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Looks like someone is positioning themselves as the moderate/centrist for a 2028 run
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California Gov. Gavin Newsom, a pioneer for LGBTQ+ rights who decades ago upset leaders in his own party when he defied state law and issued marriage licenses to same-sex couples, suggested Democrats were in the wrong in allowing transgender athletes to participate in female college and youth sports.
I think its an issue of fairness, I completely agree with you on that. It is an issue of fairness its deeply unfair, Newsom said in his debut podcast episode of This is Gavin Newsom. I am not wrestling with the fairness issue. I totally agree with you.
Newsom also agreed that the most politically destructive attack ads from Trumps campaign featured Kamala Harris support for providing taxpayer-funded gender transition-related medical care for detained immigrants and federal prisoners.
She didnt even react to it, which was even more devastating, Newsom said, suggesting upward of 90 percent of Americans disagreed with Harris position. Then you had the video [of Harris] as a validator. Brutal, Newsom added. It was a great ad.
https://www.politico.com/news/2025/03/06/gavin-newsom-breaks-with-democrats-on-trans-athletes-in-sports-00215436
SocialDemocrat61
(7,647 posts)Celerity
(54,409 posts)94 per cent of Rethugs, 64 per cent of indies, and 79 per cent of the total responded the same way.
Newsom appears to be playing to the majority opinion, at least for that poll.
Also, the NCAA, last month, banned transgender athletes from competing in women's sports that it oversees.
https://www.ncaa.org/news/2025/2/6/media-center-ncaa-announces-transgender-student-athlete-participation-policy-change.aspx
Men's category open to all eligible student-athletes, women's category restricted to student-athletes assigned female at birth, schools directed to foster welcoming environments on all campuses.
Today, the NCAA announced the Board of Governors voted to update the Association's participation policy for transgender student-athletes following the Trump administration's executive order. The new policy limits competition in women's sports to student-athletes assigned female at birth only. The policy permits student-athletes assigned male at birth to practice with women's teams and receive benefits such as medical care while practicing. This policy is effective immediately and applies to all student-athletes regardless of previous eligibility reviews under the NCAA's prior transgender participation policy.
"The NCAA is an organization made up of 1,100 colleges and universities in all 50 states that collectively enroll more than 530,000 student-athletes. We strongly believe that clear, consistent, and uniform eligibility standards would best serve today's student-athletes instead of a patchwork of conflicting state laws and court decisions. To that end, President Trump's order provides a clear, national standard," NCAA President Charlie Baker said.
The Board of Governors also directed staff to help all member schools foster respectful and inclusive collegiate athletic cultures. Following student-athlete leadership direction, the NCAA recently updated its Mental Health Best Practices. The NCAA requires all schools to make mental health services and resources available to all student-athletes consistent with the Mental Health Best Practices.
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AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Celerity
(54,409 posts)as much as they can, they will spend hundreds of millions of dollars pushing this issue again, in order to try and defeat us electorally again, both in 2026 and in 2028.
We need to come up with messaging (your use of 'civil rights' is a good framing start) that helps to defeat the Rethug agitprop on this issue, or it is going to unfortunately likely work again.
kelly1mm
(5,756 posts)national candidate.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Its lots of fun watching my rights get trampled because its politically expedient. Cant play sports. Cant get medical care. Cant get a passport.
And my supposed allies are all-in on that because its a losing issue.
Quiet Em
(2,937 posts)It's ludicrous there have even been polls on this. The only reason this became an issue is because of bigots like Matt Walsh, Charlie Kirk and Leon pushing their bigotry on Leon's cesspool X. This is not something that concerns the majority of the public no matter how they word their polls. People aren't sitting around discussing this around the dinner table, while out with friends, or visiting their relatives at the holidays. It's a non issue and transgender people aren't harming anyone. Bigots like Kirk, Walsh and Musk are harming transgender children and people. Musk has done considerable harm to his own relationship with his daughter. This does not need to be a National issue and Newsom should not be chatting with the likes of Kirk and falling for and elevating his bigoted, harmful talking point.
kelly1mm
(5,756 posts)this past November. I don't think it is just a nothingburger as you suggest.
Quiet Em
(2,937 posts)but so did bigotry against women and bigotry against everyone who is not a white male (DEI). Is Newsom going to appease them on those rights too?
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AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)What TERF did you hear that from?
JohnSJ
(98,883 posts)is an election in 2024, and it isn't because of what the OP is talking about. In my view he plays too many political games, and we have a lot of potential candidates who IMHO are more direct and down to earth.
travelingthrulife
(5,179 posts)Isn't that what we are always saying we want?
Unlike the GOP, I think the stuff he does is done legally.
JohnSJ
(98,883 posts)there are a lot of other candidates that can be very competitive in purple states.
