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Sibelius Fan

(24,783 posts)
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 02:29 AM Nov 2024

My wife has been bawling her eyes out for the past two hours.

She is inconsolable. I asked her to leave the tv off until the morning.

The stark reality of exactly who and what our fellow Americans are is too much to bear.

We both turned 70 this year. This is the worst post-election feeling ever.

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My wife has been bawling her eyes out for the past two hours. (Original Post) Sibelius Fan Nov 2024 OP
I've come close Dennis Donovan Nov 2024 #1
I cantstop crying Trueblue1968 Nov 2024 #2
I can't even cry ... I'm numb LSparkle Nov 2024 #3
I'm 85...my body won't stop shaking young_at_heart Nov 2024 #4
Long distance hug Blue Full Moon Nov 2024 #13
Sending a hug darling ribrepin Nov 2024 #20
I wish I knew what to do, or say, to help you feel better. calimary Nov 2024 #26
Hug from me too Ilikepurple Nov 2024 #27
Once more, no woman president. LisaM Nov 2024 #5
Same age, same reaction here. PCIntern Nov 2024 #6
Wish I could cry. I'm just in shock MadameButterfly Nov 2024 #7
I can't even start crying. 2naSalit Nov 2024 #8
This JCMach1 Nov 2024 #10
The same Blue Full Moon Nov 2024 #12
This, crumbling, dangerous. I'm numb as well. appalachiablue Nov 2024 #19
oh god tfg won't shut up... Ysabel Nov 2024 #9
I plan not to listen period. Not be uniformed, but to live my best life while ignoring him PortTack Nov 2024 #16
That's my plan ribrepin Nov 2024 #21
Go with all written news exboyfil Nov 2024 #33
I may be taking an extended break johnnyfins Nov 2024 #11
I Feel The Same SoCalDavidS Nov 2024 #34
Your wife has plenty of company . . . My husband and I are 70 as well . . . and are in complete shock . . . I think the Liberal In Red State Nov 2024 #14
Mine is still sleeping. LuckyCharms Nov 2024 #15
I wouldn't give them the satisfaction BannonsLiver Nov 2024 #17
I cried myself tonight, wetly----- and I have not turned my TV back on. Jack Valentino Nov 2024 #18
Please don't think that way - how would that improve the situation? kerry-is-my-prez Nov 2024 #24
This message was self-deleted by its author Jack Valentino Nov 2024 #28
Deep down, I had doubts that she was going to win. kerry-is-my-prez Nov 2024 #22
I'm 73 and I have never felt this depressed in my life. This is beyond horrible. TommieMommy Nov 2024 #23
I ran out of tears a long time ago. sarge43 Nov 2024 #25
I am also 82 and I'm shaking. Scared to my bones. Paper Roses Nov 2024 #29
I wish I had an answer sarge43 Nov 2024 #31
Something bdamomma Nov 2024 #30
I have no words. BBbats Nov 2024 #32
I am still awake IzzaNuDay Nov 2024 #35
I'm so disappointed in our fellow citizens. zanana1 Nov 2024 #36
HIS is the blame. calimary Nov 2024 #38
Tell her I can empathize anamnua Nov 2024 #37
You and your wife have millions of compatriots today. hawkeye21 Nov 2024 #39

LSparkle

(12,118 posts)
3. I can't even cry ... I'm numb
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 02:34 AM
Nov 2024

I really don’t know how I’m going to work tomorrow. I need some serious time off to figure out what the f to do next.

young_at_heart

(3,993 posts)
4. I'm 85...my body won't stop shaking
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 02:35 AM
Nov 2024

I have to live with the knowledge that my last days will be Trump days!! I have a terrible stomach ache.

calimary

(88,831 posts)
26. I wish I knew what to do, or say, to help you feel better.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 05:14 AM
Nov 2024

Problem is, I know exactly how you feel and I’m not sure what to do to make ME feel better.

Sometimes chocolate helps, but only momentarily. And then you have to live with it on your middle, hips, or backside…

LisaM

(29,464 posts)
5. Once more, no woman president.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 02:36 AM
Nov 2024

I felt sick about in 2008 and again in 2016 and now I just feel numb.

MadameButterfly

(3,720 posts)
7. Wish I could cry. I'm just in shock
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 02:37 AM
Nov 2024

Waiting for the whiskey to take me. But that can't be a solution tomorrow and the next day.
I apologized to my daughter for the world we are leaving her.

Nothing I thought mattered matters anymore. I have no idea how to proceed. Dreams cancelled. Livelihood at risk. I can't even think about Ukraine.

2naSalit

(99,634 posts)
8. I can't even start crying.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 02:44 AM
Nov 2024

I am feverishly trying to figure out what my next set of options are, not many and not looking good or easily achieved.

I'm at the end of my 60s and I wonder how much farther I'll go. I do 't care to be in a crumbling world or one where the other humans are intolerable and a danger to me.

This is not a good feeling.

Ysabel

(2,081 posts)
9. oh god tfg won't shut up...
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 02:48 AM
Nov 2024

he's just blathering on and on with his horrible vomiting spew I need to go to bed or read a book or something I just can't watch this anymore it's giving me a headache now he's going on about somebody named Suzie and he keeps saying her name over and over and I'm just thinking to myself how many times has the sick old asshole raped her (?) yuck I need to go read a book and lay my head on my comfy pillow and relax my head (thankfully I have a very nice pillow)...

