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Thanks for this post! nt LAS14 Mar 2025 #1
Every minute you spend criticizing good Democrats... W_HAMILTON Mar 2025 #2
Exactly! H2O Man Mar 2025 #3
Who gets to define 'good Democrats'? The very nature of 'good Democrats' opens the door to defining 'bad ones' as well, Celerity Mar 2025 #5
Which ones are the good ones and which ones are the bad ones? Yavin4 Mar 2025 #10
To a lot of people Bettie Mar 2025 #15
But if they aren't "good"? alarimer Mar 2025 #18
It's called discernment. BattleRow Mar 2025 #41
That post criticizing Tim Walz was 100% unfounded obamanut2012 Mar 2025 #4
I saw that one. They're going after Walz, they're going after Newsom & Pritzker too.... Hekate Mar 2025 #7
OMG did you see the one where they went after Emile Mar 2025 #11
Not especially Hekate Mar 2025 #14
It was a centrist hit piece with a twisted heading Emile Mar 2025 #32
Their minds are made up. aocommunalpunch Mar 2025 #33
IMO, it's funny how that NY hit piece came out Emile Mar 2025 #42
Blaming Biden for the trump presidency really sounded like bashing to me, especially ... Hekate Mar 2025 #6
Biden was not clear on being a two term President when he ran in 2020 Mr.WeRP Mar 2025 #8
Thank you Mr.WeRP. K & R Emile Mar 2025 #9
Oli-what-y? aocommunalpunch Mar 2025 #12
Well, 54% of the adult US population barely reads at 6th grade level or worse Mr.WeRP Mar 2025 #16
I'll bet some Democrat invented the Big Tent to keep the party from collapsing. Ping Tung Mar 2025 #13
Of course not mcar Mar 2025 #17
I strongly disagree IrishBubbaLiberal Mar 2025 #30
K mcar Mar 2025 #35
When they cave like a melting snow fort it's very called for! LW1977 Mar 2025 #36
As I said, criticizing is fine, IMO mcar Mar 2025 #43
BartCop was always using that term Spineless' too IrishBubbaLiberal Mar 2025 #50
Most of "criticisms" that I see (when on jury) are nothing but bashing; no analysis, no practical remedies, just rant.nt Bernardo de La Paz Mar 2025 #19
You better READ MLK Jr Letter From The Birmingham Jail !! IrishBubbaLiberal Mar 2025 #34
That is the complete opposite of the malcontents bashing Democratic figures on DU! Bernardo de La Paz Mar 2025 #39
BS...remember 'freedom of speech'? NotHardly Mar 2025 #20
Not BS. Read DU terms of service and look at the "Don't bash Democratic figures" point when you alert next. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Mar 2025 #22
Exactly stoned Mar 2025 #44
Not quite right. If you are free-speech absolutist, you can say that Bernardo de La Paz Mar 2025 #52
You too NEED TO READ ...MLKJr's LETTER FROM THE BIRMINGHAM JAIL IrishBubbaLiberal Mar 2025 #46
That is the opposite of the Dem-bashing posts! Bernardo de La Paz Mar 2025 #49
self-reflection Be Leave On Mar 2025 #21
There is a big difference between thoughtful analytical self-reflection and the raw bashing that gets alerted on. . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Mar 2025 #23
I don't suppose you can mount this over the door, can you? OldBaldy1701E Mar 2025 #24
Unpopular opinion: loyalty to a political party is stupid. SSJVegeta Mar 2025 #25
Lincoln had to change generals a few times before he found Grant Mysterian Mar 2025 #26
Interesting. stoned Mar 2025 #27
Criticism and bashing can be synonyms Kaleva Mar 2025 #28
Really depends SocialDemocrat61 Mar 2025 #29
There's a forum for that, not General Discussion. hunter Mar 2025 #31
The party is only the party until they're not. MrChuck Mar 2025 #37
Then don't be on "Democratic" Underground. LisaM Mar 2025 #48
I ageee! Bread and Circuses Mar 2025 #38
Please stop this. LisaM Mar 2025 #40
This message was self-deleted by its author ShazzieB Mar 2025 #45
Any political party that believes its' leaders are infallible become extremely vulnerable to morphing into a cult. Uncle Joe Mar 2025 #47
I've always been principle over party. When the Democrats are wrong, they are wrong. AZLD4Candidate Mar 2025 #51
IMHO, A key difference between bashing and criticizing fairly spooky3 Mar 2025 #53
You had me till you said "oligarchy". William769 Mar 2025 #54

W_HAMILTON

(10,333 posts)
2. Every minute you spend criticizing good Democrats...
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 12:57 PM
Mar 2025

...is a minute you aren't criticizing deplorable Republicans for being the ones that are actually destroying our country.

