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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsAmerica is not a comfortable place to live anymore.
In my opinion, the drama and the threats from the political leadership of this country should not be something that citizens have to endure every day. What happened to "ensuring domestic tranquility"? What happened to "promoting the general welfare"? Our Constitution is under attack, as is every branch of our government.
People should be able to live in peace without the daily threats of sadistic autocratic leaders. We should not be so over-whelmed with irrational and dangerous rhetoric every day.
If I was a young man, I think I would move to Canada or Mexico or someplace in Central or South America? It's not just "politics". It is something much more meaningful.
Wounded Bear
(64,196 posts)Zorro
(18,579 posts)that no future administration will be looked upon as trustworthy, both domestically and internationally.
wcmagumba
(6,061 posts)Bye bye America...
InAbLuEsTaTe
(25,517 posts)mgardener
(2,333 posts)Thanks to the American who voted this blight into office.
They wanted Trump.
I hope they get EVERYTHING they deserve.
slightlv
(7,729 posts)but the more time goes by and pieces about this election see the light of day, the more convinced I am he stole it, flat out. someone should escort him to the nearest jail right damn now... and take the co-president, musk, with him.
Irish_Dem
(80,887 posts)It is no longer a safe, comfortable, predictable place to live.
And the new American value system is profoundly unacceptable to me.
Psychopaths who are mobsters, rapists, traitors, etc.
My family fought and died for this democracy and I will not live under fascist rule.
Tree Lady
(13,233 posts)if we were younger go to Germany and then anywhere in europe from there. My husband can get german citizenship because his dad never became an american citizen. And me because we are married. I also found out once you are citizen in europe you can live anywhere that uses euro.
We didn't do it when we first found out because we had one child in college and the older ones were starting to have kids. Didn't want to live that far away. We said if it was now and we were 20 yrs younger we would talk kids into moving too.
Irish_Dem
(80,887 posts)Grandparents born and raised in Ireland.
My father was a dual citizen.
But I am too old now, and don't want to leave the family.
However some of the younger people in the family are looking to leave the US.
Exploring their options as we speak.
Tree Lady
(13,233 posts)I spent 3 months alone in Ireland summer of 2019, really loved it. I am Irish mostly, my family came over during potato famine. I went all over Ireland staying in mostly small pensions, sheep farm way up north, the araan island with only 150 people on it and they all speak gaelic. Spent a week there, so quiet. Even went to a yoga retreat in the Burien. I made friends with a lady that lived in Belfast and when I went there she took me to the peace wall and had me write on it. Very special time!
slightlv
(7,729 posts)my great grandmother came over as a baby. Ireland is where I've always wanted to live. The old familial strings pull hard.
Irish_Dem
(80,887 posts)My siblings and cousins have Irish passports.
They travel with them. Easier than an American passport.
I wish I was younger, I would go to Ireland.
Irish_Dem
(80,887 posts)It is no longer a safe, comfortable, predictable place to live.
And the new American value system is profoundly unacceptable to me.
Psychopaths who are mobsters, rapists, traitors, etc.
My family fought and died for this democracy and I will not live under fascist rule.
defacto7
(14,162 posts)I've smelled the stench of burning freedom in the wind since the election. But the heat of the fire is just now starting to touch my life directly and personally. I'm gearing up for the decisions that will have to be made and they will not be pretty.
DENVERPOPS
(13,003 posts)Everyone I talk to, except of course the stupid/ignorant Trumphumpers, are frightened like never before............and for good reason..........
WASF
WhiskeyGrinder
(26,844 posts)Indigenous tribes, Black people and other marginalized folks are very familiar with the current vibes.
blubunyip
(278 posts)--they love delivering the daily whipping. Cruelty is the point. They get off on it.
H2O Man
(78,948 posts)I think my younger daughter may move to Europe this summer. My older daughter, son-in-law, and granddaughter live in a country that values things like education and health care. The younger one may take a teaching position there.
While I am happy for them, I know our country loses when talented young adults leave. But the damage being done to this country makes them uneasy, to say the least. It's the opposite of when my grandfather's sisters and aunts came here from Ireland.
