Hospital just called

[KS Toronado]

Last edited Fri Feb 21, 2025, 06:27 AM - Edit history (2)

My 95 year old mom has been having some health issues lately. Hospital called just as I
was leaving for my daily visit and said I better get up there, she might not last the night.

Was healthy & active 3 weeks ago. All Democratic thoughts, prayers, vibes needed.
She goes by Betty

ON EDIT.......

Thank you all for the help, it did change her diagnosis timeline somewhat, unfortunately
she's headed to Hospice care for 3 days to 2 weeks. She had an amazing run getting up to
just shy of 96, very active in her church and loved getting up on the stage at the Senior
Center meal site everyday to tell the latest jokes she'd found. And never left a crossword
puzzle unfinished. Had hundreds of cats over the years at the farm. Always attributed
her long life to the many vitamins she took every day.

On the bright side she's looking forward to seeing my father and her 7 siblings she outlived.
And I'll miss her. Thank you all for the kind words.

ON EDIT #2

Received call at 1:35 am to get back to the hospital, got there 4 minutes too late , she was
already hugging Dad upstairs.

[blm]

1. 🫶🏽

[alwaysinasnit]

2. ...

[LetMyPeopleVote]

3. Your mom will be in my prayers

[wendyb-NC]

4. Sending prayers and healing vibes her was

I hope she is able to recover and be able to enjoy life unimpaired and in comfort.

[jls4561]

5. Best wishes for Betty, and for you.

[Demovictory9]

6. ...

[Cha]

7. Ohh...Healing Wishes for your Mom, KC..

[virgdem]

8. Sending healing vibes and thoughts to your Mom.

[kentuck]

9. There is a synchronicity in this world...

Our prayers are with you and your family.

My Sister, also named Betty, was transported by ambulance to a hospital in Frankfort, Kentucky yesterday.

I am sure we are all connected in this world, however much we may believe we are independent.

[malaise]

18. Sending good vibes

to your sis

[niyad]

28. Healing vibes for your sister.

[Clouds Passing]

10. Prayers for your Mom 🙏🏼 KS

Hugs for you

[TA2020]

11. For your Mom Betty

Sending loving prayers

[Hope22]

12. Sending love and prayers.

Safe travels to the hospital!💗💗💗🙏🏼

[surfered]

13. 🙏 for Betty

[rollin74]

14. Positive vibes headed Betty's way

Prayers for both you and your mom

[malaise]

15. Sending good vibes to your mom

You and the rest of the famiky.

[StarryNite]

16. Sending hope and healing to Betty.

[mountain grammy]

17. Come on Betty!

There's an election somewhere soon.. we need you. All the best to you and your mom. Hope she's comfortable.

[SheltieLover]

19. Healing vibes on the way to Betty & you, KS

[slightlv]

20. I'm sending you guys healing energy...

for your Mom for obvious reasons; for you to have the strength to carry on no matter what happens. Hang in there, and let us know how Betty is doing.

[Nictuku]

21. That is my 83 year old mom's name

Thank goodness she is healthy. She said to me she doesn't think she will be here more than 5 years.

Now I'm crying.

Sending good Betty Vibes

[sdfernando]

22. Sending all the good vibes can muster for Betty and the entire family!

[markie]

23. ((((((....))))))

[Wicked Blue]

24. Sending best DU vibes to both of you

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

[Tanuki]

25. Holding Betty up to the divine light, and keeping

her in my prayers. Peace and blessings for Betty, for KS Tornado, and for all who hold them dear. Your DU family is very much with you in spirit every step of the way.

[Dear_Prudence]

26. Healing thoughts for Betty.

You take care.

[niyad]

27. Holding you and Betty in love and light. Vibes for best possible outcome.

[bluestarone]

29. Hope all goes well for your mother.

[senseandsensibility]

30. Stray strong, Betty!

We're all pulling for you!

[people]

31. Hoping your mom pulls through well.

Glad you are there.

[Lulu KC]

32. Thinking of you

[70sEraVet]

33. Hope all goes well for you and your Mom, KS.

[NameAlreadyTaken]

34. Prayers for Betty

[KitFox]

35. Caring thoughts and gentle hugs to you, your dear

mother and all of your family as you navigate these next hours and days. 🩷🩷🩷

[mia]

36. Prayers for Betty

And you

[LoisB]

37. Prayers for your Mom.

[KT2000]

38. Sending good wishes to Betty

[oldtime dfl_er]

39. Good vibes for Betty

and everyone who loves her. People (even in their 90s) do bounce back sometimes.

[radical noodle]

40. Loving thoughts for Betty tonight

and for you, KS.