H2O Man

(79,056 posts)
3. Exactly!
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 01:15 PM
Mar 2025

We don't want to discuss the failures of Democrats on a democratic discussion forum, much less think of holding any Democrat accountable. Instead, we need to steal one from the republican playbook, and blame the other party for virtually everything. That's the ticket!

Celerity

(54,410 posts)
5. Who gets to define 'good Democrats'? The very nature of 'good Democrats' opens the door to defining 'bad ones' as well,
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 01:35 PM
Mar 2025

otherwise there is no need to qualitatively label some as 'good'. It sets up a binary comparative apparatus where there will be critiquing.

 

Yavin4

(37,182 posts)
10. Which ones are the good ones and which ones are the bad ones?
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 01:51 PM
Mar 2025

Everyone will have their own definition. To me, the bad ones are the ones that enable MAGA and Trump, but others don't share my definition.

Bettie

(19,704 posts)
15. To a lot of people
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 02:16 PM
Mar 2025

the "bad" ones are the rabble rousers, the ones who speak up with a loud voice. Usually young, liberal women.

 

alarimer

(17,146 posts)
18. But if they aren't "good"?
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 02:33 PM
Mar 2025

We have the bandwidth to do both. Politics is not a team sport where "my team good, your team bad". It is more like "are our leaders fit for purpose?" And if they are not, then we pick new ones. None of them are owed our loyalty.

THEY work for US. Not the other way around.

Hekate

(100,133 posts)
7. I saw that one. They're going after Walz, they're going after Newsom & Pritzker too....
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 01:44 PM
Mar 2025

Oh, also Bernie would have won where Kamala lost. We’re not even to the midterms yet!

There’s no “nuance” or any kind of deep thinking that I can see, and I’ve seen way too much of this behavior in my 2+ decades here.

Go on, shoot yourselves in the foot. Too bad this type of campaign just ends up crippling the party.

Hekate

(100,133 posts)
14. Not especially
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 02:14 PM
Mar 2025

Every time I start liking the old guy again, he forcefully reminds us he’s not a Dem but something more enlightened and complains we Dems never do anything for the workingman (man). Also says we should be sure to vote for non-Dem candidates should they be better (cough cough) than Dem candidates.

Yes, he said this recently.

As regards the workingman, Biden was known as the strongest pro-union president ever, and even walked a picket line.

Also Biden was cognizant that working women’s lives and needs are generally different. Certainly a person may choose to have no kids, but the fact is most of us do have them, and I can tell you from painful experience that juggling childcare, doctors’ visits, after school activities, and a 40 hr/wk job is a constant struggle. On what are still “women’s” wages.

I keep waiting for Bernie to catch up. Personally, there’s no attack from me, just a memory that goes back to the 2016 campaign.

Emile

(42,293 posts)
32. It was a centrist hit piece with a twisted heading
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:04 PM
Mar 2025

that got some people really posting some nasty comments.

aocommunalpunch

(4,581 posts)
33. Their minds are made up.
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:06 PM
Mar 2025

Don’t listen or read. Just react. Well, and feed my ignore list.

Emile

(42,293 posts)
42. IMO, it's funny how that NY hit piece came out
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:11 PM
Mar 2025

after Schumer gave cover for the centrists to vote with the Republicans.

Hekate

(100,133 posts)
6. Blaming Biden for the trump presidency really sounded like bashing to me, especially ...
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 01:38 PM
Mar 2025

…with the observation that he got little done.

 

Mr.WeRP

(1,098 posts)
8. Biden was not clear on being a two term President when he ran in 2020
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 01:45 PM
Mar 2025

He suggested he was a bridge candidate. Like it or not, this became perceived as a “pledge”. And it was too late to do anything about it by the time the debate happened.

So it is not unreasonable that he takes some blame for what happened in the last election.

aocommunalpunch

(4,581 posts)
12. Oli-what-y?
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 01:55 PM
Mar 2025

The way I read it, we can’t use big words like that any more. Too many dumb as fuck people will think we’re elitist or something.

 

Mr.WeRP

(1,098 posts)
16. Well, 54% of the adult US population barely reads at 6th grade level or worse
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 02:26 PM
Mar 2025

You are correct in your assessment of the national literacy and educational standards. I thoroughly revel in the facial expressions I receive from members of the MAGA cult when I inform them to devour feculence. (To borrow a phrase from my dear friend Mr. Milchick on Severance).

