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multigraincracker

(38,083 posts)
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 05:33 AM Aug 2025

Average interest paid by Americans on credit card debt is

23.7%. Average family CC debt is $10.600.
That’s crazy. My goal is to pay zero interest. Have been pretty successful sense I retired 23 years ago. Kind of my hobby.

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Average interest paid by Americans on credit card debt is (Original Post) multigraincracker Aug 2025 OP
I've paid zero interest for 55 years. Gimpyknee Aug 2025 #1
But that shiny new phone is So Fine. speak easy Aug 2025 #2
So are groceries and medical costs obamanut2012 Aug 2025 #6
But ... TikTok! speak easy Aug 2025 #18
+1000 Johnny2X2X Aug 2025 #19
Hard to save up enough to buy a home or a car MichMan Aug 2025 #46
The trick to the car is to get ahead of the game. Happy Hoosier Aug 2025 #58
Ditto if I can't pay for it at the end of the month I won't charge on a credit card. kimbutgar Aug 2025 #51
Nope Torchlight Aug 2025 #65
I have racked up some credit card debt. Morbius Aug 2025 #3
Hey, this is a good reason to 'borrow', you're fixing your livelihood. There are some valid reasons to borrow. SWBTATTReg Aug 2025 #56
Why don't people learn?? lastlib Aug 2025 #4
What if I can't? Morbius Aug 2025 #7
Transfer the debt NJCher Aug 2025 #30
Transfer to a credit union, better deal and rates. Don't underestimate the power and leverage Hotler Aug 2025 #42
The hard (but so often true) answer... FBaggins Aug 2025 #63
Sometimes you don't have a choice. Grokenstein Aug 2025 #10
I do that whenever I can. GoCubsGo Aug 2025 #27
I'm a banker. It's not that people do not want EllieBC Aug 2025 #60
Ditto. Every account is paid down to ZERO every month. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #5
We're at that point for the 99.9% of our credit card use... SickOfTheOnePct Aug 2025 #14
Our new windows had an "interest free financing" offer which we accepted... Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #24
Exactly! SickOfTheOnePct Aug 2025 #39
What we found to be annoying (deceptive) was that the offer was "interest free for 12 months" HOWEVER* Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #44
I do those loans too. They are betting we screw up and then they tack on the interest. Captain Zero Aug 2025 #47
You, like me, are what the banks call a "deadbeat." lastlib Aug 2025 #49
I use to carry cash to pay for stuff. multigraincracker Aug 2025 #8
I am actually taking the naxt step. Norbert Aug 2025 #9
There is a great deal of judgment and sanctimony when it comes to credit cards. niyad Aug 2025 #11
I agree. No issue is black and white. multigraincracker Aug 2025 #12
That's always been the case. though. Morbius Aug 2025 #13
Any debt carrying interest over from month to month is what you pay off first, if you can. CTyankee Aug 2025 #16
If you regularly shop on Amazon, a Chase Amazon credit card can be very worthwhile. sir pball Aug 2025 #67
The voice of reason as usual, niyad! Diamond_Dog Aug 2025 #28
For sure! SheltieLover Aug 2025 #32
Thank you so much. niyad Aug 2025 #37
A very thoughtful, inclusive perspective. SheltieLover Aug 2025 #31
Absolutely, SheltieLover! Diamond_Dog Aug 2025 #35
Thx, DD SheltieLover Aug 2025 #36
Sadly true. niyad Aug 2025 #38
+1 obnoxiousdrunk Aug 2025 #41
+1 leftstreet Aug 2025 #45
There are a lot of Boomer GOP bootstrap EllieBC Aug 2025 #61
Usury is evil and needs to be stopped. Sharma Dreihund Aug 2025 #15
Agreed. Rates of 20% and over are ridiculous, and are proof that a cartel runs the credit system. TheRickles Aug 2025 #17
It used to be that way in the US also mdbl Aug 2025 #22
I remember when 7 1/2% was the law. multigraincracker Aug 2025 #25
Or the days when credit cards could only charge about 3% above prime mdbl Aug 2025 #66
I pay my CCs off every month Pototan Aug 2025 #20
Had credit cards for forty years. The only time I paid interest was a 1% deal years ago. twodogsbarking Aug 2025 #21
In 1982 I got divorced. Talking with my dad on the phone, multigraincracker Aug 2025 #23
We quit using credit cards 35 years ago after having to go to CCC when my husband lost his job. lark Aug 2025 #26
When companies started going to paperless billing I missed a few payments & got dinged with fees, CrispyQ Aug 2025 #29
I like to use their money and pay it off on the last day w/o interest. Historic NY Aug 2025 #33
We only have cards with no annual fees usedtobedemgurl Aug 2025 #34
I make it a point to pay off mine in full every month NickB79 Aug 2025 #40
Thank you for acknowledging your good fortune. I wish others could be niyad Aug 2025 #43
Last month I took my family to Denny's for dinner NickB79 Aug 2025 #57
That's Usury. It's unfair and should be illegal. MineralMan Aug 2025 #48
And that's the average Johnny2X2X Aug 2025 #52
Once upon a time I paid medical bills with a credit card. hunter Aug 2025 #50
Some people just don't get it. phylny Aug 2025 #53
Ooops! OC375 Aug 2025 #54
I'll never forget orientation for college Johnny2X2X Aug 2025 #55
Sounds like my early life. Happy Hoosier Aug 2025 #59
I pay attention to this issue a lot these last several years Johnny2X2X Aug 2025 #64
I charge every possible thing to my CC so I get miles. I pay it off every month. I also have a large amount of Raftergirl Aug 2025 #62
 

