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HereForTheParty

(915 posts)
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:00 AM Mar 2025

Jeffries: It's important to have 'strong, determined and dignified Democratic presence' at Trump address

House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries (D-N.Y.) called for Democrats to have a “strong, determined and dignified” presence at President Trump’s address to a joint session of Congress on Tuesday.

“The decision to attend the Joint Session is a personal one and we understand that members will come to different conclusions,” Jeffries wrote in a “Dear Colleague” letter sent Monday.

“However, it is important to have a strong, determined and dignified Democratic presence in the chamber,” the Democratic leader continued. “The House as an institution belongs to the American people, and as their representatives we will not be run off the block or bullied.”

Jeffries said he and other members of Democratic leadership will attend the speech “to make clear to the nation that there is a strong opposition party ready, willing and able to serve as a check and balance on the excesses of the administration.”


https://thehill.com/homenews/house/5174260-jeffries-its-important-to-have-strong-determined-and-dignified-democratic-presence-at-trump-address/
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Jeffries: It's important to have 'strong, determined and dignified Democratic presence' at Trump address (Original Post) HereForTheParty Mar 2025 OP
My hope is that they laugh at him the whole time DemMedic Mar 2025 #1
More important to him than me. bluedigger Mar 2025 #2
In my most humble opinion every single Democrat should walk out at a predetermined point in tRump's word salad groundloop Mar 2025 #55
This isn't business as usual. I suggest they all dress as Zelensky. 58Sunliner Mar 2025 #3
I loved your idea so much I included it in my message to my reps today. CrispyQ Mar 2025 #73
Maybe strong and determined.. bamagal62 Mar 2025 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author Rebl2 Mar 2025 #46
If you do that Rebl2 Mar 2025 #47
True. But, then the bamagal62 Mar 2025 #68
For fuck's sake Prairie Gates Mar 2025 #5
Oh gosh Jeffries, the last thing I want to be is undignified when my Bengus81 Mar 2025 #6
BULLSHIT Ferrets are Cool Mar 2025 #7
I agree 100%. rzemanfl Mar 2025 #54
Plus he's a convicted felon x34 (or is it only x32?) suegeo Mar 2025 #67
As long as whistles are considered dignified ... LSparkle Mar 2025 #8
Clearly we need new leadership durablend Mar 2025 #9
Playing nice clearly isn't working. We need to kick them in the ass hard. Initech Mar 2025 #70
Why? Why is THAT important? Isn't that business as usual? What a dreadful "leader" for this time in history. Nanjeanne Mar 2025 #10
I'm beginning to think all the dangers of trump that they warned us about for the last 8 years Autumn Mar 2025 #56
Frightening thought - but must say I've gone there too . . . Nanjeanne Mar 2025 #74
Democrats need to make a statement tonight. Katinfl Mar 2025 #11
I just feel DaBronx Mar 2025 #12
What is the proper way to vehemently disagree with a Democrat leader superpatriotman Mar 2025 #13
Boo.Hiss. EarthFirst Mar 2025 #14
All he's signifying to the world by doing this is "We're okay with what he's doing" durablend Mar 2025 #15
I think that will look weak and whipped pinkstarburst Mar 2025 #16
Jeffries was Pelosi's pick displacedvermoter Mar 2025 #26
Bullshit. If you are going to kacekwl Mar 2025 #17
"The captives must maintain good behavior at all times" dalton99a Mar 2025 #18
