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William769

(59,147 posts)
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:32 PM Jul 2024

When did we stop being the big tent party?

There's seems to be a lot of concern if V.P. Harris were to pick Pete Buttigieg as her running mate. I really thought that kind of thinking was behind us. Apparently not.

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When did we stop being the big tent party? (Original Post) William769 Jul 2024 OP
The goal is to keep Motherfucker away from the White House Aviation Pro Jul 2024 #1
Indiana was not the question nor the reason given to keep him off the ticket. William769 Jul 2024 #2
He's not being 'kept off the ticket' Aviation Pro Jul 2024 #15
Your concern is noted. William769 Jul 2024 #16
what misstep is that? WarGamer Jul 2024 #98
he's never been on ANY list I've seen for VP. oldsoftie Jul 2024 #55
He doesn't need to be on the list. William769 Jul 2024 #57
knowing that some people won't vote for someone gay NoRethugFriends Jul 2024 #102
The Venn diagram of people who hate gays and people who won't vote for Dems is a circle. ms liberty Jul 2024 #134
People who wouldn't vote for a gay man are already Trump voters. WarGamer Jul 2024 #139
There is a report he is being vetted BootinUp Jul 2024 #63
I understood he was being vetted. MLAA Jul 2024 #104
He doesn't live in Indiana anymore. madaboutharry Jul 2024 #6
He is unelected in Michigan, he is best known and arrived on the national scene as mayor of Indianapolis Aviation Pro Jul 2024 #13
Mayor of South Bend soandso Jul 2024 #18
Next Governor of Michigan. multigraincracker Jul 2024 #27
Maybe that's one of the reasons they moved to Michigan? FloridaBlues Jul 2024 #93
Lots of reasons to leave Indiana.... TommyT139 Jul 2024 #105
And THAT needs to be the sole focus on this race. Everything else take a back seat. oldsoftie Jul 2024 #54
Pete lives in Michigan now. Celerity Jul 2024 #94
I didn't know that. I thought maybe he moved to Niles Emile Jul 2024 #117
I guess some just can't deal yet, and its sad really CANADIANBEAVER69 Jul 2024 #3
Thank you. William769 Jul 2024 #7
You're right.What Mayor Pete brings to the table IS what matters. nbsmom Jul 2024 #35
It doesn't matter to us here on DU who you love calguy Jul 2024 #42
Your imputed reality dickthegrouch Jul 2024 #58
And they don't even see it Politicub Jul 2024 #64
Sorry to inform you calguy Jul 2024 #76
Like I said to someone else, maybe one day you'll get it. n/t Politicub Jul 2024 #83
I already have calguy Jul 2024 #120
Whatever...dick the grouch calguy Jul 2024 #75
I do understand the reality CANADIANBEAVER69 Jul 2024 #61
Ditto, thank you. EastBayGuy Jul 2024 #62
what states can he bring DonCoquixote Jul 2024 #85
Post removed Post removed Jul 2024 #86
it would feel like force feeding. SleeplessinSoCal Jul 2024 #4
Was it a bridge too far with Gays in the military? Was it a bridge too far with marriage equality? William769 Jul 2024 #10
it's a bridge too far having a black woman of color stop the ticket with a gay running mate. SleeplessinSoCal Jul 2024 #23
Whats wrong with adding to their fear? William769 Jul 2024 #26
It's the risk factor that scares me sitting in the big tent. SleeplessinSoCal Jul 2024 #41
what has he done that Whitmer or Shapiro cannot do DonCoquixote Jul 2024 #88
he is the best communicator our Party has, he is almost otherworldly in his ability to respond to any situation Celerity Jul 2024 #112
Then he should be a spokesperson. edisdead Jul 2024 #126
WOKE is positive. Has never been negative Traurigkeit Jul 2024 #19
it's negative to a huge portion of the public through gaslighting. SleeplessinSoCal Jul 2024 #25
I keep hearing it always seems impossible until it's done since Kamala became our nominee. Politicub Jul 2024 #65
What if we had an open convention? SleeplessinSoCal Jul 2024 #72
It keeps getting worse. Politicub Jul 2024 #73
sorry. SleeplessinSoCal Jul 2024 #101
Yes, this is Democratic Underground kcr Jul 2024 #135
An open convention for the nominee? No. oldsoftie Jul 2024 #116
Exactly SleeplessinSoCal Jul 2024 #124
Yes! but you've been here long enough to know how it works though oldsoftie Jul 2024 #133
I hear you Skittles Jul 2024 #5
Pete is the cream of the crop? edisdead Jul 2024 #127
Nothing's been decided yet, has it? spanone Jul 2024 #8
No. I wish I could add my two cents here. William769 Jul 2024 #14
I've read that Pete is being vetted along with others. Think. Again. Jul 2024 #9
Democrats run scared. It's what we do. Gore1FL Jul 2024 #11
If you are not running scared right, now, you are not paying attention. Big Blue Marble Jul 2024 #39
I am not scared of the GOP's false narratives. nt Gore1FL Jul 2024 #67
That is because you are not the one falling for them. Big Blue Marble Jul 2024 #90
Why can't we do that with a homosexual vice president? nt Gore1FL Jul 2024 #95
Maybe we can. I will trust Harris to decide. Big Blue Marble Jul 2024 #107
