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Yes it does. (Original Post) onecaliberal Nov 2024 OP
Absofuckingloutely!!! SheltieLover Nov 2024 #1
And they're trying to ban certain books so future generations won't know that. surfered Nov 2024 #2
Because among their number are ones who definitely know better. dchill Nov 2024 #3
That's a fact, Jack. Magoo48 Nov 2024 #4
We got us a lot of WHITE PRIVILEGE BALLS. dchill Nov 2024 #5
THIS malaise Nov 2024 #6
They're scared. Brown people scare them. paleotn Nov 2024 #7
Well do I remember those discussions: Are Italian people white? Ligyron Nov 2024 #25
Amen to that! LoisB Nov 2024 #8
That's why I identify as a multigraincracker Nov 2024 #9
Post removed Post removed Nov 2024 #10
Amen. Truth! Evolve Dammit Nov 2024 #11
You hit the proverbial nail ! chouchou Nov 2024 #12
And that is why the GOP loves them. As long as they can keep them in fear... Scalded Nun Nov 2024 #13
why include BALLS Skittles Nov 2024 #14
It's a well-established metaphor SpankMe Nov 2024 #15
IT'S A FUCKING SEXIST METAPHOR THAT NEEDS TO BE RETIRED Skittles Nov 2024 #16
☝️☝️☝️THIS THIS THIS ☝️☝️☝️ ShazzieB Nov 2024 #21
guts /nt The Wandering Harper Nov 2024 #22
Yeah, that works. ShazzieB Nov 2024 #31
I agree Skittles, tired of the sexist metaphors of all genders. Clouds Passing Nov 2024 #29
the BALLS thing really irks me Skittles Nov 2024 #32
They all are ridiculous metaphors, pussy, balls, bitch..... Clouds Passing Nov 2024 #33
Any that doesn't imply that you need balls to be a certain way, In this case "audacity", although not a metaphor. nt DontBelieveEastisEas Nov 2024 #18
I dont think the color of skin is the causation. DontBelieveEastisEas Nov 2024 #17
Balls the size of church bells. soldierant Nov 2024 #19
Well,,,,,duh. Martin68 Nov 2024 #20
Thats for sure. Figarosmom Nov 2024 #23
Okay. Tommy Carcetti Nov 2024 #24
Yes Roy Rolling Nov 2024 #26
If the shoe fits. I'm a white woman, I'm NOT offended because I've never been onecaliberal Nov 2024 #27
YES IT DOES! Clouds Passing Nov 2024 #28
I suggest Chutzpah! justaprogressive Nov 2024 #30

Magoo48

(6,710 posts)
4. That's a fact, Jack.
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 01:32 PM
Nov 2024

And, the number of ironic, self serving myths we telling ourselves about this holiday is thicker than cranberry sauce.

paleotn

(21,829 posts)
7. They're scared. Brown people scare them.
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 01:52 PM
Nov 2024

What gets me is the privileged now supposedly contains those of eastern and southern European decent. Wasn't all that long ago when my people didn't consider them to be fully white either. Heck, wasn't that long ago when my people didn't think Catholics should be full citizens. For the Hispanics who think they're also privileged or "in the club", no, you're most definitely not. Nor will you ever be in their club.

Ligyron

(8,006 posts)
25. Well do I remember those discussions: Are Italian people white?
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 10:46 PM
Nov 2024

Conclusion: No most decidedly not!

My conclusion as a child? Maybe that’s not such a bad thing.

I remember my Mom forbidding me to ever play with a Lebanese Christian kid that came by to see if I was home when I was not.

Pffft. We became fast friends. Him and his whole lovely family. What did she know of such people? She’d never even met any.

Even a kid knows when something is ridiculous.

Response to onecaliberal (Original post)

Scalded Nun

(1,630 posts)
13. And that is why the GOP loves them. As long as they can keep them in fear...
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 03:18 PM
Nov 2024

They can make them do anything they want.

A little more difficult with liberals. They have a tendency to be more educated and critical thought is not a foreign concept.

SpankMe

(3,676 posts)
15. It's a well-established metaphor
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 08:22 PM
Nov 2024

Having the balls to do something, or saying "it takes balls" to do something is a metaphor for having the manliness, toughness or courage to do something. It's not the durability of balls that's being alluded to (we know a dude's sack is a delicate package). It's that the balls produce testosterone, which contributes to male characteristics including strength and aggression.

What metaphor would you use?

ShazzieB

(22,336 posts)
21. ☝️☝️☝️THIS THIS THIS ☝️☝️☝️
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 10:01 PM
Nov 2024

I am tired of this, too. We need to come up with a different, nongendered, fully inclusive metaphor that includes ALL kinds of people.

As a cis woman, I do not have balls, I have never had balls, and I never want to have them. I believe that I do have many of the positive qualities people mean when they use that metaphor, but those qualities have nothing to do with what's in my pants.

I have been in the habit of just letting it go by when people use that expression, figuring that there's not much point in trying to fight it. But that doesn't mean I'm fine with it or that I don't feel sort of ... erased when people use male body parts as a metaphor for all kinds of admirable qualities that cis women, transgender people, and other kinds of people who have something other than standard issue male genitalia are just as capable of having.

Thank you, Skittles, for giving me the opportunity to express how I feel about this tired trope.

Skittles

(170,197 posts)
32. the BALLS thing really irks me
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 04:52 PM
Nov 2024

they can't even stand a TAP without the host collapsing - PUSSIES GIVE BIRTH

it's a RIDIICLOUS metaphor

DontBelieveEastisEas

(1,211 posts)
17. I dont think the color of skin is the causation.
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 08:30 PM
Nov 2024

Most of the worlds lands, are probably ruled by victors of some past conflicts.

Once controlled, the setting of rules for who can live there is something that is universal.
It is not unique to this country.




Roy Rolling

(7,516 posts)
26. Yes
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 11:08 PM
Nov 2024

We white people is all alike.

Thanks for reminding me why discussing sensitive subjects go off the rails by hyperbole. If you want to address bigots, don’t start your message with the angry sarcasm of “Dear White People”.

Say “MAGAts, may I have your attention.”

Call a spade a spade.

 

onecaliberal

(36,594 posts)
27. If the shoe fits. I'm a white woman, I'm NOT offended because I've never been
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 12:25 AM
Nov 2024

Scared or worried about immigration.

Clouds Passing

(7,453 posts)
28. YES IT DOES!
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 09:37 AM
Nov 2024

I have deep sorrow, grief and guilt for the damage my ancestors have done to the Original Inhabitants of this land. I am sorry, please forgive me for their sins which I carry in my DNA and ancestral memory.

justaprogressive

(6,593 posts)
30. I suggest Chutzpah!
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 10:01 AM
Nov 2024
chutzpah /ᴋʜoo͝t′spə, hoo͝t′-/
noun

Utter nerve; effrontery. Nearly arrogant courage; utter audacity, effrontery or impudence; supreme self-confidence; exaggerated self-opinion; (Yiddish) unbelievable gall; insolence; audacity.


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