Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News Editorials & Other Articles General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

DFW

(60,186 posts)
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 05:29 PM Mar 2025

Three countries in one day, 2 birthday cakes, and everyone still asks about Trump and the domestic situation in the USA

I got up at 6:15 so that I would have time to grab breakfast in the hotel (included) in Paris, take the métro (changing once) to the Gare du Nord, and making my train up to Brussels in plenty of time. My first appointment was out in the boonies, but near a tiny provincial commuter train station, and my colleagues picked me up there. I was done quickly, and my other Belgian colleague picked me up there, and drove me to his house. I had never been there, but it was just us two and his wife and son, so there was no need for fancier digs. Being Belgian, they had prepared a pastry run for my birthday, and had some calorie-laden bomb with thick sweet whipped cream, stracciatella chocolate shavings, meringue and raspberries. Let Belgium be Belgium.

Our discussions were a little more involved, but we got through them, and then his wife asked the inevitable question: what really IS going on back there. She had just gotten back from the USA, visiting her sister, who had married a guy in Texas, and an old friend, who had moved to New York. No one was happy, of course, but more to the point, what lies ahead? Belgium, after all, is the nominal capital of the EU as well as NATO HQ. America cutting that kind of a long-standing connection is not a trivial subject in a small country whose budget depends on taxes brought in from people stationed at the one or the other.

My Belgian colleague excused himself, as he had other things to do, and I finished up some tea and some paperwork, and then his wife drove me back into Sprout City so I could get my afternoon train back to Düsseldorf. Luckily, there actually WAS one through train from Brussels to Düsseldorf leaving at about 5:30 PM, and I had a reserved seat on it. Not being a German train (thank goodness), it was almost on time, and I then got a commuter train from Düsseldorf Central to the Airport train station (8 minutes), and my wife picked me up there. She had asked me on the phone if I had eaten dinner. I said they served us a small snack on the train. "Mmm-Hmm," she commented, and said she would make sure there was "something else," in case I was still hungry.

Her idea of a little "something else" was some thin chicken filets sautéed in a thick Japanese teriyaki sauce with some chopped chives sprinkled on top. Some river rice to go under it. Some "black roots," also known as "salsify," on the side, as well as a salad of thinly sliced cucumbers in a light dressing of oil, vinegar and mustard, with some ground dried oregano on top. This was topped off with a hybrid German-American (not enough cream cheese) cheese cake and a home-made raspberry compote to go on top of it. To drink, she had bought a bunch of blood oranges (in season now) and squeezed a few for fresh juice. Proof is posted below.

And some people still ask why I have trouble losing weight (while she still has a figure like a model, even at age 73). So, it is now almost 10:30 PM. I have to be in the Netherlands Friday, but I'm taking tomorrow off. RHIP!! If ya gotta turn 73, this is definitely one way to do it!

If anyone is within 50 Km of Düsseldorf and is hungry, we do have a few leftovers.........