I am sorry but why must we do it with a homosexual vp? edisdead Jul 2024 #128
I prefer Mayor Pete. He happens to be homosexual. It's not a crieria, but rather a deal-breaker for some. Gore1FL Jul 2024 #132
A woman alone is a significant lift in this country. TheKentuckian Jul 2024 #111
Sad and frustrating! brer cat Jul 2024 #12
We didn't SocialDemocrat61 Jul 2024 #17
I wrote in Behind the Aegis's thread in LBGTQ that we aren't yet the people we like to think we are. madaboutharry Jul 2024 #20
Please let's not stir stuff up. Big Blue Marble Jul 2024 #21
Exactly what am I stirring up? William769 Jul 2024 #24
Questioning our candidate's ability to make her own choices. Big Blue Marble Jul 2024 #30
I am not Questioning our candidate's ability to make her own choices William769 Jul 2024 #38
Do you think that a gay VP would not be a wedge issue in the swing states Big Blue Marble Jul 2024 #43
I am so over wedge issues. William769 Jul 2024 #46
My existence is a wedge issue to some Politicub Jul 2024 #68
Ok. whatever. Big Blue Marble Jul 2024 #87
This message was self-deleted by its author Big Blue Marble Jul 2024 #43
Being gay or female isn't a weakness. sheshe2 Jul 2024 #47
I agree; neither is a weakness,; neither is color, but only recently in our history Big Blue Marble Jul 2024 #92
Lm torn Figarosmom Jul 2024 #22
Everybody is welcome into the tent. pwb Jul 2024 #28
I agree, there are leaders all over the world that are women, or are gay and some are gay women. Bev54 Jul 2024 #29
This is less a teaching moment, than a winning one. Big Blue Marble Jul 2024 #37
We just nominated a black woman and you think we're not a big tent party? onenote Jul 2024 #31
I never said he is the best candidate. William769 Jul 2024 #70
When we became the party of reality at a time when we really, really, really elocs Jul 2024 #32
I believe that Harris has asked for him to submit info required for vetting... hlthe2b Jul 2024 #33
Thank you for your post. William769 Jul 2024 #71
Overall, we are Kaleva Jul 2024 #34
Sorry, fear of a "first" to far ..... pat_k Jul 2024 #36
Whoever is picked - some will be upset - but the person chosen will be the best choice for the role getagrip_already Jul 2024 #40
I'm gay and I don't particularly like Pete. yardwork Jul 2024 #45
And thats fine. William769 Jul 2024 #48
Agreed. yardwork Jul 2024 #49
EastBayGuy Jul 2024 #66
What is it you don't like about the McKinsey work? FHRRK Jul 2024 #91
K&R Solly Mack Jul 2024 #50
Thank you! William769 Jul 2024 #52
There's also a lot of enthusiasm for Buttigieg. n/t Mister Ed Jul 2024 #51
Pete doesnt bring a State with him. THATS what's needed here. oldsoftie Jul 2024 #53
Baby, we are in uncharted territory in so many ways right now. Politicub Jul 2024 #69
But electoral College votes are all the matters. nt oldsoftie Jul 2024 #77
Maybe one day you'll get it. n/t Politicub Jul 2024 #82
We have ONE way to elect presidents. That is all I need to "get" oldsoftie Jul 2024 #114
Arguably, no VP candidate has "brought" their state since LBJ in 1960. tritsofme Jul 2024 #80
Kamala and Pete is the ticket of my dreams Politicub Jul 2024 #56
You are correct & thank you. William769 Jul 2024 #59
I'm not sure it's claudette Jul 2024 #60
I am a gay man, and would love to see Buttigieg as the VP pick. BUT . . . markpkessinger Jul 2024 #74
We submit to their fear mongering. Voltaire2 Jul 2024 #78
I think now is the perfect time and he is an awesome cadidate. LizBeth Jul 2024 #79
Pete's my favorite! Lars39 Jul 2024 #81
We can't always get what we want Mz Pip Jul 2024 #84
Harris/Buttigieg for the win! pinkstarburst Jul 2024 #89
Rec nt berniesandersmittens Jul 2024 #96
I'm for Pete... lame54 Jul 2024 #97
I don't really see his orientation as being a line in sand among Democrats. Torchlight Jul 2024 #99
These picks are always strategic in some way. alarimer Jul 2024 #100
Seems clear to me vercetti2021 Jul 2024 #103
Fair point JustAnotherGen Jul 2024 #106
He would be a great choice! iemanja Jul 2024 #108
I don't understand the question. Self Esteem Jul 2024 #109
What? It's just pragmatic. scipan Jul 2024 #110
So... I've had a lot going on and not seen who is objecting to Buttigieg Ohio Joe Jul 2024 #113
No one is relayerbob Jul 2024 #115
William is no shit stirrer Ohio Joe Jul 2024 #119
+1000 BannonsLiver Jul 2024 #138
I hear you. My top choice is Wes Moore, but I've been told that ecstatic Jul 2024 #118
To begin with, your premise is risible. Abolishinist Jul 2024 #121
The perfect is the enemy of the good. Keep your eyes on the prize. Hekate Jul 2024 #122
the tent is big but there is only 1 VP chair. Takket Jul 2024 #123
The tent is fine. I think you have a oroblem with other having opinions edisdead Jul 2024 #125
I've been reading this thread on and off today Bettie Jul 2024 #129
I love Pete jmbar2 Jul 2024 #130
who is "we" and "us" Nimble_Idea Jul 2024 #131
Bc we don't have the luxury to put up anyone that doesn't bring us a win. FlyingPiggy Jul 2024 #136
Yeah Dems are a small tent party. BannonsLiver Jul 2024 #137