That being said, if the sociopath and his thugs continue in the course they are going, we could put up Mickey Mouse and probably win, especially if the economy and unemployment has a sharp downturn.
Personally I think there is a real possibility for a real depression, not a recession. Cutting programs that people desperately need, and causing inflationary prices on essentials like food and energy.
We will see of course, and I wouldn't put anything past the stupidity of the American public.
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ObamaKerryDem
(1,478 posts)AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)As is giving Charlie Kirk a platform.
SocialDemocrat61
(7,647 posts)and democrats lost.
ObamaKerryDem
(1,478 posts)Walleye
(44,807 posts)It has become a big national issue because Magas think transgender ism is icky. It certainly has nothing to do with protecting girls sports, I remember when they were vehemently against equal funding for girls sports when title nine was first implemented. They have selective amnesia.
Johnny2X2X
(24,207 posts)No two cases are the same. Pass a law giving the individual districts some protections to make their own decisions.
Such a niche issue because it's so rare. Here in Michigan, there was 1 trans athlete competing in sports at the high school level, they were doing so without incident. Last year, there were 0.
It's a rare issue. 99% of the time it happens, it's still not an issue. So we're talking about passing laws for the 1 or 2 incidents in a natrion of 340 million people that some people take exception to.
Newsome is taking this away as a wedge issue, it's simply not thqat huge of an issue to lose votes over.
Walleye
(44,807 posts)Johnny2X2X
(24,207 posts)It's already happening some places.
They're literally taking a hand full of cases nationwide, or even globally, and trying to make it seem like this is happening everywhere. Like every school district is in danger of some 6-10, 250 pound boy basketball player showing up to girl's basketball practice one day and just deciding they're a girl and dominating girl's basketball to the tune of 60 points and 50 rebounds a game, There's literally like 3 or 4 cases total that gave some people pause. Some people took issue with that D2 swimmer (several years back). There was an MMA fighter (over a decade ago). And maybe a coupe other issues that seemed problematic to most people. That's it.
Walleye
(44,807 posts)Girls high school sports growing up. Shes tall and she has a deep voice, but she was born a girl, what is wrong with these people? Im sure the guys that arent that masculine either take a lot of shit from these people. We shouldnt tolerate it.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Was the horrible treatment of the North African boxer at the Olympics.
Iris
(16,872 posts)This bs comes from men who disregard the ability do women to accommodate and work in community to find solutions.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)JK Rowling being the loudest among them.
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Ace Rothstein
(3,373 posts)Something around 70% of the country thinks trans girls should not play girls sports. They'll continue to use this to win elections.
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Walleye
(44,807 posts)kelly1mm
(5,756 posts)Walleye
(44,807 posts)RobinA
(10,478 posts)explanation of why it's complicated. This is not a girl of boy issue with some people born with differences. I don't think most people realize that, because it is largely hidden for understandable reasons. There needs to be a talk about this for educational purposes without naming names.
kelly1mm
(5,756 posts)70-80% of Americans don't buy the argument and have the attention span of a gnat so don't even listen to why it's complicated. As another poster pointed out, 30 seconds of watching Lea Thomas is enough for them.
Ace Rothstein
(3,373 posts)They are getting us to shoot ourselves in the foot.
Walleye
(44,807 posts)EdmondDantes_
(1,797 posts)I think our response shouldn't be to just surrender on protecting the rights of some the most vulnerable in our society. The Harris campaign didn't respond effectively on the issue, but that doesn't mean it can't be handled better.
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Walleye
(44,807 posts)BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)RobinA
(10,478 posts)everytime I read about them screeching over trans girls in girls sports. Which incidently I am not in favor of, but suddenly MAGAs are all rah rah, girls sports. Yeah, right. And it CERTAINLY isn't a subject to crash the country over. Yeah, let's vote for an avowed dictator because the other side wants trans girls to play girls' hockey. The priorities
Omnipresent
(7,450 posts)People i would talk to would always say, I dont like men competing in womens sports. This was a running theme, that was so eerie that I felt I was living in the Twilight Zone.
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calguy
(6,154 posts)We shouldnt touch this issue with a ten foot pole. These petty issues get us killed in so many districts, election after election.
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Walleye
(44,807 posts)We knew who she was. Theres no deception here. She served in the state legislature first, all elected positions. Once again, no respect for the people.
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Walleye
(44,807 posts)And was something like, these megalomaniacs always get so much more chatty when they feel they have the upper hand
Walleye
(44,807 posts)Voltaire2
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Demovictory9
(37,113 posts)The argument that..1. "Only impacts a few" differs from 2. "Trans women have no advantage"
Paints Dems in a corner..
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Patton French
(1,824 posts)I don't think he's right at all on this issue.
