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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsWhen did we stop being the big tent party?
There's seems to be a lot of concern if V.P. Harris were to pick Pete Buttigieg as her running mate. I really thought that kind of thinking was behind us. Apparently not.
Aviation Pro
(15,578 posts)Secretary Buttigieg does not bring Indiana into the blue column at this time. In 2032, he will.
Stay focused.
William769
(59,147 posts)Aviation Pro
(15,578 posts)He is being vetted as part of the campaign. He would make a fine VP, but we can't afford a single misstep with the fickleness of the electorate, who in most cases vote on their emotions.
William769
(59,147 posts)Have a nice day.
WarGamer
(18,613 posts)oldsoftie
(13,538 posts)William769
(59,147 posts)It's the peoples antiquated fears wanting to keep him off the list is what my OP is about.
NoRethugFriends
(3,753 posts)Is not antiquated. It's not homophobia to not put him on the ticket. It's wanting to beat Trump. That said I don't know if he'd be a negative or not. Impossible to predict.
ms liberty
(11,237 posts)I think we should just do it.
WarGamer
(18,613 posts)BootinUp
(51,323 posts)MLAA
(19,745 posts)madaboutharry
(42,033 posts)He and Chasten now live in Michigan, where Chasten is from.
Aviation Pro
(15,578 posts)Gretchen Whitmer would be a better VP candidate to win Michigan over, but then you'll run into the misogynist crowd that will clutch their pearls and look for a fainting couch over two women on the ticket.
We need to think strategically to ensure that Motherfucker doesn't come within sniffing distance of the White House.
Secretary Buttigieg will be a fine President in 2033.
soandso
(1,631 posts)multigraincracker
(37,651 posts)Gretch is term limited out next term.
FloridaBlues
(4,668 posts)He would be a terrific Governor if thats his plan.
TommyT139
(2,357 posts)If he had stayed in Indiana, his own kids would not have been allowed to learn about LGBTQ people in schools. (HB 1608, passed in May 2023.)
Michigan, on the other hand, has strong protections, and values all families.
oldsoftie
(13,538 posts)trump MUST be defeated.
Celerity
(54,407 posts)Emile
(42,289 posts)just up the road from South Bend. So I googled it and was surprised he moved all the way up north to Traverse City. I believe Traverse City is where Michael Moore lives.
CANADIANBEAVER69
(712 posts)I posted this on another persons thread with the same question
I don't know why it matters who we love. What Pete brings to the table is what matters. He is more than qualified for the position. He is inspiring and knows his shit. Never backs down from a question and brings the receipts. He would be a great VP
William769
(59,147 posts)nbsmom
(653 posts)Unfortunately, his experience doesn't include winning a statewide race. And that's why Team Harris will probably pick Shapiro or Kelly.
I will be proud to vote for him (or any future Dem candidates because we have a remarkable bench), but we must win THIS election.
calguy
(6,154 posts)But it absolutely does matter to many of the voters we want to attract to our side. Yeah, it's not fair. I get it. But it's the reality of the world we live in. The country is simply not ready for black female president and a gay vice president on one ticket. That's the reality.
dickthegrouch
(4,528 posts)Which sucks!
Politicub
(12,328 posts)Its not okay. And we shouldnt act like it is.
Sometimes I wish people wouldnt say anything at all. Especially when its people that have been on DU for a long time.
calguy
(6,154 posts)But my opinion is just as important as yours.
Politicub
(12,328 posts)calguy
(6,154 posts)decades ago.
calguy
(6,154 posts)Good luck with that attitude.
CANADIANBEAVER69
(712 posts)and you are correct, winning this election is more important than anything else. The Democratic Party has so many talented people to choose from and the world hopes that whoever is with MVP Harris, that they win in November.
EastBayGuy
(160 posts)DonCoquixote
(13,961 posts)Michigan-whitmer
Pennsylvania=shapiro
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SleeplessinSoCal
(10,412 posts)I hate that the term "woke" has been turned into a negative. Until we can reverse that thinking with education, putting two men in supporting roles as 1st and 2nd gentleman is probably a bridge too far.
