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PeaceWave

(3,383 posts)
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 06:53 PM Nov 2024

My Pro Palestine cousin wished me a "Happy Colonialist Occupation Day." Is this really necessary?

He also says he refuses to eat turkey today because he considers it "a symbol of colonial aggression towards indigenous peoples." It's a turkey for God's sake. Thankfully for him, there will also be tamales and enchiladas for him to choose from. Good grief. Happy Turkey Liberation Day everyone!

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My Pro Palestine cousin wished me a "Happy Colonialist Occupation Day." Is this really necessary? (Original Post) PeaceWave Nov 2024 OP
Is there a reason you invited him? Biophilic Nov 2024 #1
He's not joining us. He sent this message via text. PeaceWave Nov 2024 #2
Hope he just spends the holiday alone. Archae Nov 2024 #7
tamales and enchiladas lapfog_1 Nov 2024 #3
According to Wikipedia, tamales and enchiladas are both pre-Colombian, not Spanish muriel_volestrangler Nov 2024 #5
However, SHOCKINGLY, we gringos have culturally appropriated these foodstuffs Hekate Nov 2024 #21
corn was not introduced to Europe until the Columbian exchange, so it is your logic that is flawed, unfortunately Celerity Nov 2024 #47
of course I knew that lapfog_1 Nov 2024 #48
my reply was very narrow in focus, sorry if you thought I was making a general claim on the totality of your thoughts Celerity Nov 2024 #49
Wow, he should of come to my house, no Thanksgiving RedWhiteBlueIsRacist Nov 2024 #4
Tell him to go to hell. Archae Nov 2024 #6
if he came with it out of the blue it's just crass and counterproductive The Wandering Harper Nov 2024 #8
Much of the "pro Palestinian" movement is performative bs JI7 Nov 2024 #9
I don't think so womanofthehills Nov 2024 #18
Most black women voted for Kamala Harris. What you say is performative bs JI7 Nov 2024 #19
92% of us Voted for Harris JustAnotherGen Nov 2024 #22
Well said DaBronx Nov 2024 #30
Seriously. The problem is white people. Voltaire2 Nov 2024 #39
White people who love myths malaise Nov 2024 #52
The vast majority of black women Dorian Gray Nov 2024 #26
"on social media - everyday you see more dead babies and kids Now we are seeing thousands of kids without arms and legs" EX500rider Nov 2024 #28
Telegram and TikTok LeftInTX Nov 2024 #38
The PutinGOP propaganda has been very successful. Irish_Dem Nov 2024 #10
Your supposition is inexplicable. Big Blue Marble Nov 2024 #12
Wrong. I do not see these same people protesting everywhere for dying US women. Irish_Dem Nov 2024 #15
How do you know they are not? Big Blue Marble Nov 2024 #16
It's phony bs . If they had real concern about Gaza they would focus on Gaza leadership JI7 Nov 2024 #20
Of course you can care about all those things Dorian Gray Nov 2024 #27
Perhaps you should ask an indigenous person their opinion. Big Blue Marble Nov 2024 #11
Seeing as I've lived in a state chock full of IPs BannonsLiver Nov 2024 #34
Lot of people celebrate it as a traditional fall feast newdeal2 Nov 2024 #13
Don't forget to text him back that the arabic / islamic culture Meowmee Nov 2024 #14
People forget about that part nycbos Nov 2024 #29
You're trying too hard. WhiskeyGrinder Nov 2024 #17
You need to tell your cousin to smuggle himself into Gaza Blue_Tires Nov 2024 #23
And your brother demanded to make a pro trump speech for grace. Scrivener7 Nov 2024 #24
The latter tenderfoot Nov 2024 #36
DING DING DING! Prairie Gates Nov 2024 #44
Way to be a stereotype, Pro Palestine Cousin. Dorian Gray Nov 2024 #25
Some people ForgedCrank Nov 2024 #31
I don't think they are angry at all. I think they enjoy useless shit like this JI7 Nov 2024 #41
Your pro Palestinian cousin is not wrong ThePartyThatListens Nov 2024 #32
This message was self-deleted by its author Kingofalldems Nov 2024 #33
Things that didn't happen for $500 tenderfoot Nov 2024 #35
Lol Turkey, corn, potatoes, squash, pumpkin, tomatoes LeftInTX Nov 2024 #37
Chocolate. Crunchy Frog Nov 2024 #50
This thread reminds me of confederate flag justifying. NT. Voltaire2 Nov 2024 #40
You're calling us confederates? LeftInTX Nov 2024 #45
No. Voltaire2 Nov 2024 #46
Turkey is an indigenous species to North America. How can something indigenous be a symbol of colonialism? betsuni Nov 2024 #42
Hmmmmm Prairie Gates Nov 2024 #43
Did you ask to know more about the day he was referring to? Think. Again. Nov 2024 #51
I've terminated all contact with some relatives for less. Paladin Nov 2024 #53

