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PCIntern

(28,366 posts)
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 01:16 PM Sep 2024

I had to do this...I'm so sorry...

(Not really)

I finished my morning shift of listening to people, whine and complain about everything in the world and took myself out to the supermarket to buy some lunch. So I’m at the counter, deciding what to purchase, and a lady picks up a package and says to me, “They put a $.50 service charge on this (pre sliced cold cuts).” I looked at what she was holding, and it was a plastic bag which said $3.99 a pound and there was .755 pounds for a total price of $3.01.

I said to her, “There’s no service charge on this.“ She looked at it and said, “Well, my friend who works at ShopRite said they do that.“ My response was, “Well, not on this one so I guess you’re lucky.”

She then said, out of seemingly nowhere, “They say everything is fine when everything costs a fortune. She says everything is fine and it isn’t.” My response, knowing full well who “She” is: “Well, I know what you mean, but I don’t vote for rapists because my mother was raped when she was young.“

Her jaw just went slack and I said, “Have a nice day, now..” And walked away.

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I had to do this...I'm so sorry... (Original Post) PCIntern Sep 2024 OP
I think you woke her up. live love laugh Sep 2024 #1
I admire your quick feet ... feat works too! yonder Sep 2024 #2
Half of the US population is below the median in intelligence. maxsolomon Sep 2024 #3
Or yahno, do the math? In all fairness though, it must be TERRIFYING Maru Kitteh Sep 2024 #5
Hadn't thought about it like that. No wonder they're scared and angry. Biophilic Sep 2024 #14
"Life is hard. It's harder if you're stupid."-- lastlib Sep 2024 #18
Writing this one down Blue_Roses Sep 2024 #49
Most of them don't even care that they're stupid. llmart Sep 2024 #43
Ignorance and arrogance make a very bad combination. 3catwoman3 Sep 2024 #47
Most of them don't even KNOW that they're stupid. ShazzieB Sep 2024 #48
Many of them REVEL in it. lastlib Sep 2024 #51
Well jfz9580m Sep 2024 #50
Right? Trueblue Texan Sep 2024 #23
It's actually the "median", not the "mean". erronis Sep 2024 #25
Ugh, I second guessed myself on that one. maxsolomon Sep 2024 #32
If you are aware of the term "median," you are almost certainly not below it. soldierant Sep 2024 #38
Elitist. lastlib Sep 2024 #52
Ah, but, the IQ "scale" was designed to be symmetrical, so the mean and median are the same muriel_volestrangler Sep 2024 #53
You, and and maxsolomon are absolutely correct! erronis Sep 2024 #57
Well, that's probably true in every country. Elessar Zappa Sep 2024 #29
You get what you pay for. AloeVera Sep 2024 #30
That shit-brained skid mark, Senator Dick Armey... GiqueCee Sep 2024 #39
The discrediting especially of higher education is the worst. AloeVera Sep 2024 #44
I took the IQ test and scored a "90" Seinan Sensei Sep 2024 #45
Electro-shock therapy,...... magicarpet Sep 2024 #4
Hey, I could probably carry one in my purse, with the leads handy, niyad Sep 2024 #34
I love this. onecaliberal Sep 2024 #6
"I don't vote for rapists because" I was just in Michigan and most of the people I was with were MAGA Ford mitch96 Sep 2024 #7
That woman lives in an information bubble sealed as tightly as that package. n/t John1956PA Sep 2024 #8
And about as smart as a bunch of variety meats. erronis Sep 2024 #26
Thank you. I did not know that term. John1956PA Sep 2024 #42
I wonder what she might have done next if rather gristy Sep 2024 #9
I usually just say onethatcares Sep 2024 #10
You would think that they have Mblaze Sep 2024 #11
Just wait till Project 2025 BattleRow Sep 2024 #24
Oh, they will remove the security too. Off to the poor-house. erronis Sep 2024 #27
Though every cell phone has a calculator function, stupid/lazy people defend fools' gossip over mathematics. jaxexpat Sep 2024 #12
Boom!💥 sheshe2 Sep 2024 #13
Why bring mom into it, I don't vote for rapists END OF SENTENCE! Brainfodder Sep 2024 #15
No. PCIntern Sep 2024 #16
I am so very sorry about your mother's experience. Blue Dawn Sep 2024 #20
Republicans tend to lack empathy. ecstatic Sep 2024 #55
She will not fear zombies Marthe48 Sep 2024 #17
Ha. . Nt Figarosmom Sep 2024 #19
Good for you! 1WorldHope Sep 2024 #21
Oh, I'm hoping you really said that and said it loudly enough for everybody to hear it Warpy Sep 2024 #22
Quick wit Clouds Passing Sep 2024 #28
Bravo! sellitman Sep 2024 #31
"I will flat out ask them how they support a rapist." J_William_Ryan Sep 2024 #33
No, you ignorant little twit, they just price per pound accordingly. niyad Sep 2024 #35
Yeah but but but... PCIntern Sep 2024 #36
I applaud your self restraint, even after hours of listening to idiots whining. niyad Sep 2024 #37
holds head and does loooooong lurch groan. AllaN01Bear Sep 2024 #40
Wow! Joinfortmill Sep 2024 #41
No apology necessary, PCIntern! calimary Sep 2024 #46
She'll probably stay home now. ecstatic Sep 2024 #54
In my "debates" with online "friends" I cut to the chase... reACTIONary Sep 2024 #56
Awesome reply. Emile Sep 2024 #58