89 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
Three countries in one day, 2 birthday cakes, and everyone still asks about Trump and the domestic situation in the USA (Original Post) DFW Mar 2025 OP
Happy birthday DFW MagickMuffin Mar 2025 #1
Thanks, MM! DFW Mar 2025 #2
Best to you and I'm still cackling over Sprout City. It took me a second. CurtEastPoint Mar 2025 #3
That has been company slang for decades DFW Mar 2025 #10
Happy Birthday 🎂 😁 Meowmee Mar 2025 #4
Number one topic of discussion, hands down DFW Mar 2025 #9
Happy Birthday! You look great! The food looks delicious!! Solly Mack Mar 2025 #5
My wife is a gourmet chef (Peggy is my witness) DFW Mar 2025 #8
Great photo to be treasured for decades! CurtEastPoint Mar 2025 #74
Three years ago at Waikoloa, HI DFW Mar 2025 #88
All the women in your life are beautiful. The love that comes across in your posts about your family is Solly Mack Mar 2025 #78
None other than the great Stan Lee once referred to my wife and daughters as DFW Mar 2025 #87
What a splendid birthday you had, my dear DFW! Happy B'day wishes from us two! CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2025 #6
Thanks, Peggy! DFW Mar 2025 #7
That's what makes you such a "well-rounded" person. A love of food, places, literature. A renaissance man erronis Mar 2025 #32
Tu m'as fait peur! DFW Mar 2025 #85
I would strongly encourage you to consider this opportunity. They don't often just fall into your lap! nt CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2025 #81
Happy Birthday! sinkingfeeling Mar 2025 #11
Merci, bedankt, danke, and DFW Mar 2025 #12
Happy Birthday Friend irisblue Mar 2025 #13
Thanks, Iris! n/t DFW Mar 2025 #49
Once more around the sun. malthaussen Mar 2025 #14
Most Europeans, at this point DFW Mar 2025 #48
Wow, your descriptions are like Anthony Bourdain. BigmanPigman Mar 2025 #15
Interesting comment DFW Mar 2025 #47
Sounds like a spectacular way to spend your special day, DFW. Thanks so much for sharing. Happy, Happy Birthday to You! wordstroken Mar 2025 #16
When this chef calls, they ALL come running! n/t DFW Mar 2025 #27
Wishing you an early Happy Birthday. niyad Mar 2025 #75
Awww, how sweet. Thank you so much, niyad. wordstroken Mar 2025 #82
HBD! Bristlecone Mar 2025 #17
Thanks! n/t DFW Mar 2025 #29
Wow, you ate very well Figarosmom Mar 2025 #18
That's my trouble DFW Mar 2025 #30
Balance Figarosmom Mar 2025 #73
Happy Birthday malaise Mar 2025 #19
Hapsome Bird Day, youngster! ChazInAz Mar 2025 #20
Ha ha! I will confess to never ever having been in rural Kansas DFW Mar 2025 #31
Lived for too many years between KC, Lawrence, Topeka, Wichita area erronis Mar 2025 #50
I moved to Atchison from Tucson. ChazInAz Mar 2025 #89
And what a YUMMY Happy Birthday that is!!! BumRushDaShow Mar 2025 #21
OH yeah! DFW Mar 2025 #33
I live right near "Germantown" here in Philly BumRushDaShow Mar 2025 #43
You don't have to explain that area to me DFW Mar 2025 #46
Happy Birthday, DFW. My mouth is watering... Hekate Mar 2025 #22
Well, if you're ever in the neighborhood DFW Mar 2025 #35
If I ever get the chance... Hekate Mar 2025 #52
Many, many happy returns of the day DFW! Thank you for sharing. alwaysinasnit Mar 2025 #23
If you're ever in the German Rheinland DFW Mar 2025 #36
That you so much for the invite. I will toast you and your lovely family in spirit from my armchair alwaysinasnit Mar 2025 #40
I love these posts. BannonsLiver Mar 2025 #24
Details without the calories DFW Mar 2025 #37
Happy Birthday!! 2naSalit Mar 2025 #25
They have the texture of boiled carrots with a simple taste DFW Mar 2025 #38
They sound good... 2naSalit Mar 2025 #51
What a dinner - love it. Happy Birthday! n/t iluvtennis Mar 2025 #26
Thanks! DFW Mar 2025 #45
Happy Birthday, DFW!!! And many more happy returns of the day! BComplex Mar 2025 #28
Thanks, BC DFW Mar 2025 #44
What an exhausting and delicious birthday! redwitch Mar 2025 #34
Thanks! DFW Mar 2025 #41
Happy Birthday! misanthrope Mar 2025 #39
It was, and the amazing thing is this DFW Mar 2025 #42
Happiest! cachukis Mar 2025 #53
It's not impossible DFW Mar 2025 #55
Looks a delightful repast. You have the life! cachukis Mar 2025 #64
Manymanymany happy returns !!! fierywoman Mar 2025 #54
Well, thanks! DFW Mar 2025 #57
People in other countries truly care about us. GreenWave Mar 2025 #56
They can try all they want. They can change what Fox watchers think, but they can't change reality DFW Mar 2025 #58
Looking good DFW! Blues Heron Mar 2025 #59
That's not me you were looking at DFW Mar 2025 #62
That too! Blues Heron Mar 2025 #67
Wishing you a very Happy Birthday, with all best wishes for the coming niyad Mar 2025 #60
Thanks, Niyad! DFW Mar 2025 #71
Happy Birthday to you. What a glorious time you both are having. I'm so jelly..LOL. SheilaAnn Mar 2025 #61
She has been a fifty-year-long birthday present to me DFW Mar 2025 #66
Happy Birthday! I hope you had a great day! woodsprite Mar 2025 #63
She is a retired social worker DFW Mar 2025 #70
Happy birthday 🎈🎂 MustLoveBeagles Mar 2025 #65
She rocks. I eat the results! n/t DFW Mar 2025 #68
Looking great. Happy birthday!! 🎂 Owl Mar 2025 #69
Happy birthday. NT mahatmakanejeeves Mar 2025 #72
Happy Birthday, DFW! Wait, don't you have to eat your dinner before Nixie Mar 2025 #76
Happy Birthday!! dalton99a Mar 2025 #77
Happy Birthday DFW! Diamond_Dog Mar 2025 #79
Happy birthday DFW ! OnDoutside Mar 2025 #80
Awww happy birthday DFW! MuseRider Mar 2025 #83
Happy birthday, DFW! highplainsdem Mar 2025 #84
happy birthday orleans Mar 2025 #86

