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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsThe doctor was just in with our mom.
He has said that within possibly 24 hours. She had a rough night from what my sister told us, but they kept her sedated. Her breathing is very shallow.
Im going to sign off for awhile. Ill be back in a few days. Everyone please take care and we will talk soon. Thank you for being here for me.
mwmisses4289
(2,943 posts)Walleye
(43,516 posts)CousinIT
(12,097 posts)Wishing both of you peace and strength and if she goes, that she goes peacefully, painlessly and surrounded by love.
SARose
(1,822 posts)This is a terrible time, I know.
Take all the time you need. Hugs to you and your family.
Diamond_Dog
(39,475 posts)KarenS
(5,050 posts)samnsara
(18,701 posts)underpants
(194,281 posts)vishnura
(352 posts)bleedingulcers
(78 posts)and I feel your pain and confusion through my computer. I just hope you can feel the love and support that I'm sending back to you...
calimary
(88,695 posts)Ive been through this too.
My heart goes out straight to you at this extraordinarily difficult time, imanamerican63.
Well keep a vigil with you, and well be here to listen and to comfort when you need it. You wont go through this alone.
malaise
(291,698 posts)Oopsie Daisy
(6,670 posts)I told her that she was safe... that she was loved and surrounded by family. I reminded her that she had a good life and that she had reached the end of the journey and it was time to let go. I told her that we loved her very much, and that we would miss her... BUT that we would be okay, and that she would be okay.
I don't know if she heard me. Maybe. Maybe not. --- But I do know that she died just a few hours later.
Sending peace and strength to you and your family.
LoisB
(12,158 posts)Deep State Witch
(12,497 posts)Be swift and painless.
Beacool
(30,499 posts)It's never easy to lose a parent, no matter their age or ours. May your mom's passing be a painless and peaceful one.
patphil
(8,588 posts)There was about 7 or 8 of us around her bed. We were all talking with each other, when, at the same moment, we all stopped and looked at our mother/grandmother.
It was evident she had just breathed out her last; her soul returned home.
It's hard; emotions got very intense, but we knew it was for the best.
She suffered a long time with terminal cancer, and there was no hope except for an end where we were all there to see her on her way.
And we did.
It is my fervent hope that love carries you through this difficult time.
gademocrat7
(11,762 posts)and support during this difficult time. Take care.
littlemissmartypants
(31,066 posts)niyad
(129,001 posts)haele
(14,962 posts)When my father was unresponsive in hospice, I sang twinkle twinkle little star to him, and told him he was the best dad, that he had done a great job throughout life making the world a better place, and he could go, he didn't have to worry about us or mom.
It hurt then, and I still miss him, but wasn't fair to him to linger trapped in a body - or he may have already been part of the stars by the time they put his physical form to the hospice wing.
Hugs to you.
Karadeniz
(24,710 posts)wendyb-NC
(4,559 posts)I lift you all up in prayer . May healing light shine upon you.
MuseRider
(35,070 posts)I have done this with my mother, father and my 2 brothers. You will never regret the time you spend now. Take all the time you need. You will feel fine then crash from time to time. We will understand. Warm hugs to you and your family. It is a hard trip for you but a gentle release for your mother.
Clouds Passing
(6,725 posts)SheltieLover
(75,585 posts)If it's her time, may she cross gently...
democrank
(12,026 posts)Take good care~
ProudMNDemocrat
(20,459 posts)Hang in there the best you can. For I am going through similar.
sueh
(1,932 posts)evemac
(256 posts)Festivito
(13,825 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(14,246 posts)Please take care of yourself.
Trueblue Texan
(4,099 posts)Peace and healing to you all, whatever may come.
OldBaldy1701E
(9,780 posts)Raine
(31,051 posts)SocialDemocrat61
(6,575 posts)😥