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(7,869 posts)....sorry.
(tears)
Blue Full Moon
(3,484 posts)redwitch
(15,261 posts)A hug to you from me.
dawg
(10,777 posts)n/t
blm
(114,658 posts)So sad to hear this.
XanaDUer2
(15,772 posts)You posted earlier you couldn't reach her
crosinski
(696 posts)milestogo
(23,082 posts)So sorry.
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canetoad
(20,769 posts)Was intended as a cyber hug.
LuckyCharms
(22,648 posts)Response to canetoad (Reply #38)
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debm55
(60,612 posts)Response to debm55 (Reply #47)
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moonscape
(5,722 posts)Ocelot II
(130,533 posts)Response to Ocelot II (Reply #52)
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questionseverything
(11,840 posts)Ocelot II
(130,533 posts)everybody else started using the Internet, in the mid-'90s. It was one of the emoticons in use before the invention of graphic smileys.
Celerity
(54,407 posts)llmart
(17,617 posts)You had to hijack a thread started by someone grieving a tremendous loss for a "lesson" in how to properly use parentheses?
SMH
Celerity
(54,407 posts)Polly Hennessey
(8,833 posts)Celerity
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kimbutgar
(27,248 posts)So sorry for your loss.
malaise
(296,101 posts)live love laugh
(16,383 posts)debm55
(60,612 posts)berniesandersmittens
(13,197 posts)I'm so sorry kozar. I don't know what to say except that you have DU if you need to reach out.
My deepest condolences.
Grief is love enduring. We'll be here for you when you need us.
Haele
Endure it does.
CentralMass
(16,971 posts)livetohike
(24,282 posts)memories of Lilbit always comfort you.
Lilbit
SheilaAnn
(10,711 posts).I. gonna drink
Koz
debm55
(60,612 posts)Last edited Thu Jul 25, 2024, 07:56 PM - Edit history (1)
not be alone at this time. Stay on line and talk to us. We are here for you. We will listen. We love you and want to be with you , I don't want to tell you what to do , but alcohol is a depressant and will only make it worse for you. Cry, yell, scream. get it out. And we will be here for you.
kozar
(3,317 posts)I lost thirsday,, I'm drunk I've screamed, I am still crying
Is this a dream? I keep asking myself b by³
GPV
(73,393 posts)smother it with unimaginable amounts of food. I know you're hurting so bad right now, but can you get help for going through this? :hugs:
Ptah
(34,122 posts)MacKasey
(1,519 posts)Please take care of yourself
MacKasey
(1,519 posts)Last edited Fri Jul 26, 2024, 06:30 PM - Edit history (1)
sheshe2
(97,625 posts)MerryBlooms
(12,248 posts)LuckyCharms
(22,648 posts)FalloutShelter
(14,465 posts)ProfessorGAC
(76,703 posts)You take care.
Srkdqltr
(9,760 posts)sl8
(17,110 posts)Freddie
(10,104 posts)Thinking of you. Give your kitty a big hug.
catrose
(5,365 posts)Think. Again.
(22,456 posts)Grief counseling has helped me tremendously to get through.
barbtries
(31,308 posts)I don't know where I'd be without grief counseling, though it may be too soon, within a couple months I really hope you will consider it. I think right now you are in shock.
canetoad
(20,769 posts)Thinking of you.
Backseat Driver
(4,671 posts)democrank
(12,598 posts)Were here for you.
BittyJenkins
(606 posts)For you and Lilbit 💕
usonian
(25,318 posts)GoCubsGo
(34,914 posts)Biophilic
(6,552 posts)orange jar
(878 posts)It'll get better over time. Do you find catharsis/comfort in music? I find this song to be comforting in difficult times.
moonscape
(5,722 posts)Dear_Prudence
(1,172 posts)I am so sad at your terrible loss.
sinkingfeeling
(57,835 posts)Niagara
(11,850 posts)highplainsdem
(62,143 posts)PatrickforB
(15,425 posts)Desert grandma
(1,076 posts)Sending love and hugs to you. My deepest sympathy Kozar. May she rest in peace and may her memory bring you peace and comfort.
Alliepoo
(2,832 posts)Mr.Bill
(24,906 posts)Bettie
(19,704 posts)for your loss.
Chicagogrl1
(645 posts)Marthe48
(23,175 posts)I was thinking about you both yesterday. I'm sorry to hear your sad news.
JoseBalow
(9,488 posts)Bev54
(13,431 posts)Picaro
(2,393 posts)judesedit
(4,592 posts)TygrBright
(21,362 posts)sdfernando
(6,084 posts)bucolic_frolic
(55,136 posts)We've all witnessed your devotion and ups and downs, and feel your shock. You've performed at a very high level.
Polly Hennessey
(8,833 posts)irisblue
(37,511 posts)Wicked Blue
(8,867 posts)skylucy
(4,024 posts)Fla Dem
(27,633 posts)CanonRay
(16,171 posts)70sEraVet
(5,482 posts)Know that our hearts are with you.
Eko
(9,993 posts)Dave Bowman
(7,159 posts)3Hotdogs
(15,368 posts)Hope22
(4,746 posts)My heart goes out to you! Always know that you did your best. You did your best! Love and hugs to you!💗💗💐🙏🏼
Nanuke
(925 posts)What a shock and heartbreak for you. We are here for you.
marked50
(1,584 posts)wordstroken
(1,406 posts)of your precious Lilbit, kozar.
blogslug
(39,167 posts)May you find comfort for your loss. ❤️
badhair77
(5,181 posts)Thinking of you and may you find comfort.
nolabear
(43,850 posts)I hope you find peace, and lil bit rests easy.
