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Staph

(6,467 posts)
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 06:19 AM Apr 2025

Did I see this correctly? He wore a blue suit to the funeral?

I'm just a hillbilly from West Virginia, but I know that you wear black to a funeral. It's almost as if he didn't care. /sarcasm.


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Did I see this correctly? He wore a blue suit to the funeral? (Original Post) Staph Apr 2025 OP
Yes he did. Probably to "stand out" purposely... hlthe2b Apr 2025 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author BeerBarrelPolka Apr 2025 #2
Wow, you can tell he's deeply moved . . . hatrack Apr 2025 #5
Time for more Botox and plastic surgery. Trump looks like he's asleep. Lonestarblue Apr 2025 #27
Odd man out Historic NY Apr 2025 #33
The guy seated to Trump's right... GiqueCee Apr 2025 #36
"a vacuum" Dave Bowman Apr 2025 #42
I think perhaps... GiqueCee Apr 2025 #46
Dang, they both look like they're asleep. dhol82 Apr 2025 #37
Anger, sadness, BonnieJW Apr 2025 #38
My first thought too. Dulcinea Apr 2025 #52
I said all the way back in 2015, Histrionic Personality Disorder is a BIG part Maru Kitteh Apr 2025 #62
Yes BeerBarrelPolka Apr 2025 #3
Apparently a dark blue suit (or dress for women) is considered an appropriate alternative now... hlthe2b Apr 2025 #4
Post removed Post removed Apr 2025 #7
Not that I'm a fashion critic, Haggard Celine Apr 2025 #30
Biden could have been honoring the Pope's devotion to the Blessed Mother. Irish_Dem Apr 2025 #10
I BeerBarrelPolka Apr 2025 #11
Francis was a big Blessed Mother person. Irish_Dem Apr 2025 #19
He is a Jesuit, not a Marion. But, yes, he has chosen to be buried in a Marion Basilica... hlthe2b Apr 2025 #13
Jesuit priests can be devoted to the Blessed Mother. Irish_Dem Apr 2025 #20
Certainly one who served so many decades in Latin America would hold special devotion to Mary... hlthe2b Apr 2025 #40
A-hole SOBs have no business being connected to the BM. Irish_Dem Apr 2025 #48
Noticed 3auld6phart Apr 2025 #47
Really? RandomNumbers Apr 2025 #57
Biden and Prince William wore dark blue suits obamanut2012 Apr 2025 #58
Check out comment 57. Scroll down inthe link yorkster Apr 2025 #59
Navy blue is appropriate for a funeral. Irish_Dem Apr 2025 #6
Not BeerBarrelPolka Apr 2025 #9
Look it up on the internet. Irish_Dem Apr 2025 #12
I BeerBarrelPolka Apr 2025 #17
Yes I figured you must be an Italian Catholic. Irish_Dem Apr 2025 #21
Many BeerBarrelPolka Apr 2025 #22
Yes exactly. Not really religious but cultural Catholics. Irish_Dem Apr 2025 #23
Navy blue is considered ok Meowmee Apr 2025 #8
I wore Rebl2 Apr 2025 #16
Sounds beautiful 😀 and a great way to honor her Meowmee Apr 2025 #18
I wore a white top that my mother loved. tavernier Apr 2025 #44
I'm thankful (and surprised) he's not wearing a "Trump 2028" cap. (nt) Paladin Apr 2025 #14
He probably had a black MAGA hat in his pocket, in case it was windy. JustABozoOnThisBus Apr 2025 #25
Maybe he is pretending to be a Democrat. GreenWave Apr 2025 #15
"..dress code required by Vatican-men required to wear dark suit & tie but Trump wore BLUE...... riversedge Apr 2025 #24
Biden and the Prince William (representing the King), both wore blue suits (Biden's was darker) Celerity Apr 2025 #54
Yes he did Historic NY Apr 2025 #26
He gets his suits from wardrobe.... Hope22 Apr 2025 #28
Did he wear his red MAGA hat? It wouldn't surprise me. Vinca Apr 2025 #29
Let's describe Navy Blue as compared to other blues. taxi Apr 2025 #31
Trump is an asshole LetMyPeopleVote Apr 2025 #32
Give him credit - at least he didn't wear his red MAGA tie. TheRickles Apr 2025 #34
I think he just has the one suit. Aristus Apr 2025 #35
"tailored by a three-toed sloth on Thorazine" littlemissmartypants Apr 2025 #43
Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2025 #49
Speaking of tools..... Carlitos Brigante Apr 2025 #51
The last funeral I attended was my Mom's. Xavier Breath Apr 2025 #39
I agree. I see people at funeral homes and church wearing jeans and a doc03 Apr 2025 #50
Last year my husband and I went to his sister's funeral out-of-state Diamond_Dog Apr 2025 #56
Can't be the center of attention if he's dressed like everybody else. Kid Berwyn Apr 2025 #41
Not wearing black outside of the immediate family has been accepted for years. mucholderthandirt Apr 2025 #45
Of all the things there are to criticize Trump about, this is not one of them. nt Gore1FL Apr 2025 #53
This is silly. Ms. Toad Apr 2025 #55
New "Action" figure LetMyPeopleVote Apr 2025 #60
re: blue suits TnDem Apr 2025 #61
Black suit is not required jcboon Apr 2025 #63

