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CTyankee

(68,173 posts)
Wed Jul 2, 2025, 04:40 PM Jul 2025

When they say "abortion is not the only issue," what do you say?

It is infuriating to have a political discussion with these people. What do you say to them, without a full diatribe or just going silent?

I'm thinking it's not worth my time, but I'd be interested in what other DUers have to say.

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When they say "abortion is not the only issue," what do you say? (Original Post) CTyankee Jul 2025 OP
Context? Or are you saying that everyone should think "abortion is the only issue" muriel_volestrangler Jul 2025 #1
When I mention abortion rights being at the top of my political agenda, along with other issues of great concern. CTyankee Jul 2025 #3
OK; that means you also think abortion is not the only issue muriel_volestrangler Jul 2025 #6
? Skittles Jul 2025 #2
Of course, you are right but often just the word "abortion" gets this response. As if you think that. CTyankee Jul 2025 #4
I have not heard that Skittles Jul 2025 #5
Yeah but they keep their bigotry on the DL unweird Jul 2025 #7
NONE of them give a DAMN about babies, born or unborn Skittles Jul 2025 #8
Agreed unweird Jul 2025 #9
I believe them. carpetbagger Jul 2025 #11
It's the only issue you are avoiding. Now. BOSSHOG Jul 2025 #10
It's not the only issue but Freddie Jul 2025 #12
You say, "Sure it is." Jirel Jul 2025 #13
It is for most of my Trump-voting family. maxsolomon Jul 2025 #14

muriel_volestrangler

(106,165 posts)
1. Context? Or are you saying that everyone should think "abortion is the only issue"
Wed Jul 2, 2025, 04:42 PM
Jul 2025

and you're infuriated that anyone could disagree? ie, does "these people" mean "anyone who think there are issues other than abortion", or does "these people" mean a different group?

CTyankee

(68,173 posts)
3. When I mention abortion rights being at the top of my political agenda, along with other issues of great concern.
Wed Jul 2, 2025, 04:48 PM
Jul 2025

Somehow, abortion rights are considered of lesser importance than foreign policy, or education issues, or the economy. Especially the economy. Which is why I frame abortion rights as an economic issue but it seems that the word "abortion" is somehow a discussion ender.

muriel_volestrangler

(106,165 posts)
6. OK; that means you also think abortion is not the only issue
Wed Jul 2, 2025, 04:55 PM
Jul 2025

Your order of importance differs. It doesn't seem surprising that someone could think that other issues rank above abortion (eg Trump's attempt to get king-like power, and the Supreme Court going along with it).

Skittles

(171,645 posts)
2. ?
Wed Jul 2, 2025, 04:48 PM
Jul 2025

it ISN'T the only issue

they're not just anti-women, they are anti-POC, anti-LGBTQ, anti-vaccine, anti-science, anti-any human fucking decency, etc

CTyankee

(68,173 posts)
4. Of course, you are right but often just the word "abortion" gets this response. As if you think that.
Wed Jul 2, 2025, 04:50 PM
Jul 2025

Can you imagine saying "the economy isn't the only issue." Of course it's not! But abortion gets treated as a lesser consideration. And of course abortion IS an economic issue also! But somehow that doesn't register with these people...

Skittles

(171,645 posts)
5. I have not heard that
Wed Jul 2, 2025, 04:52 PM
Jul 2025

I HAVE heard that supposedly abortion is a SINGLE issue for some repuke voters but I don't believe that, they're just garden-variety bigots

unweird

(3,295 posts)
7. Yeah but they keep their bigotry on the DL
Wed Jul 2, 2025, 04:56 PM
Jul 2025

They can profess their love for the unborn innocent little wannabe baby all the while ignoring their inherent bigotry. At least that is my experience in dealing with the fetal fetishists in my family.

Skittles

(171,645 posts)
8. NONE of them give a DAMN about babies, born or unborn
Wed Jul 2, 2025, 05:00 PM
Jul 2025

if they DID they would support easy access to birth control, food assistance for needy families, low cost day care, etc. but THEY DON'T

they're absolute fucking sanctimonious HYPOCRITES

unweird

(3,295 posts)
9. Agreed
Wed Jul 2, 2025, 05:04 PM
Jul 2025

But they use that smarmy concern for the unborn all the time. The ones I am familiar with are chickenshit cowards with too many guns and ignorance on a scale last seen in fourth grade.

carpetbagger

(5,484 posts)
11. I believe them.
Wed Jul 2, 2025, 05:08 PM
Jul 2025

They know they're evil. But they cloak every morally bad act with the excuse of opposition to abortion. It lets them partition the worthy and unworthy poor at the first breath.

For sure, they'd pay for their sister's abortion. But sanctimony on the issue allows the cruelty without the influence of moral distress

BOSSHOG

(44,738 posts)
10. It's the only issue you are avoiding. Now.
Wed Jul 2, 2025, 05:04 PM
Jul 2025

If I change the subject to another then you’ll state that is not the only issue.

Trump loves you. Is that your only issue?

I’m not talking at you CTyankee, just trying to lend a hand.

Freddie

(10,104 posts)
12. It's not the only issue but
Wed Jul 2, 2025, 05:11 PM
Jul 2025

I don’t care if the candidate checks off ALL the other boxes, if they’re pro-forced-birth, it’s a no.

Jirel

(2,369 posts)
13. You say, "Sure it is."
Wed Jul 2, 2025, 05:22 PM
Jul 2025

It means bodily autonomy and personhood for 50% of the population. That’s enough to be an “only issue.”

maxsolomon

(38,694 posts)
14. It is for most of my Trump-voting family.
Wed Jul 2, 2025, 06:10 PM
Jul 2025

The ones that attend Mass weekly and hear anti-choice rhetoric from celibates. That is their foremost issue.

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