William769
(59,147 posts)As FDR once said "there is nothing to fear, but fear itself."
SleeplessinSoCal
(10,412 posts)If you want to gamble that it isn't, is it worth the risk? Rejecting them would fire up Fascism on the right. They already fear Muslims, Mexicans, African Americans and women. I think Pete could be POTUS. But if he were to lose as 2nd on the ticket, it might be game over.
William769
(59,147 posts)It does not matter who she picks as VP, they are still going to fear the ticket.
What this has done is show the fear & ignorance in our own party.
SleeplessinSoCal
(10,412 posts)Fascism is rampant right now. We have to represent the Democratic party to regain our reputation as the peoples' party. We don't have a think tank for that, apparently. It seems to be up to all of us individually.
DonCoquixote
(13,961 posts)fair question
Celerity
(54,407 posts)edisdead
(3,396 posts)As a CO he would be a heartbeat away from the presidency and he does not have any experience to draw from. He is a cabinet pick until he gets some other experience.
Traurigkeit
(1,290 posts)SleeplessinSoCal
(10,412 posts)The Obama presidency should have put an end to such prejudice. Instead it put Fascism front and center in the GQP
Politicub
(12,328 posts)I have lived through this. Lots of seemingly impossible strides have been made in LGBTQ rights over the past 20 to 30 years.
I just read your post again. Ugh. I hope you can try to walk a mile in someone elses shoes and then imagine what your words would sound like to them.
SleeplessinSoCal
(10,412 posts)This is a very unique nominating process. Her choice will weigh everything. I suspect my concerns are being voiced in the room where it happens.
Politicub
(12,328 posts)Please stop. Youre not an oracle or a hidden microphone.
SleeplessinSoCal
(10,412 posts)I thought this was democratic underground.
kcr
(15,522 posts)where we support Democrats and fight the GOP. Advocating for things that will 100% guarantee they win will be resisted. sorry.
oldsoftie
(13,538 posts)it HAS to be Harris. She's the only one legally allowed to use their campaign funds.
SleeplessinSoCal
(10,412 posts)Debating is always good. Especially at a crucial time like this. Expressing concerns ought to be allowed without being attacked for them.
oldsoftie
(13,538 posts)Many times "discussion" is alerted on & hidden even if its legitimate issues & concerns.
MONTHS ago I said this was a very real possibility because the changes were obvious if you were being honest.
And I got slammed.
Skittles
(171,713 posts)it's like we are expected to not select the cream of the crop because it may upset (insert here: racists, misogynists, homophobes, etc.)....
edisdead
(3,396 posts)Seriously? Are people that out if it?
The dem party has a very talented and deep bench. Pete is nowhere near as qualified as others to potentially be the president.
This is absolutely crazy and what is sad is people in this thread labeling others as bigots simply for having a different opinion about who should be the VP pick.
That is completely bonkers.
spanone
(141,610 posts)William769
(59,147 posts)Think. Again.
(22,456 posts)Gore1FL
(22,951 posts)See also:
"Reaganomics or economic disaster"
"Invading Iraq = Patriotism"
"Biden is too old"
as quick examples.
As long as we keep letting the GOP run the narrative, there will be opposition to Mayor Pete.
He's my first choice, btw.
Big Blue Marble
(5,691 posts)Everything has to fall into place in the right way in 5-6 swing states to win. It did not fall into place in 2016.
It did in 2020. Less than 150,000 voters out of 150 million will be deciding this race whether we of the base
like it or not. Stay scared and work your but off.
Gore1FL
(22,951 posts)Big Blue Marble
(5,691 posts)Less that 200,000 of the least informed and most easily duped people will shape the
rest your life, mine, and our country on November 5th. These are the ones who have been
falling for the GOP's false narratives. Now we will begin to shift those voters with
great candidates and visionary narratives.