Ms. Toad
(38,639 posts)Is a violation of the DU TOS.
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Ms. Toad
(38,639 posts)And advocates for banning trans women from women's athletes, his post should be removed by a jury because it violated the TOS.
No one said a thing about banning him.
DU is not just a free-for-all. There are rules about what can no posted here, and EarlG expressly forbade anti trans bigotry, including against trans athletes.
https://www.democraticunderground.com/101312142
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Ms. Toad
(38,639 posts)It is one of two of his statements on the issue.
ETA -sorry - my link is in a different post in this thread. Here it is https://www.democraticunderground.com/101312142
totodeinhere
(13,688 posts)national level I think is legitimate.
Ms. Toad
(38,639 posts)To actively advocate for, and advocating against. Newsom choose the latter.
Advocating against the rights of trans athletes is not permitted, so if that is the argument Newsom, or anyone who supports him wants to make, DU is not the place for it
Voltaire2
(15,377 posts)The way we win is by standing up and demanding that all people be treated equally, with dignity and respect.
alarimer
(17,146 posts)It's not winnable. But I am in the minority of Democrats on this issue and that's all I'll say.
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RoeVWade
(890 posts)Republican/bigots will still go too far on the issue, making trans people non-entities instead of just addressing some issues as best as possible.
But it is a balance issue. You have to balance some rights here between some groups. Somewhat like what happens with religions. You can allow religious beliefs up to a point where they start conflicting with other people's beliefs or lack of it.
Walleye
(44,807 posts)Emile
(42,289 posts)Johonny
(26,178 posts)Massive government overreach. Small government conservatism states, let the leagues figure out their own path forward. The government should only get involved when a clear bias is displayed. Trans athletes have existed since the seventies. There are only a handful at anyone time.
Yes some people feel trans-women (no one ever seems to give a shit about trans-men) playing is unfair. But we heard that about blacks playing in baseball 70 years ago. How did that turn out?
Walleye
(44,807 posts)LeftInTX
(34,295 posts)Hence, they aren't getting picked on.
However, would a trans man playing in women's sports have an advantage? Oh well.....
The Olympics may have something to say about trans men competing in women's sports.
I don't even know how their rules work. I'm not gonna lose sleep over it.
Went down a bit of a rabbit hole and this was about all I could find. But it seemed to focus on women who were born with DSD, which opens a totally different issue.
https://www.voanews.com/a/sex-eligibility-rules-for-female-athletes-are-complex-legally-difficult/7734365.html
Mosby
(19,491 posts)https://www.golfdigest.com/story/luc-esquivel-transgender-high-school-sports-ban-tennessee
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)TERFs think trans men are just confused tomboys. Trans women are deviants coming for their children.
But apparently that's okay, because we've got elections to win.
RobinA
(10,478 posts)are not likely to have an advantage in men's sports.
Melon
(1,525 posts)Because we can see multiple examples in sports where a trans female was absolutely advantaged. If a low level nba male transitioned for a year she would complete dominate womans basketball. You see it in male to female rugby players. There is a physical difference.
Self Esteem
(2,248 posts)SheltieLover
(80,467 posts)cilla4progress
(26,525 posts)How hard is it to come up with a non-answer answer that will placate the hordes but leave you room to negotiate?
UpInArms
(54,984 posts)TheProle
(3,982 posts)The Revolution
(895 posts)Even among Democrats this is a losing issue.
TheProle
(3,982 posts)Jose Garcia
(3,506 posts)allowing transgender females to play in girls/womens sports.
Congressman Seth Moulton is an exception, and took a lot of heat for it: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cbsnews.com/amp/boston/news/seth-moulton-trans-athletes-democrats/
TheProle
(3,982 posts)AZProgressive
(29,929 posts)I think most of those Democrats are actually following federal law. There are a lot of issues that constituents may not be in favor of but are constitutionally protected.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)I'd respect them a little more. Not much, mind you, but at least they'd be being honest in their bigotry and not using 10 trans girls as a political football.
But they're cowards, pretending concern while spewing right-wing pseudoscientific bullshit and blaming trans folx for Harris losing.
Jose Garcia
(3,506 posts)AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Figure it out yourself. It's not that hard.
Jose Garcia
(3,506 posts)Title IX was passed in 1972, when the idea of transgender females playing in girls/womens sports was pretty much unthinkable. The law may need to be changed to be more specific.
Jose Garcia
(3,506 posts)BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)IA8IT
(6,424 posts)AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Because it sounds like you support Newsom doing it.
IA8IT
(6,424 posts)Hekate
(100,133 posts)
or say something you disagreed with? Have the laws of my state changed? Did something slip thru the legislature, or is something coming up as a proposition on the next ballot?
