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AkFemDem

(2,508 posts)
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 01:18 PM Feb 2025

Nancy Mace accused her ex fiance and 3 others of rape and other pervy stuff

On the house floor. I watched some of the video and her accusations are pretty awful. It seems odd to me though that the AG in a red state wouldn't have investigated charges made by a federal fellow republican congresswoman (this was one of the accusations she made, that the AG is ignoring her claims)

Representative Nancy Mace, the South Carolina Republican who in recent weeks has floated a run for governor, on Monday night accused her former fiancé and three other men of having drugged and raped her and other women, and of filming and taking lewd photographs of women and underage girls without their consent.

In a stunningly graphic speech on the House floor that had little precedent, Ms. Mace said the men, whom she named and displayed photographs of on a placard where lawmakers more typically display charts and graphs on policy issues, were involved in the “premeditated, calculated exploitation of innocent women and girls in my district.”

“You’ve booked yourself a one-way ticket to hell,” she said, referring to the men directly at one point in a speech that lasted close to an hour. “It is nonstop. There are no connections. So I and all of your victims can watch you rot into eternity.”

On the floor of the House, Ms. Mace was protected by the speech and debate clause, even as she accused the men of repeatedly assaulting incapacitated women and filming it. The clause provides lawmakers immunity from criminal prosecutions or civil suits, such as for slander, when they are acting “within the legislative sphere.” Ms. Mace offered no evidence to support the accusations, although she said she had plenty of such material.


https://www.nytimes.com/2025/02/10/us/politics/nancy-mace-rape-accusation.html
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Nancy Mace accused her ex fiance and 3 others of rape and other pervy stuff (Original Post) AkFemDem Feb 2025 OP
I'm sure she's lying. She's made false accusations before. yardwork Feb 2025 #1
It sounds like she'd trying to get ahead of a sex tape being released meadowlander Feb 2025 #14
This is an interesting idea. Irish_Dem Feb 2025 #29
One of her top aides quit and said she is severely mentally ill. Irish_Dem Feb 2025 #27
I believe the state attorney general who says she's never brought it up. yardwork Feb 2025 #36
Who will force her to resign? The GOP leaders and maga cult love a three ring circus. Irish_Dem Feb 2025 #39
Feels like someone carrying out a threat to ruin someone more than someone who was actually assaulted. RoeVWade Feb 2025 #40
she accused one trans rights person of assault lapfog_1 Feb 2025 #2
That man spent the night in jail-and 3 days later in Court pleaded NOT guilty but I have not found riversedge Feb 2025 #26
Nancy Mace refused paramedics help that night. And yes, I have seen the sling photos--at least riversedge Feb 2025 #28
If these men are innocent MustLoveBeagles Feb 2025 #3
They could try unblock Feb 2025 #6
She's protected by the speech and debate clause unblock Feb 2025 #4
I am never inclined to believe anyone. yardwork Feb 2025 #11
I chose the word "inclined" because it's an inclination. Nothing more. unblock Feb 2025 #12
Fair enough. yardwork Feb 2025 #13
Soooooo, like EVERYBODY is raping her? madashelltoo Feb 2025 #5
She was the first woman to graduate from the citadel unblock Feb 2025 #8
She's also been caught... lame54 Feb 2025 #41
Yup. Not a exactly a dream witness for the prosecution... unblock Feb 2025 #42
Well, she does hang around with Retrumplicans and supported a rapist for president maxrandb Feb 2025 #10
I swear, I have not had sexual relations with that woman! mucholderthandirt Feb 2025 #33
Government of any kind is not the place for Nancy Mace. ProudMNDemocrat Feb 2025 #7
1 in 6 American women are survivors of rape or attempted rape AkFemDem Feb 2025 #19
Sorry about your sister! One of mine claims to have been raped as a child, by a former boyfriend of mine. mucholderthandirt Feb 2025 #34
Us the house floor Mountainguy Feb 2025 #9
Do we still wonder why women are afraid to report sexual assault? sarisataka Feb 2025 #15
The US House floor is not the place to file accusations BruceWane Feb 2025 #20
We shall see what the Repug "leaders" say about this--but I really doubt they will say or riversedge Feb 2025 #32
She has a history of, to be charitable, exaggerating claims dsc Feb 2025 #21
But why is someone with her power and influence not able to be believed? mucholderthandirt Feb 2025 #35
See my post upthread. yardwork Feb 2025 #37
I do not have an issue calling for verifying her story sarisataka Feb 2025 #38
I think she needs help Bettie Feb 2025 #16
Serial liar as are all MAGA scum. Dawson Leery Feb 2025 #17
The disconnect is stunning Johnny2X2X Feb 2025 #18
"I'll take assaulted by a transgender in a unisex stall in my fantasies for $200 Alex." Lemons UK Feb 2025 #22
Lemme guess Mad_Machine76 Feb 2025 #23
She may have had tragic, horrific things happen to her, but nothing excuses her horrific behavior. Nothing. Lives are in themaguffin Feb 2025 #24
I think she should go straight to Donnie! He knows what to do with sexual predators. 😁 Wonder Why Feb 2025 #25
She didn't mention Jewish space lasers so I guess that's a plus. nt yaesu Feb 2025 #30
Not to diminish sexual assault of women (I'm a woman), this seems flaky. The House floor allegorical oracle Feb 2025 #31
I'll reserve judgement on whether it's true or not because I don't know what to believe with Nancy Mace IronLionZion Feb 2025 #43