[Loryn]

41. Betty

[BumRushDaShow]

42. (((HUGS)))

Am sending those vibes.

[MustLoveBeagles]

43. Sending good vibes to your mom and you

[Permanut]

44. Best wishes on the way to you and Mom Betty.

[FakeNoose]

45. Sending healing vibes for Betty

[pazzyanne]

46. Sending to you, your mom, and your family...

[Karadeniz]

47. Praying for a peaceful transition from her physical to her spirit body. If she

calls out names from her past or looks happy at seeing beautiful beings, those are good signs. She's going to love the new reality. I know you'll miss her.

[spanone]

48. ❤️

[maspaha]

49. Praying 🙏🏼

[Dem2theMax]

50. Sending positive energy, thoughts and love to Betty.

And to all of Betty's family and friends.

[iluvtennis]

51. Sent up a prayer for your mom. 🙏. n/t

[sheshe2]

52. Sending good vibes to both you and your mom, Betty

[Wild blueberry]

53. For Betty and you, all good thoughts

Sending love.

[babylonsister]

54. My mom was a Betty, too.

Moms are so hard to lose, my sympathies.

[Racygrandma]

55. Are you in wichita

Because that is where I am at

[Farmgirl1961]

56. Sending positive thoughts your way........ n/t

[Figarosmom]

57. Okay

Done.

Yeah that's the bitch of it we could all be vital and doing well until that one day we're not.

My mom was great until she got an infection from having a skin tag removed.

Prayers and good thoughts.

[mwmisses4289]

58. Hugs to you and yours.

[spooky3]

59. Positive vibes to you and your family. Nt

[Danmel]

60. What is her mom's name

The Jewish prayer for healing uses the name of the person and their mom.
May the one who blessed our ancestors, Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel and Leah, bless and heal those who are ill [names]. May the Blessed Holy One be filled with compassion for their health to be restored and their strength to be revived. May God swiftly send them a complete renewal of body and spirit, and let us say, Amen.

[Diamond_Dog]

61. Wishng all the best for both you and your mom.

[ChazII]

62. Prayers for your mom, you and her

medical team.

[boonecreek]

63. Sending good vibes to Betty.

And to you KS.

[ribrepin]

64. Thinking of you and your Mom

[Tumbulu]

65. sending my best wishes

[stillcool]

66. all the best for Betty

and you.

[WiVoter]

67. My Heart Goes Out To You

Sending vibes and love out to you ❤️

[highplainsdem]

68. Prayers for both of you...

[Hekate]

69. 🌺 Strength to you and gentleness to Betty 🌺

[marble falls]

70. G*D bless you and Betty!

[Blue_playwright]

71. Hey, Kansas family

Prayers that you have a beautiful visit with her tonight.

Don't give up hope thought. My dad Murl, 92, had a catastrophic fall in mid-January and fractured his pelvis. I got THE call. I got the hugs and the sympathy from the nurses. He's alive and out of the wheelchair. He's pretty far gone in dementia, but we get a bit more time. I'll take it.

I hope you and Betty get a reprieve tonight.

[blogslug]

72. My love for you, your family and your mother

❤️🫂❤️

[hamsterjill]

73. Sending Betty and the family all the best.

n/t

[MLAA]

74. You and mom are in my thoughts 🩷

[IndianaDave]

75. You and your Dear Mom definitely have my prayers, KS!

[pdxflyboy]

76. Strong health wishes for your Mom, KS Toronado

n/t

[DENVERPOPS]

77. You've go us right there with you KS

Hopefully it will be peaceful........

[greatauntoftriplets]

78. I'm sending DU's famous good vibes to your mother and your family.

Stay strong.

[debm55]

79. Sending prayers to both you and your mom

[OAITW r.2.0]

80. She's lived a good life. She is blessed.

Wish I had had my mom for an additional 23 years.....I think.

[Bluethroughu]

81. Sending loving warm vibes!

[orleans]

82. betty is loved. she is surrounded by love from you and from all of us

and we will hold both of you in our hearts tonight and in the days to come

[ornotna]

83. Praying for Betty

My Mom was Betty too.

Best wishes KS

[StevieM]

84. I am sending Betty my best wishes, positive energy and loving vibes. (eom)

[B.See]

85. Just saw this KS...

but know what you're going thru. Been there. Sending you and yours, my prayers and condolences.

[Maru Kitteh]

86. It's such an honor to be there for a parent who is passing. What a fine thing you are doing

for her. It is excruciating, but it is also a gift you will come to treasure. I wish I could say something to make things easier or give you strength. Our most heartfelt thoughts are with you.

[cate94]

87. Sending prayers and good thoughts

[summer_in_TX]

88. Prayers for you and your mom, KS.

I am so glad Betty has had a happy, healthy, and productive life until just now. She sounds like quite a gal. You have been blessed.

