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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsThree countries in one day, 2 birthday cakes, and everyone still asks about Trump and the domestic situation in the USA
I got up at 6:15 so that I would have time to grab breakfast in the hotel (included) in Paris, take the métro (changing once) to the Gare du Nord, and making my train up to Brussels in plenty of time. My first appointment was out in the boonies, but near a tiny provincial commuter train station, and my colleagues picked me up there. I was done quickly, and my other Belgian colleague picked me up there, and drove me to his house. I had never been there, but it was just us two and his wife and son, so there was no need for fancier digs. Being Belgian, they had prepared a pastry run for my birthday, and had some calorie-laden bomb with thick sweet whipped cream, stracciatella chocolate shavings, meringue and raspberries. Let Belgium be Belgium.
Our discussions were a little more involved, but we got through them, and then his wife asked the inevitable question: what really IS going on back there. She had just gotten back from the USA, visiting her sister, who had married a guy in Texas, and an old friend, who had moved to New York. No one was happy, of course, but more to the point, what lies ahead? Belgium, after all, is the nominal capital of the EU as well as NATO HQ. America cutting that kind of a long-standing connection is not a trivial subject in a small country whose budget depends on taxes brought in from people stationed at the one or the other.
My Belgian colleague excused himself, as he had other things to do, and I finished up some tea and some paperwork, and then his wife drove me back into Sprout City so I could get my afternoon train back to Düsseldorf. Luckily, there actually WAS one through train from Brussels to Düsseldorf leaving at about 5:30 PM, and I had a reserved seat on it. Not being a German train (thank goodness), it was almost on time, and I then got a commuter train from Düsseldorf Central to the Airport train station (8 minutes), and my wife picked me up there. She had asked me on the phone if I had eaten dinner. I said they served us a small snack on the train. "Mmm-Hmm," she commented, and said she would make sure there was "something else," in case I was still hungry.
Her idea of a little "something else" was some thin chicken filets sautéed in a thick Japanese teriyaki sauce with some chopped chives sprinkled on top. Some river rice to go under it. Some "black roots," also known as "salsify," on the side, as well as a salad of thinly sliced cucumbers in a light dressing of oil, vinegar and mustard, with some ground dried oregano on top. This was topped off with a hybrid German-American (not enough cream cheese) cheese cake and a home-made raspberry compote to go on top of it. To drink, she had bought a bunch of blood oranges (in season now) and squeezed a few for fresh juice. Proof is posted below.
And some people still ask why I have trouble losing weight (while she still has a figure like a model, even at age 73). So, it is now almost 10:30 PM. I have to be in the Netherlands Friday, but I'm taking tomorrow off. RHIP!! If ya gotta turn 73, this is definitely one way to do it!
If anyone is within 50 Km of Düsseldorf and is hungry, we do have a few leftovers.........

MagickMuffin
(18,318 posts)Sounds like you had a nice celebration 🎉
DFW
(60,186 posts)It was NOT dull, at any rate!!
CurtEastPoint
(20,025 posts)DFW
(60,186 posts)Second nature to me by now, even if not exactly on everyone's lips
Meowmee
(9,212 posts)Looks delicious! Interesting that people are actually interested in what is going on here. I would think they would be.
DFW
(60,186 posts)Of course, when they know they can open up to me in their own language, they are a lot less closed about letting loose with their thoughts.
Solly Mack
(96,943 posts)DFW
(60,186 posts)Not what you'd expect of a life-long social worker, but she is unusual in many aspects (including being crazy enough to have spent the last 50 years with me, but we'll let that be our little secret).
As for looking great, here's the one who looks great (I'm only along for the ride):

CurtEastPoint
(20,025 posts)DFW
(60,186 posts)Our younger daughter, who has been extremely successful in her professional life, invited us, her sister and family, my sister and her husband, as well as her own family, to a two week family celebration in Hawaii for our combined 70th birthdays and 40th wedding anniversary. My brother couldnt make it, though he was invited, too.
I had blown the entire cash part of my inheritance on my daughters educations in the USA. My younger daughter told me early on that if she made it, she would pay me back. I told her that her being happy and successful was all the payback I wanted. Well, she did indeed make it. This whole trip, which would have bankrupted most of us mere mortals, was now pocket change to her. To her, letting her pay for this whole event was our recognition that our investment in her education was well-placed, so would we please shut up and let her do this? We did.
Solly Mack
(96,943 posts)beautiful as well.
I hope for you all many more years together.
DFW
(60,186 posts)Your fabulous females.
He nailed it, I think.