maxsolomon

(38,718 posts)
3. Half of the US population is below the median in intelligence.
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 01:32 PM
Sep 2024

Last edited Thu Sep 26, 2024, 12:10 PM - Edit history (1)

LOOK AT THE FREAKING LABEL FOR THE SERVICE CHARGE, IDIOT.

Maru Kitteh

(31,759 posts)
5. Or yahno, do the math? In all fairness though, it must be TERRIFYING
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 01:46 PM
Sep 2024

to go through life that stupid. Never knowing how to figure out if you're being treated fairly. Having no resources to determine truth from what the lady who works at RiteAid told you. No wonder they're all so motivated by fear.

Biophilic

(6,552 posts)
14. Hadn't thought about it like that. No wonder they're scared and angry.
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 03:00 PM
Sep 2024

Of course it doesn’t help having a national party and it’s so called leaders echoing Fox News and vice versa.

lastlib

(28,262 posts)
18. "Life is hard. It's harder if you're stupid."--
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 03:15 PM
Sep 2024

--Lt. Col. Benjamin Vandervoort, The Longest Day

llmart

(17,615 posts)
43. Most of them don't even care that they're stupid.
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 08:01 PM
Sep 2024

They are also intellectually lazy. If you point something out to them and show them the correct way to look at it they don't even bother to learn something new. They go through their entire lives day by day without ever getting any smarter because they don't want to. Also, their favorite line about college is, "I have street smarts and not book smarts." They're actually proud of their ignorance.

3catwoman3

(29,406 posts)
47. Ignorance and arrogance make a very bad combination.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 12:05 AM
Sep 2024

Have you seen the neologism ignoranus? Someone who is both stupid and an asshole.

lastlib

(28,262 posts)
51. Many of them REVEL in it.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 06:41 AM
Sep 2024

They take being stupid as a badge of honor. Being smart makes you an "elitist," which they think is one of their worst insults.

It staggers my mind.

jfz9580m

(17,188 posts)
50. Well
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 02:46 AM
Sep 2024

Fear of being or rather looking stupid is probably one of the greatest fears people have.

But our very polarised and stressed world doesn’t offer many opportunities for correcting past stupidity.

Your post connecting fear and stupidity reminded me of a rather interesting piece I saw a few days ago on an article from a couple of years back on fear:

https://www.technologynetworks.com/neuroscience/news/the-fear-frequency-researchers-identify-brain-waves-linked-to-fear-response-352183

It is interesting. Fearfulness probably acts as a powerful disrupter re real learning of all kinds. Which then makes the world more not less scary. The less you know the more fearful you are and the more fearful you are the less you learn and so on. A vicious cycle...

But it is not as if stupidity is a static thing or as if you or I or anyone else is just irredeemably stupid. Anyone can fix a lot of it with learning and then it wouldn’t really matter that much how stupid you once were…

Okay one still may not understand, for instance, whether this is a real paper title or not: The Predicted Fluctuations in the Hamiltonians of Synchronized Quantum Systems (I am just making stuff up…that is gibberish not a real paper and I have no idea how idiotic a title that is). But one would understand enough of the world to navigate it better.