Gimpyknee

(1,025 posts)
1. I've paid zero interest for 55 years.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 06:49 AM
Aug 2025

I was taught if you cannot afford to pay for it, don’t buy it.

Johnny2X2X

(24,440 posts)
19. +1000
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 08:24 AM
Aug 2025

The only time I've ran up any credit card debt was for necessities in hard times and then for emergency surgery for our dog.

No CC debt right now and enough savings to avoid any in the near future, but none of can know what's around the corner and for millions of families the choice is pay for an emergency car repair with a credit card or lose your job, pay for groceries with a credit card or go hungry, dental issues, emergency home repairs, medical and pet care expenses, etc. Too many people have credit as their emergency fund instead of savings.

Are there people out there charging cards on fun and luxury items? Sure, but I'd bet they're easily outnumbered by people using them for bare necessities and emergencies.

Happy Hoosier

(9,632 posts)
58. The trick to the car is to get ahead of the game.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 02:41 PM
Aug 2025

I bought a decent, but not expensive used car, even though I could "afford" new car payments.

I paid off the used car quickly. I then put my "new car payment" in a high-yield savings account.

When I really needed to replace the older used car, I had enough saved to buy a pretty decent used car for cash.

That car lasted about 7 years, by which time I had enough to buy a new car for cash.

Rinse and repeat... no more car payments for me. (I admit I have a well-paying job).

Morbius

(1,119 posts)
3. I have racked up some credit card debt.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 07:03 AM
Aug 2025

I work as a courier and a dispatcher for said courier service. My car is my livelihood; if I can't drive, I can't earn. I've had to go into debt on credit cards to fix the car. I am not sure of the interest rate but it's probably close to 20%. I don't use the credit card for anything else except the monthly health insurance payment, and I always pay more than that much every month. I set that up so I would be using the card and improving my credit score.

SWBTATTReg

(26,414 posts)
56. Hey, this is a good reason to 'borrow', you're fixing your livelihood. There are some valid reasons to borrow.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 12:36 PM
Aug 2025

Now, once everyone is up to speed and have saved up enough, then no one has to 'borrow' anymore, and just use their own money, and pay themselves that interest. That's what everyone needs to get to. Get to a point when you're paying yourself!

lastlib

(28,661 posts)
4. Why don't people learn??
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 07:12 AM
Aug 2025

"Pay the damn things in FULL, EVERY month!!"

It's about using THEIR money, not yours. It baffles me that some folks don't grasp that.

