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 06:29 AM
Jul 2024

The convention is going to be interesting and maybe for once we won’t hear about Trump for a few days.

NowISeetheLight

(4,002 posts)
87. Heads Explode
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 04:03 PM
Jul 2024

A black woman and a gay guy. I could just see RepubQcan heads explode at a ticket like that.

Joe Cool

(1,078 posts)
41. She picks Josh Shapiro of PA, it's over.
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 05:48 PM
Jul 2024

No way anyone except the Trump cult would want Vance over Shapiro.

Liberty Belle

(9,699 posts)
43. I am in a Utah airport, and was surprised to hear pto Dem comments
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 05:54 PM
Jul 2024

In this red area. Old lady in gift store said she would vote for a corpse over Trump because he is like Hitler, and she is Jewish. A pilot who is ex military thinks Trump is dangerous and force military members to refuse to carry out unconstitutional orders. Gave me hope after today's depressing news.

Gaytano70

(1,217 posts)
49. I love this post!
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 06:01 PM
Jul 2024

My first post on DU! As a fellow gay, I am so happy I joined today and read your post!

summer_in_TX

(3,997 posts)
58. Welcome to DU, Gaytano!
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 10:45 PM
Jul 2024

A good day to be together to process such momentous news! Love the comments in the red bar and in Utah!

NowISeetheLight

(4,002 posts)
88. Welcome
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 04:06 PM
Jul 2024

Welcome aboard! We are happy you're here. I still remember when I found DU. It was like I was lost in the forest and found the path out.

badhair77

(5,072 posts)
51. This warms my heart. I love to see MAGA in turmoil.
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 06:20 PM
Jul 2024

Shapiro would be great but I hate to lose him as governor.

Maru Kitteh

(31,167 posts)
53. In a Red State with MAGA coworkers - initial jubilation followed by PANIC. Deep,
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 06:57 PM
Jul 2024

and thoroughly entertaining PANIC.

Maru Kitteh

(31,167 posts)
71. One of them said "Trump should make hime stay in the race, this isn't FAIR."
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 09:11 AM
Jul 2024


Orange Jesus is suddenly looking very weak again.

TBF

(35,358 posts)
56. I'm glad someone is talking about Josh Shapiro besides me -
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 09:56 PM
Jul 2024

he really would be an excellent choice!!

BlueSky3

(733 posts)
68. The Philadelphia Inquirer
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 08:22 AM
Jul 2024

has lots of good coverage of Josh Shapiro and his chances of becoming VP. He and Kamala go way back and have campaigned together. And they’re both prosecutors.

beaglelover

(4,408 posts)
57. I live here too. Heard a comedian state a funny description of PS.
Sun Jul 21, 2024, 10:02 PM
Jul 2024

He said it’s a utopia where the gays peacefully coexist with Republicans. Much truth in that statement! LOL

NowISeetheLight

(4,002 posts)
89. Gay Utopia
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 04:11 PM
Jul 2024

When I lived in Phoenix I'd come over here for vacations. There's a gay resort neighborhood called Warm Sands with a bunch of resorts. I had a regular place I stayed and it's only a three block walk to Arenas Ave which is "Gay Street" will all the bars. They even have a GayMart store!

The entire city council was LGBT when I moved here. The mayor is Transgender. She's just awesome. The new police chief is very gay friendly. I just love it here. I knew that after moving to the Deep South for a great job, I would try to move here when I retired.

beaglelover

(4,408 posts)
90. Yeah, we moved here from L.A. at the end of June 2023. We moved up our move to the desert by a year as living in
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 04:19 PM
Jul 2024

L.A. was becoming unbearable for many reasons. I'm so glad we moved here.

We've been coming out to the PS area at least once a year for decades. When we were younger and prettier we usually stayed at Terrazzo on 111 near Sunrise. Great little gay clothing optional hotel. It's now a straight place and very expensive. In recent years we'd rent a place on VRBO when we wanted to get away to the desert.

The barracks used to be our 'go to' bar. Can't believe it is closing for good in about a month. Friends in our new neighborhood recommend the Roost as a nice neighborhood gay bar.

It's so great living in a resort town. We've had lots of friends and family visit us in the past year and it's been a lot of fun to host them in our new home.

NowISeetheLight

(4,002 posts)
91. Desert Paradise
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 04:22 PM
Jul 2024

I always stayed at Desert Paradise in Warm Sands. Was good friends with the old owner and the manager. He finally sold the place and retired. The new owners are also very nice. They did some nice remodeling. When I bought my house out here I actually stayed there a week while I was going through closing on the new house.

Old Crank

(6,572 posts)
64. Now every lead in can be about the oldest nominated candidate ever
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 05:39 AM
Jul 2024

and his obivous dementia.
GOP are running a criminal who is old and out to lunch. Proping him up to get VAnce to take over.

travelingthrulife

(4,174 posts)
69. Good to hear an anecdote like this
Mon Jul 22, 2024, 08:29 AM
Jul 2024

Today their GOP talking points will be delivered to them via Fox or Newsmax or CNN and they will find their feet.

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