Ping Tung

(4,370 posts)
13. I'll bet some Democrat invented the Big Tent to keep the party from collapsing.
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 01:56 PM
Mar 2025

It's a damned good thing that nature gave us thumbs and forefingers to hold our noses with. come election day.

mcar

(46,059 posts)
17. Of course not
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 02:31 PM
Mar 2025

However, saying things like "Dems are spineless," "corporate stooges," "cowards," etc - things we see over and over on DU - is bashing, not criticizing.

It's also tarring every Democrat with the same brush.

For example, I believe Sen. Schumer deserves criticism for his CR vote. I do not believe he deserves to be smeared as corrupt or spineless.

I believe Sen. Sanders deserves criticism for wrongly proclaiming that Democrats do nothing for the working class. He does not deserve to be smeared or bashed.

There is a difference. Constructive criticism is helpful. "Dems suck" runs us all down.

 

IrishBubbaLiberal

(2,561 posts)
30. I strongly disagree
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:01 PM
Mar 2025

Too many here at DU are super sensitive to ANY criticism or critiques of
Our Own Democratic members of Congress.

It’s rather ridiculous how thin skinned people can be.

I LIKE TO RAISE HELL !

As Molly Ivins stated numerous times.

“Good TROUBLE” is what John Lewis taught me, and should have taught
everyone else here at DU.

John Lewis would be right here saying the same thing when our “leaders”
fail us, by failing to act forcefully as THE OPPOSITION PARTY.

mcar

(46,059 posts)
43. As I said, criticizing is fine, IMO
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:11 PM
Mar 2025

Bashing and name calling is another thing. "Spineless," "cowards," "corrupt," are all part of an overall "Dems suck" theme that repeats itself here on a regular basis.

Me, I think Trumpers suck. Republicans in Congress are spineless, cowards, and corrupt. They are the ones who are destroying this country, thanks to the sexist, racist voters - and those who didn't bother to vote.

But that's just me.

 

IrishBubbaLiberal

(2,561 posts)
50. BartCop was always using that term Spineless' too
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:18 PM
Mar 2025

So is that not allowed here when it’s backed up with examples
And video(s), and quotes, and examples.

BartCop was indeed a progressive liberal raising hell
With what he called his attempts at humor

Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
19. Most of "criticisms" that I see (when on jury) are nothing but bashing; no analysis, no practical remedies, just rant.nt
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 02:33 PM
Mar 2025

Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
39. That is the complete opposite of the malcontents bashing Democratic figures on DU!
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:09 PM
Mar 2025

That is calm, fact-based, analytical, proposes remedies.

Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
22. Not BS. Read DU terms of service and look at the "Don't bash Democratic figures" point when you alert next. . . . nt
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 02:45 PM
Mar 2025

Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
52. Not quite right. If you are free-speech absolutist, you can say that
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:23 PM
Mar 2025

But speech is always tempered by societal, or in the case private server, choices.

It would be "free speech" to post child porn. But we don't have absolutist free speech here, so you can't post that here. Not even the free speech guaranteed by the Constitution admits child porn.

Beware of all-or-nothing thinking. It is a false dichotomy to say there is "free speech" or "not free speech". The reality is that speech is always more or less free. There are some examples of pieces of completely non-free speech, such a prison statements extracted under torture.

So yeah, absolutely purely free speech does not exist here, or on X, or on the FReak site. Absolutely free speech exists on a lonely mountain top where a solitary hermit speaks to themself.

 

IrishBubbaLiberal

(2,561 posts)
46. You too NEED TO READ ...MLKJr's LETTER FROM THE BIRMINGHAM JAIL
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:12 PM
Mar 2025

Go read John Lewis’ words too.
My suggestion to you….You should go reflect a bit more too.

You are maybe too thin-skinned

Read MLK JR’s words again..
I believe you are missing a LOT of what Martin wrote.

Please READ at least once, IF A DOZEN TIMES,
MAYBE THAT WILL INSPIRE YOUR ABILITY TO SEE HOW PEOPLE
DO IN FACT HAVE A LEGITIMATE GRIPE..

https://www.rsn.org/001/martin-luther-king-jrs-letter-from-birmingham-jail-from-1963.html

Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
49. That is the opposite of the Dem-bashing posts!
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:15 PM
Mar 2025

1. It doesn't bash Democratic politicians.

2. It is based on facts.

3. It is analytical.

4. It includes remedies.

Legitimate gripes can be discussed. Bashing Democrats in rants is not discussion or constructive criticism.

Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
23. There is a big difference between thoughtful analytical self-reflection and the raw bashing that gets alerted on. . . nt
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 02:46 PM
Mar 2025

OldBaldy1701E

(11,143 posts)
24. I don't suppose you can mount this over the door, can you?
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 02:46 PM
Mar 2025
If we can’t debate that direction here, as a grass roots safe haven for the left, then we are truly lost.


https://i.postimg.cc/B6qG85x9/temp-Imagesa0wga.avif

SSJVegeta

(2,849 posts)
25. Unpopular opinion: loyalty to a political party is stupid.
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 02:51 PM
Mar 2025

The parties should be loyal to their voters. Not the other way around.

Mysterian

(6,486 posts)
26. Lincoln had to change generals a few times before he found Grant
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 02:55 PM
Mar 2025

Finding the right leadership is imperative, so allowing open and honest criticism of our leaders is imperative, as well.

SocialDemocrat61

(7,648 posts)
29. Really depends
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:01 PM
Mar 2025

Constructive criticism that leads to thoughtful discussion is always welcome. But sometimes there is just bashing. It’s the difference between saying to someone ‘Here’s a suggestion on how you can do better in the future’ versus saying ‘You suck’.

MrChuck

(316 posts)
37. The party is only the party until they're not.
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:08 PM
Mar 2025

I'm in my 50's. I've been a Democrat for over thirty years. I have seen greatness and I have seen massive disappointment.

We all need to be honest with ourselves and stop paying homage to a word that not only headlines this group but covers a shifting political paradigm in the mainstream consciousness.

I have no loyalty to any party. My loyalty is to principles that, historically, have been better represented by the Democratic party than others. While it's not ONLY the Democratic party that has changed over that time, the party HAS changed and not always for the better.

We have fielded candidates that were simply not positioned to win. I've watched good candidates get torpedoed by the opposition who almost always seem poised to win and will go to whatever lengths to do so. I've been proud in defeat a number of times as a result of that, knowing that my party didn't resort to "dirty pool" to achieve political victories. The question in my mind now is how we have continued to allow the opposition to get away with their chicanery and duplicitous practice.

When Bernie Sanders reminds us that he's not a Democrat and tells us that Democrats didn't accomplish much I interpret that as meaning that we don't achieve AS A PARTY the goals that are paramount in this country. I don't interpret it as an attack on individual Democrats but as a valid criticism of the effectiveness of our party's tactical execution.

Interested to hear feedback.

LisaM

(29,634 posts)
48. Then don't be on "Democratic" Underground.
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:12 PM
Mar 2025

You don't have to love Democrats or support us or follow our party platforms (which are strong), but it's extremely demoralizing to me to see Democrats being systematically attacked here, on what is supposed to be a friendly and safe place.

LisaM

(29,634 posts)
40. Please stop this.
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:10 PM
Mar 2025

I don't patronize Republican or right-wing sites. But if I did, I am fairly certain that I wouldn't open them to see relentless criticism of their own message.

This is Psy-ops, and I am sick of it.

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Uncle Joe

(65,140 posts)
47. Any political party that believes its' leaders are infallible become extremely vulnerable to morphing into a cult.
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:12 PM
Mar 2025

The Republican Party's total acquiescence too and rise of *rump to power when they knew/know that he's incompetent for the most powerful job in the land is exhibit A.

I don't believe it started with *rump, this mentality has been in the works since the days of Reagan and "no speaking ill of fellow Republicans."

I believe one of if not the greatest strengths that the United States has is our 1st Amendment because it allows us as a nation to be flexible and self-correct when we go off course, but it has been under major assault for years.

Thanks for the thread Mr.WeRPb

AZLD4Candidate

(6,781 posts)
51. I've always been principle over party. When the Democrats are wrong, they are wrong.
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:23 PM
Mar 2025

But I'd rather have a Democrat I agree with 40% of the time than a Republican I agree with 0% of the time.

spooky3

(38,634 posts)
53. IMHO, A key difference between bashing and criticizing fairly
Fri Mar 21, 2025, 03:27 PM
Mar 2025

Is a basic one used in performance reviews.

Fair reviews focus on observable behavior: “X rarely speaks out”; “Y voted for a certain bill” etc.

When you speak negatively about something you can’t see happen, but are inferring it, such as a trait or personality characteristic, you may be bashing: “A is untrustworthy (annoying, lazy, dense, etc.)”; “B is a DINO”, etc.

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