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Glamrock

(12,003 posts)
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 08:50 PM Nov 2024

Hello DU! Wanted to thank everyone for the kind words about my mom's passing!

What a wonderful community! I can’t express the gratitude for the kind words, advice, stories, and love I received from this community going through that ordeal. It was a long, shitty, draining, and expensive week. You all were a buoy that helped keep me afloat! With as much as was going on, I didn’t have the time, nor the emotional strength at the time to reply to most of you. For that, I sincerely apologize. Just wanted you to all know how much your replies meant to me. From the bottom of my heart, I thank you all!

Sincerely,
Glam

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Hello DU! Wanted to thank everyone for the kind words about my mom's passing! (Original Post) Glamrock Nov 2024 OP
Was unconnected this weekend. Did not know. OAITW r.2.0 Nov 2024 #1
That's okay buddy! Glamrock Nov 2024 #4
Good to hear from you and hope you are doing well 🌺 Deuxcents Nov 2024 #2
Yesterday was brutal! Glamrock Nov 2024 #6
Deepest sympathy my friend malaise Nov 2024 #3
Thank you Malaise! Glamrock Nov 2024 #7
I feel so bad malaise Nov 2024 #13
That's okay! Glamrock Nov 2024 #16
Same with dad's youngest sister malaise Nov 2024 #27
Condolences to both you and Glamrock. Nt spooky3 Nov 2024 #31
GLAM, I am SO VERY, VERY SORRY...😢 GainesT1958 Nov 2024 #5
Thank you! Glamrock Nov 2024 #9
Let the outpouring of support continue. badhair77 Nov 2024 #8
No need to apologize! Glamrock Nov 2024 #10
Welcome back Tetrachloride Nov 2024 #11
Thank you thank you! Glamrock Nov 2024 #12
Glad DU could be helpful. Community means a lot. nolabear Nov 2024 #14
Awwww! Glamrock Nov 2024 #17
Be prepared for unexpected bad moments to come Maeve Nov 2024 #15
Yeah. I'm sure the grieving is far from over! Glamrock Nov 2024 #18
My condolences on the loss of your beloved mom, Glamrock Niagara Nov 2024 #19
Stop that! Glamrock Nov 2024 #20
Please come back sooner than later! Niagara Nov 2024 #25
I'm very sorry for your loss yardwork Nov 2024 #21
Thank you! Glamrock Nov 2024 #23
I am so sorry for your loss. AmBlue Nov 2024 #22
Thank you! Glamrock Nov 2024 #24
Stay strong Glamrock! louslobbs Nov 2024 #26
So great to have you back, Glam Diamond_Dog Nov 2024 #28
Thank's mama! Glamrock Nov 2024 #33
Sending lotsa love back atcha! Diamond_Dog Nov 2024 #40
Awwww? Glamrock Nov 2024 #41
((Glam)) blm Nov 2024 #29
My condolences on your loss Glamrock. CentralMass Nov 2024 #30
Thank you! Glamrock Nov 2024 #35
My condolences Glamrock ! stonecutter357 Nov 2024 #32
Thank you stone! Glamrock Nov 2024 #36
Oh no, I remember you sharing BigmanPigman Nov 2024 #34
Thank you so much, my friend! Glamrock Nov 2024 #37
I'm sorry for your loss MustLoveBeagles Nov 2024 #38
Thank you! Glamrock Nov 2024 #39
I was fucking cut off this weekend, buddy! Sorry for the loss. SoFlaBro Nov 2024 #42
No problem! Glamrock Nov 2024 #43

OAITW r.2.0

(32,164 posts)
1. Was unconnected this weekend. Did not know.
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 08:53 PM
Nov 2024

Sorry for your loss, Glamrock! Losing a parent sucks. I've lost both many years ago.

Glamrock

(12,003 posts)
4. That's okay buddy!
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 08:56 PM
Nov 2024

It was a true outpouring of support.