Gore1FL
(22,951 posts)Big Blue Marble
(5,691 posts)If she thinks it is time for our first gay VP.
edisdead
(3,396 posts)why is that even a criteria?
We need to right the nation and if Pete can help do that, Great! but why is his sexual orientation something that makes him more of a reason to make him the VP?
Has he been a governor who needs to work with a state house of reps and senate to get things accomplished? Did he have to work with a state AG, court system, help to work with police forces? Set policy and vision for dept of education? Agricultural depts? Has je had to work ofn a budget for a state?
I mean I know he was mayor if South Bend
.. And he served in the military and was transportation secretary. And he IS wicked smart. But honestly we have OTHER great candidates to consider as well. Who have experience in areas that are more directly related to the job of a president should they need to step in.
Gore1FL
(22,951 posts)We certainly do have a lot of great candidates. He happens to be one of them and shouldn't be excluded becasue he's gay.
TheKentuckian
(26,314 posts)A black woman is a very big lift.
Adding a gay man is risking getting out in front of the skis right now.
This is not a primary so it isn't about Republicans running anything or anyone running scared, it is a little discretion when a loss cannot be absorbed.
What electorate are you seeing?
brer cat
(27,587 posts)SocialDemocrat61
(7,647 posts)But unfortunately we dont live in a big tent country. The goal is to win an election, not to make a point.
madaboutharry
(42,033 posts)Apparently, there are limits to what a gay person is allowed to achieve in government service. It's ok for a gay person to be the Secretary of Transportation, but not yet the Vice President. What other group of people would that now apply to? Black people broke that barrier. So have Jews (Gore/Lieberman lost, sort of). But were still hung up about gays.
I want to think that people are apprehensive about Pete being on the ticket because they are scared. I am of the opinion that anyone who would say that that would be the reason they would not vote for a Harris/Buttigieg ticket wouldn't have voted for Kamala Harris no matter whom she choose.
Big Blue Marble
(5,691 posts)Let us trust that VP Harris will choose whom she thinks is best for the campaign, best to work with her, and
most importantly, best to be potentially be our president. Every single person being considered is excellent.
Every one of these people is excellent; every one has weaknesses. Let's just wait for Kamala and her advisors
to make her first and extremely important decision.
William769
(59,147 posts)Big Blue Marble
(5,691 posts)As to what I read, Buttigieg is very much in the mix. Hopefully, she and her team are fully evaluating
each candidate with the criteria I mentioned. I do not expect that we will have an answer for several weeks.
Let's just savor this amazing miracle that just happened and is breathing new life and energy into our
party. Let's calm down and be patient as she makes what I believe will be a good decision for our
party and our country.
William769
(59,147 posts)I am Questioning what is being said about pete being Gay & would hurt the ticket. I know V.P. Harris will make the choice she wants.
But hearing shit about Pete being Gay & not a good fit for the ticket because of that reason is fucked up & so 2008. We are better than that or so I thought.
Big Blue Marble
(5,691 posts)with the squishy undecided voters? The Russian bots and Republican operatives will infuse a
whisper campaign into the mix. I do not know if it would work or not and neither do you.
I am very excited that being gay has less and less impact on voters. Many gay candidates
are being elected around the country at so many levels. It will happen in the future; I know it will.
If Harris decides to pick Pete, then she will have the confidence that that time is now. Let's wait
and see.
William769
(59,147 posts)What is not a wedge issue in the Democratic platform for Gompers?
It's fear in our own people that are afraid to take a fucking stand.
Have a nice day.
Politicub
(12,328 posts)And I dont really like the lectures about sitting down.
Big Blue Marble
(5,691 posts)This is about winning the most critical election in world history. If wedge issues do not matter
to you, that matters not to me. What matters to our country is that we convince the most
people to vote for Democrats up and down the ticket. Whoever does helps us succeed
in that goal is the right person.
Enjoy Biden's speech and have a nice night.