hlthe2b

(114,015 posts)
1. Yes he did. Probably to "stand out" purposely...
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 06:25 AM
Apr 2025

I'd say once a pig, always a pig, but pigs are actually highly intelligent beings and show compassion for others... so I won't).

The photo won't embed but worth a click:

https://dims.apnews.com/dims4/default/34aec24/2147483647/strip/true/crop/5869x3912+0+0/resize/2880x1920!/format/webp/quality/90/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fassets.apnews.com%2F96%2F0c%2F4134d4079ab46ea9bee3c9393ea7%2Ffa6617d8a0004b6495aa8f27626311ec


BTW, click on it to enlarge and look at Melania close up. Wow, has she aged (snarky, but true)...

Response to hlthe2b (Reply #1)

Lonestarblue

(13,488 posts)
27. Time for more Botox and plastic surgery. Trump looks like he's asleep.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 07:46 AM
Apr 2025

The guy to Trump’s right seems to be looking at him as if he is a gate crasher he’d like to kick out.

GiqueCee

(4,304 posts)
36. The guy seated to Trump's right...
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 08:39 AM
Apr 2025

... is glaring at him and almost certainly thinking, "What the fuck is the matter with you?!!?"
The Orange Shitgibbon is a complete vacuum where others have a sense of decorum. He is utterly devoid of even a nanoparticle of class.

GiqueCee

(4,304 posts)
46. I think perhaps...
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 09:26 AM
Apr 2025

... a certain part of him is already a black hole. Those within his orbit are inexorably drawn closer and closer to the event horizon from which there is no escape, save through self-immolation. The My Pillow guy's agonizing demise is a case in point. And he is an unrepentant clown to the very end, still believing that his tainted idol will somehow rescue him from his own staggering stupidity.
Guess again, Mikey.

dhol82

(9,650 posts)
37. Dang, they both look like they're asleep.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 08:53 AM
Apr 2025

And you’re right - Melanie is not looking good.

BonnieJW

(3,124 posts)
38. Anger, sadness,
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 08:59 AM
Apr 2025

And despair don't do anything good to a face. Her quest for more and more money has trapped her into a fake relationship with a beast.

Dulcinea

(10,114 posts)
52. My first thought too.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 10:11 AM
Apr 2025

He just HAS to be noticed by any means necessary, even at a funeral. What a tacky rube.

Maru Kitteh

(31,790 posts)
62. I said all the way back in 2015, Histrionic Personality Disorder is a BIG part
Sun Apr 27, 2025, 06:58 PM
Apr 2025

of the ugly list of disorders and illnesses he would almost surely be diagnosed with.


hlthe2b

(114,015 posts)
4. Apparently a dark blue suit (or dress for women) is considered an appropriate alternative now...
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 06:34 AM
Apr 2025

(I looked it up)... go figure. I still would have worn black and consider blue less respectful, but I'm "old school."

Response to hlthe2b (Reply #4)

Haggard Celine

(17,834 posts)
30. Not that I'm a fashion critic,
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 07:54 AM
Apr 2025

but I read years ago that navy blue is an alternative to black. The man who wrote the book (Mr. Blackwell) said that true black can look green in the light.

Irish_Dem

(81,426 posts)
10. Biden could have been honoring the Pope's devotion to the Blessed Mother.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 06:39 AM
Apr 2025

Her color is blue.