Morbius

(1,119 posts)
7. What if I can't?
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 07:28 AM
Aug 2025

I've been hit with severe car repair costs. I can't pay it in full every month, much as I wish I could. I bet I'm not the only one who has credit card debt who didn't get it by living high on the hog.

NJCher

(43,568 posts)
30. Transfer the debt
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 09:12 AM
Aug 2025

To a new credit card who will give you interest free for 12 months or so.

Hotler

(13,747 posts)
42. Transfer to a credit union, better deal and rates. Don't underestimate the power and leverage
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 10:11 AM
Aug 2025

of your consumer dollar. Be well.

FBaggins

(28,765 posts)
63. The hard (but so often true) answer...
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 03:17 PM
Aug 2025

... you probably can't afford 25% interest either.

You don't have to be "living high on the hog" to be spending more than you can afford.

But no... you are far from the only one. Almost half of adults carry a balance.

Grokenstein

(6,429 posts)
10. Sometimes you don't have a choice.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 07:35 AM
Aug 2025

Five years ago I was 30K in the hole. Thankfully I have a good union, and with diligence I've just about wiped all that debt out. But a medical emergency or some other gutpunch--like, say, a collapsing economy--could undo it all. I'm already resigned to never retiring, and I avoid outrageous consumption.

So maybe the whole "just stop buying avocado toast" approach isn't appropriate here.

GoCubsGo

(35,014 posts)
27. I do that whenever I can.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 08:56 AM
Aug 2025

But, there have been stretches where that wasn't possible. Shit happens. Meanwhile, I just don't buy stuff that I don't absolutely have to have. It makes being able to pay it all off every month a bit easier. I'm still in the Bush recession, so I have had plenty of time to learn how to make do without all that stuff.

EllieBC

(3,639 posts)
60. I'm a banker. It's not that people do not want
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 03:03 PM
Aug 2025

to pay off their debt monthly. They can’t. Groceries, gas, kids activities, when things break down…for a lot of people that goes on the credit card because they don’t have the liquid cash.

Oopsie Daisy

(6,670 posts)
5. Ditto. Every account is paid down to ZERO every month.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 07:12 AM
Aug 2025

And our air-miles and hotel points continue to accumulate. One day it will be safe to travel abroad again.

SickOfTheOnePct

(8,710 posts)
14. We're at that point for the 99.9% of our credit card use...
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 08:06 AM
Aug 2025

...we have a credit that we use for everything we can, and like you, we're accumulating lots of miles for travel at some point; in the vast majority of cases, we pay it off every month.

But I also have another credit card that I haven't actually used to buy anything in years, but it has constant offer of 0% interest for 12 or 18 months for balance transfers.

A couple of years ago, we decided to put the house into "lower maintenance mode" as we age - new siding, new gutters & gutter guards, and have the vinyl coated aluminum wrap on all of the exposed wood to eliminate the need to paint. The contractor had financing offers, but the lowest offer was 7.5%.

So, we put it on our card that gets miles, paid off as much we could that month, then did a balance transfer to the other card. Yes, there was a 4% transfer fee, which I just treat like interest, but still better than we could get with a HELOC or the contractor offer. Paid it all off in 12 months, and done.

Oopsie Daisy

(6,670 posts)
24. Our new windows had an "interest free financing" offer which we accepted...
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 08:47 AM
Aug 2025

... it was through Wells Fargo with a dedicated "Window World" account. But... READ THE FINE PRINT. It was 18 months financing with 12 months interest free. If the debt was not fully paid in 12 months, the interest for the full amount would be added to the balance due starting in the 13th month.

We had it paid in full after the 10th month. Why risk it? --- "Thanks for the 10-month free loan, Wells Fargo... here's your final payment!"

SickOfTheOnePct

(8,710 posts)
39. Exactly!
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 09:40 AM
Aug 2025

We had a new roof put on a few years ago, and it was pretty much the same thing - it was 0% interest for 12 months, but if you had even a dollar left due at the end of 12 months, calculated interest at 24.99% was paid for the entire balance!