Aviation Pro

(15,578 posts)
1. The goal is to keep Motherfucker away from the White House
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:33 PM
Jul 2024

Secretary Buttigieg does not bring Indiana into the blue column at this time. In 2032, he will.

Stay focused.

Aviation Pro

(15,578 posts)
15. He's not being 'kept off the ticket'
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:44 PM
Jul 2024

He is being vetted as part of the campaign. He would make a fine VP, but we can't afford a single misstep with the fickleness of the electorate, who in most cases vote on their emotions.

William769

(59,147 posts)
57. He doesn't need to be on the list.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:32 PM
Jul 2024

It's the peoples antiquated fears wanting to keep him off the list is what my OP is about.

NoRethugFriends

(3,753 posts)
102. knowing that some people won't vote for someone gay
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 08:28 PM
Jul 2024

Is not antiquated. It's not homophobia to not put him on the ticket. It's wanting to beat Trump. That said I don't know if he'd be a negative or not. Impossible to predict.

ms liberty

(11,237 posts)
134. The Venn diagram of people who hate gays and people who won't vote for Dems is a circle.
Thu Jul 25, 2024, 11:20 AM
Jul 2024

I think we should just do it.

madaboutharry

(42,033 posts)
6. He doesn't live in Indiana anymore.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:37 PM
Jul 2024

He and Chasten now live in Michigan, where Chasten is from.

Aviation Pro

(15,578 posts)
13. He is unelected in Michigan, he is best known and arrived on the national scene as mayor of Indianapolis
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:41 PM
Jul 2024

Gretchen Whitmer would be a better VP candidate to win Michigan over, but then you'll run into the misogynist crowd that will clutch their pearls and look for a fainting couch over two women on the ticket.

We need to think strategically to ensure that Motherfucker doesn't come within sniffing distance of the White House.

Secretary Buttigieg will be a fine President in 2033.

FloridaBlues

(4,668 posts)
93. Maybe that's one of the reasons they moved to Michigan?
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 07:45 PM
Jul 2024

He would be a terrific Governor if that’s his plan.

TommyT139

(2,357 posts)
105. Lots of reasons to leave Indiana....
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 08:32 PM
Jul 2024

If he had stayed in Indiana, his own kids would not have been allowed to learn about LGBTQ people in schools. (HB 1608, passed in May 2023.)

Michigan, on the other hand, has strong protections, and values all families.

 

oldsoftie

(13,538 posts)
54. And THAT needs to be the sole focus on this race. Everything else take a back seat.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:29 PM
Jul 2024

trump MUST be defeated.

Emile

(42,289 posts)
117. I didn't know that. I thought maybe he moved to Niles
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 09:01 PM
Jul 2024

just up the road from South Bend. So I googled it and was surprised he moved all the way up north to Traverse City. I believe Traverse City is where Michael Moore lives.

CANADIANBEAVER69

(712 posts)
3. I guess some just can't deal yet, and its sad really
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:36 PM
Jul 2024

I posted this on another persons thread with the same question

I don't know why it matters who we love. What Pete brings to the table is what matters. He is more than qualified for the position. He is inspiring and knows his shit. Never backs down from a question and brings the receipts. He would be a great VP

nbsmom

(653 posts)
35. You're right.What Mayor Pete brings to the table IS what matters.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:06 PM
Jul 2024

Unfortunately, his experience doesn't include winning a statewide race. And that's why Team Harris will probably pick Shapiro or Kelly.

I will be proud to vote for him (or any future Dem candidates because we have a remarkable bench), but we must win THIS election.

calguy

(6,154 posts)
42. It doesn't matter to us here on DU who you love
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:15 PM
Jul 2024

But it absolutely does matter to many of the voters we want to attract to our side. Yeah, it's not fair. I get it. But it's the reality of the world we live in. The country is simply not ready for black female president and a gay vice president on one ticket. That's the reality.

Politicub

(12,328 posts)
64. And they don't even see it
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:44 PM
Jul 2024

It’s not okay. And we shouldn’t act like it is.

Sometimes I wish people wouldn’t say anything at all. Especially when it’s people that have been on DU for a long time.

CANADIANBEAVER69

(712 posts)
61. I do understand the reality
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:36 PM
Jul 2024

and you are correct, winning this election is more important than anything else. The Democratic Party has so many talented people to choose from and the world hopes that whoever is with MVP Harris, that they win in November.