PortTack

(35,810 posts)
16. I plan not to listen period. Not be uniformed, but to live my best life while ignoring him
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 05:00 AM
Nov 2024

johnnyfins

(3,379 posts)
11. I may be taking an extended break
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 04:56 AM
Nov 2024

from following anything political. I just cant do it anymore...and I'm a Philadelphia sports fan. You would think I would know how to deal with disappointment.

 

SoCalDavidS

(10,599 posts)
34. I Feel The Same
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 06:31 AM
Nov 2024

Sports is a diversion, and your team losing, while frustrating, is unimportant in the scheme of things. This is reality, likely for decades to come.

14. Your wife has plenty of company . . . My husband and I are 70 as well . . . and are in complete shock . . . I think the
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 04:59 AM
Nov 2024

crying is yet to come.

LuckyCharms

(21,368 posts)
15. Mine is still sleeping.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 04:59 AM
Nov 2024

She will have the same reaction when she awakes.

Not going to be good.

Jack Valentino

(4,239 posts)
18. I cried myself tonight, wetly----- and I have not turned my TV back on.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 05:03 AM
Nov 2024

Last edited Wed Nov 6, 2024, 06:36 PM - Edit history (1)


kerry-is-my-prez

(10,200 posts)
24. Please don't think that way - how would that improve the situation?
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 05:13 AM
Nov 2024

We are part of the resistance. We need you to help us fight.

Response to kerry-is-my-prez (Reply #24)

kerry-is-my-prez

(10,200 posts)
22. Deep down, I had doubts that she was going to win.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 05:09 AM
Nov 2024

She was down in a lot of states in almost all of the polls so I almost always had a kernel of doubt. I listened to the “happy talk” of the Dems in the last few days, claiming that Kamala was going to win.

sarge43

(29,173 posts)
25. I ran out of tears a long time ago.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 05:13 AM
Nov 2024

I am worried I may fall into a clinical depression because I horrified about what will happen in this country and around the world.

I'll be 82 in a couple of months, so maybe I won't be around to see the worst of it. I hate feeling this way.

Paper Roses

(7,610 posts)
29. I am also 82 and I'm shaking. Scared to my bones.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 05:30 AM
Nov 2024

I am sick, old, broke and alone. I wish the shaking would stop.
All of us have so much to lose if the final tally is trump.
Just cannot believe there are so many that admired this tyrant, What is wrong? How far we have fallen.

sarge43

(29,173 posts)
31. I wish I had an answer
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 05:57 AM
Nov 2024

The situation is much too complex for a quick and dirty answer. Fear and bigotry certainly played a part, but why they did would be a deep drive into history and human psychology. Far better minds than mine will have to figure it out.


BBbats

(276 posts)
32. I have no words.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 06:06 AM
Nov 2024

I shut my Facebook down. I'm 71.
Last year at this time I faced serious health issues. At one point I figured that this would be a good time to pass. After all we do have to face dying eventually. I thought this might be a good time to check out. I pulled through.
Surviving is going to be difficult. I'm old broke & alone as well.

IzzaNuDay

(1,214 posts)
35. I am still awake
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 06:31 AM
Nov 2024

good thing I have a therapy appointment today. better get some sleep so I don’t oversleep and miss the appointment!

zanana1

(6,458 posts)
36. I'm so disappointed in our fellow citizens.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 06:34 AM
Nov 2024

I don't know how I'll manage to be civil with Trump voters. Our country is sick and I don't know if it will recover. I have to say I don't dislike Trump more than the people who voted for him. Theirs is the blame.

calimary

(88,831 posts)
38. HIS is the blame.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 07:32 AM
Nov 2024

The people who voted for him may eventually wake up about him, just as all those generals and former allies and supporters and Cabinet officials did. Same for all those former officials who warned about him and denounced him to the voters who ignored their warnings. It all stems from him.

His fans who are probably high-fiving each other from coast-to-coast this morning are due for a rude awakening as a fitting reward for all their willful denial. Oh they’ll regret it. But by the time they do, what will be left of the America we’ve always loved and believed in? I suspect most of ‘em will come around too late. And it was all originated by him.

This could be the worst thing that our country has EVER faced. I still want to be hopeful, but it’s a harder and FAR more daunting task now than ever before. HE built this. It all comes down to him.

I’m just glad my mom (who was a nurse) and my dad who was an Air Force pilot, and my father-in-law who was an Army doctor during WW2 aren’t around anymore to see what’s happened.

hawkeye21

(313 posts)
39. You and your wife have millions of compatriots today.
Wed Nov 6, 2024, 08:46 AM
Nov 2024

This is the saddest day in US history. And it's because our fellow "Americans" have shown us who they are. We helped defeat the facism of Germany and Japan, but we couldn't defeat it in our own backyards.

My wife and I are in our seventies, and I said before the election that Trump's MAGA had stolen the best years of our retirement. Now what do we have to look forward to in the relative few years we may have left?

Try to stay strong. It's gonna take a while to figure this out, but decent Americans have to hang on and come up with a plan. And we will. But not today.

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