🙏

[StarryNite]

89. Thank you for the update.

Not what I was hoping for and certainly not what you and your family wanted. I’m so sorry. She sounds like an amazing person. I know she will be dearly missed. Please take care.

[LetMyPeopleVote]

90. Thanks for the update

[Silver Gaia]

91. We understand.

Sending YOU strength, peace, and love to help you get through the coming days.

[colorado_ufo]

92. Truly a life well -lived!

Blessings on you all! 🙏

[littlemissmartypants]

93. ❤️

[HeartsCanHope]

94. I am so sorry, KS Toronado.

I will be thinking of you, your family, and your mother Betty in the coming days. Hugs to you all.

[brer cat]

95. I'm so sorry, KS. It is tough to lose a parent.

I hope your memories will comfort you during this time.

[dawn5651]

96. i am so sorry for the loss of your mom

[spanone]

97. Sorry...

[malaise]

98. She is at peace

[marble falls]

99. They'll be playing pinochle with my folks, who've been playing three-handed since my dad sat down ...

... two weeks ago.

Tell them to watch out: my dad'll have them roped into a square dance club! But he will make the cookies!

[HeartsCanHope]

100. So sorry, KS Tornado, that your mother has passed. Will keep you and your family in my thoughts. Many hugs to you all.

[sueh]

101. So sorry for your loss,KS.

Betty was one special lady.

[quaint]

102. Sweet memories.

Grieve gently.

[Gore1FL]

103. My sincerest condolences. nt

[sinkingfeeling]

104. My deepest condolences.

[ChazII]

105. Hugs to you as you begin

this new journey in your life. Everyone grieves differently and I hope that those around you respect you.

[SpankMe]

106. I'm sure Betty had a good life. Sounds like a peaceful transition. All my best to you. n/t

[TuxedoKat]

107. So sorry

for the loss of your beloved mom.

[Lulu KC]

108. It's never easy

I'm so sorry, KS Toronado. She had a good life and we know she had a great son!

[Erda]

109. Sending love and prayers

To you and your family.

[MineralMan]

110. I'm very sorry to read your update.

It's always painful, regardless of age. I remember losing both of my parents in one day. They were 96 years old. It's a blow.

[Nevilledog]

111. I'm so sorry for your loss.

[dalton99a]

112. Condolences to you and your family.

[sdfernando]

113. I'm so sorry KS Toronado

She sounds like an amazing person and 95 is a good long run...my father passed at 95 as well.

[redwitch]

114. I'm sorry, a very big loss.

My mom passed in 2004, still missing her.

[IbogaProject]

115. So Sorry

Loosing a good Mom is one of the toughest transitions. Please take care of your self and any other family.

[RANDYWILDMAN]

116. so sorry for your loss

Hope you had some great times together

[Quiet Em]

117. My sincere condolences on the loss of your mom.

[halobeam]

118. I'm very sorry for your loss. It's a whole other world when both parents are gone, no matter our age.

[mdbl]

119. Sorry you lost her

Almost 96 is an amazing life with many cherished memories.

[Jrsygrl96]

120. I'm so sorry for your loss!

It sounds as though she had a good life and a loving family! Prayers for comfort to you and your family! 💔

[livetohike]

121. I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs for you, family and

all who knew and loved Betty. May your good memories always comfort you .

[irisblue]

122. I amso sorry for your loss

[Sparkly]

123. Condolences and best wishes to you and yours.

[lostnfound]

124. the wise lyrics of Mumford and Sons say it best for me

I think maybe you told your mother she was beloved, when you came on DU to ask for prayers. I’m so sorry for your loss.

*********************************************
Are you afraid
However could you not be
In this rosy light
This is strange
I feel a hand come through the mirror
Pointing at the light
Point at the light we never see
As you put your feathered arms over me

Before you leave
You must know you are beloved
And before you leave
Remember I was with you
And as you leave
I won't hold you back beloved

[Stinky The Clown]

125. Smile down on us all, Betty

[Rhiannon12866]

126. I'm so sorry, my friend.

I've been there, as well, lost my mother to an accident. And it sure looks like you have a lot of support here. Be sure to take care of yourself and know that DU is here for you.

[mucholderthandirt]

127. Still going to wish your mother the very best, peace and strength to you all.

My mother will be 86 next month and overall she's in pretty good health. She has a bit of high blood presser, not terribly bad, and no other major injuries other than a bad knee she gets shots for. We just lost her only surviving sister to cancer the other week, now there's just Mama and her brother (younger than she is).

It's hard seeing your parents and other relatives move on. Big hug for you and all her family and friends.