Response to CANADIANBEAVER69 (Reply #3)

SleeplessinSoCal

(10,412 posts)
4. it would feel like force feeding.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:36 PM
Jul 2024

I hate that the term "woke" has been turned into a negative. Until we can reverse that thinking with education, putting two men in supporting roles as 1st and 2nd gentleman is probably a bridge too far.

William769

(59,147 posts)
10. Was it a bridge too far with Gays in the military? Was it a bridge too far with marriage equality?
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:40 PM
Jul 2024

As FDR once said "there is nothing to fear, but fear itself."

SleeplessinSoCal

(10,412 posts)
23. it's a bridge too far having a black woman of color stop the ticket with a gay running mate.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:52 PM
Jul 2024

If you want to gamble that it isn't, is it worth the risk? Rejecting them would fire up Fascism on the right. They already fear Muslims, Mexicans, African Americans and women. I think Pete could be POTUS. But if he were to lose as 2nd on the ticket, it might be game over.

William769

(59,147 posts)
26. Whats wrong with adding to their fear?
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:56 PM
Jul 2024

It does not matter who she picks as VP, they are still going to fear the ticket.

What this has done is show the fear & ignorance in our own party.

SleeplessinSoCal

(10,412 posts)
41. It's the risk factor that scares me sitting in the big tent.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:13 PM
Jul 2024

Fascism is rampant right now. We have to represent the Democratic party to regain our reputation as the peoples' party. We don't have a think tank for that, apparently. It seems to be up to all of us individually.

Celerity

(54,407 posts)
112. he is the best communicator our Party has, he is almost otherworldly in his ability to respond to any situation
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 08:48 PM
Jul 2024

edisdead

(3,396 posts)
126. Then he should be a spokesperson.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 11:45 PM
Jul 2024

As a CO he would be a heartbeat away from the presidency and he does not have any experience to draw from. He is a cabinet pick until he gets some other experience.

SleeplessinSoCal

(10,412 posts)
25. it's negative to a huge portion of the public through gaslighting.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:55 PM
Jul 2024

The Obama presidency should have put an end to such prejudice. Instead it put Fascism front and center in the GQP

Politicub

(12,328 posts)
65. I keep hearing it always seems impossible until it's done since Kamala became our nominee.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:49 PM
Jul 2024

I have lived through this. Lots of seemingly impossible strides have been made in LGBTQ rights over the past 20 to 30 years.

I just read your post again. Ugh. I hope you can try to walk a mile in someone else’s shoes and then imagine what your words would sound like to them.

SleeplessinSoCal

(10,412 posts)
72. What if we had an open convention?
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:57 PM
Jul 2024

This is a very unique nominating process. Her choice will weigh everything. I suspect my concerns are being voiced in the room where it happens.

kcr

(15,522 posts)
135. Yes, this is Democratic Underground
Thu Jul 25, 2024, 11:49 AM
Jul 2024

where we support Democrats and fight the GOP. Advocating for things that will 100% guarantee they win will be resisted. sorry.

 

oldsoftie

(13,538 posts)
116. An open convention for the nominee? No.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 09:01 PM
Jul 2024

it HAS to be Harris. She's the only one legally allowed to use their campaign funds.

SleeplessinSoCal

(10,412 posts)
124. Exactly
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 11:38 PM
Jul 2024

Debating is always good. Especially at a crucial time like this. Expressing concerns ought to be allowed without being attacked for them.

 

oldsoftie

(13,538 posts)
133. Yes! but you've been here long enough to know how it works though
Thu Jul 25, 2024, 07:02 AM
Jul 2024

Many times "discussion" is alerted on & hidden even if its legitimate issues & concerns.
MONTHS ago I said this was a very real possibility because the changes were obvious if you were being honest.
And I got slammed.

Skittles

(171,713 posts)
5. I hear you
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:36 PM
Jul 2024

it's like we are expected to not select the cream of the crop because it may upset (insert here: racists, misogynists, homophobes, etc.)....

edisdead

(3,396 posts)
127. Pete is the cream of the crop?
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 11:49 PM
Jul 2024

Seriously? Are people that out if it?

The dem party has a very talented and deep bench. Pete is nowhere near as qualified as others to potentially be the president.

This is absolutely crazy and what is sad is people in this thread labeling others as bigots simply for having a different opinion about who should be the VP pick.

That is completely bonkers.

Gore1FL

(22,951 posts)
11. Democrats run scared. It's what we do.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:40 PM
Jul 2024

See also:
"Reaganomics or economic disaster"
"Invading Iraq = Patriotism"
"Biden is too old"
as quick examples.

As long as we keep letting the GOP run the narrative, there will be opposition to Mayor Pete.

He's my first choice, btw.

Big Blue Marble

(5,691 posts)
39. If you are not running scared right, now, you are not paying attention.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:11 PM
Jul 2024

Everything has to fall into place in the right way in 5-6 swing states to win. It did not fall into place in 2016.
It did in 2020. Less than 150,000 voters out of 150 million will be deciding this race whether we of the base
like it or not. Stay scared and work your but off.