yardwork

(69,364 posts)
1. I'm sure she's lying. She's made false accusations before.
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 01:22 PM
Feb 2025

She accused a trans activist of dislocating her shoulder, while observers said it was a normal handshake. Her staff quit in droves, saying she's crazy.

I think she has some kind of personality disorder.

meadowlander

(5,133 posts)
14. It sounds like she'd trying to get ahead of a sex tape being released
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 01:58 PM
Feb 2025

potentially the one that's been used in the past to blackmail her. But who knows.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
29. This is an interesting idea.
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 03:26 PM
Feb 2025

Yes she could be trying to stay ahead of some incriminating information coming out about her.

Or she isn't getting the attention she craves right now.

Irish_Dem

(81,266 posts)
27. One of her top aides quit and said she is severely mentally ill.
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 03:24 PM
Feb 2025

She loves attention and being in the limelight.
She sounds borderline and/or narcissistic personality disorders.
If she actually believes what she is saying she could be delusional, psychotic.

I wonder if she is doing drugs or alcohol like all the rest of the GOP?

Of course mentally ill women can be sexual abused.

But we saw her lie point blank about the handshake and parade around with a fake sling on her arm
And why wouldn't a fellow GOP prosecutor take her case and investigate these men?

yardwork

(69,364 posts)
36. I believe the state attorney general who says she's never brought it up.
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 03:56 PM
Feb 2025

He said she's never approached his office about this, never mentioned it to him during their regular meetings.

One of them is blatantly lying. She's the one with a history of blatant lies.

To me, this is next level fabrication, though. Whoa. Maybe she'll be forced to resign. I kind of wonder what she'll do next.

RoeVWade

(890 posts)
40. Feels like someone carrying out a threat to ruin someone more than someone who was actually assaulted.
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 04:30 PM
Feb 2025

Just my opinion though. Could be completely wrong.

lapfog_1

(31,904 posts)
2. she accused one trans rights person of assault
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 01:23 PM
Feb 2025

because he shook her hand. In front of a crowd of people... later she put her arm in a sling.

She has gone off the deep end and needs to be committed to a mental health care facility.

riversedge

(80,810 posts)
26. That man spent the night in jail-and 3 days later in Court pleaded NOT guilty but I have not found
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 03:22 PM
Feb 2025

any follow up one way or another.

riversedge

(80,810 posts)
28. Nancy Mace refused paramedics help that night. And yes, I have seen the sling photos--at least
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 03:25 PM
Feb 2025

3 of them with here wearing different outfits.

MustLoveBeagles

(16,404 posts)
3. If these men are innocent
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 01:29 PM
Feb 2025

Then it's a shame they can't sue for slander. Whether she's telling the truth or not this woman needs a mental health intervention. Something is wrong with her.

unblock

(56,198 posts)
6. They could try
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 01:33 PM
Feb 2025

Arguably this falls outside the legislative sphere covered by the speech and debate clause.

Not an easy case, but not impossible.

unblock

(56,198 posts)
4. She's protected by the speech and debate clause
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 01:31 PM
Feb 2025

Rather suggests she knows she's lying, or at least knows she has no evidence.

Well, it suggests she knows some of it is lies. There could be some truthful parts.

