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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI'm Back!
After an exceptionally long hiatus (my bad), a Prodigal DUer has returned.
Hello, and good tidings to all who know me. To those who don't, it's my pleasure to meet you.
Eons ago, I was a Moderator here, now I find many of my fellow DU'ers are on the Memoriam Page, this saddens me deeply.
What saddens me more, is that there will be another name added to that list, unhappycamper who passed from this
plane, April 12, 2023.
I met him via DU some 20 years ago, we served together on many stints as Moderators, he from Boston, me from Nebraska.
I went to Boston to recover from pneumonia at the VA there and was to spend two weeks. That turned into just over 12 years.
He was not just my brother-in-arms, he was family. I stayed in his Condo for those years, we shared stories, wished we were a lot younger as we drove through Boston and saw "them new fangled women folk" that didn't exist when we were younger (what the hell happened???)
On October 2, 2022, I found him on the Living Room floor, he had had a stroke. After calling 911, I took his vitals, made him comfortable and he was coherent. 9 days after he was admitted to Mass Gen Hospital (he was doing well, standing and getting some function to his affected side), a clot created an aneurysm, which blew and everything went catastrophic. I was his Health Care Proxy and POA.
Five months ago, another DUer, and Moderator, Treasonous Bastard also a one time Moderator, and my actual older brother passed from this plane. Type 2 Diabetes robbed him of sight in his left eye due to macular detachment, and he was taking that long walk into Dementia.
When I happened upon DU, via an email, I scrolled down and saw the Memoriam page. We didn't have that in my days on DU, and we were losing people, damn good people. Kephra, oneighty, maddiejoan, ElizabethEdwards, blondeatlast, aliengirl, NNNOHLI, Bartcop, opihimoimoi, pinto, JeffR, William Pitt, madfloridian, nevergiveup, The Magistrate.
I worked with these people, and knew them as part of the larger cause, they, like all Duers, are part of something greater than ourselves.
We are family.
Skinner has retired, EarlG answered my email (I know, things are hectic, 45 is a bigger butt nugget than anyone imagined could happen) and I've been working my butt off in NE for Harris/Walz, FWIW: There is but a single DJT lawn sign in Lincoln NE and well over 250 Harris/Walz!
OK, I'm up to date, back on DU, and ready to go to work for the Cause. Let's do this and keep a healthy Constitutional republic alive and well!
rasputin1952 is in the fight!
MLAA
(19,741 posts)Im so sorry for your/our recent losses. Thanks for your hard work in Nebraska and May you be rewarded with a strong, winning cornhuskers football season this year.
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)Downtown Lincoln sucks when they play home games!
Maeve
(43,456 posts)rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)chouchou
(3,141 posts)rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)I had to chuckle when earlG called me ras in his post, I hadn't seen that in a long time!
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)I'll try to keep up this time
BoRaGard
(7,591 posts)rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)sheshe2
(97,620 posts)Attilatheblond
(8,876 posts)Good to meet you.
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)Fla Dem
(27,633 posts)I'm sorry you lost your close friend and then 5 months ago your older brother. Unfortunaetly as we age so do our friends and family. But it is always a hit to the heart when we do lose a close family member or dear friend.
Glad you're back rasputin1952.
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)But I recall you as well
Fla Dem
(27,633 posts)niyad
(132,427 posts)and others of our DU family. Requiescat in pace, brave souls.
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)lark
(26,080 posts)Thank you for fighting the good fight!
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)Clouds Passing
(7,928 posts)In Memoriam for all the lost Duers on Dias De Los Muertos
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)mountain grammy
(29,034 posts)and thanks for letting us know about unhappycamper and treasonous bastard.. I've wondered.. may they rest in peace.
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)Dedicated to the Cause.
Mr. Evil
(3,457 posts)Later this afternoon I'll be having my personal Beer, Beam Metalfest and I'll happily raise a glass to you.
You're absolutely right. DU is an expansive family (as expansive as this website -
)
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)karin_sj
(1,370 posts)Sorry to hear about the losses of your loved ones, but glad you are back again. DU is not just a discussion board, it's a family!
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)Solly Mack
(96,940 posts)Sorry for your loss.
A lot of DUers gone too soon and it is always too soon.
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)I got misty-eyed.
Many of those listed I Moderated with back in the old days.
Jmb 4 Harris-Walz
(1,117 posts)rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)I would walk past Mary's apt every day.
I never met any of them (although it would have been a pleasure to meet Mary).
dalton99a
(94,109 posts)rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)1WorldHope
(2,052 posts)Welcome back! Thanks for your work!