Beringia
(5,480 posts)or you need lotsa money to have your freedoms. England, France seem safer bets to me. Why do you suppose so many Mexicans cross the border. Where I live, Berwyn and Cicero areas just outside of Chicago and the are both like 65% Mexican
Solly Mack
(96,825 posts)Some Americans live their lives knowing the big ugly can flare up and consume people at any time. The little uglies that some Americans have to put up with day to day are bad enough and they do accumulate - but you always know the big ugly can strike any time.
Easterncedar
(6,104 posts)Solly Mack
(96,825 posts)Thank you.
allegorical oracle
(6,403 posts)you learn that an oil refinery has bought the acreage next to you."
Can't see it stopping anytime soon.
Magoo48
(6,718 posts)And the idea of being driven out of my home and my homeland doesnt sit well with me. I dont know if Ill live long enough to see the end of these fascist pendejos, but as long as theyre around, Ill be here to fuck with everything they attempt to do. Of course, my kids and grandkids, as well as the rest of my family, are free to range as far and wide as they see fit, in fact, Ive always encouraged a free range existence.
Cirsium
(3,829 posts)What is new is that upper middle class white people are also now being threatened.
Codifer
(1,204 posts)begin to realize that a kakistocracy is very bad news........ we must know that certain elements of our society have long had first hand experience of authoritarian shitheads and the weight of the boot.
Kaleva
(40,326 posts)Now that whites feel uncomfortable, it's newsworthy.
moonscape
(5,687 posts)try to leave anyway. Portugal accepts SS as income to fulfill the passive income requirement, and I could deposit the required years worth (about 10k) in a Portuguese bank account, manage to get a rental lease, and rent out my home here.
I have a lot of family in Europe so figured it might be worth risking the upheaval.
The catch is its impossible to get private insurance coverage with 2 strikes against me: >70 and cancer. Although I hate insurance companies, this one makes sense. Itd be like looking for collision coverage for an already-wrecked car.
talking-liberally
(67 posts)with his grandfather, my wife's father (she immigrated to here from the Philippines when she was 6). He says that he plans on staying in the Philippines and no longer feels welcome in the US. We plan to live there 6 months a year when we retire in 5 years.
pamdb
(1,439 posts)If I was 40 years younger (I just turned 74) I'd be seriously looking at a job in Canada. We're only 3 hours from the border.
allegorical oracle
(6,403 posts)moving there once she's qualified for her job's pension plan (4 more yrs). And a British friend of mine is getting ready to go back across the pond rather than stay here.
IrishBubbaLiberal
(2,561 posts)A young family I know, all US citizens, they are working on moving away.
Got a new baby coming soon.
Their Reasons:
USA is now full of HATE. Trump and Republicans seem all ok with widespread bigotry and hatred towards large sections of the US population.
The standard of living in the US is just fair,
Other nations have a far better standard of living.
Other nations have far happier populations.
Other nations have better health care systems, inexpensive.
Other nations have a FANTASTIC standard of living and support for families.
Other nations have a FANTASTIC standard of living for elderly and retired.
No place is perfect.
But the US has, and is turning into a cesspool of hate towards others.
The US Supreme Court is extremely biased and corrupt now,
The FBI is now extremely corrupt and controlled by Trump wackos.
The US govt is extremely corrupt and controlled by Trump wackos.
USA, Its now a repeat of Nazi Germany in mid-1930s,
And appears its getting worse by the day.
Who wants to stay here for that?
spanone
(141,387 posts)K&R
mahina
(20,598 posts)Our support and appreciation.
Baron2024
(1,492 posts)I am so sick of seeing Trump every day of my life. This malignant idiot has to be the center of attention and on TV every day. He has been like this his whole life and for the past ten years this orange clown has been in our faces every day. It destroys my quality of life. Life used to be pretty good before Trump. This does not even begin to address how bad life is and can be worse in an authoritarian state, which is where Trump Musk is trying to go. Terrible. I am sick of all of it.
oldsoldierfadingfast
(222 posts)Tanuki
(16,421 posts)
https://poets.org/poem/let-america-be-america-again
Let America be America again.
Let it be the dream it used to be.
Let it be the pioneer on the plain
Seeking a home where he himself is free.
(America never was America to me.)
