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BlueWaveNeverEnd

(14,145 posts)
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 04:53 PM Jan 2025

' Mr. Jabbar had been acting erratically, "being all crazy, cutting his hair" ' Mental illness issues?

Mr. Jabbar, who officials confirmed was honorably discharged from the Army, had converted to Islam at some point, according to Dwayne Marsh, who is married to Mr. Jabbar’s ex-wife Nakedra Charrlle. Mr. Jabbar and Ms. Charrlle had two daughters, ages 15 and 20, Mr. Marsh said, adding that “the girls are a mess” after the attack.

In recent months, he said, Mr. Jabbar had been acting erratically, “being all crazy, cutting his hair” after converting, Mr. Marsh said. Mr. Marsh and his wife then stopped allowing the daughters to spend time with Mr. Jabbar, he said.

In a YouTube video from 2020 that appears to have been posted by Mr. Jabbar, he spoke positively about his skills in real estate. He said he had been born and raised in Beaumont, Texas, and had served in the U.S. military.

“I’ve been here all my life, with the exception of traveling for the military,” he said. Court records from his first divorce, in 2012, list his employment as active duty with the U.S. Army and his residence at the time as Fort Bragg, in North Carolina.

In the video, Mr. Jabbar said that in his 10 years in the armed forces, he had worked as a human resources specialist and an information technology specialist.

https://www.nytimes.com/2025/01/01/us/suspect-new-orleans-texan-isis-flag.html

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' Mr. Jabbar had been acting erratically, "being all crazy, cutting his hair" ' Mental illness issues? (Original Post) BlueWaveNeverEnd Jan 2025 OP
So his conversion was very recent? ScratchCat Jan 2025 #1
He was born to an Arabic named father and a generic American named mother. LeftInTX Jan 2025 #17
Which Arabic country is his father's side from? Polybius Jan 2025 #30
I have no idea. His mom is African-American. I traced both of her parents back on census records. LeftInTX Jan 2025 #33
Arabic is not the same as muslim. Christians in Lebannon are arabic applegrove Jan 2025 #34
It's the first name that indicates religion LeftInTX Jan 2025 #35
Okay. Thanks. applegrove Jan 2025 #37
I think it's safe to assume... Think. Again. Jan 2025 #2
I disagree. you can be evil without being mentally ill NoRethugFriends Jan 2025 #4
I disagree... Think. Again. Jan 2025 #6
There's been a lot of tribal warfare. Igel Jan 2025 #12
Did you think mental health issues are a new thing? Think. Again. Jan 2025 #16
I think you're missing the point. As a psychologist what that arthritisR_US Jan 2025 #24
I disagree... Think. Again. Jan 2025 #28
Then it sounds from what you're saying is that your whole arthritisR_US Jan 2025 #31
I do believe that our society, as a whole.... Think. Again. Jan 2025 #36
Except - his first ex wife said he was acting strange womanofthehills Jan 2025 #39
Easy to default and attribute to mental illness. JanMichael Jan 2025 #7
Having strongly held toxic beliefs would be another indication of mental illness. Think. Again. Jan 2025 #8
I agree Kaleva Jan 2025 #13
Soooo. What about most evangelicals? JanMichael Jan 2025 #20
The conmen or their suckers? Think. Again. Jan 2025 #21
I think they go into these things because they feel there is arthritisR_US Jan 2025 #26
Okay, I hope they can gain a healthier mental state. Think. Again. Jan 2025 #29
I hope so too arthritisR_US Jan 2025 #32
Ex-wife got restraining order against him. LeftInTX Jan 2025 #3
oh oh: "Jabbar, 42, was registered as a Democrat in 2012 when he resided in North Carolina." BlueWaveNeverEnd Jan 2025 #5
I believe at some point in time, their hero Trump was a registered democrat. LisaL Jan 2025 #10
Yeah, at least in the mid-80s. Igel Jan 2025 #14
When I saw a screenshot of the registration, it appeared to be "unaffiliated". LeftInTX Jan 2025 #11
Not under that name in Harris County. Igel Jan 2025 #15
He's registered in Ft Bend County, but he's on Suspense because he moved. LeftInTX Jan 2025 #18
Just another garden-variety radical Unladen Swallow Jan 2025 #9
This may or may not be linked B.See Jan 2025 #19
I don't understand how someone who could want to do... Think. Again. Jan 2025 #22
that's a good point. Nor do I. I guess B.See Jan 2025 #23
I agree, and yes, I believe that being mentally healthy... Think. Again. Jan 2025 #27
If I was watching criminal minds Blue Full Moon Jan 2025 #25
I read he was planning to round up his family and kill them, but changed his mind. LeftInTX Jan 2025 #38

ScratchCat

(2,739 posts)
1. So his conversion was very recent?
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 04:58 PM
Jan 2025

That's interesting and weird, that'd he would do something like this. Mental illness seems likely if this is the case.

LeftInTX

(34,215 posts)
17. He was born to an Arabic named father and a generic American named mother.
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 06:01 PM
Jan 2025

Pretty sure they were divorced because I found a 1997 marriage for his mother. I haven't found a marriage or divorce certificate for his parents, but I'm looking.

His maternal grandmother was from Landry, Louisiana

One of his siblings lived in Shreveport.

Anyway, he had a connection to Louisiana.

LeftInTX

(34,215 posts)
33. I have no idea. His mom is African-American. I traced both of her parents back on census records.
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 01:03 AM
Jan 2025

So, his mom explains much of his features.

His dad was here in 1982 and he's a US citizen and currently an active voter.

applegrove

(132,092 posts)
34. Arabic is not the same as muslim. Christians in Lebannon are arabic
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 01:09 AM
Jan 2025

peoples, for instance.