Ill be on the lookout if you let me know.
tritsofme
(19,900 posts)ObamaKerryDem
(1,478 posts)Newsome was a favorite of mine but I am very disappointed to see him parroting right wing framing on this. Especially since he likely accepted money and endorsements from LGBTQ advocacy groups during his campaigns. This is not allyship.
Also what is he doing having a podcast, during a time of great crisis in his state?
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ObamaKerryDem
(1,478 posts)..if that means standing up for marginalized groups. What if wed had this attitude about other civil rights issues?
This isnt just about sports, either. Trumps rhetoric has put a moving target on an already very vulnerable communitys back, opening them up to be a target for more hate crimes and harassment. And Newsome has just effectively co-signed it.
calguy
(6,154 posts)How does it feel to be morally right, but with republicans controlling all three branches of government, and taking a fucking wrecking ball to your morally right position. Who wins in the end with transgender persons being literally erased from society.
BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)There will be more.
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unblock
(56,198 posts)I will agree this is not an issue worthy of national debate given the tiny number of people it actually affects.
Having said that, this is not the way to deal with questions, telling republicans you're right and the democratic response is bad and the republican ad was great. Ffs.
If we do have to get sucked into debates on this topic,
we need to have a unified response to bigotry. If there's any crap given to women or *any* minority, we should always make the issue about freedom and fairness for all americans.
Americans don't want coaches or government officials inspecting their genitalia, Americans don't want to have to carry around their birth certificate to go to the bathroom or enter a sporting event, Americans don't want to get into arguments with other parents trying to disqualify their kid because they deem her Adam's Apple too prominent.
I guarantee that where girls are banned from women sports, there will be more false accusations than valid ones simply because the number of asshole parent far outnumber the rather rare trans women athletes. And Americans don't want those arguments.
Etc.
If we allow them to divide and conquer, they win. Don't let them pick off one minority group at a time or otherwise divide us. All hate is an attack on all Americans. That's a far more powerful frame.
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AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)MichMan
(17,151 posts)The OP had it right
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DSandra
(1,719 posts)so much. It stands for nothing but political positioning.
get the red out
(14,031 posts)I think he would be a good candidate. We need to preserve what will be left of Democracy by then.
Mountainguy
(2,145 posts)On an 80-20 issue and expect to do well on it electorally.
Electoral victory IS the point. As we should have learned you can't play for a moral victory.
You have to decide if its more important to support a Democrat who will support a ban on Trans girls playing female sports vs giving Republicans ammunition to win and pass laws that ban trans girls.
Yavin4
(37,182 posts)Stop giving in to Republicans.
Mountainguy
(2,145 posts)And silence on it will just mean Republicans get to define your position for you.
Yavin4
(37,182 posts)vs. How many people are impacted by the cost of healthcare?
vs. How many people are impacted by the cost of education?
vs. How many people are impacted by the cost of transportation?
vs. How many people are impacted by the cost of food?
vs. How many people are impacted by the lack of jobs?
vs. How many people are impacted by stagnant wages?
vs. How many people are impacted by the abandonment of Ukraine?
vs. How many people are impacted by the loss of standing in the world?
vs. How many people are impacted by protectionist tariffs?
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Yavin4
(37,182 posts)I genuinely want to see any credible data saying that it swayed people to vote against her.
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Mountainguy
(2,145 posts)Or granddaughter, niece, etc.
There is a massive underestimating on the number of people who see this as an important issue.
Yavin4
(37,182 posts)Your feelings are not evidence. Where's the evidence?
Mountainguy
(2,145 posts)Attacking democrats on the issue.
And that money is working to both win elections and shape public opinion.
https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2025/02/26/americans-have-grown-more-supportive-of-restrictions-for-trans-people-in-recent-years/
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Fixed it for you.
Mountainguy
(2,145 posts)Of these issues that people fallback on.
Quiet Em
(2,937 posts)Eight. So why is Gov. Newsom falling for the Republican bullshit that this is some sort of huge national issue. Republicans are bigots and use this issue to stir fear in other bigots.
As far as children in K-12, unless the child is in an all boy or all girl school, that child has most likely participated in a co-ed sport.
This is a non-issue based completely in bigotry and nobody is being harmed.
Any Democrat who runs on bigotry does not and will not get my support.
This is nothing more than an attack on the progress that the entire LGBTQ community has made over the years.
Sadly, a majority of Americans are unaware we are talking about 8 people. Eight in all of the NCAA.
Why are we fighting over a teeny tiny amount of human beings? I shut up my MAGA family raging about this issue when I remind them that we are ALL created in Gods image. Short, fat, big and tall the Lord above made us all. Or parody: Pink and purple, green and blue, / Jesus loves the Martians, too. 😉
American values are not now and should never be fodder for culture wars, in my opinion.
