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pnwmom

(110,247 posts)
Fri Mar 7, 2025, 01:37 AM Mar 2025

If Medicaid and Medicare fail, adult children in many states will be subject to "filial responsibility laws"

making them responsible for their indigent parents' care, including medical and nursing home care.

In truth, no one really wants to be sued for another person’s bills, even if it’s for family. That’s why you’ll want to find out what states have filial responsibility, and if it’s something that you need to watch out for.

How Many States Have Filial Responsibility Laws?
There are currently 29 states that have filial responsibility laws, but the number of participating states continues to change. For instance, Maryland repealed their statutes relating to filial responsibility as recently as 2007, bringing the number down from 30 to 29. Because not all states have laws relating to filial responsibility, it is necessary to find out whether they apply in the state you live in.

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If Medicaid and Medicare fail, adult children in many states will be subject to "filial responsibility laws" (Original Post) pnwmom Mar 2025 OP
Great post. It's one reason I believe trump will fail cutting Medicaid, etc. Bubba trumpster is gonna get mad if Silent Type Mar 2025 #1
I agree -- there will be many shocked Bubbas. nt pnwmom Mar 2025 #2
A lot of them are stupid gullible magats. Justice matters. Mar 2025 #9
It's only for indigent parents, not siblings, right? nt woodsprite Mar 2025 #3
Thank you. I never knew about these laws. If TSF keeps crashing spooky3 Mar 2025 #4
I'm fairly certain that most of these laws came about VMA131Marine Mar 2025 #5
My parent is in a non-filial responsibility state MissB Mar 2025 #6
Thanks, never knew this. nt cliffside Mar 2025 #7
Ah, a return to the good old days when you threw momma off the train... hunter Mar 2025 #8
Wow, I had no idea California had such a law. SunSeeker Mar 2025 #10
In many states, the bill collectors can come after sons and daughters synni Mar 2025 #11
I googled it and found 19 states with filial laws: elocs Mar 2025 #12
Hopefully that one is more recent. I couldn't find a date on mine. nt pnwmom Mar 2025 #14
I thought it might be since it had fewer states listed. n/t elocs Mar 2025 #15
Also, EMTALA was passed in 1986. markodochartaigh Mar 2025 #13
They won't be gone. valleyrogue Mar 2025 #16
They've already passed a budget without the needed funds. Large cuts will be coming somewhere in these programs, pnwmom Mar 2025 #17
 

Silent Type

(12,412 posts)
1. Great post. It's one reason I believe trump will fail cutting Medicaid, etc. Bubba trumpster is gonna get mad if
Fri Mar 7, 2025, 01:41 AM
Mar 2025

he has to sell his big, expensive truck and guns to pay for mom/grandma’s healthcare.

Justice matters.

(9,699 posts)
9. A lot of them are stupid gullible magats.
Fri Mar 7, 2025, 03:11 AM
Mar 2025

I see a lot of these idiots posting their praise of their dear leader over and over again...

Oops... they never saw that one coming!

spooky3

(38,546 posts)
4. Thank you. I never knew about these laws. If TSF keeps crashing
Fri Mar 7, 2025, 02:10 AM
Mar 2025

the stock market, even the adult children with substantial investments won’t be able to help their parents.

VMA131Marine

(5,258 posts)
5. I'm fairly certain that most of these laws came about
Fri Mar 7, 2025, 02:13 AM
Mar 2025

through lobbying by the nursing home industry who wanted to make sure they had someone to sue to recover unpaid bills from the family of an indigent person.

MissB

(16,344 posts)
6. My parent is in a non-filial responsibility state
Fri Mar 7, 2025, 02:14 AM
Mar 2025

And all of us siblings live in another state (which does have filial responsibility laws).

That means we don’t end up having to deal with the cost of our remaining parent’s slow decline from a financial perspective at least.

hunter

(40,635 posts)
8. Ah, a return to the good old days when you threw momma off the train...
Fri Mar 7, 2025, 02:44 AM
Mar 2025

... let her wander off into the forest, etc..

SunSeeker

(58,185 posts)
10. Wow, I had no idea California had such a law.
Fri Mar 7, 2025, 03:21 AM
Mar 2025
California
CA Fam Code § 4400 (2018) “Support of Parents” makes adult children responsible for supporting “a parent who is in need and unable to maintain himself or herself by work.” However, the law states that this applies unless “otherwise provided by law.”


But does that even include their credit card bills and such? It's one thing to require grown children support their parents by providing them food and shelter, but could their bill collectors come after the children too?

markodochartaigh

(5,437 posts)
13. Also, EMTALA was passed in 1986.
Fri Mar 7, 2025, 04:05 AM
Mar 2025

This is the law which keeps hospitals from turning people who can't pay away. Before that hospital emergency rooms absolutely did refuse service to the sick and injured people who couldn't pay. Now, if a hospital takes federal money, they have to at least stabilize patients before transferring them.
There was a Republican politician in Tennessee a few years ago who wanted to get rid of EMTALA, and in an abortion case in Idaho it is being brought up again.

pnwmom

(110,247 posts)
17. They've already passed a budget without the needed funds. Large cuts will be coming somewhere in these programs,
Fri Mar 7, 2025, 03:14 PM
Mar 2025

we just don't know exactly where.

But keep telling yourself it's all a fiction if that makes you feel better.

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