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Some parents draw baby name inspiration from sources like family history, geography or even their favorite foods and brands. Others look to literature, music and pop culture. Still others get ideas from a more surprising source: weapons.
There is a small but noticeable trend of parents using weapons-inspired ― and, more broadly, aggressive ― names for their sons, Sophie Kihm, the editor-in-chief at the website Nameberry, told HuffPost. Many of these names first appeared on the baby name charts in the 2000s, including Wesson, Caliber, Shooter and Trigger.
Weapon-inspired monikers that parents have chosen in recent years also include Blade and Cannon, as well as brand-related names like Remington, Colt, Ruger and Winchester. Arson, Cutter and Dagger are among the other names with a violent edge in recent data from the Social Security Administration.
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BabyNames.com founder Jennifer Moss believes some parents are drawn to weapon names for their sons because they feel threatened by recent cultural shifts toward broader acceptance of gender identities and expressions outside the traditional gender binary.
Assigning these overly violent names might be a reaction to the fear that their son might have less-than-masculine traits, she said. So these parents assign a dictionary word name that has been traditionally associated with aggression or strength, hoping to instill those characteristics into their male offspring.
Weapons-inspired names convey masculinity without being traditional male names, Kihm added. They are at once undeniably masculine and extremely modern. We associate weapons with men and masculinity, so these parents might have more conservative values around gender.
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https://www.huffpost.com/entry/weapon-baby-names-trend_l_66fc3db0e4b0d70dca9f58f9
DenaliDemocrat
(1,812 posts)lol! One should not name your child as if he were your birddog!
Shermann
(9,073 posts)The German registrar's office does have the authority to reject names that are deemed offensive, inappropriate, or not clearly identifiable as a name. Additionally, male children must have male names and female children must have female names. So, there is a kind of unwritten list based on cultural norms, but not an official whitelist.
Names can be rejected in the US as well by the states, but we are more lax about it.
Celerity
(54,897 posts)The naming law in Sweden (Swedish: lag om personnamn) is a Swedish law which requires the approval of the government agency for names to be given to Swedish children. The parents must submit the proposed name of a child within three months of birth. The current law was enacted in 2017, replacing a 1982 law. The Swedish Tax Agency administers the registration of names in Sweden. The law has been revised since originally enacted; in 1983, it was made possible for a man to adopt his wife's or partner's name, as well as for a woman to adopt her husband's name.
The 2017 law states, in part: "First names shall not be approved if they can lead to discomfort for the person bearing the name, or for any other reason is unsuitable as a name" (§ 28). This text applies both when parents name their children and when an adult wants to change their own name. Unlike the 1982 law, the 2017 law gives the Swedish Tax Agency the ability to charge a fee for requesting to change your name. The law states nothing about registering which name is used on a daily basis, but the tax authority can register that if requested.
WarGamer
(18,863 posts)blm
(114,765 posts)still, unsurprised at your pov.
question everything
(52,411 posts)I dont know if this is still in effect.
milestogo
(23,205 posts)If we name him arson he may end up in prison, but at least he'll be a "man".
JohnnyRingo
(20,998 posts)He may end up in prison but he'll still be "Our Son"
milestogo
(23,205 posts)wnylib
(26,468 posts)JohnnyRingo
(20,998 posts)I know my latest great grandson is named Maximus, but his older sister is named Mahliya or something like that.
There's an Avery too, but I like that one. I don't know where that comes from.
Rebl2
(17,937 posts)a character on Murphy Brown named Avery. It was Murphys mothers name and her sons name. I rather like that name.
Walleye
(45,516 posts)Stardust Mirror
(685 posts)What kind of name is that to label a child with?
DBoon
(25,152 posts)
Mossfern
(4,782 posts)I know a great kid (now an adult) named Avery.
Why do you object to it?
WENSTJDON
(153 posts)I like the name too.
tanyev
(49,692 posts)newdeal2
(5,624 posts)eppur_se_muova
(42,528 posts)sop
(19,352 posts)At least it'll be easier for schools to identify potential mass shooters in a few years.
milestogo
(23,205 posts)Its such a deeply loved weapon.
sop
(19,352 posts)Renew Deal
(85,369 posts)Neither are Arson, Cutter, Dagger. You have to think about the impact on the kid and ridicule the kid will face might be worse than the fear of the gay.