Like you, we paid it off early (about a month) just in case they tried any shenanigans, we would have time to contest it before the year was up.

Oopsie Daisy

(6,670 posts)
44. What we found to be annoying (deceptive) was that the offer was "interest free for 12 months" HOWEVER*
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 10:21 AM
Aug 2025

* the calculated "minimum amount due" would have made it an 18 month loan. This opens the door for someone who's inexperienced to fall into the trap. That's an extra $1250 that someone probably couldn't afford (or that would be better spent elsewhere.)

>> Like you, we paid it off early (about a month) just in case they tried any shenanigans, we would have time to contest it before the year was up.
Leave NO room for errors or games!

I'm sure these promotions end up getting a LOT of customers who don't understand what's going on. Whether it's because they didn't read the conditions, or because they didn't watch the deadlines carefully... I'm sure it makes a LOT of money for the lending institutions.

Captain Zero

(8,954 posts)
47. I do those loans too. They are betting we screw up and then they tack on the interest.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 10:43 AM
Aug 2025

It must be a good bet for them or they wouldn't offer those loans.
But they lose out to us.

Of course, don't they put ours on the books as a performing loan, and then some weird way they can count it as an asset if they want to.

lastlib

(28,661 posts)
49. You, like me, are what the banks call a "deadbeat."
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 11:37 AM
Aug 2025

We use THEIR money, interest-free, because we pay it in full before it's due, and they get NO interest from us. You would think a "deadbeat" was somebody who doesn't pay when it's due, but nope--it's us responsible folks.

multigraincracker

(38,083 posts)
8. I use to carry cash to pay for stuff.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 07:29 AM
Aug 2025

Now I got a credit card that pays me 2% on all of what I buy. Now buy everything with it.
I only live a 1/2 mile from the bank, so I stop in every week, pull out my card and pay off the balance. This is way before I even see or get the bill.

Norbert

(7,862 posts)
9. I am actually taking the naxt step.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 07:33 AM
Aug 2025

My SUV is scheduled to be paid in a little over 3 years. I want it paid off by Summer's end.

I have a VISA that gets paid off every month, a MC that hasn't has a balance since May and a Kohl's card that I rarely use.

I want effectively no debt bc I think the economy will come crashing down sometime soon. It's what the idiot in the Pennsylvania Ave construction zone does best.

niyad

(134,102 posts)
11. There is a great deal of judgment and sanctimony when it comes to credit cards.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 07:43 AM
Aug 2025

For some, it is an appallingly expensive addiction. For others, it can be a life-saver. I know people in both categories. I also know people who don't use credit cards, or who can't get them. And I also know the seductive and manipulative nature of our consumerist society, advertising, etc. So, perhaps lookking at the root causes might prove helpful.

multigraincracker

(38,083 posts)
12. I agree. No issue is black and white.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 07:51 AM
Aug 2025

There is time you must borrow. I’m just suggesting you be mindful of it.
I really hate the idea of the ultra rich getting richer off us poor and middle class.

Morbius

(1,119 posts)
13. That's always been the case. though.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 08:06 AM
Aug 2025

It seems to have gotten worse, but that may just be my perspective.

CTyankee

(68,511 posts)
16. Any debt carrying interest over from month to month is what you pay off first, if you can.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 08:21 AM
Aug 2025

If you can on a limited budget. I am facing the same problem. I now use a debit card but I have some cc debt and after our food and house needs, I have faced this issue by contacting some of my debt holders and working out a payment plan. My dental plan covered NOTHING of my emergency dental bill and I called my dentist and worked something out. DITTO the guy who does our taxes.

My goal is to live within my needs and here's what I did: at my age and retired: I just stopped buying new clothes when possible. Also, I don't need everything I see on Amazon but some items I can actually get cheaper there than on local store shelves. With free shipping it's even better! That is good use of your debit card and probably why they were started initially.

If you can, make paying down cc debt your goal. Cut down or just stop eating out. Plan your weekly menus in advance, using the week's special from your supermarket (we get an insert in our Thursday newspaper from our local Stop and Shop store). I am limited by an arthritic back as to how much time I can spend in the kitchen, so that is a challenge -- no complicated recipes!