And the decision to vote along side the fascist is a personal one and we understand that members will Hotler Mar 2025 #19
If they are going to be there - here's what I would do. After every lie - one or two get up and walk out. Keep Nanjeanne Mar 2025 #20
Must maintain the facade of normalcy. Must maintain the facade of normalcy. Must maintain the facade of normalcy. jalan48 Mar 2025 #21
+1. And be respectful. dalton99a Mar 2025 #24
Is he prepared to have a 'strong, determined and dignified Democratic presence' in prison? Wicked Blue Mar 2025 #22
More messaging from an old, failed play book. jrthin Mar 2025 #23
+1. Timid as a mouse dalton99a Mar 2025 #25
Is this the Onion? gab13by13 Mar 2025 #27
Maybe it's just me but claudette Mar 2025 #28
Maintain normalcy, huh? More of the same bs from these guys. travelingthrulife Mar 2025 #29
It is important to maintain decorum while watching your house burn down and the arsonist is bragging about it dalton99a Mar 2025 #30
How did "When they go low, we go high" work out for us? LoisB Mar 2025 #31
As long as those who are still thinkingagain Mar 2025 #32
Why not stage a walkout...a few at a time leave? albacore Mar 2025 #33
I absolutely won't be watching this shit tonight kwolf68 Mar 2025 #34
I'm going to watch the Curse of Oak Island gab13by13 Mar 2025 #40
I'm watching Food Network tonight IzzaNuDay Mar 2025 #63
All put on Putin masks and "Sieg Heil" Trump in unison. then walk out. (Putin/Hitler mashup) RoeVWade Mar 2025 #35
Fuck this. The era of goody-two-shoes Democrats needs to END---immediately. (nt) Paladin Mar 2025 #36
Yes! Scream "Liar" and ask "Where are the lowered costs!", early and often. And in unison! Practice! dutch777 Mar 2025 #53
In my opinion... Think. Again. Mar 2025 #37
CALL YOUR REPS TODAY!! CrispyQ Mar 2025 #38
Done BootOutTheGoons Mar 2025 #49
I made my calls. CrispyQ Mar 2025 #72
I'm split 50/50 on what to do. One thing i'm thinking is TONIGHT would be the BEST time to get your message out. bluestarone Mar 2025 #39
Doing town halls instead of sitting on one's hands gab13by13 Mar 2025 #41
I want Ukraine colors, Ukraine, European flags in every Democrats hand tonight, and bluestarone Mar 2025 #43
He's correct. Fill the chamber with Democrats and workers affected by Trump's policies. Working class, remember? betsuni Mar 2025 #42
I once had high hopes for this guy as a leader CanonRay Mar 2025 #44
I tell you what, if even one Democrat claps or shows any kind of appreciation/support for trump I'm done. Biophilic Mar 2025 #45
Don't forget "Respectful," too! Kid Berwyn Mar 2025 #48
Sure. Make sure god attends sitting on his throne. That ought to be dignified enough for you. Autumn Mar 2025 #50
Post removed Post removed Mar 2025 #51
Very disappointing RJ-MacReady Mar 2025 #52
Maybe invite garland, watch reruns of Mr Rogers and have milk and cookies yaesu Mar 2025 #57
More from the . . . Scubamatt Mar 2025 #58
When you mudwrestle with pigs everyone gets dirty but the pigs love it because it works. Marcuse Mar 2025 #59
Nonsensical bullshit. SamKnause Mar 2025 #60
Definition of insanity? Duncan Grant Mar 2025 #61
Why? ananda Mar 2025 #62
He just doesn't get it. nt The Unmitigated Gall Mar 2025 #64
Queensberry Rules, and we wonder why ? republianmushroom Mar 2025 #65
He is "ready, willing and able to serve as a check and balance on the excesses of the administration"? hurl Mar 2025 #66
Fuck that shit, I hope we go full Bluto tonight. Initech Mar 2025 #69
sitting quietly isn't dignified in this situation themaguffin Mar 2025 #71