DSandra
(1,719 posts)It's all bullshit meant to attack a vulnerable minority.
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AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Apparently my civil rights are up for negotiation with Democrats while the Republicans are taking away my rights to travel, get health care, and have legal documents that reflect my gender. At least the Democrats in the Senate showed some spine and defended trans kids' rights. Although apparently that's upset some "Democrats" here....
BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)Quiet Em
(2,937 posts)And they play co-ed sports games often in gym classes in K-12.
BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)I thought you were talking about high school sports - golf, hoops, football etc.
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yardwork
(69,364 posts)It was devastating and I don't know how she could have responded to it, really.
BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)And what do people do when football is on TV? They gather to watch the games in groups. They react to the game, and they also react to political commercials. And then they start talking amongst themselves about the commercials. That dynamic amplified the effectiveness of the ad.
Tom Rinaldo
(23,187 posts)If it is for social/cultural reasons, then transgender women should be allowed to compete in "women only" events. If it is for physiological reasons, that reflect gender based biological differences that affect athletic performance, then the matter becomes scientific at root.
I am not well versed on the facts as they relate to this matter. I don't know to what, if any, extent a transgender woman retains male physiology, after fully transitioning, that might give her a biological performance edge over those who are female from birth.
It is foolish to ignore that, in our culture at least, women compete in "leagues of their own" primarily because, in most coed match ups, men (in general) have a physiological competitive advantage over women. Women are not legally barred from competing along side men in professional sports, but they rarely do so. When they do, it is often in very specific roles, such as pitchers in baseball, or kickers in football for example. Far as I know the NBA, for example, has no provision preventing women from playing on its teams. But the WNBA provides an arena where women can excel in that sport
I am open to considering scientifically based arguments for disallowing transgender females from participating in competitive women's sports. In other areas of life however, I believe treating them as anything other than female is blatant discrimination. As an obvious example, transgender women should never be forced to use Male public bathrooms.
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MichMan
(17,151 posts)What I find strange is that for the purposes of Title IX, the men in the practice squads are actually counted as being female athletes.
yardwork
(69,364 posts)Americans revere men's sports. Women fought long and hard to be allowed to play sports at all, and thanks to Title IX (which most Republicans also hate), they finally got equal funding and the opportunity to play a wide range of sponsored sports.
I can understand why people don't like the idea of some individuals having an unfair advantage on women's competitions.
I think there are ways to handle this that protect everybody's rights, and I think those solutions were in process.
Unfortunately, the Republicans seized on this as a wedge issue, blew it up way out of proportion, used it to pick on a tiny minority of vulnerable people (the vast majority of whom aren't playing sports anyway), divided Democrats, and basically turned it into a shit show, which is what they do to win elections.
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DSandra
(1,719 posts)Newsom has decided to throw trans people under the bus. It's NOT about just sports and trans children. This is a proxy war (like Ukraine with Russia and the West) meant to attack all trans people and eventually gay people and women, it's all about re-enforcing traditional gender roles and the patriarchal hierarchy, and taking away freedom and independence from women and "gender deviants" who have the audacity to want a life beyond being subjugated by the patriarchy.
Blue_Adept
(6,499 posts)I'm sure there will be more beyond that.
Never getting my primary vote and wouldn't get my general election vote either.
LexVegas
(6,959 posts)AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)JT45242
(4,043 posts)I have a trans niece. With her puberty blockers she has lower testosterone than girls her age by orders of magnitude.
Just apply the same rules. Just make rethuglican people understand the cost of testing ALL high school and college athletes.
LeftInTX
(34,295 posts)JT45242
(4,043 posts)Of course, if Mango Mussolini has his way then the puberty blockers will be banned and then I don't know what will happen.
She started this process at about the age of 7. Not sure when the medical interventions happened. But theer were serious emotional and educational issues as a "bad boy" that bea=came manageable when she became a girl.
Blasphemer
(3,623 posts)Than the hellscape we are living through. When someone shows you their true self, believe it.
Self Esteem
(2,248 posts)The conversation first turned to transgender athletes when Charlie Kirk referenced a transgender athlete in California, stating, "You, as the governor, should step out and say no, no." Newsom responded, "Right I think its an issue of fairness. I completely agree with you on that. Its deeply unfair," later adding, "Boy did I see how you guys were able to weaponize that issue." Kirk pushed back, insisting he wasnt "weaponizing" the issue. Newsom quickly walked back his comment, replying, "Youre right highlight." He then later said that he agreed with Charlie Kirk that it was not right transgender athletes should play and that he was completely aligned with Charlie Kirk on this issue, blaming a law put in place before he became governor: It turns out in 2014, years before I was governor, there was a law established that established the legal principles that allow trans athletes in womens sports. The issue of fairness is completely legit. I completely align with you, we have to acknowledge it.