lapfog_1

(31,904 posts)
3. tamales and enchiladas
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 07:00 PM
Nov 2024

interpretations of Spanish food. And the Spanish... err... "colonies" in all of the Americas.
South, Central, and North America.

But never mind logic.

Celerity

(54,407 posts)
47. corn was not introduced to Europe until the Columbian exchange, so it is your logic that is flawed, unfortunately
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 01:18 AM
Nov 2024
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maize

After the arrival of Europeans in 1492, Spanish settlers consumed maize, and explorers and traders carried it back to Europe. Spanish settlers much preferred wheat bread to maize. Maize flour could not be substituted for wheat for communion bread, since in Christian belief at that time only wheat could undergo transubstantiation and be transformed into the body of Christ.

Maize spread to the rest of the world because of its ability to grow in diverse climates. It was cultivated in Spain just a few decades after Columbus's voyages and then spread to Italy, West Africa and elsewhere. By the 17th century, it was a common peasant food in Southern Europe. By the 18th century, it was the chief food of the southern French and Italian peasantry, especially as polenta in Italy.

lapfog_1

(31,904 posts)
48. of course I knew that
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 01:48 AM
Nov 2024

but my logic about the Spanish establishing colonies in the Americas ( most of South America... most of Central America, and part of North America ) were all Spanish colonies... My point was that both Turkeys and tamales were native to the Americas, but the colonies from Europe ( England and Spain and Portugal ) all decimated the natives ( actually much worse than mere decimated as that term means literally to reduce by one-tenth or to kill every tenth person in a group ).

So turning down a turkey dinner because it represents the evil colonists but instead eating tamales or tacos ( Hispanic food whose origins lie with the native Aztecs and possibly Inca civilizations ) is illogical in the extreme.

But everyone would love to educate me rather than see the Spanish as the same as the English as the true colonists of America... and I am guessing that is because it can't be because of white guilt of our joint white English ancestors wanting to have colonies and take land from some of MY other ancestors. However, I am not Native American because I am only 3/8ths native. I do have an aunt and cousins that live on reservations to this day but I don't count myself as Native.

I find the argument that only white people from northern Europe... as opposed to white people from southern Europe, are to blame for the colonies in America. Especially when we are all taught ( erroneously ) that "Columbus discovered America" but forget who it was that gave him the money to buy the ships and hire the crew.



Celerity

(54,407 posts)
49. my reply was very narrow in focus, sorry if you thought I was making a general claim on the totality of your thoughts
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 01:52 AM
Nov 2024

apologies,

Cel

RedWhiteBlueIsRacist

(2,037 posts)
4. Wow, he should of come to my house, no Thanksgiving
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 07:03 PM
Nov 2024

or turkey for over 32 years now. In fact, for lunch, I had a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, and the wife had a pack of "Nabs"!