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)Spazito
(55,482 posts)So sorry for the loss of your close friend, unhappycamper and your brother, Treasonous Bastard. Very sad news, I remember them well.
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)Both were good men, dedicated to the Cause.
malaise
(296,076 posts)rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)I feel like I never left
S/V Loner
(9,545 posts)I was Bonhomme Richard back in the day. I don't post much anymore but constant reader.
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)S/V Loner
(9,545 posts)Prairie_Seagull
(4,688 posts)make this place what it is.
Not that you are old.
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)I'm two days older than dirt
blogslug
(39,167 posts)rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)I feel like I should be hunting trolls again...ah, the good old days.
KS Toronado
(23,727 posts)
Ms. Toad
(38,633 posts)just not big enough to have its own legislative district (like Omaha does).
DownriverDem
(7,014 posts)We need all the folks with like minds working together to fight the fight.
OldBaldy1701E
(11,137 posts)Warpy
(114,614 posts)You've had quite a time, it's not easy to do end of life care. Been there.
So welcome back.
jmbar2
(7,983 posts)Glad you came back. Hopefully better days are ahead.
ismnotwasm
(42,674 posts)ChazInAz
(3,017 posts)We've missed you!
Blue Dawn
(970 posts)I was born in Fremont, NE, and my dad's family emigrated from Sweden and homesteaded in Oakland.
Glad to have you here. I look forward to reading your posts!
Tree Lady
(13,282 posts)I met Will Pitt in SF at duer get together. We used to encourage those more.
Hekate
(100,133 posts)Condolences on your losses of Treasonous Bastard and unhappycamper. They were lucky to have you in their lives.
Take good care of yourself and I hope to see more of you.
irisblue
(37,506 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(16,387 posts)sarchasm
(1,308 posts)I recognize your name, and many of those referred to in memoriam.
Look forward to seeing you here!
haele
(15,393 posts)Lazarus and I always enjoyed your posts.
He says hi, slso - he developed Long Covid and no longer has the filter, memory or stamina to stay on top of things in DU.
Long Covid is a bitch. I'm sorry to hear about unhappy camper and Treasonous Bastard.
Haele
greatauntoftriplets
(179,004 posts)I'm so sorry to hear about unhappycamper and your brother. Both were good people and good Democrats.
Anyway, it's good to see you back and in fighting form for next Tuesday and whatever happens after that.
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)you finally got to retire!
Backing the Forum days, it was as if you never thought you'd get there.
greatauntoftriplets
(179,004 posts)Actually, I got shitcanned for being sick too much in 2012 and 2013. I had pancreatitis in 2012, and for a time they thought I wasn't going to live. But I fooled them. Right after Thanksgiving Day that year, I had a detached retina that required surgery. Afterwards I had severe restrictions on eye use for things like reading, rolling my eyes, computer time.
The asshole boss got pissed off that I couldn't work from home because I had this big-ass gas bubble blocking vision in the front of the eye, and could see very well. That very slowly got smaller, but it took six months for my peripheral vision to return. It was only then that the eye surgeon allowed me to drive again.
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)I was working at the VA in Boston. I knew everybody there and one day my supervisor came out and told me there was a complaint, "and what is that may I ask?"
She told me, "you are taking too much time with the veterans, you are being too nice."
Some of the vets came down from Maine and hadn't talked to another vet in months. I made sure they were taken of, and if they needed a little time, I had the ears to listen.
After she tells me this, I stood up, grabbed my personal stuff, went down to Security, turned in my VA stuff and keys, then walked toward the door.
I saw her and her boss coming after me to "talk", as now there was no one to do the job. I stopped in the Main Entrance and turned around.
Both of them looked as if they had been electrocuted. They were in a bind, and I held all of the cards. After a brief discussion, I asked them if they were veterans (I knew the answer was no), I told them they were on their own, and there would be no immediate replacements.
Two weeks later, I was sitting in my favorite Coffee Shop, and a former co-worker stopped in, she told me that two days after I walked out, the two were transferred to a different facility, far less modern and 30 miles from where we had been.
Whenever I went back to the VA for whatever reason as a patient, the employees all smiled at me.
greatauntoftriplets
(179,004 posts)Good for you for quitting. You didn't need the grief.
Tuesday should prove if the assholes are winning or not. I want them to lose big.
GreenWave
(12,640 posts)calimary
(90,004 posts)Sheesh - some of those names from earlier days! I especially remember Kephra - one of the first DUers I connected with!
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)the things that go on.
I have a radio show that is out of Boston College, the ACLU in Boston is a heavyweight, Sierra Club, Audubon, Occupy, and a host of Peace groups that I finally got to agree on a few things, so we could work together (the egotism overrode the mission).