Big Blue Marble

(5,691 posts)
90. That is because you are not the one falling for them.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 07:32 PM
Jul 2024

Less that 200,000 of the least informed and most easily duped people will shape the
rest your life, mine, and our country on November 5th. These are the ones who have been
falling for the GOP's false narratives. Now we will begin to shift those voters with
great candidates and visionary narratives.

Big Blue Marble

(5,691 posts)
107. Maybe we can. I will trust Harris to decide.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 08:34 PM
Jul 2024

If she thinks it is time for our first gay VP.

edisdead

(3,396 posts)
128. I am sorry but why must we do it with a homosexual vp?
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 11:58 PM
Jul 2024

why is that even a criteria?

We need to right the nation and if Pete can help do that, Great! but why is his sexual orientation something that makes him more of a reason to make him the VP?

Has he been a governor who needs to work with a state house of reps and senate to get things accomplished? Did he have to work with a state AG, court system, help to work with police forces? Set policy and vision for dept of education? Agricultural depts? Has je had to work ofn a budget for a state?

I mean I know he was mayor if South Bend….. And he served in the military and was transportation secretary. And he IS wicked smart. But honestly we have OTHER great candidates to consider as well. Who have experience in areas that are more directly related to the job of a president should they need to step in.

Gore1FL

(22,951 posts)
132. I prefer Mayor Pete. He happens to be homosexual. It's not a crieria, but rather a deal-breaker for some.
Thu Jul 25, 2024, 12:48 AM
Jul 2024

We certainly do have a lot of great candidates. He happens to be one of them and shouldn't be excluded becasue he's gay.

 

TheKentuckian

(26,314 posts)
111. A woman alone is a significant lift in this country.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 08:43 PM
Jul 2024

A black woman is a very big lift.

Adding a gay man is risking getting out in front of the skis right now.

This is not a primary so it isn't about Republicans running anything or anyone running scared, it is a little discretion when a loss cannot be absorbed.

What electorate are you seeing?

SocialDemocrat61

(7,647 posts)
17. We didn't
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:48 PM
Jul 2024

But unfortunately we don’t live in a big tent country. The goal is to win an election, not to make a point.

madaboutharry

(42,033 posts)
20. I wrote in Behind the Aegis's thread in LBGTQ that we aren't yet the people we like to think we are.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:50 PM
Jul 2024

Apparently, there are limits to what a gay person is allowed to achieve in government service. It's ok for a gay person to be the Secretary of Transportation, but not yet the Vice President. What other group of people would that now apply to? Black people broke that barrier. So have Jews (Gore/Lieberman lost, sort of). But were still hung up about gays.

I want to think that people are apprehensive about Pete being on the ticket because they are scared. I am of the opinion that anyone who would say that that would be the reason they would not vote for a Harris/Buttigieg ticket wouldn't have voted for Kamala Harris no matter whom she choose.

Big Blue Marble

(5,691 posts)
21. Please let's not stir stuff up.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:51 PM
Jul 2024

Let us trust that VP Harris will choose whom she thinks is best for the campaign, best to work with her, and
most importantly, best to be potentially be our president. Every single person being considered is excellent.
Every one of these people is excellent; every one has weaknesses. Let's just wait for Kamala and her advisors
to make her first and extremely important decision.

Big Blue Marble

(5,691 posts)
30. Questioning our candidate's ability to make her own choices.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:03 PM
Jul 2024

As to what I read, Buttigieg is very much in the mix. Hopefully, she and her team are fully evaluating
each candidate with the criteria I mentioned. I do not expect that we will have an answer for several weeks.

Let's just savor this amazing miracle that just happened and is breathing new life and energy into our
party. Let's calm down and be patient as she makes what I believe will be a good decision for our
party and our country.

William769

(59,147 posts)
38. I am not Questioning our candidate's ability to make her own choices
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:08 PM
Jul 2024

I am Questioning what is being said about pete being Gay & would hurt the ticket. I know V.P. Harris will make the choice she wants.

But hearing shit about Pete being Gay & not a good fit for the ticket because of that reason is fucked up & so 2008. We are better than that or so I thought.

Big Blue Marble

(5,691 posts)
43. Do you think that a gay VP would not be a wedge issue in the swing states
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:16 PM
Jul 2024

with the squishy undecided voters? The Russian bots and Republican operatives will infuse a
whisper campaign into the mix. I do not know if it would work or not and neither do you.

I am very excited that being gay has less and less impact on voters. Many gay candidates
are being elected around the country at so many levels. It will happen in the future; I know it will.

If Harris decides to pick Pete, then she will have the confidence that that time is now. Let's wait
and see.

William769

(59,147 posts)
46. I am so over wedge issues.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:20 PM
Jul 2024

What is not a wedge issue in the Democratic platform for Gompers?

It's fear in our own people that are afraid to take a fucking stand.

Have a nice day.

Politicub

(12,328 posts)
68. My existence is a wedge issue to some
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:52 PM
Jul 2024

And I don’t really like the lectures about sitting down.