groundloop

(13,848 posts)
55. In my most humble opinion every single Democrat should walk out at a predetermined point in tRump's word salad
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 12:23 PM
Mar 2025

We need to be getting press attention and THIS, I believe, would grab more attention than showing up and acting dignified.

I strongly disagree with Jeffries on this one, now is not the time to be dignified.

bamagal62

(4,503 posts)
4. Maybe strong and determined..
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:06 AM
Mar 2025

But, I want to hear “you lie!” And lots of laughter. (So, maybe not dignified!)

Response to bamagal62 (Reply #4)

Rebl2

(17,740 posts)
47. If you do that
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 11:55 AM
Mar 2025

be ready to be dragged out if you yell out you lie, even though it’s true!

Bengus81

(10,165 posts)
6. Oh gosh Jeffries, the last thing I want to be is undignified when my
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:07 AM
Mar 2025

social security is FUCKING stolen from me.

Thanks for the memo which proves just exactly what I suspected.

LSparkle

(12,182 posts)
8. As long as whistles are considered dignified ...
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:11 AM
Mar 2025

As is laughter. Walking out a few at a time when TSF lies is also dignified ...

Shaking heads and rolling eyes WON’T BE ENOUGH tonight though. TSF behaves like a ringmaster so make it a circus.

Initech

(108,783 posts)
70. Playing nice clearly isn't working. We need to kick them in the ass hard.
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 01:24 PM
Mar 2025

Especially for what they have done to this country. We need strong opposition to everything he's doing.

Nanjeanne

(6,589 posts)
10. Why? Why is THAT important? Isn't that business as usual? What a dreadful "leader" for this time in history.
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:14 AM
Mar 2025

Autumn

(48,962 posts)
56. I'm beginning to think all the dangers of trump that they warned us about for the last 8 years
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 12:26 PM
Mar 2025

was to just get us in line with what they wanted.

Katinfl

(816 posts)
11. Democrats need to make a statement tonight.
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:17 AM
Mar 2025

I don’t know how but they cannot just sit there as if all that is going on is normal. If the situation was reversed, you can damn well be sure the republicans would stage some sort of protest. The Dems cannot sit and listen to lie after lie after lie and be silent. OTOH, I wonder how the GOP will react. Will they give him a standing ovation and be all lovey dovey when he walks down the aisle? Some, not all, of them know how bad he is and I wonder if they will show it. I usually tend to give people the benefit of the doubt, and I have usually been wrong. Of course, I will not watch. Daily Kos or TPM may be live blogging.

DaBronx

(771 posts)
12. I just feel
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:19 AM
Mar 2025

Like he is Hitler aspirational. And so I ask why give Hitler an audience? No one in their right mind would sit there tonight. There is no fighting back in that forum. The only thing that would be acceptable is wearing blue and yellow and being very loud, so loud that they get thrown out by the sergeant at arms.
It’s more productive to hold town halls and get them televised in the news. I hope the govt fired the teleprompter team so he has to riff for three hours.

superpatriotman

(6,870 posts)
13. What is the proper way to vehemently disagree with a Democrat leader
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:22 AM
Mar 2025

On DU without getting an alert, trial by jury or ban?

Because if I knew I would possibly vehemently disagree with this sentiment.

EarthFirst

(4,153 posts)
14. Boo.Hiss.
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:23 AM
Mar 2025

A unified Democratic Party boycotting the SOTU sends a powerful prevailing message.

The media will be looking for any series of events they can to nitpick and control the messaging; by boycotting the Democrats control the messaging in one single act.

By all means; go sit on your hands and be “dignified”

SMDH

pinkstarburst

(2,020 posts)
16. I think that will look weak and whipped
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:40 AM
Mar 2025

which is how we've looked ever since we lost back in November. We need to fight back. Maybe AOC needs to lead a walk out? Why would we sit there politely and listen in a dignified way while he spews his propaganda? Really? That's the best Jeffries can come up with? He and Schumer are really disappointing me.

displacedvermoter

(4,501 posts)
26. Jeffries was Pelosi's pick
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:55 AM
Mar 2025

And we keep hearing how much better she can "read the room" than anybody there ever was, so seemingly he is the best we have. Hasn't panned out yet.

And Schumer is another institutional figure I fear we are stuck with, till it is too late. So just like when the former Presidents went to the Inauguration and legitimized the new regime, we will see Democrats sitting through two hours of lies, and insults directed at them and their constituencies, and most of them will see this as their duty to just sit there. And their chamber leaders will sit right there with them looking weak and oblivious.

Just looking forward to whatever AOL decides to do.

kacekwl

(9,147 posts)
17. Bullshit. If you are going to
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:42 AM
Mar 2025

"Dignify" trump with your presence then you better be loud and disruptive or just stay away. Good grief.

Hotler

(13,747 posts)
19. And the decision to vote along side the fascist is a personal one and we understand that members will
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:45 AM
Mar 2025

come to different conclusions. And I wish the American people would stop calling us.