CaliforniaPeggy
(156,620 posts)I'd say you know how to live!
Enjoy your rare day off, every second of it!
DFW
(60,186 posts)Days off are still very rare, no matter how I try to construe it. I'm still reminded of Clemenceau's remark: the cemeteries are full of irreplaceable people--all of whom have been replaced.
I have been told I'm irreplaceable (that and $5.75 gets you a coffee at Starbucks), but I'd rather be replaced than wrapped. Actually, the son of my Belgian colleague, a bright guy in his mid-twenties, asked if I was interested in training "someone." I said, I was, indeed. He knows English, French and some Dutch, has an EU passport and work permit, and is interested in learning a lot. Hitch: he doesn't speak Spanish, Catalan, Italian, German, Swedish or Russian. But he's young enough to learn at least the basics. I may yet give him a try. I don't want to find myself 80 years old, and asking myself the same question.
erronis
(23,882 posts)of the the post-post modern era.
How about doing some of your inter-country hops by bicycle? Save money, gas....
Je blague, naturellement. Joyeux Anniversaire!
DFW
(60,186 posts)Although under other circumstances, it wiuld have made sense. My wife comes from the flat fsrm country of northwestern Germany, and in the podt-war era, the bicycle WAS the main mode of transportation. Her mom still used it to go see her dentist, 6 KM away, while in her late 80s, until her eyesight began to fail.
My wife still uses it a lotprobably why she is still 510 and 130 pounds. Her first real job, before she was even 20, was managing to books and payroll of a local bicycle factory, at the time the biggest employer in the area. Nothing was more important than the place that produced the main mode of transportation!
CaliforniaPeggy
(156,620 posts)sinkingfeeling
(57,835 posts)DFW
(60,186 posts)Thanks!
irisblue
(37,513 posts)DFW
(60,186 posts)malthaussen
(18,572 posts)Hey, when you do finally figure out what is happening over here, let us know, hey?
--Mal
DFW
(60,186 posts)They would consider a press conference given by the Three Stooges as an improvement in coherency and credibility from the Trump administration.
BigmanPigman
(55,160 posts)Just reading what you ate made me hungry. You should write for some food magazine articles or something.
Laura Ingalls Wilder wrote wonderful descriptions of the food she ate over the course of her life and that is what appealed to me and many other readers in her Little House series. I would skip through all the Libertarian BS her daughter Rose Wilder Lane stuck in the books and go right to the family's meals.
I'm glad your birthday was great, my friend's 76 birthday was yesterday and she had a ton of tasty treats all,day and night.
DFW
(60,186 posts)When I wrote my novel all those years ago, an editor congratulated me on detailed descriptions of what people were eating. She said most first-time novelists forget to describe food completely.
wordstroken
(1,406 posts)Turns out its just my birthday eve, eve. Two more days to go.
Love your photo!
DFW
(60,186 posts)niyad
(132,446 posts)wordstroken
(1,406 posts)Bristlecone
(11,111 posts)DFW
(60,186 posts)Figarosmom
(11,996 posts)For your birthday. Happy Birthday!
DFW
(60,186 posts)With her I ALWAYS eat well.
Several years ago, a couple we know was also going to be separated on his birthday, so while his wife was away, we invited him over for dinner so he wouldn't be alone the whole time. My wife made up her usual five course amazing "made it from scratch" dinner, and he thanked her profusely for going to all that trouble to make him a special meal. My wife was completely baffled by his comment. He told me, well, don't tell me she makes up a meal like that EVERY evening. I said, well, yes, she really does. H said it was amazing that I didn't weigh 200 Kilos. I explained that half the time, I'm on the road, where I fast half the time.
Fasting is a good choice when you eat gourmet the rest if the time.
malaise
(296,118 posts)ChazInAz
(3,017 posts)I'm two years older.
I envy you being in such wonderful culinary areas. Living in northeast rural Kansas, kielbasa and saurkraut are considered to be exotic....and somewhat suspicious.
DFW
(60,186 posts)If my wife moved there, I suspect the average weight of the average adult would increase by 24% yearly!
erronis
(23,882 posts)The family meal was almost always overcooked beef (from some part of the poor animal) and noodles/potatoes. Vegetables were grapes/etc. in a jello mold.
But the people are really good. For the most part. Once you get beyond the politics and religion. But then, there was nothing left to disagree with!
ChazInAz
(3,017 posts)There's this thing called "Kansas Nice" that I enjoy.
I don't talk politics unless I know the person' leanings. Most of the folks here consider me to be good-hearted but weird Liberal.