Big Blue Marble

(5,691 posts)
87. Ok. whatever.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 07:26 PM
Jul 2024

This is about winning the most critical election in world history. If wedge issues do not matter
to you, that matters not to me. What matters to our country is that we convince the most
people to vote for Democrats up and down the ticket. Whoever does helps us succeed
in that goal is the right person.

Enjoy Biden's speech and have a nice night.

Response to William769 (Reply #38)

sheshe2

(97,627 posts)
47. Being gay or female isn't a weakness.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:21 PM
Jul 2024

The other men don’t seem to have any that is being discussed.I do agree, Madam VP is going to make the best choice.

Big Blue Marble

(5,691 posts)
92. I agree; neither is a weakness,; neither is color, but only recently in our history
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 07:38 PM
Jul 2024

have we begun to reduce and eliminate the bias that has kept much our citizenry
from holding public office. We have come a long way in the last fifty years; and
we still have a way to go. But we are getting there, election by election.

I so look forward Madame President-elect then Madame President in less than six months!

Figarosmom

(11,989 posts)
22. Lm torn
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 05:52 PM
Jul 2024

The Vice Pres. Is such a waste of talent position but yet it is seen as a reward for good work too. I always hope that the position would be remade with actual responsibilities. Kamala was given more jobs to do than usual but watching Pete in action I can't help but think he'd be so wasted in the VP position. Yet he deserves it. The best one can say about the position is that it's a set up for the top job in the future.

pwb

(12,669 posts)
28. Everybody is welcome into the tent.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:00 PM
Jul 2024

Running the tent are our elders and donors. They think about Independents as much as democrats. Pete seems like a nice guy. He is good for us now and he will be good for us in the future. IMO.

Bev54

(13,431 posts)
29. I agree, there are leaders all over the world that are women, or are gay and some are gay women.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:00 PM
Jul 2024

It is time the US catch up to the rest of the world. Pete is awesome and is certainly presidential material as are others.

Big Blue Marble

(5,691 posts)
37. This is less a teaching moment, than a winning one.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:06 PM
Jul 2024

We want our ticket to expand outside of our base and draw in moderates and even Republicans.
I trust Kamala and her advisors to make the best decision to keep us on the winning track for a
big win in November.

onenote

(46,142 posts)
31. We just nominated a black woman and you think we're not a big tent party?
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:04 PM
Jul 2024

A lot of things go into the decision of who would make the best running mate. The fact that Pete is gay shouldn't be disqualifying. But it doesn't make him the best candidate either.

William769

(59,147 posts)
70. I never said he is the best candidate.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:55 PM
Jul 2024

I have a problem of people using the excuse that he is Gay. So should everybody in our damn party.

 

elocs

(24,486 posts)
32. When we became the party of reality at a time when we really, really, really
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:04 PM
Jul 2024

need to win an imperatively important election.
Did I say really?

If one is honest and lives in today's America, there is a clear risk in running an openly gay male as the running mate of a woman of color. Let's win one milestone at a time and not be greedy or unrealistic about our chances of winning.

hlthe2b

(113,971 posts)
33. I believe that Harris has asked for him to submit info required for vetting...
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:05 PM
Jul 2024

I certainly have been talking him up --former mayor of a Midwestern (Indiana) city, former military, former Congressman, incredible spokesman for DEMS, including on RW media, successful as hell as Transportation Secretary and because of that can really speak to the successes of Biden-Harris.

I think we have such a strong "bench" that it is natural that DUers will have favorites. But really, it is hard to think we can't take advantage of that 'embarrassment of riches' without taking an unbiased look at how each of the candidates could benefit the ticket--and perhaps add to the Harris-VP team.

Kaleva

(40,365 posts)
34. Overall, we are
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:06 PM
Jul 2024

But filling certain positions involves taking the political ramifications into account

I'm fine with whoever Kamala decides on.

pat_k

(13,375 posts)
36. Sorry, fear of a "first" to far .....
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:06 PM
Jul 2024

... makes buttigieg unlikely.

We are a big tent as far as working to secure basic rights and economic fairness across our melting pot, but the Democratic Leadership has always been cautious about breaking new ground. Nothing new there

getagrip_already

(17,802 posts)
40. Whoever is picked - some will be upset - but the person chosen will be the best choice for the role
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:11 PM
Jul 2024

As determined by the candidate snd her team.

And we have to trust and respect that process.

Just remember that DU is not the screening commettee. We are not the focus group. We are not the advisors or staffers (well, most of us arent anyway).

We are just phone tappers with opinions. LOTS of opinions. Dont let those get you upset.

I will support whoever is chosen, even though i have preferences and opinions.

Good luck to pete and all under consideration.

yardwork

(69,364 posts)
45. I'm gay and I don't particularly like Pete.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:17 PM
Jul 2024

He's too McKinsey for me. I think his choice would dampen enthusiasm among young progressives.

However, of course if he's chosen I'll fully support the ticket.

William769

(59,147 posts)
48. And thats fine.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:23 PM
Jul 2024

The problem I have is people useing him as being Gay for the reason. Been there and done that.