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sheshe2
(97,627 posts)The other men dont seem to have any that is being discussed.I do agree, Madam VP is going to make the best choice.
Big Blue Marble
(5,691 posts)have we begun to reduce and eliminate the bias that has kept much our citizenry
from holding public office. We have come a long way in the last fifty years; and
we still have a way to go. But we are getting there, election by election.
I so look forward Madame President-elect then Madame President in less than six months!
Figarosmom
(11,989 posts)The Vice Pres. Is such a waste of talent position but yet it is seen as a reward for good work too. I always hope that the position would be remade with actual responsibilities. Kamala was given more jobs to do than usual but watching Pete in action I can't help but think he'd be so wasted in the VP position. Yet he deserves it. The best one can say about the position is that it's a set up for the top job in the future.
pwb
(12,669 posts)Running the tent are our elders and donors. They think about Independents as much as democrats. Pete seems like a nice guy. He is good for us now and he will be good for us in the future. IMO.
Bev54
(13,431 posts)It is time the US catch up to the rest of the world. Pete is awesome and is certainly presidential material as are others.
Big Blue Marble
(5,691 posts)We want our ticket to expand outside of our base and draw in moderates and even Republicans.
I trust Kamala and her advisors to make the best decision to keep us on the winning track for a
big win in November.
onenote
(46,142 posts)A lot of things go into the decision of who would make the best running mate. The fact that Pete is gay shouldn't be disqualifying. But it doesn't make him the best candidate either.
William769
(59,147 posts)I have a problem of people using the excuse that he is Gay. So should everybody in our damn party.
elocs
(24,486 posts)need to win an imperatively important election.
Did I say really?
If one is honest and lives in today's America, there is a clear risk in running an openly gay male as the running mate of a woman of color. Let's win one milestone at a time and not be greedy or unrealistic about our chances of winning.
hlthe2b
(113,971 posts)I certainly have been talking him up --former mayor of a Midwestern (Indiana) city, former military, former Congressman, incredible spokesman for DEMS, including on RW media, successful as hell as Transportation Secretary and because of that can really speak to the successes of Biden-Harris.
I think we have such a strong "bench" that it is natural that DUers will have favorites. But really, it is hard to think we can't take advantage of that 'embarrassment of riches' without taking an unbiased look at how each of the candidates could benefit the ticket--and perhaps add to the Harris-VP team.
William769
(59,147 posts)Kaleva
(40,365 posts)But filling certain positions involves taking the political ramifications into account
I'm fine with whoever Kamala decides on.
pat_k
(13,375 posts)... makes buttigieg unlikely.
We are a big tent as far as working to secure basic rights and economic fairness across our melting pot, but the Democratic Leadership has always been cautious about breaking new ground. Nothing new there
getagrip_already
(17,802 posts)As determined by the candidate snd her team.
And we have to trust and respect that process.
Just remember that DU is not the screening commettee. We are not the focus group. We are not the advisors or staffers (well, most of us arent anyway).
We are just phone tappers with opinions. LOTS of opinions. Dont let those get you upset.
I will support whoever is chosen, even though i have preferences and opinions.
Good luck to pete and all under consideration.
yardwork
(69,364 posts)He's too McKinsey for me. I think his choice would dampen enthusiasm among young progressives.
However, of course if he's chosen I'll fully support the ticket.
William769
(59,147 posts)The problem I have is people useing him as being Gay for the reason. Been there and done that.
yardwork
(69,364 posts)FHRRK
(1,410 posts)Interested in your perspective.
Solly Mack
(96,943 posts)I think Pete Buttigieg would make a great president. After Harris gets 8 years, of course. Would love to see him as VP in the meantime.
MLK, Jr. speaks about "incrementalism" and the people who promote it in a more fuck-ton polite way than I ever would.
William769
(59,147 posts)Mister Ed
(6,927 posts)oldsoftie
(13,538 posts)He's on his on track for the future.