Kids will find their own paths in life despite their parents.
Shermann
(9,073 posts)Renew Deal
(85,369 posts)milestogo
(23,205 posts)It needs to be something you can yell without alarming anyone. Something that rolls off the tongue. Because you're going to be yelling Napoleon Bonaparte, get over here right now!
Anyway, I knew a guy who named his greyhound Danger. He would be at the dog park yelling Danger, Danger. And everyone but the dog would look at him.
Renew Deal
(85,369 posts)Renew Deal
(85,369 posts)Takket
(23,804 posts)yardwork
(69,649 posts)A small number of people have always named their children weird things.
Hieronymus Phact
(753 posts)Moon Unit Zappa to the front desk please.
Xavier Breath
(6,681 posts)This is our son. He has Wessonality!
SickOfTheOnePct
(8,710 posts)milestogo
(23,205 posts)GoCubsGo
(35,007 posts)I suspect that's the case for a whole lot of people, and I feel sorry for those kids, because of it. They'll probably be catching a lot of crap, thanks to unintended consequences of what they were named.
ITAL
(1,382 posts)But I've seen Colt as a name for years. I think I even had class with one 30+ years ago.
Renew Deal
(85,369 posts)That announced he was gay.
GoCubsGo
(35,007 posts)Which has been a somewhat popular name over the past 20ish years. I've seen a lot of Coltons shortened to "Colt," much the way one would shorten Ronald to "Ron."
I don't actually know, but you may be right about that!
Igel
(37,614 posts)Those are their legal names.
Back then it was either "young horse" or one of the many surnames moved a position or two earlier in the name.
https://nameberry.com/b/boy-baby-name-colt for whatever academic worthiness the site might have.
Think. Again.
(22,456 posts)(from some 80's tv show)
MLWR
(1,082 posts)The show was Rhoda.
Think. Again.
(22,456 posts)JoseBalow
(9,743 posts)Think. Again.
(22,456 posts)sop
(19,352 posts)Kyle, Seth, Hunter and, yes, Colt in her class one year. When I was in school every other kid was named Jimmy, Bobby, Billy or Tommy.
Baitball Blogger
(52,729 posts)When they grow up.
Aristus
(72,528 posts)things like Submission, Deference, Brood-Mare, and the like
Celerity
(54,897 posts)Diamond_Dog
(41,071 posts)Dont forget Demure .
DBoon
(25,152 posts)Daughter number one, daughter number two, ...
Because women had such low status in Roman society that, unlike dogs, they did not deserve names.
Johonny
(26,631 posts)Prairie Gates
(8,479 posts)But said it was a variant of Gunther.
Igel
(37,614 posts)Then again, in college the guy a few doors down in the freshman door was "Jan", pronounced "yon".
Clouds Passing
(8,201 posts)Ocelot II
(131,254 posts)it does mean "warrior."
Clouds Passing
(8,201 posts)I had an Uncle Gunnar from Sweden
Ocelot II
(131,254 posts)relating to war or battle; so the word "gun" and the name "Gunnar" apparently have the same ancient origin. You weren't wrong! https://www.etymonline.com/word/gun
Clouds Passing
(8,201 posts)Oopsie Daisy
(6,670 posts)Ocelot II
(131,254 posts)So many possibilities! "Trebuchet" also has a sort of classy vibe although it's not a firearm, but it can do a lot of damage so it would be a great name for your manly manchild.
Duncanpup
(15,651 posts)Duncan
actually my wife named him.
Diamond_Dog
(41,071 posts)But then I am weird.
CousinIT
(12,763 posts)eShirl
(20,438 posts)at least they'll have Wessonality
Dem4life1234
(2,533 posts)So many women in this country suffer from internalized self hatred.
How do you look at yourself as a mother and name your child such a violent name? Have you no self respect?
Trash at its finest. And these are the types of boys with no shit parents who will grow up to become violent thugs or general miscreants. Good luck finding a viable job with those names, and these are the same types of people who picked on black people for "Afrocentric names". I hate this country.
dalton99a
(95,354 posts)58Sunliner
(6,418 posts)jmowreader
(53,404 posts)Action Requested: Petitioner wishes to change his given name from "Glock Carbine Jones" to "Samuel Leroy Jones."