DFW

(60,186 posts)
10. That has been company slang for decades
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 06:10 PM
Mar 2025

Second nature to me by now, even if not exactly on everyone's lips

Meowmee

(9,212 posts)
4. Happy Birthday 🎂 😁
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 05:50 PM
Mar 2025

Looks delicious! Interesting that people are actually interested in what is going on here. I would think they would be.

DFW

(60,186 posts)
9. Number one topic of discussion, hands down
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 06:09 PM
Mar 2025

Of course, when they know they can open up to me in their own language, they are a lot less closed about letting loose with their thoughts.

DFW

(60,186 posts)
8. My wife is a gourmet chef (Peggy is my witness)
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 06:08 PM
Mar 2025

Not what you'd expect of a life-long social worker, but she is unusual in many aspects (including being crazy enough to have spent the last 50 years with me, but we'll let that be our little secret).

As for looking great, here's the one who looks great (I'm only along for the ride):

DFW

(60,186 posts)
88. Three years ago at Waikoloa, HI
Thu Mar 20, 2025, 03:07 AM
Mar 2025

Our younger daughter, who has been extremely successful in her professional life, invited us, her sister and family, my sister and her husband, as well as her own family, to a two week family celebration in Hawaii for our combined 70th birthdays and 40th wedding anniversary. My brother couldn’t make it, though he was invited, too.

I had blown the entire cash part of my inheritance on my daughters’ educations in the USA. My younger daughter told me early on that if she “made it,” she would pay me back. I told her that her being happy and successful was all the payback I wanted. Well, she did indeed make it. This whole trip, which would have bankrupted most of us mere mortals, was now pocket change to her. To her, letting her pay for this whole event was our recognition that our investment in her education was well-placed, so would we please shut up and let her do this? We did.

Solly Mack

(96,943 posts)
78. All the women in your life are beautiful. The love that comes across in your posts about your family is
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 08:39 PM
Mar 2025

beautiful as well.

I hope for you all many more years together.



DFW

(60,186 posts)
87. None other than the great Stan Lee once referred to my wife and daughters as
Thu Mar 20, 2025, 02:37 AM
Mar 2025

“Your fabulous females.”

He nailed it, I think.

CaliforniaPeggy

(156,620 posts)
6. What a splendid birthday you had, my dear DFW! Happy B'day wishes from us two!
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 05:52 PM
Mar 2025

I'd say you know how to live!

Enjoy your rare day off, every second of it!


DFW

(60,186 posts)
7. Thanks, Peggy!
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 06:06 PM
Mar 2025

Days off are still very rare, no matter how I try to construe it. I'm still reminded of Clemenceau's remark: the cemeteries are full of irreplaceable people--all of whom have been replaced.

I have been told I'm irreplaceable (that and $5.75 gets you a coffee at Starbucks), but I'd rather be replaced than wrapped. Actually, the son of my Belgian colleague, a bright guy in his mid-twenties, asked if I was interested in training "someone." I said, I was, indeed. He knows English, French and some Dutch, has an EU passport and work permit, and is interested in learning a lot. Hitch: he doesn't speak Spanish, Catalan, Italian, German, Swedish or Russian. But he's young enough to learn at least the basics. I may yet give him a try. I don't want to find myself 80 years old, and asking myself the same question.

erronis

(23,882 posts)
32. That's what makes you such a "well-rounded" person. A love of food, places, literature. A renaissance man
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:27 PM
Mar 2025

of the the post-post modern era.

How about doing some of your inter-country hops by bicycle? Save money, gas....

Je blague, naturellement. Joyeux Anniversaire!

DFW

(60,186 posts)
85. Tu m'as fait peur!
Thu Mar 20, 2025, 02:00 AM
Mar 2025

Although under other circumstances, it wiuld have made sense. My wife comes from the flat fsrm country of northwestern Germany, and in the podt-war era, the bicycle WAS the main mode of transportation. Her mom still used it to go see her dentist, 6 KM away, while in her late 80s, until her eyesight began to fail.