Thank you! Sorry to hear about yours!

Glamrock

(12,003 posts)
6. Yesterday was brutal!
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 08:58 PM
Nov 2024

But I think I’m all cried out now. There will be recurring moments of sadness and loss, but I think the funeral and internment dried me up. Doing much better, thank you!

Glamrock

(12,003 posts)
16. That's okay!
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 09:22 PM
Nov 2024

It was a good thing! She had been diagnosed with Parkinson’s in 2019 and Lewy Body in early ‘20. I haven’t had a conversation with her in at least two years (not really) and then she couldn’t walk, couldn’t talk, didn’t recognize me, couldn’t feed herself….brutal. I’m so glad she’s been freed!

malaise

(296,190 posts)
27. Same with dad's youngest sister
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 09:44 PM
Nov 2024

She was late 90s and didn’t recognize her kids, grandkids or any of us.
We want them free but losing those we love is still painful.
The good news is that in time the best memories remain.

Glamrock

(12,003 posts)
9. Thank you!
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 09:00 PM
Nov 2024

Circle of life and all that, but she’s free of Lewy Body dementia. What a horrible, horrible disease.

badhair77

(5,182 posts)
8. Let the outpouring of support continue.
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 09:00 PM
Nov 2024

I’m sorry I didn’t see your previous post. Please accept my condolences at the loss of your mother. Prayers of comfort and peace for you and your family.

nolabear

(43,850 posts)
14. Glad DU could be helpful. Community means a lot.
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 09:11 PM
Nov 2024

And you know you’re loved in this one.

Maeve

(43,457 posts)
15. Be prepared for unexpected bad moments to come
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 09:14 PM
Nov 2024

Just about the time you think you are past it, it can come back. And it will be ok again. Go with the flow
Hugs

Glamrock

(12,003 posts)
18. Yeah. I'm sure the grieving is far from over!
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 09:26 PM
Nov 2024

But I may well be spent on tears. If I cry again, of course that’s okay, I’m not super macho guy. But her passing was actually a happy occurrence so hopefully it’ll just be moments of sadness and loss.

Niagara

(11,868 posts)
19. My condolences on the loss of your beloved mom, Glamrock
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 09:33 PM
Nov 2024

I'm so sorry as I missed your previous post. Rest in Paradise, Glamrock's mom.


We miss having you around here... just so you know.

Glamrock

(12,003 posts)
20. Stop that!
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 09:37 PM
Nov 2024

You’re gonna make me cry again! LOL!

But all kidding aside, thank you! I’m truly touched!

AmBlue

(3,460 posts)
22. I am so sorry for your loss.
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 09:39 PM
Nov 2024

So glad she is no longer suffering. May her memory always be a comfort and a blessing.

Diamond_Dog

(40,608 posts)
28. So great to have you back, Glam
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 09:45 PM
Nov 2024

Rest in peace, Glam’s Mom!

Hope you are taking care of yourself, too …..

Diamond_Dog

(40,608 posts)
40. Sending lotsa love back atcha!
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 10:26 PM
Nov 2024

I love that throughout this ordeal you have kept your sense of humor.

Go easy on yourself in the days ahead, Glam. I’m glad you feel comfortable leaning on us here at DU.

BigmanPigman

(55,177 posts)
34. Oh no, I remember you sharing
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 10:05 PM
Nov 2024

your experience with her a few years ago. You have done so much in every way possible for a long time. She knows that you were caring for her and she loves you very much. I hope she visits you like my dad and dogs did after they died. It's very comforting and pretty damn cool, too.

Glamrock

(12,003 posts)
37. Thank you so much, my friend!
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 10:07 PM
Nov 2024

Whether or not she visits in ethereal form, she’ll always be with me!

Glamrock

(12,003 posts)
43. No problem!
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 11:11 PM
Nov 2024

I hadn’t been here for awhile and vented during the deathwatch and the replies were overwhelming.

And thank you!

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