BumRushDaShow
(169,761 posts)DFW
(60,186 posts)Germans don't do things half way, and her cooking is no exception. It's what happens when an artist finds joy in her art.
BumRushDaShow
(169,761 posts)and this state is very much "German" (won't even get into the PA Dutch (Deutsch)!
DFW
(60,186 posts)U of Penn, class of '74.
Hekate
(100,133 posts)DFW
(60,186 posts)Who're ya gonna call?
Hekate
(100,133 posts)alwaysinasnit
(5,624 posts)DFW
(60,186 posts)Drop in and we'll share for real!
alwaysinasnit
(5,624 posts)in California. Be well and safe.
BannonsLiver
(20,595 posts)DFW
(60,186 posts)Definitely healthier!
2naSalit
(102,803 posts)You're a well kept man.
I want to know more about the blackroots/salsify, I've never tried it, not sure I knew it was edible. It grows around here as a weed but if it's edible, I'll make use of it.
DFW
(60,186 posts)Sort of a mix between potatoes, kohlrabi and boiled artichoke hearts.
My wife says they are a pain to peel, but here, you can buy them peeled and in 2-3 inch short pieces in water in glass jars. Like a shorter version of palm hearts, except they are, as their name indicates, root vegetables. Freshly boiled and with a hint of butter melted over them, I could eat a pound of them and not regret the tummy sickness that would ensue.
2naSalit
(102,803 posts)Thank you. I'll see if I can find anything more about them. The stuff, if it's the same variety or similar, grows all over the place here in the western states.
iluvtennis
(21,497 posts)But I'm really full now--gotta sleep some of this off!
BComplex
(9,914 posts)At least now I don't have to turn a year older until next spring!
redwitch
(15,262 posts)So glad for you!
The yin and yang of having a master chef for a spouse!
misanthrope
(9,495 posts)The meal sounds delicious!
DFW
(60,186 posts)She just looks around, sees what we have in the house, grabs some of this, some of that, and works magic.
It must be a gift.
cachukis
(3,938 posts)Had an antique Scandinavian hutch/breakfront somewhat like yours in my antique shop years ago. Would yours be from that part of the world?
Mine came from Sweden.
DFW
(60,186 posts)We have grabbed things from bric-a-brac shops over the last 45 years, and logically they would have mostly come from here in northern Europe. A lot of it was used already, so we don't know for sure where their true origins lie.
cachukis
(3,938 posts)fierywoman
(8,595 posts)Your family is gorgeous and I love reading all your stories.
DFW
(60,186 posts)I'm sure some of my "stories" have to be more boring than others, but I was always "pro-choice," so I'm cool if someone wants to ignore them entirely!
GreenWave
(12,641 posts)Our news and films try to depict the opposite!
DFW
(60,186 posts)Not that the average Fox watcher seems to care a whole lot about reality.....
Blues Heron
(8,838 posts)DFW
(60,186 posts)That was my dinner!
Blues Heron
(8,838 posts)Love your stories
niyad
(132,446 posts)year.
DFW
(60,186 posts)One more notch in the belt at this point.
SheilaAnn
(10,712 posts)DFW
(60,186 posts)I don't play the lottery because I figure the chances of me winning again are less than zero.
woodsprite
(12,582 posts)It looks like you're well taken care of
and the spread looks absolutely delicious.
DFW
(60,186 posts)She turned down an offer to be a model to take up social work (!!!!).
I am definitely well taken care of!
MustLoveBeagles
(16,411 posts)DFW
(60,186 posts)Owl
(3,768 posts)mahatmakanejeeves
(69,854 posts)Nixie
(17,984 posts)you eat the cake? It looks like you want to keep that whole cake on your dinner plate.
Understandably! What a nice party. Everything looks great!
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dalton99a
(94,133 posts)Diamond_Dog
(40,578 posts)OnDoutside
(20,868 posts)Nice to have the birthday excuse ! 😁
Always good to visit Paris and Bruxelles ! I love Paris and spent a year living in Brussels. I'll be flying to La Rochelle next month and back through Paris, where hopefully I'll be having lunch at the brasserie Le Suffren on Avenue de Suffren.
MuseRider
(35,176 posts)That looks like a wonderful meal. I love hearing about the places you go, how things are there and what all you get up to. So, may this be your best ever year and thanks for sharing this with us.
highplainsdem
(62,154 posts)I'm so glad it went do well!
orleans
(36,921 posts)thinking you must be exhausted -- what a day! up early, all that traveling, still up late into the evening with all that great food.
and then