Chellee
(2,300 posts)biophile
(1,423 posts)You said you are in shock and that is not ok but it is normal. We are sorry for your sad news and loss. Sending hugs to you as you grieve.
biophile
(1,423 posts)You said you are in shock and that is not ok but it is normal. We are sorry for your sad news and loss. Sending hugs to you as you grieve.
LoisB
(13,028 posts)CANADIANBEAVER69
(712 posts)BadgerMom
(3,417 posts)Solly Mack
(96,942 posts)BumRushDaShow
(169,753 posts)Sky Jewels
(9,148 posts)Teacher of the Year
(229 posts)Your Lilbit sure was lucky to have you in their life. I know their path was difficult, but it was full of love.
My best to you as you process this but with her body passing comes her spirits great freedom. I hope that helps you through these hard days.
Brett
praying for peace and comfort for you .
Trueblue Texan
(4,464 posts)I am devastated for you! I wish I had words that took away the shock and disbelief and grief. I am sending you love and warmth and healing. Wish I could send so much more!!!
pazzyanne
(6,759 posts)onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)Hugs.
JustinBulletin
(112 posts)May peace be with you and comfort you in this time of great loss.
Jirel
(2,369 posts)I wish we could do more to support you.
mountain grammy
(29,035 posts)Nululu
(1,116 posts)barbtries
(31,308 posts)my heart hurts for you.
As a mother who also lost her daughter I invite you to reach out any time. PM me and I will give you my phone number if you need to talk any time.
MerrilyMerrily
(230 posts)Duncanpup
(15,651 posts)Warpy
(114,615 posts)I am so sorry.
Feel frree to PM me if you have questions later.
arkielib
(436 posts)Very sincere condolences. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Please take care of yourself.
CaptainTruth
(8,200 posts)We're here for you. If there's anyone you can call to talk to or spend time with I urge you do it. You don't have to bear the pain alone, & I know it's always helped me.
Take care of yourself.
karin_sj
(1,370 posts)I'm so sorry to hear this, kozar.
cate94
(3,102 posts)Tetrachloride
(9,624 posts)my sincere condolences
So sorry for you Kozar.
gademocrat7
(11,940 posts)On the loss of your sweet Lilbit. Sending you love and hugs. We are with you. Please stay in touch.
PCIntern
(28,366 posts)always be for a blessing.
BigMin28
(1,859 posts)Sending sincerest condolences and hugs your way. It's a tough road, I know too well. But you are not alone.
IbogaProject
(5,913 posts)Was this unexpected given her health condition? Either way I am so sorry for your loss you and your wife worked so hard to take care of her. But please check in with us as you need.
virgdem
(2,318 posts)My deepest condolences to you on the loss of Lilbit. She meant the world to you. Please take good care of yourself. We are all here for you.💔
dflprincess
(29,341 posts)Be kind to yourself.
StarryNite
(12,116 posts)jmbar2
(7,989 posts)There are no words to console except I am so sorry. You've had so much loss. My heart hurts for you tonite.
SilverDawg
(884 posts)🩷
stopdiggin
(15,463 posts)My sincerest sympathy. And hopes for healing.
OldBaldy1701E
(11,142 posts)AmBlue
(3,460 posts)We are here if you need us. Please reach out when you're ready.
Dem2theMax
(11,005 posts)Lilbit and you were so lucky to have each other. You amazed me with all of the love and devotion you gave to her. I cannot imagine the amount of grief you are feeling right now. Please know we are all here for you. And always know that you did the very best by her.
For Lilbit
happybird
(5,393 posts)Sending you love.
electric_blue68
(26,856 posts)Moosepoop
(2,075 posts)When the shock wears off, and it will, we are here for you.
MyMission
(2,010 posts)To offer comfort and share your grief.
Any hour of the day.
To lose a child is a horror, a living nightmare.
You often remind us how important it is to love.
Remember love.
May your memories bring you comfort.
Hekate
(100,133 posts)May that love sustain you, and may her crossing be gentle.
💔Many people are holding you in their hearts tonight. 💔
Nevilledog
(55,080 posts)Iris
(16,872 posts)femmedem
(8,561 posts)I'm so very sorry! I remember how scared you were when you were notified that Covid was going through the place she lived, and I can imagine how crushing this is for you, especially after having lost your wife.
The Third Doctor
(449 posts)Ocelot II
(130,533 posts)Please check in and let us know how you are doing.
1WorldHope
(2,054 posts)I have only one child and the thought of losing her is unbearable. Let us know more as you can. Be gentle with yourself. And feel free to call anytime. Just ask for my number and I'll give it to you. 💔🫂
Bayard
(29,684 posts)As Joe Biden has said:
'The time will come when her memory will bring a smile to your lips before it brings a tear to your eyes.'
Hang in there and lean on us. We're here for you.
JohnSJ
(98,883 posts)kozar
(3,317 posts)Celerity
(54,407 posts)kozar
(3,317 posts)I contacted vet crisis line and spoke with them, thay can't send anyone
Koz
kozar
(3,317 posts)kozar
(3,317 posts)Chieflandnd Fl g
Please come quietly
berniesandersmittens
(13,197 posts)It may be time to call and see your doctor as soon as possible.
Your grief must be unbearable.
FemDemERA
(828 posts)These are but mere words which seem so inadequate right now. I know there is nothing I can say to ease the pain of such a loss but my wish is for you to find some comfort in the days to come as you reflect on the memories of love and time shared with you Lilbit.
MacKasey
(1,519 posts)Lilbit has been in care of the state of Florida since August 2023,
I'm thinking you should have got documents stating what the procedure would be if she had passed. So I think you need to contact those same people to claim her body, if you want to have a funeral or cremation.
Can anyone please let me know if I am on the right track in support of Koz
phoenix_rising
(323 posts)My heart breaks for you and for all you must be going through right now.