At the close of the podcast, Charlie Kirk shifted the discussion to transgender healthcare, stating, "I encourage you to learn about the butchery that is happening under chemical castration in this state. The American people are overwhelmingly against it." Newsom responded, "Yeah. I think we have to be more sensitized to that."
Kirk continued, "Youth should be off limits, you might be right on deportations, I know Im right on this," to which Newsom simply acknowledged, "Yeah." Kirk then cited the Cass Reporta widely criticized and legally discredited review used to justify bans on transgender healthcare in the UKas evidence that gender-affirming care for youth should be prohibited. Newsom offered no pushback, replying, "Im not an expert on this, but I appreciate your broader [point]."
https://www.erininthemorning.com/p/ca-gov-gavin-newsom-completely-aligns
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)Blue_Adept
(6,499 posts)Leaders lead with what's right, they don't sacrifice minority groups.
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And to argue otherwise is in direct violation of the plainly stated DU Terms of Service:
(emphasis added)
There's an awful lot of violations of this rule in the replies on this thread.
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AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)There are plenty of other sites you can, maybe try peddling your bigotry there?
AZJonnie
(3,706 posts)rather than on the general message boards like right here. You'd probably be better off posting this opinion there, however I'm fairly certain this matter has been previously discussed (at length) and adjudicated, which resulted in the TOS entry being what it is.
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AZJonnie
(3,706 posts)But I do think its possible a DU jury would decide that making this point constitutes a violation of the stated rule. Do with that information as you wish
stoned
(334 posts)To get out in front of eyes and ears for a few years, then step away to run for Pres. He's on the Vivek plan.
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stoned
(334 posts)Anyway, what I mean was that Vivek started podcasting, going on interview shows, then announced his bid for Prez, and it got a lot of eyes and ears. Newsom may be on the same path.
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MustLoveBeagles
(16,409 posts)Bigotry in any form is not okay.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)I didn't realize that civil rights were subject to opinion polls.
BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)Given that the people who disagree with him are firmly in the minority.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Just want to be clear how you feel about civil rights here, since you seem to be advocating taking away trans folx' rights.
ZRB
(465 posts)AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Interesting....
I'd also recommend reading the TOS since you apparently didn't when you signed up..l.
ZRB
(465 posts)I support trans rights fully. I don't support labeling most of our party and tons of the independents bigots because they disagree with one aspect of a much broader issue. No one here is suggesting taking rights away from anyone. This is about trying to win elections, which will ultimately be much more beneficial to trans people than talking a good game and losing elections. It's a difficult needle to thread, but you can't win by insulting the vast majority of the populace. I honestly don't know how the party should proceed with this issue, and I hope the professionals are able to come up with something so this is no longer a losing issue for us. Clearly what we did last time failed spectacularly, and has massively hurt the cause for the foreseeable future.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)They don't believe trans folx should compete in sports according to their gender. That's transphobia.
ZRB
(465 posts)Just like Barack Obama was initially against gay marriage? It's political triangulation and nothing more. The first step is winning elections and having sustainable majorities.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)So, yeah, I take him at his word since he isn't willing to stand up for one of the most vulnerable minorities in the country right now,
ZRB
(465 posts)By trying to get Democrats elected. If he has to temporarily advocate otherwise, it'll be a lot more productive than saying "the right things" and losing. Look, my main point here is that calling everyone a bigot is not the answer to winning them over. There has to be another way, and it's above my pay grade.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)No, I'm not going to shut up. And I'm disgusted that some supposed "allies" who "fully support transgender rights" are saying I should make nice with people who are denying my rights. At least the entire Democratic caucus in DC stood up for my rights though, and WON. Maybe Newsom and some other people here should pay attention to what is going on instead of buying right wing bullshit about men breaking girls faces playing volleyball.
Iowa has removed all protections for me. Texas is on the verge. Idaho. Indiana. Florida. Now it looks like the governor of California wants to do the same thing.
ZRB
(465 posts)Which along with the prisoner gender-care issues appear to be the most underwater with the general population. California isnt suddenly going to become anti-trans hell. The bigots you are referring to are called Republicans and Republican-leaning independents.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Sorry you don't like bigotry being called out.
ZRB
(465 posts)Some of us want to win elections.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)I think Niemöller said something about that.
ZRB
(465 posts)Hope that works out for ya!
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)That's cute. There are a lot of Democrats who are able to support trans rights and win elections.
Here's a clue, if you don't support trans rights, you are a bigot. If you think I have to wait in line to GET BACK rights I had six months ago, you are a bigot. If you think the Democrats went too far in protecting those rights under Biden, you are a bigot.