Nanjeanne

(6,589 posts)
20. If they are going to be there - here's what I would do. After every lie - one or two get up and walk out. Keep
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:48 AM
Mar 2025

going - a sentence. An applause line. A R standing ovation. Each time one, two or three get up and walk out. So by the end it’s a completely empty side of the chamber. Have it orchestrated so they know who in advance is taking the next round of walk out. Make it visually stunning and continue it throughout the speech.

jalan48

(14,914 posts)
21. Must maintain the facade of normalcy. Must maintain the facade of normalcy. Must maintain the facade of normalcy.
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:51 AM
Mar 2025

Wicked Blue

(8,868 posts)
22. Is he prepared to have a 'strong, determined and dignified Democratic presence' in prison?
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:51 AM
Mar 2025

When they start rounding us up and sending our dignified"leaders" to Gitmo?

gab13by13

(32,321 posts)
27. Is this the Onion?
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:56 AM
Mar 2025

Doing town halls at the same time, getting the truth out to the people would have been better than sitting on one's hands and listening to lies.

 

claudette

(5,455 posts)
28. Maybe it's just me but
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:58 AM
Mar 2025

I think if they all attend it shows weakness in not fighting back peacefully against the orange felon’s lies That he will spew tonight. Stay away.

travelingthrulife

(5,179 posts)
29. Maintain normalcy, huh? More of the same bs from these guys.
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 10:58 AM
Mar 2025

There better be plenty of booing amongst your pretty decorum.

dalton99a

(94,119 posts)
30. It is important to maintain decorum while watching your house burn down and the arsonist is bragging about it
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 11:02 AM
Mar 2025

thinkingagain

(1,350 posts)
32. As long as those who are still
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 11:04 AM
Mar 2025

There at the end stand up and do a Nancy Pelosi and rip the speech in half
Turn and walk out

albacore

(2,747 posts)
33. Why not stage a walkout...a few at a time leave?
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 11:06 AM
Mar 2025

When he talks about immigrants...one group leaves. When he talks about Ukraine....another. And so on.
Drag it out. For the cameras.

kwolf68

(8,452 posts)
34. I absolutely won't be watching this shit tonight
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 11:09 AM
Mar 2025

I may go over to the History channel and watch some Nuremburg rallies instead.

gab13by13

(32,321 posts)
40. I'm going to watch the Curse of Oak Island
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 11:30 AM
Mar 2025

Maybe the brothers found some old wood tonight?

IzzaNuDay

(1,295 posts)
63. I'm watching Food Network tonight
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 12:43 PM
Mar 2025

New episode of Chopped, as my life is being chopped bit by bit.

dutch777

(5,068 posts)
53. Yes! Scream "Liar" and ask "Where are the lowered costs!", early and often. And in unison! Practice!
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 12:19 PM
Mar 2025
 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
37. In my opinion...
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 11:24 AM
Mar 2025

In my opinion, Jeffries is ignoring the voice of Democratic constituents time and time again.

I can hope that as House minority leader, he has some insight and a solid plan to overcome the NAZIfication of the U.S., but all I keep hearing and seeing from him is Democratic Party self-victimization and non-action against the most serious threat to our Democracy we have ever faced.

I sincerely hope his previous message that a god will appear to do our work for us wasn't his actual plan of action.

CrispyQ

(40,969 posts)
38. CALL YOUR REPS TODAY!!
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 11:24 AM
Mar 2025

Tell them you don't want to see polite acquiescence & if ever there was a time to get in good trouble that time is NOW!!

How many of us take five minutes to call our three reps every single day? I made three days last week but missed yesterday. It's hard to make it a routine but I've decided even if I say the same damned thing every day, which is pretty much, "Where the hell is the unified democratic voice against the fascist takeover of our government?" at least they are getting a call from me. I read that they do pay attention to how many calls/emails they get but calls weigh more for them. Even if your reps are repub, make the call!

This app/website tracks issues being voted on & even has sample messages you can leave. Also, if you want to share your location info the app helps you make your calls. I just put my reps in my contacts under P for Politician.

https://5calls.org

Seriously, it matters less what you say & just that you call. Be sure to leave your name, address, & zip code so they know you're a constituent.

PS - I love the idea above that they all dress like Zelensky! It would certainly qualify as strong, determined & dignified!