I would have done the same if attending the mass.
Worn blue for the Blessed Mother.

Pope Francis is being buried in a Marian Basilica, his personal choice.

Irish_Dem

(81,426 posts)
19. Francis was a big Blessed Mother person.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 06:58 AM
Apr 2025

It is reported that that the Pope said that the Virgin Mary came to him in prayer and directed
him to be buried in a Marian Basilica. Not in the typical Vatican burial site.

hlthe2b

(114,015 posts)
13. He is a Jesuit, not a Marion. But, yes, he has chosen to be buried in a Marion Basilica...
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 06:49 AM
Apr 2025

Regardless, as you say, dark blue is considered appropriate. (and thankfully, the moron, Trump did not wear a red tie).

Irish_Dem

(81,426 posts)
20. Jesuit priests can be devoted to the Blessed Mother.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 07:00 AM
Apr 2025

One has nothing to do with the other.

There is no prohibition whatsoever about this.

hlthe2b

(114,015 posts)
40. Certainly one who served so many decades in Latin America would hold special devotion to Mary...
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 09:07 AM
Apr 2025

I was referencing the official (and only partial) acceptance of Marion sacramentals.

There is a Cardinal (Hungarian) who is Marion and in contention for Pope, from what I've read. Unfortunately, he seems to be an extremist conservative (and in my mind, an a-hole). So clearly, adoption of Mary does not always transfer to a more accepting philosophy:

Cardinal Peter Erdo:

Erdo, 72, is a former President of the Council of Bishops Conferences of Europe - a group of 33 leading Bishops from the continent.

The Hungarian is a devout Marian, which means he directs his religious practices towards Mary, mother of Jesus.

He is known for being a Conservative voice within the Church, and is against divorced or remarried Catholics partaking in Holy Communion. He has made some controversial claims in his time, including likening taking in refugees to human trafficking.

The distinguished cardinal is fluent in Hungarian, English, Italian, French and Latin.Erdo, 72, is a former President of the Council of Bishops Conferences of Europe - a group of 33 leading Bishops from the continent.

The Hungarian is a devout Marian, which means he directs his religious practices towards Mary, mother of Jesus.


Irish_Dem

(81,426 posts)
48. A-hole SOBs have no business being connected to the BM.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 09:44 AM
Apr 2025

But yes there is no guarantee being a Marian means someone is good.

I hope the BM puts the whammy on him. Soon.

RandomNumbers

(19,167 posts)
57. Really?
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 10:44 AM
Apr 2025

Many wore dark blue. Trump's is slightly brighter, but that said, not really something anyone should make an issue of, IMO. (But THAT said, the other side makes issues of stupid things all the time.)

Biden is sitting 4 rows behind Trump. Doesn't exactly stand out as "blue" to me. A lot of photos here:
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c5y6rg6wpvgo

Down the page a ways, it shows the Bidens up close. His suit does NOT look blue to me - unless it is a very deep blue-black. In comparison to Trump it certainly is not as bright. So for anyone who thinks this is an issue at all, it's really not a both-sides thing.

Also note the many others wearing not-black garb.

obamanut2012

(29,373 posts)
58. Biden and Prince William wore dark blue suits
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 10:59 AM
Apr 2025

Which are fine.

Bright blue is not appropriate.

yorkster

(3,848 posts)
59. Check out comment 57. Scroll down inthe link
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 12:24 PM
Apr 2025

and there's a picture of Joe Biden. If it is blue, it is very dark navy blue. Not Trump's blue, which is definitely brighter.
And time marches on. Black is my default color for a funeral, but I see navy as well.

BeerBarrelPolka

(2,173 posts)
9. Not
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 06:39 AM
Apr 2025

Not where I come from. Black only. And if you were extremely close (family/close friends), women wore veils.

Irish_Dem

(81,426 posts)
12. Look it up on the internet.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 06:49 AM
Apr 2025

Local customs often do not mirror international norms.
Navy blue is acceptable as a color worn to funerals.

Women did not were veils when I was attending Catholic church.
But I was either going to mass in farm country or on military bases.
These kind of women did not have the income or inclination for
for fanciful attire.

I also think given the Pope's devotion to the Blessed Mother, blue is a good color
to wear to the funeral. I would have worn blue to honor her and the Pope's love for her.