Solly Mack

(96,943 posts)
50. K&R
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:24 PM
Jul 2024

I think Pete Buttigieg would make a great president. After Harris gets 8 years, of course. Would love to see him as VP in the meantime.

MLK, Jr. speaks about "incrementalism" and the people who promote it in a more fuck-ton polite way than I ever would.

 

oldsoftie

(13,538 posts)
53. Pete doesnt bring a State with him. THATS what's needed here.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:28 PM
Jul 2024

He's on his on track for the future.
Either Shapiro or Kelly needs to be the pick to boost the chances of winning PA or AZ

Politicub

(12,328 posts)
69. Baby, we are in uncharted territory in so many ways right now.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:55 PM
Jul 2024

Every candidate’s coalition is different.

 

oldsoftie

(13,538 posts)
114. We have ONE way to elect presidents. That is all I need to "get"
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 08:55 PM
Jul 2024

I also live in the real world; which isnt the nicest place to be some times.
I believe Harris will pick the person she thinks gives her the best chance to WIN. Thats going to be a governor..

tritsofme

(19,900 posts)
80. Arguably, no VP candidate has "brought" their state since LBJ in 1960.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 07:09 PM
Jul 2024

John Edwards and Paul Ryan come to mind.

The vast majority of the electorate votes for the top of the ticket, and the VP only matters at the margins. Only when it is so bad, like Palin, does it become a factor.

Harris should choose whoever she feels will help her govern best.

Politicub

(12,328 posts)
56. Kamala and Pete is the ticket of my dreams
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:31 PM
Jul 2024

It’s always heartbreaking to see people on DU automatically dismiss the idea because he’s gay.

This is the very definition of implicit bias, and it’s always ugly when it rears its head.

I want to believe we’re better than this, but it seems we have a long way to go.

 

claudette

(5,455 posts)
60. I'm not sure it's
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 06:36 PM
Jul 2024

a tent thing. There are those with more experience than him who would be more qualified and more popular. I haven't seen anyone say he shouldn't be considered because he is gay.

markpkessinger

(8,912 posts)
74. I am a gay man, and would love to see Buttigieg as the VP pick. BUT . . .
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 07:00 PM
Jul 2024

. . . I am also a realist when it comes to the need to defeat Donald Trump, and I recognize that homophobia continues to be a thing among the electorate. I worry that having a gay man on the same ticket with a mixed race woman might be a tad too much diversity for some voters -- particularly some independent/unaffiliated voters, from whom we must draw heavily if we are to win.

It isn't a matter of retreating from being a "big tent" party, but a matter of cold, hard political calculus.

Mz Pip

(28,454 posts)
84. We can't always get what we want
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 07:14 PM
Jul 2024

That kind of thinking may be behind those of us on DU but it’s not true for a good chunk of the country. We have to be pragmatic.

pinkstarburst

(2,020 posts)
89. Harris/Buttigieg for the win!
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 07:31 PM
Jul 2024

I think this is a winning ticket! And I will argue anyone who thinks otherwise into the ground. Joe Biden didn't take the coward's way out when he put a black woman as VP on his ticket in 2020. She was the best damn one for the job and he put her on the ticket. If Pete is the best one for VP, he should be chosen, and the idea that there are all these homophobic posts on DU of all places saying a gay man can't be VP is disgusting to me.

Young people are going crazy on Tiktok. They love Kamala Harris and they LOVE Pete Buttigieg. They are way pro LGBTQIA+ rights and we need to move with that momentum and energy not get all caught up in trying to capture the bigot vote which SPOILER ALERT, we are not going to get anyway because SPOILER ALERT any bigot who isn't going to vote for a gay man as VP ain't voting for a ticket with a black woman at the top of it for president either.

So we aren't losing any voters. And let's not be naive enough to think that there are actually voters out there who have a problem with a black woman at the top of the ticket (that's those bigot voters again!) but that they'd be all fine and dandy with the that black woman as president so long as Andy Beshear, Josh Shapiro or Mark Kelly was on the ballot as VP. We're not getting those voters so it's better that we work on energizing OUR voters and getting them to the polls.

lame54

(39,771 posts)
97. I'm for Pete...
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 08:07 PM
Jul 2024

But I wasn't a couple of days ago

This is a MUST WIN election
So, I get the purity test
And it's not just his being gay but he never dealt with his situation with the South Bend black community when he was mayor
He had zero black support when he ran for prez

But I think, after hearing him speak a few times, people will forget those things and see how talented and sincere he is

Torchlight

(6,830 posts)
99. I don't really see his orientation as being a line in sand among Democrats.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 08:20 PM
Jul 2024

I think Democrats (on this message board in particular) for the most part are simply looking at numbers, looking at projections, and looking at analyses, factoring in anything and everything that could affect those final numbers one way or the other.

A lot of posters are immediately disqualifying a lot of otherwise valid potential picks for a brazillian different reasons, yet I haven't yet seen one predicated on a personal distaste of various races, genders, or orientations yet. If I've missed it, I'd be happy to give it a look-see.