The problem homeless people have is having to survive on lots of fast food. By definition, these people cannot cook up their own meals and save money that way. It is shameful that we even have homeless people, but til we get that solved, we must provide local government resources for them.

sir pball

(5,352 posts)
67. If you regularly shop on Amazon, a Chase Amazon credit card can be very worthwhile.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 09:35 PM
Aug 2025

Any purchase over $50, which is easy enough to hit if you bundle things, is interest-free for 6 months. It literally shows up as a purchase option if you have an Amazon card set as the payment method, e.g. "$10.45/mo for 6 months". It's not quite as good as just paying debit, but it does allow you to spread out the payments for a bit with no penalty.

SheltieLover

(81,819 posts)
31. A very thoughtful, inclusive perspective.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 09:13 AM
Aug 2025

As life has a way of chucking curveballs as us out of left field, sometimes one needs to use credit.

EllieBC

(3,639 posts)
61. There are a lot of Boomer GOP bootstrap
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 03:05 PM
Aug 2025

sounding comments on this thread.

Guess they just think anyone younger than 60 should just work, have no fun, but keep working to help pay for them to retire.

Sharma Dreihund

(29 posts)
15. Usury is evil and needs to be stopped.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 08:14 AM
Aug 2025

I'm going to guess that you are not a farmer or a small business owner. Not everyone can pay zero interest, and usury is evil. Citizens in Europe pay much lower interest rates on credit cards because most of the governments force the banks to charge less. Banks and their credit card rates are allowed to kill us here in the USA.

TheRickles

(3,544 posts)
17. Agreed. Rates of 20% and over are ridiculous, and are proof that a cartel runs the credit system.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 08:21 AM
Aug 2025

Otherwise there would be competition among Visa/MC/Discover to offer lower and more attractive interest rates (remember the free market?). Instead these credit card rates have been sky-high for years, regardless of what rates the Fed is setting. It's usury, plain and simple.

mdbl

(8,775 posts)
22. It used to be that way in the US also
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 08:33 AM
Aug 2025

Until people were convinced to vote for republicans who would get control and water down every consumer protection law. This has been happening for decades - little by little, every time they would gain control more laws would be changed or watered down until here we are today. At one time, anyone charging 20 % or more were considered loan sharks. Greed has won over our government and 99% of our population will continue to suffer. It only gets worse.

Pototan

(3,213 posts)
20. I pay my CCs off every month
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 08:28 AM
Aug 2025

No interest. I do have an annual fee on one of my cards that has sky miles.

No mortgage, no car payments, no loans, no interest. It certainly makes retirement less stressful.

twodogsbarking

(19,408 posts)
21. Had credit cards for forty years. The only time I paid interest was a 1% deal years ago.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 08:29 AM
Aug 2025

Find another way.

multigraincracker

(38,083 posts)
23. In 1982 I got divorced. Talking with my dad on the phone,
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 08:44 AM
Aug 2025

he asked how much
I owed on my car. He told me that after I pay it. Keep the car and make that payment to myself until I could pay for a new one. I might have a repair to make, just use the one or two of of those payments. He was the smartest person I ever knew.
In a coupe of years I had the money for a new one. Seemed like I was paying twice as much buying on credit.
That was the last car payment to bank I ever made. Thanks dad.
My next strategy was to always wait 3 days before any purchase of anything I wasn’t sure I needed. Usually after a day I forgot about it.

lark

(26,119 posts)
26. We quit using credit cards 35 years ago after having to go to CCC when my husband lost his job.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 08:55 AM
Aug 2025

We paid off over $12,000 in debts (with some discounts) and cleared everything in 4 years. We learned to only buy what we could pay for and to save for bigger purchases. We bought furniture with zero interest and paid it off in the time allotted. We're now retired with zero debt, both cars and our house are fully paid and ours. We eat out twice a week and otherwise make our own food. Growing our food is the next challenge.