BootOutTheGoons

(315 posts)
49. Done
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 12:09 PM
Mar 2025

I just called and said I hope he doesn't even show up for Krazy Komrade Krasnov's bullshit. But if he does to make himself heard and not sit there quietly or act in any manner that is respectful or dignified

Sure that's "not nice" but what is going on right now is abnormal and sick because Donald bin Laden is tearing up the Constitution, destroying the economy and working to kill millions of Americans

CrispyQ

(40,969 posts)
72. I made my calls.
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 02:28 PM
Mar 2025

It took less than 10 minutes to write my message & make the calls. So I stole another DUers idea & made a suggestion.

Hello!

I read that leader Jeffries wants a strong, determined and dignified Democratic presence tonight, so here's an idea. Tonight, every democratic member of congress should dress like Zelensky. That would certainly qualify as strong, determined and dignified! It would make a unified statement to the country that the dems recognize & aren't going to stand by this shit show of a presidency.

Do Congressman Lewis proud! Stir up some good trouble!

Name, address, zip.

bluestarone

(22,179 posts)
39. I'm split 50/50 on what to do. One thing i'm thinking is TONIGHT would be the BEST time to get your message out.
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 11:26 AM
Mar 2025

The message has to be on target and to the point. Hopefully the Democrats get the right message. (i will NOT watch), but i will be HERE reading.

gab13by13

(32,321 posts)
41. Doing town halls instead of sitting on one's hands
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 11:32 AM
Mar 2025

would have been a better way to get our message out.

bluestarone

(22,179 posts)
43. I want Ukraine colors, Ukraine, European flags in every Democrats hand tonight, and
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 11:38 AM
Mar 2025

LOUD BOOS, and lots of YOU LIE!!

betsuni

(29,078 posts)
42. He's correct. Fill the chamber with Democrats and workers affected by Trump's policies. Working class, remember?
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 11:33 AM
Mar 2025

All the whining and bullshit that Democrats ignore the working class? That they're sitting on their hands doing nothing? Here they're representing the people with those people. Most Americans blame both sides in Congress and Republicans like it that way. Don't be the enemy they need.

As always, Democrats give the people what they say they want and then it's still should've/shouldn't have, too much/not enough.

Biophilic

(6,552 posts)
45. I tell you what, if even one Democrat claps or shows any kind of appreciation/support for trump I'm done.
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 11:47 AM
Mar 2025

Kid Berwyn

(24,395 posts)
48. Don't forget "Respectful," too!
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 11:55 AM
Mar 2025

If ya wanna get ahead these days, ya gotta show loyalty to royalty.

Autumn

(48,962 posts)
50. Sure. Make sure god attends sitting on his throne. That ought to be dignified enough for you.
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 12:15 PM
Mar 2025

Response to HereForTheParty (Original post)

 

RJ-MacReady

(603 posts)
52. Very disappointing
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 12:19 PM
Mar 2025

I don't understand this insatiable need to constantly "go high". It hasn't worked and it makes us look weak and unwilling to fight for the people.

yaesu

(9,328 posts)
57. Maybe invite garland, watch reruns of Mr Rogers and have milk and cookies
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 12:28 PM
Mar 2025

that will show them fascists just how sweet we are, kill them with kindness

Scubamatt

(307 posts)
58. More from the . . .
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 12:28 PM
Mar 2025

"When they go low, we go high" playbook. How about actually fighting for a change? The Republicans who repeatedly disrespected President Obama and Biden were portrayed by the media as speaking truth to power and never paid any ounce of political cost for their shenanigans. The American public needs to see the Democratic Party as a strong voice that will be in this mal-administration's face. If ever there was a time to dispense with false civility, now is it.

SamKnause

(14,896 posts)
60. Nonsensical bullshit.
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 12:35 PM
Mar 2025

Does he even know all the shit that is happening ???

He acts clueless.

I don't get it, I truly don't get it.

Duncan Grant

(8,920 posts)
61. Definition of insanity?
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 12:39 PM
Mar 2025

Personally, I’m looking for different results. I don’t need these lunkheads telling me everything is fine — because we’re dignified. Out. Of. Touch.

They clearly don’t see the emergency.

hurl

(1,051 posts)
66. He is "ready, willing and able to serve as a check and balance on the excesses of the administration"?
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 01:04 PM
Mar 2025

Only days ago (February 7) he said that, "It's their government. What leverage do we have?" I missed what changed.

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