My wife still uses it a lot—probably why she is still 5’10” and 130 pounds. Her first real job, before she was even 20, was managing to books and payroll of a local bicycle factory, at the time the biggest employer in the area. Nothing was more important than the place that produced the main mode of transportation!

CaliforniaPeggy

(156,620 posts)
81. I would strongly encourage you to consider this opportunity. They don't often just fall into your lap! nt
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 08:58 PM
Mar 2025

malthaussen

(18,572 posts)
14. Once more around the sun.
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 06:28 PM
Mar 2025

Hey, when you do finally figure out what is happening over here, let us know, hey?



--Mal

DFW

(60,186 posts)
48. Most Europeans, at this point
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:44 PM
Mar 2025

They would consider a press conference given by the Three Stooges as an improvement in coherency and credibility from the Trump administration.

BigmanPigman

(55,160 posts)
15. Wow, your descriptions are like Anthony Bourdain.
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 06:30 PM
Mar 2025

Just reading what you ate made me hungry. You should write for some food magazine articles or something.
Laura Ingalls Wilder wrote wonderful descriptions of the food she ate over the course of her life and that is what appealed to me and many other readers in her Little House series. I would skip through all the Libertarian BS her daughter Rose Wilder Lane stuck in the books and go right to the family's meals.

I'm glad your birthday was great, my friend's 76 birthday was yesterday and she had a ton of tasty treats all,day and night.

DFW

(60,186 posts)
47. Interesting comment
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:42 PM
Mar 2025

When I wrote my novel all those years ago, an editor congratulated me on detailed descriptions of what people were eating. She said most first-time novelists forget to describe food completely.

wordstroken

(1,406 posts)
16. Sounds like a spectacular way to spend your special day, DFW. Thanks so much for sharing. Happy, Happy Birthday to You!
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 06:32 PM
Mar 2025

Turns out it’s just my birthday eve, eve. Two more days to go.

Love your photo!

DFW

(60,186 posts)
30. That's my trouble
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:24 PM
Mar 2025

With her I ALWAYS eat well.

Several years ago, a couple we know was also going to be separated on his birthday, so while his wife was away, we invited him over for dinner so he wouldn't be alone the whole time. My wife made up her usual five course amazing "made it from scratch" dinner, and he thanked her profusely for going to all that trouble to make him a special meal. My wife was completely baffled by his comment. He told me, well, don't tell me she makes up a meal like that EVERY evening. I said, well, yes, she really does. H said it was amazing that I didn't weigh 200 Kilos. I explained that half the time, I'm on the road, where I fast half the time.

ChazInAz

(3,017 posts)
20. Hapsome Bird Day, youngster!
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 06:55 PM
Mar 2025

I'm two years older.
I envy you being in such wonderful culinary areas. Living in northeast rural Kansas, kielbasa and saurkraut are considered to be exotic....and somewhat suspicious.

DFW

(60,186 posts)
31. Ha ha! I will confess to never ever having been in rural Kansas
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:26 PM
Mar 2025

If my wife moved there, I suspect the average weight of the average adult would increase by 24% yearly!

erronis

(23,882 posts)
50. Lived for too many years between KC, Lawrence, Topeka, Wichita area
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:48 PM
Mar 2025

The family meal was almost always overcooked beef (from some part of the poor animal) and noodles/potatoes. Vegetables were grapes/etc. in a jello mold.

But the people are really good. For the most part. Once you get beyond the politics and religion. But then, there was nothing left to disagree with!

ChazInAz

(3,017 posts)
89. I moved to Atchison from Tucson.
Thu Mar 20, 2025, 09:37 AM
Mar 2025

There's this thing called "Kansas Nice" that I enjoy.
I don't talk politics unless I know the person' leanings. Most of the folks here consider me to be good-hearted but weird Liberal.

DFW

(60,186 posts)
33. OH yeah!
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:27 PM
Mar 2025

Germans don't do things half way, and her cooking is no exception. It's what happens when an artist finds joy in her art.

BumRushDaShow

(169,761 posts)
43. I live right near "Germantown" here in Philly
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:37 PM
Mar 2025

and this state is very much "German" (won't even get into the PA Dutch (Deutsch)!

alwaysinasnit

(5,624 posts)
40. That you so much for the invite. I will toast you and your lovely family in spirit from my armchair
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:35 PM
Mar 2025

in California. Be well and safe.

