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sinkingfeeling

(58,050 posts)
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 07:52 PM Jul 2025

I'm about 36 hours away from leaving America and it's been a rough week. Today, I finally spoke up to a MAGA.

We were having lunch in an Arby's and talking about that guy who moved his family to Russia to escape the "woke". A strange man was walking by and overheard our conversation and decided to comment. He declared, "Yeah, I get it. I moved from New York (to blue state, Illinois?) because it was too woke."
I shot back, "Well, I'm moving out of the country because I'd rather be woke than support fascism."

Wish I'd told him he was in the wrong state and needs to try Oklahoma.

I've been so stressed, sad, scared, and angry this week, I keep telling my son I just hope to get on the plane Friday before I kill one of my fellow Americans!

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I'm about 36 hours away from leaving America and it's been a rough week. Today, I finally spoke up to a MAGA. (Original Post) sinkingfeeling Jul 2025 OP
Sorry you had to deal with that berniesandersmittens Jul 2025 #1
I feel like Democrats have been way too nice and letting them think they were right all along because we didnt flying_wahini Jul 2025 #2
I agree 100%. LoisB Jul 2025 #7
Listen to some sounds advice from someone who died malaise Jul 2025 #3
So sad. Joinfortmill Jul 2025 #18
What a jerk! Just butts in our your conversation so good on you for speaking up. Deuxcents Jul 2025 #4
Safe travels! MLAA Jul 2025 #5
If you don't mind me asking, to where are you moving? Xavier Breath Jul 2025 #6
Arenal, Costa Rica. Bought the house in February. sinkingfeeling Jul 2025 #9
Pretty sure there are other DUers there. milestogo Jul 2025 #10
Yes, there are. sinkingfeeling Jul 2025 #11
Enjoy it. Xavier Breath Jul 2025 #12
From what I've been told Costa Rica has very moderate temps erronis Jul 2025 #14
Meh, I don't speak the language, I know zero people there, and jungles are full of things trying to kill you. Xavier Breath Jul 2025 #20
Best of luck in your new adventure! Fiendish Thingy Jul 2025 #8
Where in BC did you end up? Farmgirl1961 Jul 2025 #13
I'd love to live on Vancouver Island - perhaps more northerly. erronis Jul 2025 #15
What are the odds!.. wait till he gets a Cha Jul 2025 #16
Wishing you well. Joinfortmill Jul 2025 #17
I would have asked him if he popsdenver Jul 2025 #19
God Speed Sinkingfeeling JMCKUSICK Jul 2025 #21
Go well. 👍 electric_blue68 Jul 2025 #22
hugggggs, and wishiing you all the very best in this next chapter niyad Jul 2025 #23

berniesandersmittens

(13,211 posts)
1. Sorry you had to deal with that
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 07:56 PM
Jul 2025

And thank you for speaking up. It's going to take all of us to "unbite" our tongues and speak out. May your journey to your next home be safe and magat free

flying_wahini

(8,281 posts)
2. I feel like Democrats have been way too nice and letting them think they were right all along because we didnt
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 07:58 PM
Jul 2025

fight back
Ike they do.

Just my opinion.

erronis

(24,551 posts)
14. From what I've been told Costa Rica has very moderate temps
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 08:56 PM
Jul 2025

Close to the sea and the climate in the mountains inland is supposed to be great.

The American mid-west (Ohio, etc.) is going to be a real melting pot - or dust bowl. The temp swings will get worse as the climate changes. Of course with this regime we won't be told about this.

Xavier Breath

(6,681 posts)
20. Meh, I don't speak the language, I know zero people there, and jungles are full of things trying to kill you.
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 10:05 PM
Jul 2025

But, if those aren't issues for someone, more power to them I say.

If I had the means, I could come up with places I'd enjoy much more. But, alas, it's the "dustbowl" for me.

Fiendish Thingy

(24,115 posts)
8. Best of luck in your new adventure!
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 08:15 PM
Jul 2025

Where are you headed?

We moved to BC in 2012 and haven’t regretted a single day.

Farmgirl1961

(1,665 posts)
13. Where in BC did you end up?
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 08:55 PM
Jul 2025

And more importantly how were you able to reside in BC. We've been to several towns/areas in BC and love it. We live in Oregon, at the moment a safe, blue state -- but are thinking about options in the event we feel the need to escape or leave.

erronis

(24,551 posts)
15. I'd love to live on Vancouver Island - perhaps more northerly.
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 08:59 PM
Jul 2025

Have you read "A Curve In Time". One of the most haunting books I've ever read. Recommended by a priest in a bookstore in Nanaimo when I was there the first time.

Cha

(320,646 posts)
16. What are the odds!.. wait till he gets a
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 09:21 PM
Jul 2025

Load of how WOKE JB Pritzker is

And, you did Good telling him about Fascism.

Safe Travels to your New Home in Costa Rica!

popsdenver

(2,628 posts)
19. I would have asked him if he
Wed Jul 23, 2025, 09:52 PM
Jul 2025

knew the latest on how he was treated once he got there.........money taken, and reduced to a lower class resident almost a serf or peasant.....

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