Let America be the dream the dreamers dreamed
Let it be that great strong land of love
Where never kings connive nor tyrants scheme
That any man be crushed by one above.
(It never was America to me.)
O, let my land be a land where Liberty
Is crowned with no false patriotic wreath,
But opportunity is real, and life is free,
Equality is in the air we breathe.
(Theres never been equality for me,
Nor freedom in this homeland of the free.)
Say, who are you that mumbles in the dark?
And who are you that draws your veil across the stars?
I am the poor white, fooled and pushed apart,
I am the Negro bearing slaverys scars.
I am the red man driven from the land,
I am the immigrant clutching the hope I seek
And finding only the same old stupid plan
Of dog eat dog, of mighty crush the weak.
I am the young man, full of strength and hope,
Tangled in that ancient endless chain
Of profit, power, gain, of grab the land!
Of grab the gold! Of grab the ways of satisfying need!
Of work the men! Of take the pay!
Of owning everything for ones own greed!
I am the farmer, bondsman to the soil.
I am the worker sold to the machine.
I am the Negro, servant to you all.
I am the people, humble, hungry, mean
Hungry yet today despite the dream.
Beaten yet todayO, Pioneers!
I am the man who never got ahead,
The poorest worker bartered through the years.
Yet Im the one who dreamt our basic dream
In the Old World while still a serf of kings,
Who dreamt a dream so strong, so brave, so true,
That even yet its mighty daring sings
In every brick and stone, in every furrow turned
Thats made America the land it has become.
O, Im the man who sailed those early seas
In search of what I meant to be my home
For Im the one who left dark Irelands shore,
And Polands plain, and Englands grassy lea,
And torn from Black Africas strand I came
To build a homeland of the free.
The free?
Who said the free? Not me?
Surely not me? The millions on relief today?
The millions shot down when we strike?
The millions who have nothing for our pay?
For all the dreams weve dreamed
And all the songs weve sung
And all the hopes weve held
And all the flags weve hung,
The millions who have nothing for our pay
Except the dream thats almost dead today.
O, let America be America again
The land that never has been yet
And yet must bethe land where every man is free.
The land thats minethe poor mans, Indians, Negros, ME
Who made America,
Whose sweat and blood, whose faith and pain,
Whose hand at the foundry, whose plow in the rain,
Must bring back our mighty dream again.
Sure, call me any ugly name you choose
The steel of freedom does not stain.
From those who live like leeches on the peoples lives,
We must take back our land again,
America!
O, yes,
I say it plain,
America never was America to me,
And yet I swear this oath
America will be!
Out of the rack and ruin of our gangster death,
The rape and rot of graft, and stealth, and lies,
We, the people, must redeem
The land, the mines, the plants, the rivers.
The mountains and the endless plain
All, all the stretch of these great green states
And make America again!
From The Collected Poems of Langston Hughes, published by Alfred A. Knopf, Inc. Copyright © 1994 the Estate of Langston Hughes. Used with permission.
Johonny
(26,047 posts)Really, a lot of people are acting like nothing is unusual. Once in a while someone cracks a joke about it. But the find out phase still feels like it is on the way.
oldsoldierfadingfast
(222 posts)I was a fighter; and fought against everything 'bad' that ever happened to me.
Now that I am old, decrepit and frail; with no options except to stay. I just can't see a 'younger me' now, being any different than I was when I 'was' young when leaving MY country for any reason would not have been an option that I would have even considered. I would stay and fight.
Some countries now seem to be safer than others; but, for how long will they last if US democracy completely falls? How long can the little bit of democracy that we still have last, if voting Dems. leave the country?
That, being said, I will not blame or shame anyone who has the resources and opportunity to leave in their going. Hopefully, wherever they land, they will try to make that, and the world, a better place to live.
Knowing that my time on this planet is a lot shorter than it was even yesterday, I have decisions to make and/or revise if I want to leave it, even a tiny bit, better than I found it. Before 21 Jan. that was easy. Today, it is HARD!
proud patriot
(102,466 posts)it is so sad to me .
Meowmee
(9,212 posts)And it started during the first reign of terror not now. It was the same thing back then. Even when he was out for four years, we still had to be tortured by all of his crap. We are being held hostage by an insane madman and a bunch of crooks and people who support it all.