 

alarimer

(17,146 posts)
100. These picks are always strategic in some way.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 08:21 PM
Jul 2024

The person chosen usually has to deliver something, usually their state’s electoral votes. Buttigieg can’t do that. It has very little to do with the person.

So, you choose Shapiro, you get PA, but might lose Michigan. But neither of those are actually a sure thing.

You also wouldn’t choose someone from Maryland, or another blue state, because that’s in the bag.

 

vercetti2021

(10,481 posts)
103. Seems clear to me
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 08:28 PM
Jul 2024

Omg the gay man would lose it for us. Always always this place pivots to the gays and trans people if an election is lost. See 2004 for reference

 

Self Esteem

(2,248 posts)
109. I don't understand the question.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 08:38 PM
Jul 2024

If you're implying previously that a Democratic nominee wouldn't care to add a minority to the ticket, I think you're actually wrong. You ask when did the Democratic Party stop being a big tent party and my question: why didn't John Kerry choose a gay running mate in 2004? Why didn't Gore choose a woman running mate in 2000 (despite a couple making the list)? Why didn't Clinton choose a Black running mate in 1992?

Probably for the same reasons some might question whether America is ready for a gay vice president. I think they are. But we're already making history with a Black, Asian woman running at the top of the ticket. Is it wrong that we have to potentially factor in how certain voters might react to this ticket? Absolutely. Is it still a reality? Unfortunately.

But to be honest, my concerns with Pete aren't necessarily his sexuality and more his visibility. Okay, that's a lie. I think for a candidate to overcome their minority status, whether it's Obama as a Black man or Kamala as a woman of color, I think they have to have that 'it' factor. They have to transcend the one thing that would separate them from every other president/vice president.

Could Pete do that? I'm not sure.

scipan

(3,041 posts)
110. What? It's just pragmatic.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 08:41 PM
Jul 2024

He's a star. But Josh Shapiro seems better for the election and that's what counts.

Ohio Joe

(21,898 posts)
113. So... I've had a lot going on and not seen who is objecting to Buttigieg
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 08:54 PM
Jul 2024

But fuck anyone who does.

relayerbob

(7,428 posts)
115. No one is
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 08:59 PM
Jul 2024

OP is trying to stir shit, IMO. Kamala has a tough choice to make from a VERY deep bench. Lots of options and lots of reasons to pick one person over another.

To me, I'd prefer Pete as Sec of State, a much more substantial and important role, more suited to his eloquence and intelligence, than side-kick.

ecstatic

(35,075 posts)
118. I hear you. My top choice is Wes Moore, but I've been told that
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 09:06 PM
Jul 2024

only a straight white male will do.

I suppose there is a good reason for trying one unprecedented thing at a time in order to pinpoint what works and what doesn't.

Abolishinist

(2,957 posts)
121. To begin with, your premise is risible.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 09:51 PM
Jul 2024

A 'big tent party', at least by one definition, is "a term used in reference to a political party having members covering a broad spectrum of beliefs."

Our big tent party, for example, welcomes followers of Rashida Tlaib. If she were in consideration for the next VP, would someone saying "she might not go over well with some of the voters we need to carry the key swing states" also be a focus of your ire?

Takket

(23,715 posts)
123. the tent is big but there is only 1 VP chair.
Wed Jul 24, 2024, 10:03 PM
Jul 2024

and Team Kamala's job is make sure whoever they put in that chair gives them the best job of winning.

Bettie

(19,704 posts)
129. I've been reading this thread on and off today
Thu Jul 25, 2024, 12:12 AM
Jul 2024

and thought my opinion means little, I'll say it isn't any of our choice.

There are a lot of factors involved in this and I'm certainly not going to demand that VP Harris pick this one or that one.

In the end, there's no nefarious reason that one will be picked over another, it's a complicated and serious decision.

We'll hear more from Pete and from the other contenders as well.

We are in an election that will decide if we ever have another election.

Every one of the people we've been told is being vetted brings something to the table, so we just have to trust that if the favorite of any one of us doesn't get picked, it's not personal and there is a good reason.

I don't have a favorite in this pick. I think any of them could do the job and do it well.

jmbar2

(7,989 posts)
130. I love Pete
Thu Jul 25, 2024, 12:28 AM
Jul 2024

He's got Obama-type qualities - so darned witty and likeable that he would win over a lot of folks not yet comfortable with gays. When he does finally get the visibility he deserves, a lot of walls will fall quickly.

He'd make a great VP, or SoS.

FlyingPiggy

(3,748 posts)
136. Bc we don't have the luxury to put up anyone that doesn't bring us a win.
Thu Jul 25, 2024, 12:02 PM
Jul 2024

I love Pete and hope one day he will be our president or VP. But, I agree with others. Not this time. It’s not what we will vote for, it’s the other voters that we need to bring into the fold.

BannonsLiver

(20,595 posts)
137. Yeah Dems are a small tent party.
Thu Jul 25, 2024, 12:08 PM
Jul 2024

Is that the utterly absurd argument being made?

Just because it probably won’t be your preferred candidate doesn’t mean everything is terrible.

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