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DJ Porkchop

(635 posts)
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 05:18 PM Sep 2024

If "Bless Your Heart" was a facial expression



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Having sat on the debate for a bit, one thing that still stick with me is HOW WELL Kamala Harris utilized the split screen. Not just in comparison to Trump, but in general. She knew her mic would be muted whenever he was talking but also that she would be on camera the entire time.

Kamala is a good public speaker. She's not some out of the park amazing speaker like either of the Obamas, but she's up there with the very good ones for this generation of Democrats. But here she used silence SO DAMN WELL. Her expressions were perfect because you know the right wing was looking for anything to call her too much in any one direction (elitist, dismissive, snarky, and heaven forbid, sassy).

Instead, the vast majority of the time when Trump was ranting lies with reality WAY out too lunch her face mostly read "are you ok?" and "i hear you but that is so wrong that I pity you." Both are pitch perfect and follow the script Dems have been on since she took up the mantle: Wow, those conservatives are fucking weirdos, in a bad way

That is what hurts the fascist. To be seen as odd, as weird, as laughable even. Someone can be a threat and still be Bonkers D. Bobcat out to lunch on how baffling their perception of reality is. It is "bless your heart" as a facial expression instead of a phrase and I did not know one could do that until this debate.

Here's a collection of her reactions from the NYT. This is not someone rattled, or scared, or in danger. This is someone who knows she is running against an UTTERLY UNFIT CRIMINAL JACKASS and is going to let the rest of us know without a word. That final face tho. That's the one that kills me because it distills her message of Joy and Overcoming The Trump Era that she is running on. Yep, you can go be a batshit wacko fascist. And the rest of us will still win and we will laugh at you while we do it.
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If "Bless Your Heart" was a facial expression (Original Post) DJ Porkchop Sep 2024 OP
bless your heart. I know what that means in Texas msongs Sep 2024 #1
And here! rubbersole Sep 2024 #2
And here! bamagal62 Sep 2024 #14
And here! ArkansasDemocrat1 Sep 2024 #22
Here too! Dulcinea Sep 2024 #26
My Grandma and her Sisters BOSSHOG Sep 2024 #28
I'm not from the south but Demobrat Sep 2024 #17
That's the one with her hand on her chin malaise Sep 2024 #3
Yup! SheltieLover Sep 2024 #6
We should caption all of them malaise Sep 2024 #7
Good idea! SheltieLover Sep 2024 #8
R U OK? DJ Porkchop Sep 2024 #4
Or malaise Sep 2024 #24
Sarah cooper is a gem DJ Porkchop Sep 2024 #5
Priceless! UpInArms Sep 2024 #10
Top right pic should be copyrighted for the "Bless your heart" expression. Uncle Joe Sep 2024 #9
Yes, top right picture is exactly "well, bless your heart". Perfection. Should be a poster on its own. :) mucholderthandirt Sep 2024 #13
Yep, that is EXACTLY what I thought when she made that look. Beartracks Sep 2024 #15
Yes. When I get that look, I'm devastated nuxvomica Sep 2024 #19
Frank Luntz kvetched about her expressions tishaLA Sep 2024 #11
I really wanted her to come out with "I pity the fool who... japple Sep 2024 #12
That top right one drmeow Sep 2024 #16
Agree! Definitely top right. Pacifist Patriot Sep 2024 #18
My favorite, too. highplainsdem Sep 2024 #21
Yep stage left Sep 2024 #23
See, I thought drmeow Sep 2024 #25
It's all in the context. Dulcinea Sep 2024 #29
"Bless Your Heart" works in Oregon too dai13sy Sep 2024 #20
Yes, "bless your heart" can be easily done without saying a word. paleotn Sep 2024 #27
Bless your heart; that's the best you can do; you really don't understand; they let you out of your care home. Doodley Sep 2024 #30

BOSSHOG

(44,738 posts)
28. My Grandma and her Sisters
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 10:39 PM
Sep 2024

In Fayetteville and Roger’s and Huntsville back in the 60s used Bless your Heart like the termination of a conversation. Like. Forget about any further comment.

Demobrat

(10,299 posts)
17. I'm not from the south but
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 07:37 PM
Sep 2024

I have adopted the expression as the perfect response when someone says they’ll pray for me (an atheist).

Short, sweet, and leaves them totally confused.

Uncle Joe

(65,137 posts)
9. Top right pic should be copyrighted for the "Bless your heart" expression.
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 06:14 PM
Sep 2024

I believe that one most nailed it.

Thanks for the thread DJ Porkchop

mucholderthandirt

(1,783 posts)
13. Yes, top right picture is exactly "well, bless your heart". Perfection. Should be a poster on its own. :)
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 06:40 PM
Sep 2024

Beartracks

(14,593 posts)
15. Yep, that is EXACTLY what I thought when she made that look.
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 07:08 PM
Sep 2024

Upper left was like (sucking wind through teeth): "Oof, Don, do you hear yourself talking?"
Upper right (when Don doesn't stop): "Bless your heart."

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nuxvomica

(14,092 posts)
19. Yes. When I get that look, I'm devastated
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 07:46 PM
Sep 2024

She's saying, Oh you poor dear, you really don't know what you're talking about, do you? I get that look sometimes from my dentist.

tishaLA

(14,778 posts)
11. Frank Luntz kvetched about her expressions
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 06:27 PM
Sep 2024

And Sarah Longwell from The Bulwark got into it with him on social media. Luntz said that the expressions were too "feminine" or some shit and Longwell responded that those were the same expressions as anyone watching him has.

japple

(10,459 posts)
12. I really wanted her to come out with "I pity the fool who...
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 06:39 PM
Sep 2024

(whatever stupid thing he said)

drmeow

(5,989 posts)
16. That top right one
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 07:33 PM
Sep 2024

"Oh, you poor thing. Does somebody's widdle diaper need to be changed?"

stage left

(3,307 posts)
23. Yep
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 08:26 PM
Sep 2024

That's the expression in South Carolina. "Bless your heart, you poor dear. Your mama should have taught you better."

Dulcinea

(10,094 posts)
29. It's all in the context.
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 10:56 PM
Sep 2024

"Bless your heart" can be an expression of sympathy, as in "I'm sad. My dog died." If someone says "Bless your heart" to that, they really do feel sad for you. But, in the case of the debate, it an also mean "You're a complete idiot."

dai13sy

(570 posts)
20. "Bless Your Heart" works in Oregon too
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 08:02 PM
Sep 2024

Vice President Harris is the absolute best candidate for President and she is playing against an absolute loon. I mean that woman is so cool under pressure and she comes out looking intelligent and knowledgeable and with her sense of humor still in tact. I want her to be our President

paleotn

(22,218 posts)
27. Yes, "bless your heart" can be easily done without saying a word.
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 10:34 PM
Sep 2024

I’ve had it done to me many times. My better half is an expert at it. So is Harris.

Doodley

(11,913 posts)
30. Bless your heart; that's the best you can do; you really don't understand; they let you out of your care home.
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 11:31 PM
Sep 2024
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