8. if he came with it out of the blue it's just crass and counterproductive
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 07:18 PM
Nov 2024

though I tend to share his sentiment about this day

womanofthehills

(10,988 posts)
18. I don't think so
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 08:24 PM
Nov 2024

On “Breaking Points” they were interviewing black women about why they didn’t vote Dem this time - and almost all of them mentioned the children being killed daily in Palestine as one of their reasons. If you are on social media - everyday you see more dead babies and kids. Now we are seeing thousands of kids without arms and legs day after day -Most women I know are horrified.

Not that Trump will be any better - probably be worse but it’s really affected women and the young.

JI7

(93,616 posts)
19. Most black women voted for Kamala Harris. What you say is performative bs
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 08:26 PM
Nov 2024

if they had real concern for Gaza they would focus on the leadership in Gaza.

JustAnotherGen

(38,054 posts)
22. 92% of us Voted for Harris
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 09:45 PM
Nov 2024

Please leave Black Women out of this. We want to be left alone.

None of this is our fault.

Black men - 78%.

There are a lot of other demographics that need to be put on the hot seat. Look to them.

We get it - Democracy and the Social Safety net for EVERYONE was not enough. We are passe. Old fashioned. Out of time.

Move onto someone new.

Voltaire2

(15,377 posts)
39. Seriously. The problem is white people.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 08:58 PM
Nov 2024

The minority blame game, every f’ing election is ignorant.

malaise

(296,105 posts)
52. White people who love myths
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 06:37 AM
Nov 2024

and reinvent history because the truth hurts their feelings.

EX500rider

(12,583 posts)
28. "on social media - everyday you see more dead babies and kids Now we are seeing thousands of kids without arms and legs"
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 10:59 PM
Nov 2024

I hate to think where on Social Media you hang out, I see zero of that and it would be against most normal social media websites posting rules in fact.

LeftInTX

(34,294 posts)
38. Telegram and TikTok
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 05:36 PM
Nov 2024

I've seen it on YouTube also. But Arabic media focuses on one thing and shows it over and over.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
10. The PutinGOP propaganda has been very successful.
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 07:19 PM
Nov 2024

Do these same people care about the fact it is a crime to treat dying women in some US states?
Or that American children are shot to ribbons while they sit in school with military grade weapons.

But we are supposed to believe they care about the Palestinians when they don't care about their own citizens?

Big Blue Marble

(5,691 posts)
12. Your supposition is inexplicable.
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 07:59 PM
Nov 2024

I do care about the Palestinian who are suffering and starving and care about the rights of women
and gun violence. People with empathy and compassion can actually care about all injustice at
the same time.

Happy Thanksgiving to you.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
15. Wrong. I do not see these same people protesting everywhere for dying US women.
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 08:09 PM
Nov 2024

Or the fact American children are being slaughtered in US schools.

Why aren't they protesting on US campuses for those causes?

Why aren't they using their votes to save American lives?

Why are they not vocal about American women and children being slaughtered?

I might begin to believe you if these people gave a good god damn about Americans
and demonstrated to save US lives.


Big Blue Marble

(5,691 posts)
16. How do you know they are not?
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 08:20 PM
Nov 2024

I care about all these issues; I am not marching in the streets, are you?

And by the way, there is no comparison between the number of Gazian women and children
who have been slaughtered in the last 13 months and the numbers of women and children
who have been killed in the US. If there were, everyone would be in the streets.

JI7

(93,616 posts)
20. It's phony bs . If they had real concern about Gaza they would focus on Gaza leadership
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 08:28 PM
Nov 2024

Dorian Gray

(13,850 posts)
27. Of course you can care about all those things
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 10:58 PM
Nov 2024

But people who genuinely care about righting a wrong don't do it by texting meaningless BS to their cousin. They actively go out and try affect change in a meaningful way.

What we've witnessed with some activists of late is essentially careless "look at how much I care more than everyone else" narcissism. It's careless acts of "resistance" which anger society agains the cause. They're going into communities, wreaking havoc, and leaving people worse off than they were.