2naSalit

(102,803 posts)
25. Happy Birthday!!
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:15 PM
Mar 2025

You're a well kept man.

I want to know more about the blackroots/salsify, I've never tried it, not sure I knew it was edible. It grows around here as a weed but if it's edible, I'll make use of it.

DFW

(60,186 posts)
38. They have the texture of boiled carrots with a simple taste
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:34 PM
Mar 2025

Sort of a mix between potatoes, kohlrabi and boiled artichoke hearts.

My wife says they are a pain to peel, but here, you can buy them peeled and in 2-3 inch short pieces in water in glass jars. Like a shorter version of palm hearts, except they are, as their name indicates, root vegetables. Freshly boiled and with a hint of butter melted over them, I could eat a pound of them and not regret the tummy sickness that would ensue.

2naSalit

(102,803 posts)
51. They sound good...
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:49 PM
Mar 2025

Thank you. I'll see if I can find anything more about them. The stuff, if it's the same variety or similar, grows all over the place here in the western states.

DFW

(60,186 posts)
42. It was, and the amazing thing is this
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:37 PM
Mar 2025

She just looks around, sees what we have in the house, grabs some of this, some of that, and works magic.

It must be a gift.

cachukis

(3,938 posts)
53. Happiest!
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:54 PM
Mar 2025

Had an antique Scandinavian hutch/breakfront somewhat like yours in my antique shop years ago. Would yours be from that part of the world?
Mine came from Sweden.

DFW

(60,186 posts)
55. It's not impossible
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:59 PM
Mar 2025

We have grabbed things from bric-a-brac shops over the last 45 years, and logically they would have mostly come from here in northern Europe. A lot of it was used already, so we don't know for sure where their true origins lie.

fierywoman

(8,595 posts)
54. Manymanymany happy returns !!!
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:58 PM
Mar 2025

Your family is gorgeous and I love reading all your stories.

DFW

(60,186 posts)
57. Well, thanks!
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 08:00 PM
Mar 2025

I'm sure some of my "stories" have to be more boring than others, but I was always "pro-choice," so I'm cool if someone wants to ignore them entirely!

GreenWave

(12,641 posts)
56. People in other countries truly care about us.
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 07:59 PM
Mar 2025

Our news and films try to depict the opposite!

DFW

(60,186 posts)
58. They can try all they want. They can change what Fox watchers think, but they can't change reality
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 08:03 PM
Mar 2025

Not that the average Fox watcher seems to care a whole lot about reality.....

DFW

(60,186 posts)
66. She has been a fifty-year-long birthday present to me
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 08:08 PM
Mar 2025

I don't play the lottery because I figure the chances of me winning again are less than zero.

woodsprite

(12,582 posts)
63. Happy Birthday! I hope you had a great day!
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 08:06 PM
Mar 2025

It looks like you're well taken care of and the spread looks absolutely delicious.

DFW

(60,186 posts)
70. She is a retired social worker
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 08:10 PM
Mar 2025

She turned down an offer to be a model to take up social work (!!!!).

I am definitely well taken care of!

Nixie

(17,984 posts)
76. Happy Birthday, DFW! Wait, don't you have to eat your dinner before
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 08:29 PM
Mar 2025

you eat the cake? It looks like you want to keep that whole cake on your dinner plate. Understandably! What a nice party. Everything looks great!






.

OnDoutside

(20,868 posts)
80. Happy birthday DFW !
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 08:43 PM
Mar 2025

Nice to have the birthday excuse ! 😁

Always good to visit Paris and Bruxelles ! I love Paris and spent a year living in Brussels. I'll be flying to La Rochelle next month and back through Paris, where hopefully I'll be having lunch at the brasserie Le Suffren on Avenue de Suffren.

MuseRider

(35,176 posts)
83. Awww happy birthday DFW!
Wed Mar 19, 2025, 10:39 PM
Mar 2025

That looks like a wonderful meal. I love hearing about the places you go, how things are there and what all you get up to. So, may this be your best ever year and thanks for sharing this with us.

orleans

(36,921 posts)
86. happy birthday
Thu Mar 20, 2025, 02:16 AM
Mar 2025

thinking you must be exhausted -- what a day! up early, all that traveling, still up late into the evening with all that great food.
and then

Latest Discussions»General Discussion»Three countries in one da...