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Jilly_in_VA

(10,989 posts)
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 10:07 AM Nov 18

'He's traumatized' Charles County parents speak out after 7-year-old was 'hanged' in an elementary school bathroom

A Charles County family is speaking out Saturday after their 7-year-old son ended up in the hospital after an incident at his elementary school.

The boy's mom posted about her son's experience online and it has since gone viral, with over 215,000 likes on Instagram as of Saturday night.

"My child who is a second grader was hung in the boys' bathroom by a fourth grader," the mother's social media post said Saturday. "I received the most traumatizing phone call from the school stating that my child was being rushed to children's hospital in NW ... I'm feeling anger and seeing red, but my son is here by the grace of GOD, and I will forever be thankful!"

The parents are angry and confused but also thankful that their son is still alive.

“If you look at my son, he has marks under his eyes, like blood vessels, he still has bruises on his neck from being choked,” the boy's parents said, both fighting tears.

https://www.wbir.com/article/news/education/charles-county-waldorf-instagram-maryland-hung-hanging-instagram-post/65-99add2e2-60b1-4be1-ab3f-4fcb8c13b50d

District is claiming "Horseplay" but from the rest of the story it sounds like bullying to me.

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'He's traumatized' Charles County parents speak out after 7-year-old was 'hanged' in an elementary school bathroom (Original Post) Jilly_in_VA Nov 18 OP
A 7 year old says: "I am going to show you how I did back in the day." Irish_Dem Nov 18 #1
The other student is in 4th grade so much older than 7 MagickMuffin Nov 18 #12
Doesn't matter, a 9/10 yr does not talk about "back in the day" and know how to hang people. Irish_Dem Nov 18 #15
The victim can get past it with family support and counseling. Irish_Dem Nov 18 #17
I'm just going to say that the 4th grader needs be suspended with a requirement by the district that he be evaluated Texin Nov 18 #25
Once again, school districts paying lip service to bullying. The victim gets punished, not the bully. Clouds Passing Nov 18 #2
Happened to me DeepWinter Nov 18 #3
How about they release the parents name and address? 33taw Nov 18 #4
Do you mean 4th grader's parents? The parents of the 2nd grader do not need to be outed so they can be harassed. Lonestarblue Nov 18 #7
The fourth grader. He is a minor and his name cannot be released. 33taw Nov 18 #8
So effectively dox a 4th grader? sarisataka Nov 18 #11
Dox his parents. I didn't use to feel this way, but when we sit back and do nothing someone gets hurt. 33taw Nov 18 #13
Unless you know he doesn't live with his parents sarisataka Nov 18 #14
Too bad, it is time to stand up to bullies. Young or old. Just my opinion, you don't have to agree. 33taw Nov 18 #16
I am happy to go on record I do not agree with doxing a 9-year-old. sarisataka Nov 18 #19
I totally understand your feelings. I have moved on from compassion for future fascists. 33taw Nov 18 #21
As a child I never considered hanging another child. The school is dismissing this as "horseplay". 33taw Nov 18 #20
Why? JoseBalow Nov 18 #27
No way is this horseplay. It is bullying and attempted murder. Lonestarblue Nov 18 #5
And even if the child had died Bettie Nov 18 #18
I hope they get a good lawyer and sue them , kids family and school Srkdqltr Nov 18 #6
YES! Jit423 Nov 18 #10
They say the child is not going back to that school karynnj Nov 18 #22
If a man did this to his wife he would be in jail. What the hell is wrong with these people? Maraya1969 Nov 18 #9
Was this a racial thing? I did not see anything either way. hadEnuf Nov 18 #23
Thumbs down for the linked article using highly charged words misleadingly... WarGamer Nov 18 #24
Can't access the link. Races pls. Was race involved? brush Nov 18 #26

Irish_Dem

(58,788 posts)
1. A 7 year old says: "I am going to show you how I did back in the day."
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 10:10 AM
Nov 18

And then hangs another student.

These are adult words, the bad 7 year heard this from an adult.

MagickMuffin

(17,171 posts)
12. The other student is in 4th grade so much older than 7
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 11:29 AM
Nov 18


And that kid old enough to know better but he has apparently grown up surrounded by hate for poc. And of course the school is sticking with it was horseplay nonsense.