BeerBarrelPolka

(2,173 posts)
17. I
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 06:52 AM
Apr 2025

I guess it's because I'm Italian. Italians always wear black for funerals. That's what I'm used to in church. I figured the Vatican of all places would be appropriate to wear black. But whatever I guess.

Irish_Dem

(81,426 posts)
21. Yes I figured you must be an Italian Catholic.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 07:04 AM
Apr 2025

I come from the opposite side of the Catholic spectrum.
Practical, low key, not flashy, simple and spare attire.

BeerBarrelPolka

(2,173 posts)
22. Many
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 07:08 AM
Apr 2025

Many of my friends in Chicago are from Ireland. Great people with great stories to tell. None of them are really religious, although they are/were Catholic.

Irish_Dem

(81,426 posts)
23. Yes exactly. Not really religious but cultural Catholics.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 07:24 AM
Apr 2025

We did all the usual practices, Sunday mass, celebrating the holidays, not eating meat on Fridays.
Identified as Catholic of course. Had priests and nuns in the family.

But no one talked about religion. Even the family priests and nuns.
When they came to visit they took the habit or collar off and were just regular people.
We tried not to cuss too much in front of our aunt the nun.

She never ever talked about God or religion. We respected her a great deal but
she was just our aunt not a nun. She was not a nun by her own choice.
In Irish families the youngest female in the family is sent to the convent at age 11.
Youngest boy goes to the seminary at a young age.

We didn't carry on about religion outside of church.
Didn't get all wrapped up in dogma or religion.
Didn't study the bible or even mention it.
We did not get all dolled up to go to mass, never over the top.

We saw the Italian and Mexican versions of Catholicism as quite unusual
and foreign to us. Like they had gone off the deep end with all of it.

Meowmee

(9,212 posts)
8. Navy blue is considered ok
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 06:38 AM
Apr 2025

I think most people wear darker colors like black/ blue. etc. but not always now for regular funerals.

Rebl2

(17,756 posts)
16. I wore
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 06:52 AM
Apr 2025

black slacks with a pretty floral top to my mother’s funeral. It was a blouse she gave me a very long time ago and it still fits. I really liked this blouse, but rarely wore it, so it was still in good shape. My Mom loved gardening and especially flowers.
As far as wearing blue to a regular funeral, I see no problem in doing that.

Meowmee

(9,212 posts)
18. Sounds beautiful 😀 and a great way to honor her
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 06:56 AM
Apr 2025

My mother’s funeral was so long ago I can’t remember what I wore now. Something dark etc. But I have seen lots of brighter colors at funerals too, at least on tv etc. I haven’t been to many in person. I think I wore some jewelry she gave me.

tavernier

(14,447 posts)
44. I wore a white top that my mother loved.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 09:16 AM
Apr 2025

She told me I shouldn’t wear black because she didn’t like it on me. I’m very fair skinned and black washes me out.
As far as rump is concerned, I don’t think it really matters what he wore. I just think it was in bad taste for him to attend. He has no respect for people who want to make the world a better place by following the words of Christ. He only goes for show and the attention.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(24,687 posts)
25. He probably had a black MAGA hat in his pocket, in case it was windy.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 07:41 AM
Apr 2025

Hate to mess up that fine do, it just wouldn't be presidential.

Elon could lend him some black MAGA hats.

riversedge

(80,872 posts)
24. "..dress code required by Vatican-men required to wear dark suit & tie but Trump wore BLUE......
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 07:31 AM
Apr 2025


Molly Ploofkins
@Mollyploofkins
According to the dress code required by Vatican officials for Pope Francis' funeral, men were required to wear a dark suit, along with a long black tie. Trump shows up in blue.







Celerity

(54,457 posts)
54. Biden and the Prince William (representing the King), both wore blue suits (Biden's was darker)
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 10:20 AM
Apr 2025


Hope22

(4,767 posts)
28. He gets his suits from wardrobe....
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 07:49 AM
Apr 2025

All costumes for this horror show are blue. Looks like he was double bagged today. I’m sorry but his behind really had a bulge.

taxi

(2,716 posts)
31. Let's describe Navy Blue as compared to other blues.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 08:05 AM
Apr 2025

Blue, and Navy Blue are very different. Of course Trump never takes good advice.

Navy Blue: The darkest of the blue suit family, navy often appears almost black in certain lighting. True navy has deep blue undertones and creates a formal, sophisticated appearance. Navy suits typically contain little to no bright blue pigment, making them understated and classic...