Either Shapiro or Kelly needs to be the pick to boost the chances of winning PA or AZ
Politicub
(12,328 posts)Every candidates coalition is different.
oldsoftie
(13,538 posts)Politicub
(12,328 posts)oldsoftie
(13,538 posts)I also live in the real world; which isnt the nicest place to be some times.
I believe Harris will pick the person she thinks gives her the best chance to WIN. Thats going to be a governor..
tritsofme
(19,900 posts)John Edwards and Paul Ryan come to mind.
The vast majority of the electorate votes for the top of the ticket, and the VP only matters at the margins. Only when it is so bad, like Palin, does it become a factor.
Harris should choose whoever she feels will help her govern best.
Politicub
(12,328 posts)Its always heartbreaking to see people on DU automatically dismiss the idea because hes gay.
This is the very definition of implicit bias, and its always ugly when it rears its head.
I want to believe were better than this, but it seems we have a long way to go.
William769
(59,147 posts)claudette
(5,455 posts)a tent thing. There are those with more experience than him who would be more qualified and more popular. I haven't seen anyone say he shouldn't be considered because he is gay.
markpkessinger
(8,912 posts). . . I am also a realist when it comes to the need to defeat Donald Trump, and I recognize that homophobia continues to be a thing among the electorate. I worry that having a gay man on the same ticket with a mixed race woman might be a tad too much diversity for some voters -- particularly some independent/unaffiliated voters, from whom we must draw heavily if we are to win.
It isn't a matter of retreating from being a "big tent" party, but a matter of cold, hard political calculus.
Voltaire2
(15,377 posts)Over and over and over.
LizBeth
(11,222 posts)Lars39
(26,540 posts)VP spot would get him ready to be Prez. 🙂
Mz Pip
(28,454 posts)That kind of thinking may be behind those of us on DU but its not true for a good chunk of the country. We have to be pragmatic.
pinkstarburst
(2,020 posts)I think this is a winning ticket! And I will argue anyone who thinks otherwise into the ground. Joe Biden didn't take the coward's way out when he put a black woman as VP on his ticket in 2020. She was the best damn one for the job and he put her on the ticket. If Pete is the best one for VP, he should be chosen, and the idea that there are all these homophobic posts on DU of all places saying a gay man can't be VP is disgusting to me.
Young people are going crazy on Tiktok. They love Kamala Harris and they LOVE Pete Buttigieg. They are way pro LGBTQIA+ rights and we need to move with that momentum and energy not get all caught up in trying to capture the bigot vote which SPOILER ALERT, we are not going to get anyway because SPOILER ALERT any bigot who isn't going to vote for a gay man as VP ain't voting for a ticket with a black woman at the top of it for president either.
So we aren't losing any voters. And let's not be naive enough to think that there are actually voters out there who have a problem with a black woman at the top of the ticket (that's those bigot voters again!) but that they'd be all fine and dandy with the that black woman as president so long as Andy Beshear, Josh Shapiro or Mark Kelly was on the ballot as VP. We're not getting those voters so it's better that we work on energizing OUR voters and getting them to the polls.
berniesandersmittens
(13,197 posts)lame54
(39,771 posts)But I wasn't a couple of days ago
This is a MUST WIN election
So, I get the purity test
And it's not just his being gay but he never dealt with his situation with the South Bend black community when he was mayor
He had zero black support when he ran for prez
But I think, after hearing him speak a few times, people will forget those things and see how talented and sincere he is
Torchlight
(6,830 posts)I think Democrats (on this message board in particular) for the most part are simply looking at numbers, looking at projections, and looking at analyses, factoring in anything and everything that could affect those final numbers one way or the other.
A lot of posters are immediately disqualifying a lot of otherwise valid potential picks for a brazillian different reasons, yet I haven't yet seen one predicated on a personal distaste of various races, genders, or orientations yet. If I've missed it, I'd be happy to give it a look-see.
alarimer
(17,146 posts)The person chosen usually has to deliver something, usually their states electoral votes. Buttigieg cant do that. It has very little to do with the person.