I hope the little boy can get past this, but it will take some time.





Irish_Dem

(58,788 posts)
15. Doesn't matter, a 9/10 yr does not talk about "back in the day" and know how to hang people.
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 11:34 AM
Nov 18

This is a child who heard and saw this behavior first hand by an adult in his environment.
Perhaps someone did it to him and he is acting out his abuse.

The evaluation is obvious and straightforward.

Irish_Dem

(58,788 posts)
17. The victim can get past it with family support and counseling.
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 11:35 AM
Nov 18

Trauma from a single act of violence in childhood can be treated quite well with therapy
and a loving, supportive, kind parents and family.

Texin

(2,659 posts)
25. I'm just going to say that the 4th grader needs be suspended with a requirement by the district that he be evaluated
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 01:01 PM
Nov 18

by a licensed psychiatrist or psychologist prior to having the suspension lifted. There's "horseplay" and bullying, and then there's psychotic behavior, and that kid would scare the hell out of me if he was my child.

Clouds Passing

(2,535 posts)
2. Once again, school districts paying lip service to bullying. The victim gets punished, not the bully.
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 10:14 AM
Nov 18

This is a huge problem in schools today. And with bullies in charge of our government soon, bullying is going to get a lot worse everywhere across the country. Such a sad commentary on the mentality of Americans today, Fox News brain.

DeepWinter

(539 posts)
3. Happened to me
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 10:15 AM
Nov 18

in 3rd grade back in the 70s. Janitor finally heard me 5 minutes later. The 3 kids that did it to me, we later became friends in High School and I'm still friends with 1 of them to this day.

Lonestarblue

(11,928 posts)
7. Do you mean 4th grader's parents? The parents of the 2nd grader do not need to be outed so they can be harassed.
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 10:18 AM
Nov 18

33taw

(2,888 posts)
13. Dox his parents. I didn't use to feel this way, but when we sit back and do nothing someone gets hurt.
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 11:31 AM
Nov 18

And it is usually someone who is innocent. That crap is learned at home, time to hold them accountable.

Nick Fuentes ran into hiding when he was Doxed . The parents of this kid and the kid can go into hiding.

Sorry, I have no more compassion for the right wing harassment.

sarisataka

(21,211 posts)
14. Unless you know he doesn't live with his parents
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 11:33 AM
Nov 18

Doxing the parents is the same as doxing the child. It would take minimal effort to get the child's name knowing the address and parents' names

sarisataka

(21,211 posts)
19. I am happy to go on record I do not agree with doxing a 9-year-old.
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 11:38 AM
Nov 18

The child needs help, not death threats.

33taw

(2,888 posts)
20. As a child I never considered hanging another child. The school is dismissing this as "horseplay".
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 11:39 AM
Nov 18

Time to take some effective action. Sitting back and acquiescing to this type of inaction is over.

Lonestarblue

(11,928 posts)
5. No way is this horseplay. It is bullying and attempted murder.
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 10:16 AM
Nov 18

Based on the video, I’m guessing the parents and second grader are black. The 4th grader’s statement saying “I’m going to show you how I did people back in the day,” could easily be interpreted as a KKK type statement threatening black people. Trump’s election is already having a negative impact on safety in schools.

Bettie

(17,272 posts)
18. And even if the child had died
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 11:38 AM
Nov 18

they'd say "boys will be boys, oopsie!" and they would know that they can do anything and never face consequences.

Well, they already know that they never have to face consequences.

Horseplay my ass.

Srkdqltr

(7,705 posts)
6. I hope they get a good lawyer and sue them , kids family and school
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 10:18 AM
Nov 18

Child should not be treated like that.

karynnj

(59,989 posts)
22. They say the child is not going back to that school
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 12:01 PM
Nov 18

The school district should be required to pay for any private school the child could go to and for whatever psychological help he needs. The fourth grader should be evaluated by the school and treatment recommended if warranted.

WarGamer

(15,619 posts)
24. Thumbs down for the linked article using highly charged words misleadingly...
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 12:51 PM
Nov 18

Everyone clicked on the story to see if a boy was left hanging by a rope in the boys restroom... when his jacket was actually hanging from a coat hook on a stall door.

It's still a case of extreme bullying...

But it's clickbait and inflammatory.

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