Generally, I'm inclined to believe women. But this particular source....

yardwork

(69,364 posts)
11. I am never inclined to believe anyone.
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 01:53 PM
Feb 2025

I believe that everybody has the right to make an accusation to law enforcement, present evidence, and be listened to with respect.

I have never believed that all women, or all accusers, should be believed automatically.

I think the "me too" movement misrepresented what needed to change. Historically, women and other victims of sex crimes have been treated disrespectfully by law enforcement. The automatic response was often to disbelieve them.

The change needs to be treating accusers with respect under the process of law, not swinging all the way over to believing anyone who makes an accusation.

unblock

(56,198 posts)
8. She was the first woman to graduate from the citadel
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 01:42 PM
Feb 2025

I'm certainly willing to believe she's been a victim of rape quite a few times.




maxrandb

(17,427 posts)
10. Well, she does hang around with Retrumplicans and supported a rapist for president
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 01:47 PM
Feb 2025

maybe hang with a better class of people Nancy. There are men in this world that don't view women as sex objects that were created to fill their every need, but you won't find them at Retrumplican Rotary Club meetings.

Expand you're horizons

mucholderthandirt

(1,783 posts)
33. I swear, I have not had sexual relations with that woman!
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 03:39 PM
Feb 2025

Whether her stories are true or not, the fact that she apparently can't or won't bring charges seems kind of fishy. With her position, she could potentially cause some very nasty things to happen, likely to innocent men. At the very least, she can file civil suit.

As to the protection under that clause, a good attorney can get past that, since what she's talking about has nothing to do with her work for the government. No one should be allowed to simply demean and ruin reputations without a trial.

Remember when we could believe "no one is above the law"?

ProudMNDemocrat

(20,897 posts)
7. Government of any kind is not the place for Nancy Mace.
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 01:38 PM
Feb 2025

She needs intervention of some kind to get over the trauma she has been suffering for a long time.

Even I know, getting over a rape and any trauma from sexual assault takes professionals trained in that area and many years of therapy in order to feel whole and function. For it is becoming clearer that Nancy Mace is fearful of everything and everyone who she sees as threatening to her.

The fear of Rep. Sarah McBride is proof of that.

P.S. My own sister was a victim of a sexual assault when a girl by a neighborhood man who was released from a State Hospital when Ronald Reagan was Governor of California. She never was treated for it and suffered for it all her life, until a Morphine overdose for chronic knee pain(from 2 failed replacements) took her life in 2006 at the age of 48. She was married at the time.

 

AkFemDem

(2,508 posts)
19. 1 in 6 American women are survivors of rape or attempted rape
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 02:18 PM
Feb 2025

Most of us are able to function and feel "whole" enough even without many years of therapy. I am a big proponent of therapy (for everyone, imo the world would be a better place if EVERYONE was in therapy ) but I don't want to perpetuate a stereotype of a dysfunctional, "broken", victim that's unable to work, socialize, and function in society. If that was the case then a HUGE % of women would be unable to function.

I totally get this is targeted to Nancy Mace, a repugnant woman who says and does horrible things... just speaking up as a SA survivor who was functional again REALLY quickly afterward, at the time without the therapy because I had to be. When I finally did get therapy many years later, it was to address another issue and old traumas were visited as part of the process but by that point I was so far beyond THAT trauma, I didn't feel a need to hyper focus on it and my therapist agreed.

All that said, I'm really sorry about your sister, thats absolutely tragic PTSD is absolutely tied to substance abuse and suicide and not everyone's trauma is processed the same way.

mucholderthandirt

(1,783 posts)
34. Sorry about your sister! One of mine claims to have been raped as a child, by a former boyfriend of mine.
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 03:42 PM
Feb 2025

She's had decades of therapy, electroshock, drugs, stays in hospitals. None of it helps, she only gets worse. I have a theory about why, and my brother backs me up, but it's a long story and not the place for it here. Short version: we believe she married her actual abuser and he's had more than 40 years to ruin her even more.

 

Mountainguy

(2,145 posts)
9. Us the house floor
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 01:42 PM
Feb 2025

And its protections to slander political opponents.

Should be censored and removal proceedings started.

sarisataka

(22,695 posts)
15. Do we still wonder why women are afraid to report sexual assault?
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 02:04 PM
Feb 2025

We, who supported Believe Women (denying Al Franken due process) and #metoo, are dismissing her accusations out of hand. Do we not think Republican women can be victims?

No, I am not taking her statements as unquestioned truth, but isn't the flat denial (or suggestions it was her fault) something we accused Republicans of doing?