LeftInTX

(34,215 posts)
35. It's the first name that indicates religion
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 01:12 AM
Jan 2025

For instance: Omar Sharif[a] (Arabic: عمر الشريف Egyptian Arabic pronunciation:], born Michel Yusef Dimitri Chalhoub10 April 1932 – 10 July 2015) was an Egyptian actor, generally regarded as one of his country's greatest male film stars.[6][7][8]

He was born and raised a Christian. His parents were from Lebanon. Michel Chalhoub is a very Christian name. He changed his name because his acting brought shame to his parents.

NoRethugFriends

(3,749 posts)
4. I disagree. you can be evil without being mentally ill
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 05:03 PM
Jan 2025

That's kind of the Republicans line. Not accusing you of that. That everything is related to mental health when somebody does something bad.

 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
6. I disagree...
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 05:12 PM
Jan 2025

...harming others (when not in self-defense) is not within the abilities of psychologically healthy people, it's actually instinctual to pull back from physically hurting people. It is unnatural in humans to hurt others of our species outside of psychological breakdowns caused by fear or anger, or other mental health issues.

Yes, I know it's a common occurence, but so are a lot of other mental health issues these days.

Igel

(37,516 posts)
12. There's been a lot of tribal warfare.
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 05:45 PM
Jan 2025

Genocide was that not uncommon when you put a lot of tribes in one area with fairly limited resources--losing a 'war' would require that you try to reclaim you tribe's place, that is, restart the war, and both sides know that the option is genocide or eternal bouts of war, barring some method of conflict resolution.

Pick any violent inner city gang or cartel in Mexico or Colombia. It becomes circular saying that these guys kill because they're psychologically unwell when the main evidence they're unwell is that they kill.

In some places, conflict resolution could include having a tribe or clan, to preserve its existence, forfeit a member: death if male, marriage if female.

Eye-for-an-eye or killings for honor are not been that uncommon. Infanticide was a thing. Hear about the place in SW England with signs of a fairly large cannibalism event? Evidence these were men, women, and children that succumbed to cold or something; they met with violent deaths.

Duels were not necessarily between men who were mentally ill.


This is not true for some cultures, but for others that dehumanize those not in their group?

arthritisR_US

(7,810 posts)
24. I think you're missing the point. As a psychologist what that
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 12:11 AM
Jan 2025

poster said was indeed accurate and relevant.

 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
28. I disagree...
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 12:47 AM
Jan 2025

Pointing out that large groups of people throughout history lacked a level of psychological health doesn't equate to a lack of psychological health being a prime state.

 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
36. I do believe that our society, as a whole....
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 01:12 AM
Jan 2025

....lacks a level of emotional and psychological health, yes.

womanofthehills

(10,988 posts)
39. Except - his first ex wife said he was acting strange
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 01:53 AM
Jan 2025

So she stopped letting his two daughters visit him.

Being mentally ill is a Republican line????

 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
21. The conmen or their suckers?
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 11:54 PM
Jan 2025

Nevermind, neither people who hurt others by taking advantage of their delusions, nor people who suffer from delusions, are mentally healthy people.

arthritisR_US

(7,810 posts)
26. I think they go into these things because they feel there is
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 12:22 AM
Jan 2025

something terribly missing or empty in their lives and the phoney memes resonates with them and then they carry on to decrepit levels .

BlueWaveNeverEnd

(14,145 posts)
5. oh oh: "Jabbar, 42, was registered as a Democrat in 2012 when he resided in North Carolina."
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 05:05 PM
Jan 2025

MAGAts will jump on this detail

LisaL

(47,420 posts)
10. I believe at some point in time, their hero Trump was a registered democrat.
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 05:19 PM
Jan 2025

2012 was a long time ago. So they can jump on it all they want.

LeftInTX

(34,215 posts)
11. When I saw a screenshot of the registration, it appeared to be "unaffiliated".
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 05:28 PM
Jan 2025

I don't think he was registered to vote in Texas.

ETA: He's registered in Ft Bend Co, but only voted once. No primaries.

LeftInTX

(34,215 posts)
18. He's registered in Ft Bend County, but he's on Suspense because he moved.
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 06:08 PM
Jan 2025

He last voted in the 2020 general election.
He has not voted in any primaries.

Took me awhile to find his name, but he is registered in Texas.

 

Unladen Swallow

(491 posts)
9. Just another garden-variety radical
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 05:17 PM
Jan 2025

killing for his perceived cause. I have no idea how to fight this sort of thing except through culture. This sort of thing exists in all cultures and across all types of people and demographics. Truly sad. I agree with others who have simply called it evil.

B.See

(8,425 posts)
19. This may or may not be linked
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 06:17 PM
Jan 2025

to mental illness, especially if it turns out others were involved, but as I'd written earlier and numerous times before,

hate based rhetoric, demagoguery, and ideology PREY upon the minds of the mentally/psychologically challenged and the easily (willfully) MISLED.

 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
22. I don't understand how someone who could want to do...
Wed Jan 1, 2025, 11:58 PM
Jan 2025

...this kind of thing could be considered mentally healthy.

B.See

(8,425 posts)
23. that's a good point. Nor do I. I guess
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 12:08 AM
Jan 2025

the distinction ( or question) I'm raising is whether the so-called 'radicalization' of someone into support of ANY extremist cause or ideology constitutes (technically) a mental illness.

Because if so, then there are far more mentally ill among us than we may be willing to acknowledge.

 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
27. I agree, and yes, I believe that being mentally healthy...
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 12:39 AM
Jan 2025

...is more rare than society likes to tell ourselves.

Blue Full Moon

(3,453 posts)
25. If I was watching criminal minds
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 12:19 AM
Jan 2025

He definitely had the stressors for mental breakdown. Possible serial killer in the making.

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