So, you choose Shapiro, you get PA, but might lose Michigan. But neither of those are actually a sure thing.
You also wouldnt choose someone from Maryland, or another blue state, because thats in the bag.
vercetti2021
(10,481 posts)Omg the gay man would lose it for us. Always always this place pivots to the gays and trans people if an election is lost. See 2004 for reference
JustAnotherGen
(38,054 posts)iemanja
(57,757 posts)Self Esteem
(2,248 posts)If you're implying previously that a Democratic nominee wouldn't care to add a minority to the ticket, I think you're actually wrong. You ask when did the Democratic Party stop being a big tent party and my question: why didn't John Kerry choose a gay running mate in 2004? Why didn't Gore choose a woman running mate in 2000 (despite a couple making the list)? Why didn't Clinton choose a Black running mate in 1992?
Probably for the same reasons some might question whether America is ready for a gay vice president. I think they are. But we're already making history with a Black, Asian woman running at the top of the ticket. Is it wrong that we have to potentially factor in how certain voters might react to this ticket? Absolutely. Is it still a reality? Unfortunately.
But to be honest, my concerns with Pete aren't necessarily his sexuality and more his visibility. Okay, that's a lie. I think for a candidate to overcome their minority status, whether it's Obama as a Black man or Kamala as a woman of color, I think they have to have that 'it' factor. They have to transcend the one thing that would separate them from every other president/vice president.
Could Pete do that? I'm not sure.
scipan
(3,041 posts)He's a star. But Josh Shapiro seems better for the election and that's what counts.
Ohio Joe
(21,898 posts)But fuck anyone who does.
relayerbob
(7,428 posts)OP is trying to stir shit, IMO. Kamala has a tough choice to make from a VERY deep bench. Lots of options and lots of reasons to pick one person over another.
To me, I'd prefer Pete as Sec of State, a much more substantial and important role, more suited to his eloquence and intelligence, than side-kick.
Ohio Joe
(21,898 posts)But I think his point is proven.
BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)Probably not going to get what they want so everything is terrible.
ecstatic
(35,075 posts)only a straight white male will do.
I suppose there is a good reason for trying one unprecedented thing at a time in order to pinpoint what works and what doesn't.
Abolishinist
(2,957 posts)A 'big tent party', at least by one definition, is "a term used in reference to a political party having members covering a broad spectrum of beliefs."
Our big tent party, for example, welcomes followers of Rashida Tlaib. If she were in consideration for the next VP, would someone saying "she might not go over well with some of the voters we need to carry the key swing states" also be a focus of your ire?
Hekate
(100,133 posts)Takket
(23,715 posts)and Team Kamala's job is make sure whoever they put in that chair gives them the best job of winning.
edisdead
(3,396 posts)Bettie
(19,704 posts)and thought my opinion means little, I'll say it isn't any of our choice.
There are a lot of factors involved in this and I'm certainly not going to demand that VP Harris pick this one or that one.
In the end, there's no nefarious reason that one will be picked over another, it's a complicated and serious decision.
We'll hear more from Pete and from the other contenders as well.
We are in an election that will decide if we ever have another election.
Every one of the people we've been told is being vetted brings something to the table, so we just have to trust that if the favorite of any one of us doesn't get picked, it's not personal and there is a good reason.
I don't have a favorite in this pick. I think any of them could do the job and do it well.
jmbar2
(7,989 posts)He's got Obama-type qualities - so darned witty and likeable that he would win over a lot of folks not yet comfortable with gays. When he does finally get the visibility he deserves, a lot of walls will fall quickly.
He'd make a great VP, or SoS.
Nimble_Idea
(2,849 posts)FlyingPiggy
(3,748 posts)I love Pete and hope one day he will be our president or VP. But, I agree with others. Not this time. Its not what we will vote for, its the other voters that we need to bring into the fold.
BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)Is that the utterly absurd argument being made?
Just because it probably wont be your preferred candidate doesnt mean everything is terrible.