Kephra, pinto, The Magistrate, so many.
Good reason to keep going, keeping them in my memory recharges me, the mission goes on.
Skittles
(171,697 posts)rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)It's been a long time!
murielm99
(32,988 posts)I did not know that Treasonous Bastard was gone.
Elessar Zappa
(16,385 posts)I remember you and unhappy camper and Treasonous Bastard very well. Im sorry to hear that two good liberals have passed on but Im so glad they were contributors to this great website.
proud patriot
(102,511 posts)rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)mopinko
(73,723 posts)anyone know who ended up w the key to the drinks cabinet?
herding cats
(20,049 posts)I'm sorry to hear about unhappy camper and TreasonousBastard. I swear it feels like TreasonousBastard was just here a moment ago, but when I looked it was the beginning of the year... that time lapse is how you know you're over 50 now! 🤪
Once you get your sea legs again you should consider trying out MIRT. Most of those left here who were mods pass through there upon occasion. I bet you'll like it.
HeartsCanHope
(1,679 posts)Thank you for all you are doing! Take care.
IzzaNuDay
(1,294 posts)First, my condolences on your friends passing. Glad you can return and be part of the action!
Baltimike
(4,441 posts)The Magistrate. Sad
Cha
(319,058 posts)of time, rasputin .
I'm so sorry about your friends.
Welcome back!
I started exactly one year after you did.. It has been a long amazing ride for our Democracy. Meeting Kindred Spirits along the way from all over our Country and the World.
I want to add another name from the Memoriam list who I miss so much every single day.
Her name on DU is Me.. she passed August 10, 2023. I never met her outside of here.. she lived in Manhattan and I'm on Kauai.. but we PM all the time and sent each other cards for birthdays and Christmas.
And, it feels really good to be able to write about her now.
To all our DU Friends who have Passed.
Elessar Zappa
(16,385 posts)I was a huge fan of Me. So sorry to hear she passed. Glad to have you still around, Cha, youre a treasure.
Cha
(319,058 posts)about Me on DU, Elessar Zappa. Mahalo for letting me know
And Mahalo for your kind words.. 💙
pat_k
(13,366 posts)We have lost so many of our fellow DUers. It's been 13+ years, but I still miss the love of my life Senator and dear friends KaryninMiami and Andy_Stephensen.
David Boyle
(732 posts)RIP.
TBF
(36,665 posts)I joined in 2008 when I was very involved locally in the Obama campaign. I had a haitus for several years also, while raising children and all the activities that come with that. Now that they are older, and I was mortified about losing Roe, I joined back up too. Luckily my username survived whatever fiasco took DU down in 2016 or so.
We could use you on MIRT!
PatSeg
(53,214 posts)Sadly, we're all getting older, so I expect there will be more to come. I lost two who were friends off DU as well as on - Gateley and Froward (Fred Dupper). Fred was only in his forties and died rather suddenly of an infection. Gateley was a bit older and had been ill, though I never found out the exact cause of death. Both losses were awhile back.
Welcome back Rasputin! I guess DU is always a part of us.
boston bean
(36,930 posts)swimboy
(7,331 posts)Welcome back!
Liberal In Texas
(16,269 posts)I guess we're of an age where we are losing those around us and many of the entertainers, celebrities and leaders that were parts of our world. I guess it's part of the natural order of things, be we don't have to like it.
Dem2theMax
(11,005 posts)I too, recognize all three names. So sorry for your losses, as well as ours.
We are all in this together. Glad you are back to be with us.
unhappycamper
Treasonous Bastard
MuseRider
(35,176 posts)mentioned above. Welcome back. Glad you are still on this side of the dirt as I am as glad I still am, been rocky lately. It is always good to see someone you have not seen in some time. Thank you for all you did while away. It is really good to see you back. I don't post much but have been here forever it seems.
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)I feel like I fell out of bed and landed on Cloud 9 seeing all of us "Oldies!"
area51
(12,690 posts)summer_in_TX
(4,167 posts)I don't think we met before, but I'm very glad to know you now. Keep up the great work, and let's get 'er done!
rasputin1952
(83,497 posts)I was stationed at Ft Sam for a while. San Antonio was great back then (we're talking the early 70s).
The Riverwalk was one of my favorite places to wind down.
summer_in_TX
(4,167 posts)It carries an Old World feel to it.
We live in Wimberley, not far from San Marcos.
jfz9580m
(17,187 posts)Welcome back! No one really knows me, but I am around..
DFW
(60,179 posts)Aloow my small voice to join the others!