And welcome to DU, maybe you should read the TOS before defending the stripping of trans folx' rights.
Abolishinist
(2,957 posts)Member since: Tue Nov 9, 2004
BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)ZRB
(465 posts)Thanks for the welcome, but I've been here immersed as a lurker for 21 years after a flurry of post-Kerry-loss commenting. I reached my breaking point and had to comment on certain threads recently, and now I'm into it again. My passions include rejecting antisemitism coming from our side, standing up against relentless Democrat-bashing from some in our tent, and advocating for politically-smart actions instead of fighting currently hopeless battles. I'm also in favor of saving the planet first and foremost, so we can still have these discussions about every other issue under the burning-hot sun.
I haven't defended any stripping of rights. I have suggested that in order to win, Democrats may have to take positions in line with the electorate we have, not the electorate we wish we had, to make an unfortunate paraphrase. Calling such Democrats and their supporters bigots will not win votes and the cause you're so passionately (and understandably) defending will be crushed for good. I'll add that taking positions is not the same as enacting policy.
BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Gotta love "allies" like you. You probably supported DOMA and DADT as well, they were to win elections too. I've supported the Democratic Party my entire lif4e, now I'm watching my rights getting eroded and being told to shut up and take it because people "Support Winning Elections."
No, you support transphobia.
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If enough people do vote against him he will not be the nominee. And your vicious personal attacks have been duly noted.
ZRB
(465 posts)This is about winning elections in modern-day America, not a wonderfully optimistic but nonetheless imaginary one. Have you met the general public? Have to talked to them? They are far, far away on this. Those of us here do not reflect the entire Democratic party, let alone the average voter. We need more than a sliver of these "common folk who vote" so we can win now and enact policy later. Newsom gets this.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Something you've made clear you support because winning is more important than fighting bigots.
BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Theres only one group being told they arent women.
BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)I didnt realize that I was so selfish for thinking girls should be able to compete in girls sports.
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AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)It certainly isnt empathy. Or support.
BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)But hey, apparently some Democrats dont understand that.
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BigMike2028
(23 posts)Gavin is playing both sides, He's running for president.
Redleg
(6,922 posts)I think it is assumed that the party supports it but I have never really seen any meaningful discussion of it. I expect that Democrats vary on this issue.
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Redleg
(6,922 posts)but I must have missed that meeting where we decided on it.
AZJonnie
(3,706 posts)In a "Dear Colleague Letter" in 2021. The contents thereof are of course purged from any government website at this point, but I just checked using an AI that is unaware of anything after mid 2023, and it remembered exactly what was in it. I will share one line with you:
Mike Nelson
(10,943 posts)... sports organizations should make their own guidelines. If the Olympics has a DNA requirement, that's their business. I draw the line at public K-12 schools. There, I think it should be an Individual decision, based on where the student is best served. Obviously, a completely transgendered female belongs with the females... and male with the males. On the other side, a male in the "questioning stage" belongs with the males... and female with females. Sports are for everyone, so a public school needs to accommodate everyone. I think Trumpsters are just making this cruel and humiliating - to rile up their voters.
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AZProgressive
(29,929 posts)So someone puts preferred pronouns on their social media profile or to avoid being misgendered is not at all a big deal to me. The Republicans can say whatever they want when it comes to social issues but Democrats must be careful or shut up on certain issues or go all-in with buying RW propaganda but it is actually the Republicans that make a big deal about pronouns.
Abortion also tends to do better on the ballot than the Democratic Party itself.
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AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Hint, Trans rights are social justice issues. And this little issue that affected 10 people has caused millions of people to not be able to get accurate passports, has threatened foreign people travelling to the United States, and has states are busily moving to take away the rest of our rights.
So maybe, just maybe, this issue is something that someone who professes to be so concerned about social justice should give a shit about.
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MichMan
(17,151 posts)Have no idea why since it doesn't involve any athletic ability
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Oneironaut
(6,299 posts)Transphobes who want trans people to die and people who actually care about womens sports and want fairness both say the same things. Theres so much concern trolling and bad faith debating.
I could guarantee you Charlie Kirk does not give a fuck about womens sports.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)If they oppose trans rights, they are a transphobe in my book. It's like that saying about a table with 1 Nazi and 10 other people.
RoeVWade
(890 posts)Maybe I should try selling that t-shirt.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Torchlight
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is something I interpret as "I walked out of Room 101 and got a gold star!"
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rzemanfl
(31,379 posts)AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)So there's at least two...
rzemanfl
(31,379 posts)AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)And now you can see who the ones are hiding behind recs as well...
live love laugh
(16,383 posts)Amanita Galatica
(9 posts)Newsoms interview with Kirk was friendly, sometimes exceedingly so. He mentioned the influence Kirk and other MAGA-world figures have had on his 13-year-old son, distanced himself from the use of pronouns and the gender-neutral term Latinx, called police defunding lunacy, denounced cancel culture and agreed that there had been some internal issues in the leadership of the Black Lives Matter organization.