Trueblue Texan

(4,464 posts)
23. Right?
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 04:07 PM
Sep 2024

I swear to God they are EVERYWHERE! If I were going to be buried I'd want it written on my gravestone, "So many stupid f***ing people here! Good riddance!"

erronis

(23,875 posts)
25. It's actually the "median", not the "mean".
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 05:20 PM
Sep 2024

The median is the number where half is above and half below.

The mean may be skewed up by some really bright people but is probably skewed down due to the magats.

maxsolomon

(38,718 posts)
32. Ugh, I second guessed myself on that one.
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 06:34 PM
Sep 2024

First thought: median. Second thought: no, that can't be right. It's a term you wouldn't think of immediately. mean?

I must be below the median...

soldierant

(9,354 posts)
38. If you are aware of the term "median," you are almost certainly not below it.
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 07:28 PM
Sep 2024

Even just being aware that there is more than one kind of "average most likely puts you above the median. And, if you also know the term "mode," I'd bet money on it.

muriel_volestrangler

(106,208 posts)
53. Ah, but, the IQ "scale" was designed to be symmetrical, so the mean and median are the same
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 08:49 AM
Sep 2024

There isn't a true numerical measure of intelligence (unlike, say, salary). There is just the "scale" of results from tests. The tests put everyone in order, and then the scale is set so that the mean, and median, are "100", with a normal distribution with standard deviation of 15.

IQ scales are ordinally scaled.[77][78][79][80][81] The raw score of the norming sample is usually (rank order) transformed to a normal distribution with mean 100 and standard deviation 15.[4] While one standard deviation is 15 points, and two SDs are 30 points, and so on, this does not imply that mental ability is linearly related to IQ, such that IQ 50 would mean half the cognitive ability of IQ 100. In particular, IQ points are not percentage points.



https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intelligence_quotient#Current_tests

erronis

(23,875 posts)
57. You, and and maxsolomon are absolutely correct!
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 09:46 AM
Sep 2024

I was thinking that it involved a subset of the population which wouldn't necessarily hue to the median == mean.

Thank you.

Elessar Zappa

(16,385 posts)
29. Well, that's probably true in every country.
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 05:35 PM
Sep 2024

But you don’t see Sweden electing a Trump-like figure. (Sweden is just a randomly chosen country to make a point).

AloeVera

(4,263 posts)
30. You get what you pay for.
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 06:17 PM
Sep 2024

Sweden invests heavily in public education. It shows.

I always thought the amount of stupidity in the U.S. was directly related to its reluctance to properly fund a good education system.

A smart populace would not fall to the fake charms of Fox and Trump so easily.

GiqueCee

(4,257 posts)
39. That shit-brained skid mark, Senator Dick Armey...
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 07:29 PM
Sep 2024

... once said, with his bare face hanging out, that Bill Clinton "never met an education program he didn't like," and in his diseased Republican mind, that was a pejorative.
Republicans know that intelligence and empathy skew heavily to the left, and they don't want an educated and caring society, because they won't vote Republican. That goes double for the malicious shitgibbons that have hijacked the GQP.

AloeVera

(4,263 posts)
44. The discrediting especially of higher education is the worst.
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 09:45 PM
Sep 2024

The push for devolution and dumbing-down would make Darwin turn in his grave.

Of course dumbing down is necessary for establishing authoritarian, oligarchic rule. Can't have an educated electorate seeing behind the curtain.

magicarpet

(18,509 posts)
4. Electro-shock therapy,......
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 01:33 PM
Sep 2024

.... might be quicker. A huge lithium battery on a handcart. Wheel it with you wherever you go..

niyad

(132,440 posts)
34. Hey, I could probably carry one in my purse, with the leads handy,
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 07:02 PM
Sep 2024

and a remote switch. Now THAT would make my little excursions fun! Although. . . living in a slightly bluer area of fundieville, I do not encounter too many of them.

What I REALLY need is something small and easily disguised to drain the batteries of cars with the orange creature crap all over them. Something like a reverse universal remote.

mitch96

(15,802 posts)
7. "I don't vote for rapists because" I was just in Michigan and most of the people I was with were MAGA Ford
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 02:14 PM
Sep 2024

Last edited Wed Sep 25, 2024, 06:41 PM - Edit history (1)

retirees. We were at the Henry Ford Museum and I was raving about the place. It was quite the display.
I mentioned to one of the retirees
Ol Henry was a Nazi loving ANTI-SEMITE but knew how to hire engineers and make stuff work..
LIke you...... a jaw drop and no comment..
n

erronis

(23,875 posts)
26. And about as smart as a bunch of variety meats.
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 05:23 PM
Sep 2024

That's what cold cuts used to be called. The scapings from the slaughterhouse floor packaged as bologna, salami, liverwurst, etc. The good cuts were sent to our soldiers (and the fat cats.)

