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COL Mustard

(7,910 posts)
Sun Mar 30, 2025, 04:00 PM Mar 2025

My friend's wife passed away today.

I'm sad for him. She had had MS for a very long time. They welcomed their first grandchild on New Year's Day. Life sucks sometimes. As Warren Zevon said, enjoy every sandwich.

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My friend's wife passed away today. (Original Post) COL Mustard Mar 2025 OP
Sorry for your loss SocialDemocrat61 Mar 2025 #1
Thank you. COL Mustard Mar 2025 #6
I feel bad for this sad news. My good friend's husband died in his sleep from a stroke 2 weeks ago Deuxcents Mar 2025 #2
Thank you. COL Mustard Mar 2025 #7
I'm so sorry TexasBushwhacker Mar 2025 #3
I think so too. COL Mustard Mar 2025 #8
I am so sorry. May your friend find peace and strength. LoisB Mar 2025 #4
Thank you. COL Mustard Mar 2025 #9
Sending hugs to you, your friend and all who mourn the loss. ❤️ MLAA Mar 2025 #5
Thank you. COL Mustard Mar 2025 #10
Long term work friends are a special category. when you spend 9-10 hours a day for all those years and understand MLAA Mar 2025 #24
Deepest condolences to you and your friend. SheltieLover Mar 2025 #11
Thank you COL Mustard Mar 2025 #13
Seems like he has canetoad Mar 2025 #12
Thank you. COL Mustard Mar 2025 #14
So sorry for the loss sdfernando Mar 2025 #15
Thank you COL Mustard Mar 2025 #20
How sad for all of you, may she rest in peace. SheilaAnn Mar 2025 #16
Thank you COL Mustard Mar 2025 #21
Terrible, so sad... Meowmee Mar 2025 #17
May your friend's wife Rest in Peace and May her Memory be a Blessing. n/t iluvtennis Mar 2025 #18
He still has your friendship. calimary Mar 2025 #19
Thank you. COL Mustard Mar 2025 #25
Your friend's wife Clouds Passing Mar 2025 #22
Sad news. But we here know you will be there for your friend and that will mean more to him than you can know Attilatheblond Mar 2025 #23

Deuxcents

(25,219 posts)
2. I feel bad for this sad news. My good friend's husband died in his sleep from a stroke 2 weeks ago
Sun Mar 30, 2025, 04:06 PM
Mar 2025

All I can say is the loss is easier knowing they were peaceful passings and no more suffering 🌺

COL Mustard

(7,910 posts)
7. Thank you.
Sun Mar 30, 2025, 04:41 PM
Mar 2025

I'm not Jewish, but will help them sit shiva if needed. It's the least I can do for a minyan.

TexasBushwhacker

(21,084 posts)
3. I'm so sorry
Sun Mar 30, 2025, 04:11 PM
Mar 2025

But she lived long enough to meet her first grandchild. That's probably what kept her going.

COL Mustard

(7,910 posts)
10. Thank you.
Sun Mar 30, 2025, 04:43 PM
Mar 2025

I worked with him for almost 20 years. Hard to believe. We spent almost every day in adjacent cubicles, and you really get to know someone with that much together time.

MLAA

(19,647 posts)
24. Long term work friends are a special category. when you spend 9-10 hours a day for all those years and understand
Sun Mar 30, 2025, 06:49 PM
Mar 2025

each other and support each other it forms a very special bond.

sdfernando

(5,991 posts)
15. So sorry for the loss
Sun Mar 30, 2025, 05:58 PM
Mar 2025

You're friend and his family must be devastated. Your support and love is just what they need right now

calimary

(88,755 posts)
19. He still has your friendship.
Sun Mar 30, 2025, 06:25 PM
Mar 2025

Real friends show up, especially in troubled times. I’m glad
you’re there for him.

COL Mustard

(7,910 posts)
25. Thank you.
Sun Mar 30, 2025, 07:35 PM
Mar 2025

It's heartbreaking for my friend. I will, of course, support him and his family however I can.

Attilatheblond

(8,088 posts)
23. Sad news. But we here know you will be there for your friend and that will mean more to him than you can know
Sun Mar 30, 2025, 06:48 PM
Mar 2025

A few months from now, after the numb wears off, he will need your friendship more than ever. No doubt in my mind you will be there for him, after others have moved on and the depth of his loss really starts to kick in.

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