"They were careless people, Tom and Daisy—they smashed up things and creatures and then retreated back into their money or their vast carelessness, or whatever it was that kept them together, and let other people clean up the mess they had made" is from The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald

Big Blue Marble

(5,691 posts)
11. Perhaps you should ask an indigenous person their opinion.
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 07:56 PM
Nov 2024

All the rest of us are colonial occupiers. And the turkeys are not so sure that their fate is a form
of liberation.

BannonsLiver

(20,595 posts)
34. Seeing as I've lived in a state chock full of IPs
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 02:26 PM
Nov 2024

I have seen a broad mix of views over the decades. Some will celebrate it if for no other reasons than their blended families include white people. Others completely disavow it. I’m not sure how it is in Connecticut or Vermont or wherever you live.

newdeal2

(5,411 posts)
13. Lot of people celebrate it as a traditional fall feast
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 08:04 PM
Nov 2024

My family (and I'm sure many other immigrant families) don't really do the traditional Thanksgiving (whatever that is). We make a variety of food - one year could be Mexican, Italian, etc. - and get together, watch TV or movies, and relax. That's it and I don't see why we would want or need to stop.

Meowmee

(9,212 posts)
14. Don't forget to text him back that the arabic / islamic culture
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 08:05 PM
Nov 2024

Forcefully colonized much of the ME, Africa, Asia and elsewhere.

 

Blue_Tires

(57,596 posts)
23. You need to tell your cousin to smuggle himself into Gaza
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 10:01 PM
Nov 2024

And pick up a rifle if he's that committed to "the cause"; and call him a poser if he doesn't 😅

Dorian Gray

(13,850 posts)
25. Way to be a stereotype, Pro Palestine Cousin.
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 10:53 PM
Nov 2024

They're boring.

If they care about Palestine, they'll advocate for the people there rather than attempting to shame you.

ForgedCrank

(3,096 posts)
31. Some people
Thu Nov 28, 2024, 11:26 PM
Nov 2024

are just perpetually angry and they seem to only find relief through trying to ruin things for everyone else.
It's kind of sad to watch it. Unfortunately, these types are not at all rare either.

JI7

(93,616 posts)
41. I don't think they are angry at all. I think they enjoy useless shit like this
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 09:02 PM
Nov 2024

which makes them feel as if they are morally superior without doing anything.

Response to PeaceWave (Original post)

LeftInTX

(34,294 posts)
37. Lol Turkey, corn, potatoes, squash, pumpkin, tomatoes
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 05:26 PM
Nov 2024

He needs to boycott alot of food for a long time if this is his protest. This includes enchiladas and tamales. I'm trying to think of more ingenious foods.
Pineapples, guava, papaya, avocados, peppers
Did native Americans boycott turkeys?

LeftInTX

(34,294 posts)
45. You're calling us confederates?
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 01:02 AM
Nov 2024

If we eat turkey?

Please. Don't eat any food indigenous to the Americas ever again and get back to us. This means no more turkey, tomatoes, potatoes , corn, pepper, pineapples, avocados etc. If you consider eating indigenous food being a confederate, then don't eat it.

betsuni

(29,078 posts)
42. Turkey is an indigenous species to North America. How can something indigenous be a symbol of colonialism?
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 12:50 AM
Nov 2024

I don't get it. How does someone not know this? Bet they don't know corn is indigenous either.

Last year protesters were glueing themselves to the sidewalk before the Thanksgiving parade. Not this year. No more glue? Don't think it's the same government as last year? Mission accomplished, Trump's victory? Any more gluing protests, ever, I'll be shocked. Only if it hurts Democrats from getting elected. Republicans do whatever they want, no consequences!

 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
51. Did you ask to know more about the day he was referring to?
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 06:27 AM
Nov 2024

I didn't realize there was a day recognized for that.

 

Paladin

(32,354 posts)
53. I've terminated all contact with some relatives for less.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 08:02 AM
Nov 2024

Tell your cousin to fuck all the way off. Consider it your effort to maintain decent family standards.

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