Why to any of this. Stop podcasting, just stop now.
Hekate
(100,133 posts)Amanita Galatica
(9 posts)Enjoy the bromade
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JI7
(93,617 posts)likely to run in 2028 support it.
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AZJonnie
(3,706 posts)And yeah, it is definitely disappointing. Even more so when considering he chose to make his show's inaugural podcast with Charlie fucking Kirk
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AZJonnie
(3,706 posts)Welcome to DU
We are all completely freaked out, so you should fit right in
stoned
(334 posts)Nothing more.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)PeaceWave
(3,383 posts)AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Especially when people who claim to be on my side tell me to shut up about it.
stoned
(334 posts)I think he's speaking to moderate dems, those in the center, and the disenfranchised folks who sway with the political winds. He knows its the center he needs to cultivate. They're not as into the fringe issues. He's playing politics -- that's the game.
Lulu KC
(8,893 posts)That is all. I finally googled to make sure it had really happened and it wasn't some right-wing false report. He has some 'splaining to do. So not like him.
ibegurpard
(17,081 posts)Does not buy you right-wing support. It only loses some of your left flank.
Gotta find a way to defuse this issue.
Agreeing with Charlie Kirk on your own podcast is not the way.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Wants to get back in Musk and Thiels good graces. Its disgusting.
BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)See post 17
ibegurpard
(17,081 posts)Figure out a way to defuse the issue. Do not cede ground to fucking Nazis.
Emile
(42,289 posts)BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)Emile
(42,289 posts)The key word is closer.
Cuthbert Allgood
(5,339 posts)Let's be the left.
ForgedCrank
(3,096 posts)are to ever regain control, this is the only way.
We have to abandon what is considered the more fringe issues at the national level. We may disagree with this as a concept, but strategy will be what wins. We should expect to concede on many more issues in this same realm as well, and we're going to have to support the candidates that do if we don't want #48 to be JD Vance or similar
GenThePerservering
(3,379 posts)but we're getting hung up on issues that impact the few, not the many. If we keep doing that, we'll lose the game. It's the ugly choice we have to make.
ForgedCrank
(3,096 posts)it when others recognize the realities of what we are facing. I'm just as supportive of the few as I am of the majority, so I'm in step with you on the sports thing, but we are going to have to give a little if we are to recover. We can hack away at these issues later, but first we have to start winning again or it's all just a waste of time.
vercetti2021
(10,481 posts)My rights arent up for negotiations Gavin...and seriously fuck this place today and transphobic members here.
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)Actually, yes I do. Ive seen the same TERFs showing up for years
vercetti2021
(10,481 posts)Reason you don't see me post here anymore if rarely. No point
BootOutTheGoons
(315 posts)A far right MAGA congressman (Dan Crenshaw) has been shown more kindness and respect here than I have since he "lost his eye fighting for my freedom!"
Of course he now fights in congressman to erase my freedom but who cares?
Better MAGA than trans
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)I get it. But I also spent too many years in darkness before I cracked, and Ill be damned if some TERF is going to shut me up.
vercetti2021
(10,481 posts)But I'm done with the democratic establishment.
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AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)BootOutTheGoons
(315 posts)Meanwhile it's been stomach turning to watch the usual frenzy of transphobia and hate in this thread from the usual suspects. After all if there is anything DU hates more than Trump it's trans people
So many here don't fucking care and don't hide it. The election is our fault. We're not worth fighting for. We're a losing issue. So what if a few million weirdos die? We're being selfish wanting to live and have equality!
And funny how it's us that have to give shit up. Never straight cisgender people who have to sacrifice shit. Just us LGBTQ loses
The replies in this thread are why many of us feel like the only friends we have are each other
Thanks a million as usual DU. Because somehow "fuck off and die" is supposed to be better coming from you than from MAGA
Cuthbert Allgood
(5,339 posts)just because a high percentage of people support further marginalizing said group.
Add to it the reality that the number of trans women athletes we have competing in the NCAA can be counted on one fucking hand.
But, sure, fuck that community, I guess.
vercetti2021
(10,481 posts)By the far right and then buckle on it instead of fighting it. Catering to right wing groups instead of progressive groups is not gonna win you elections and blaming us is on cue for the establishment
AZSkiffyGeek
(12,744 posts)But hey, I'm being selfish by defending my rights and not supporting bigots.
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EarlG
(23,631 posts)Locking. Lots of people in this thread need to re-read the site rules on bigotry.