Royal Blue: Sitting in the middle of the spectrum, royal blue offers vibrant, medium-to-bright blue coloring. This shade is impossible to mistake for black and makes a more noticeable statement. Royal blue suits contain significant amounts of pure blue pigment, creating that eye-catching quality...

Light Blue: At the brightest end, light blue suits encompass pale blue, sky blue, and powder blue variations. These suits have significant white mixed with blue pigment, creating a soft, less saturated appearance. Light blue suits project a modern, seasonal vibe.


https://theblacktux.com/blogs/guides/blue-suit-guide-navy-royal-light-comparison

Aristus

(72,229 posts)
35. I think he just has the one suit.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 08:37 AM
Apr 2025

Cheap-looking, badly-fitted, looking like it was tailored by a three-toed sloth on Thorazine. It doesn’t surprise me that his tailor is so incompetent. Trump doesn’t want anyone around him who is skilled, competent, thorough, or who in any way excels at anything.

Response to Aristus (Reply #35)

Xavier Breath

(6,646 posts)
39. The last funeral I attended was my Mom's.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 09:07 AM
Apr 2025

I was the only person attending, apart from the funeral home staff, that wore a suite and tie. Most men wore dress shirts and slacks, with maybe a sport coat here and there, but some in fact wore jeans. It was just as casual for the women. I honestly didn't care, and if anyone in attendance deserved to be offended by causal attire, it was me. Granted, one would be expected to step up their game for a papal funeral, but it sounds like Biden also wore blue, so I don't see an issue.


doc03

(39,091 posts)
50. I agree. I see people at funeral homes and church wearing jeans and a
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 10:00 AM
Apr 2025

T-shirt. The Vatican said a dark suit navy blue is a dark color. When I was a child, we had to get up
early and dress up to go to church every Sunday. That is one reason I haven't gone to church in
about 60 years. You can wear jeans and a T-shirt and be a better Christian than 99% of the people that
attend church. I see these evangelicals in a restaurant praying while waving their hands in the air
and then they vote for a convicted felon. There are hundreds of reasons to disagree with what Trump
does, I couldn't care less what he wears to a funeral as long as it is not a MAGA hat.

Diamond_Dog

(40,628 posts)
56. Last year my husband and I went to his sister's funeral out-of-state
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 10:34 AM
Apr 2025

Family had messaged everyone in advance that she had requested that everyone wear Hawaiian shirts or brightly flowered clothing to her funeral because she always loved being at the beach and she didn’t want a funeral full of people wearing boring dark clothes. It was kind of neat, really.

Kid Berwyn

(24,438 posts)
41. Can't be the center of attention if he's dressed like everybody else.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 09:08 AM
Apr 2025

Trump is special, Royal almost, like a superzero or something.



From Lucian Truscott IV:

There is only one good thing about what Trump has done over the last two days. One of the readers of this column, Reed Bonadonna, put it better than I could in his comment today, which I will quote in full:

“As a military type, I feel a sense of excitement that the enemy has declared itself, looming like a hideous, toupéed Pantagruel. This, I begin to wondering see, is the battle for which we have always been preparing ourselves.”

Continues…

https://luciantruscott.substack.com/p/the-american-pantagruel-has-declared

mucholderthandirt

(1,787 posts)
45. Not wearing black outside of the immediate family has been accepted for years.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 09:19 AM
Apr 2025

Decent, dark clothing is acceptable. Unless there are dress requirements at the site of the funeral/burial, such as with this one, apparently. Men were requested to wear dark suit and tie, and that should have been followed. If women had been required to wear a veil, or otherwise appear in appropriate attire, they should have followed that request.

Some people, no matter how much money or power they have, are simply uncouth and not suited for proper civilized society.

Ms. Toad

(38,663 posts)
55. This is silly.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 10:24 AM
Apr 2025

Not to mention that many men there wore navy suits (including Prince William), and many men wore ties other than black (including Joe Biden). And, what, no comment on Zelinsky's non-suit?

I can't imagine this particular Pope caring.

jcboon

(348 posts)
63. Black suit is not required
Sun Apr 27, 2025, 07:04 PM
Apr 2025

Back in the day, black suits were worn only by funeral directors and after 6 p.m. "Gentlemen" wore charcoal gray or dark navy blue.

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