John1956PA

(4,964 posts)
42. Thank you. I did not know that term.
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 07:49 PM
Sep 2024

I have heard that during WWII there was a choice-cuts underground market here in this country.

gristy

(10,733 posts)
9. I wonder what she might have done next if rather
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 02:34 PM
Sep 2024

than walking away, you had just stood there, looking at her, not moving, not speaking. Now that would have been interesting.

onethatcares

(16,992 posts)
10. I usually just say
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 02:48 PM
Sep 2024

"The government doesn't set prices" I really can't argue with the dumbness of Americans anymore and I find it easier on my BP to let it go at that.

Mblaze

(1,037 posts)
11. You would think that they have
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 02:50 PM
Sep 2024

Given up their confidence in the "wisdom of the free market". They seem to want government interference in product pricing and yet they work against the party that has actually worked to cap drug prices. They are a very confused lot.

 

jaxexpat

(7,794 posts)
12. Though every cell phone has a calculator function, stupid/lazy people defend fools' gossip over mathematics.
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 02:58 PM
Sep 2024

It was oil change day. Wife and I were talking in the auto service lounge about how something remined her of something we saw in New Mexico the previous spring. A woman there interrupted our conversation to tell us we should have spent our travel dollars in the US. I started to explain that we were in NEW Mexico and either her geographic comprehension was very shaky or sh'd mis-.....wife places her hand on my shoulder, gets my attention, shakes her head and we smile together. After 35 years of marriage the connection is instantaneous. We both understood this (75 +/- yo) woman was the product of a social system where all she had to learn was how, since she was white, polite folk never disagree with gentility. *

* That's "Southern" for, "either you're with me or you're a goddamned Yankee "agitator".

Blue Dawn

(970 posts)
20. I am so very sorry about your mother's experience.
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 04:01 PM
Sep 2024

I am a victim of rape myself, and I was trying to think of a way to respond to a relative who voted for Trump and plans to vote for Trump in November. What you said to that woman was a powerful statement; I think I will use you as my example when speaking to my sister.

I appreciate your sharing this, PCIntern. Thank you.





ecstatic

(35,075 posts)
55. Republicans tend to lack empathy.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 09:07 AM
Sep 2024

If it had been left open-ended, it probably would not have made much of an impact. The comment, as delivered, might make her imagine her own mom or family member being attacked by trump.

So now she's probably going to go home, Google "tRump rape," and hopefully end up on an entirely new algorithm and trajectory.

Warpy

(114,615 posts)
22. Oh, I'm hoping you really said that and said it loudly enough for everybody to hear it
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 04:06 PM
Sep 2024

Deflating a moronic blowhard is always fun, but it's a lot more fun when there is an audience.

J_William_Ryan

(3,496 posts)
33. "I will flat out ask them how they support a rapist."
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 06:38 PM
Sep 2024

They don’t believe he’s a rapist – that’s the problem.

Such is the willfully ignorant blind partisan right.

PCIntern

(28,366 posts)
36. Yeah but but but...
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 07:16 PM
Sep 2024

Someone she KNOWS who WORKS AT A STORE told her this. Typical RW liar. Someone on tv told Trump that they’re eating the dogs and the cats so…

It’s so easy.

niyad

(132,440 posts)
37. I applaud your self restraint, even after hours of listening to idiots whining.
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 07:25 PM
Sep 2024

You were far kinder and more patient than I would have been. But then, my claws need frequent sharpening, and I have NO patience.

calimary

(90,017 posts)
46. No apology necessary, PCIntern!
Wed Sep 25, 2024, 11:21 PM
Sep 2024

Most of these wannabe saboteurs aren’t expecting to be challenged. So when you do, because you know better, and you’ve been paying attention, that can often embarrass them into silence. That’s what you might call The Civilian’s “Shock ‘n’ Awe”!

reACTIONary

(7,162 posts)
56. In my "debates" with online "friends" I cut to the chase...
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 09:39 AM
Sep 2024

.... and just point out that TSF is a convicted felon and a rapist. Saves a lot of time and trouble.

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