She has made the accusations, suggested there is physical evidence and claims to have reported it. An investigation should be able to determine if she is telling the truth or lying.

BruceWane

(384 posts)
20. The US House floor is not the place to file accusations
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 02:23 PM
Feb 2025

The AG she accuses of not acting says this is the first he's heard of it.

She's abusing law regarding "legislative speech" to make very public accusations with no burden of accountability for committing defamation. If she has evidence, why hasn't she presented it to the proper law enforcement entities?

As it stands, it appears she's just abusing her power/privilege as a member of congress to defame a few people, including her political rival in a likely run for governor (the supposedly neglectful AG).

riversedge

(80,810 posts)
32. We shall see what the Repug "leaders" say about this--but I really doubt they will say or
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 03:38 PM
Feb 2025

do anything--!!

dsc

(53,397 posts)
21. She has a history of, to be charitable, exaggerating claims
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 02:27 PM
Feb 2025

she was asked by the NYT for the evidence of this that she claims to have and has offered zero. She purposely chose to make the allegations in such a way that she can't be sued and has never said them in a place where she could be sued for slander. On what planet should we believe her?

mucholderthandirt

(1,783 posts)
35. But why is someone with her power and influence not able to be believed?
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 03:47 PM
Feb 2025

I mean, I get it. I grew up in times when women were almost never believed. Their names were published, they were talked about and called names, like slut, accused of luring the man. It was a horrible time, and I never want to go back to those days.

But she's claimed this sort of thing for years, right? How come she can't find anyone to believe her and investigate? Why can't she hire private detectives who can verify these claims?

Using her position to basically slander these men, knowing she has legal protection? That just doesn't seem right. She's not powerless, she has backers, supporters. Because I fear if a woman like this can't be heard, then the rest of us are in for a big pile of shit if we try to be heard. Huge step backward!

yardwork

(69,364 posts)
37. See my post upthread.
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 04:01 PM
Feb 2025

I have never believed it's right to just accept anybody's accusation. People do lie.

What everybody deserves is to have the right to present evidence and be listened to by law enforcement. She hasn't presented any evidence. Just accusations. She claims the attorney general ignored the evidence. He says she's never even brought it up. It's easy to prove. Did she file charges? Did she present evidence? Nothing.

And she had a history of making false accusations.

I

sarisataka

(22,695 posts)
38. I do not have an issue calling for verifying her story
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 04:07 PM
Feb 2025

What is alarming is how many dismiss the accusation out of hand. What is more disturbing is the several posts suggesting she would deserve such treatment.

Johnny2X2X

(24,207 posts)
18. The disconnect is stunning
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 02:09 PM
Feb 2025

Here she is, a survivor of horrific abuse supporting a known abuser, Trump, who is also credibly accused of brutal acts of violence against incapacitated and underaged girls. A man who bragged about sexually assaulting women. A man whose ex wife accused him of rape in a book whose text about the incident he approved. And a man who has surrounded himself with other sexual abusers like it's a prerequiste to being in his vicinity.

 

Lemons UK

(225 posts)
22. "I'll take assaulted by a transgender in a unisex stall in my fantasies for $200 Alex."
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 02:39 PM
Feb 2025

Nancy Mace Jeopardy

themaguffin

(5,221 posts)
24. She may have had tragic, horrific things happen to her, but nothing excuses her horrific behavior. Nothing. Lives are in
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 03:00 PM
Feb 2025

the hands of our reps. If she has to work through some things, fine. Resign, but her comments last week are unacceptable, as are many other actions of hers. I don't know what the fuck she thinks she's doing airing this out on the floor, but how is that appropriate?

Maybe if it were a colleague who did it. What the fuck.

allegorical oracle

(6,480 posts)
31. Not to diminish sexual assault of women (I'm a woman), this seems flaky. The House floor
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 03:30 PM
Feb 2025

seems an unusual place to reveal your personal sexual traumas. Doesn't she have an attorney who could pursue this case?

IronLionZion

(51,267 posts)
43. I'll reserve judgement on whether it's true or not because I don't know what to believe with Nancy Mace
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 04:44 PM
Feb 2025

A powerful US congresswoman should be able to get law enforcement to investigate it and find out, especially if she has the evidence she claims to and other victims/witnesses. These are some serious allegations against a dude she has publicly joked about banging in front of a prayer breakfast.

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