Reason for Requesting Name Change: Petitioner believes the name on his birth certificate is fucking stupid. As he has become known among his friends and employers by the name of his favorite actor, he desires that it be made his legal name.
bronxiteforever
(11,212 posts)England is a cup of tea.
France, a wheel of ripened brie.
Greece, a short, squat olive tree.
America is a gun.
― Brian Bilston
Paladin
(32,354 posts)Just don't let your kids play with their kids. Under any circumstances.
GiqueCee
(4,761 posts)... has a nephew named "Entropy." How's THAT for sadistic parents?
Sky Jewels
(9,148 posts)It's overflowing with violent, hateful, racist, sexist fucking morons.
MLWR
(1,082 posts)Clouds Passing
(8,201 posts)OMG
LisaM
(29,688 posts)For one thing (and this was the norm for a long time) there are always nicknames. I read a book series growing up where three of the main characters were named Catherine or Katherine, but were known as Beany, Kay, and Miggs. This used to be much more common. Nicknames develop, usually, too.
There are other odd trends too - naming kids "Sir" or "Prince". Barron. Tiffany.
Don't get me started on quarterbacks. Colt, Stetson, Landry. And didn't the Palins name Bristol after a race track?
swong19104
(662 posts)who will be choosing the bear in 15 years.
hardluck
(792 posts)From the article:
So Wesson was used 306 times, caliber 24 times, mace 64 times, and dagger 13 times. Who cares?
For shits and giggles I went to the SSA baby name popularity webpage to check each of the names listed - only 3 broke the top 1000 baby names in 2023 - Wesson, Cannon, and Colt.
In 2023, Wesson ranked 949 with 237 babies named Wesson or .013% of births.
In 2023, Cannon ranked 636 with 430 babies named Cannon or .023% of births.
In 2023, Colt ranked 264 with 1298 babies named Colt or .071% of babies. Of course, the name Colt could easily be in reference to the horse.
So in total, the names mentioned in the article represent about .11% of babies names in 2023. This doesnt seem like much of a trend to me.
Btw, for anyone who wants to check, heres the SSA website: https://www.ssa.gov/OACT/babynames/index.html
no_hypocrisy
(55,390 posts)The New Jersey parents who gave their children Nazi-inspired names including Adolf Hitler lost custody after a state appeals court ruled that a history of domestic violence puts the children at risk of abuse and neglect.
Court documents show that the oldest child frequently threatens to kill people and the mother once slipped a note to a neighbor saying she was terrified of her husband because he said he would kill her.
Adolf Hitler Campbell, 4, and his two younger sisters, JoyceLynn Aryan Nation Campbell, 3, and Honszlynn Hinler Jeannie Campbell, 2, will remain in the care of the Division of Youth and Family Services (DYFS).
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The family made headlines back in 2009 when a ShopRite supermarket in Greenwich, N.J., refused to inscribe Adolf Hitler Campbell's name on a cake for his third birthday. At the time, police and child protection officials took the children into protective custody, declining to reveal the exact reason but indicating it was not because of the children's names.
https://abcnews.go.com/US/parents-cannot-regain-custody-children-nazi-inspired/story?id=11334970
TomSlick
(13,093 posts)We all joked that his daughter's name was Flachette but that wasn't true (I think).
Retrograde
(11,450 posts)a lot of common names of Norse or Germanic origin have 'aggressive' roots: Gertrude means something like "Mighty Spear", names ending in -olf or -ulf refer to wolves, etc. We don't think of them as militant because we're used to them.
IMHO, people should give their kids traditional names, such as Faith, Hope, Charity, and "If-Christ-had- not-died-for- thee-thou-hadst- been-damned"
AwakeAtLast
(14,315 posts)Remington's brother is named Hunter.
Straw Man
(6,956 posts).... Remington, Colt, Ruger, and Winchester are all family names of the founders of the respective companies. Of course, using surnames as given names is its own peculiarity, e.g. Mackenzie, Lincoln, Ellison, etc.
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