CrispyQ

(41,115 posts)
29. When companies started going to paperless billing I missed a few payments & got dinged with fees,
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 09:06 AM
Aug 2025

so I set them all up to pay on my CC, & now I'm never late. I make one payment to my CC card once a month & everything is done. I carry a balance now & then but mostly use it for bills.

Historic NY

(40,139 posts)
33. I like to use their money and pay it off on the last day w/o interest.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 09:19 AM
Aug 2025

The problem is banks that use our money but pay squat.

usedtobedemgurl

(2,073 posts)
34. We only have cards with no annual fees
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 09:20 AM
Aug 2025

And great points. We pay off in full at the end of every month. We use points to get gift cards to buy groceries/pet supplies/to give gifts for Christmas or birthdays.

I look for credit cards that have bonuses. A lot of them will have something like if you spend a $1,000 in 3 months, you can get a $200 bonus. Over the course of a year, that can add up to around an extra $750-1,000 in our pockets and then I open a new one with another bonus.

It has been years since I paid any interest.

NickB79

(20,411 posts)
40. I make it a point to pay off mine in full every month
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 09:52 AM
Aug 2025

And I understand that I'm lucky to have the means to do so, as many aren't so fortunate.

niyad

(134,102 posts)
43. Thank you for acknowledging your good fortune. I wish others could be
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 10:20 AM
Aug 2025

equally aware.

NickB79

(20,411 posts)
57. Last month I took my family to Denny's for dinner
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 02:11 PM
Aug 2025

Instead of charging me $46, they accidentally charged me $460! I only saw this two weeks later.

The manager was awesome and refunded it without question, but it made me very aware how such an error could have destroyed someone living paycheck to paycheck.

MineralMan

(151,607 posts)
48. That's Usury. It's unfair and should be illegal.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 10:46 AM
Aug 2025

It's just another indication that salaries are too low for most people. It's just possible to live debt-free, but it requires some serious controls over spending. And, emergencies can destroy the best plans at any time.

But, any interest that high is purely motivated by profit seeking and greed.

Johnny2X2X

(24,440 posts)
52. And that's the average
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 11:58 AM
Aug 2025

There are people paying much more, 29.99% APR which is an effective rate in the high 30s.

hunter

(40,878 posts)
50. Once upon a time I paid medical bills with a credit card.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 11:48 AM
Aug 2025

I won't do that again.



Couldn't pay the bill on time, interest rate shot up to 30%, and then we couldn't get credit at all.

Eventually we settled the credit card debt for what we owed and the usurious interest and penalties we'd already paid. The bank issuing the credit card did not lose any money.

That still left us with a huge amount of medical debt, stuff our insurance hadn't paid. Fighting with insurance companies and hospitals is no fun.

After that I stopped giving a shit about credit.

It's been our good fortune lately to have enough money in savings to pay any unexpected veterinarian bills with cash, or even replace a car should one fail catastrophically. (Knock on wood...) I'm also a pretty good mechanic. And plumber. Etc.

My parents had dreams of being full time artists and more children than they could comfortably support so I had quite a lot of experience living very frugally as a kid.

In my late teens and early twenties my mind went a little sideways and there were times I was living in my broken down car and dumpster diving for food. I've also spent time in locked psych wards.

Having a credit card does not make me feel secure, it only increases my anxieties. Having a big bag of rice in the cupboard and the means to cook it is the kind of thing that helps me sleep at night.

Aside from burning fossil fuels, measuring the value of almost everything in money is the damned most fucking stupid thing humans do.

I want to live in the Star Trek universe where money is extinct.

phylny

(8,819 posts)
53. Some people just don't get it.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 11:59 AM
Aug 2025

My husband‘s sister had an outstanding balance on her Discover card for 10 years. During this time, she got inheritance from both her mother and her father. She had more than enough money to pay off her credit card debt. We tried to explain to her how much money was accruing in interest every month by only paying the minimum due and she countered with, “Well, I only have to pay a little bit each month.” Couldn’t fix it.

OC375

(1,110 posts)
54. Ooops!
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 12:02 PM
Aug 2025

Taking a bad fall or the car crapping out is enough to change the "I always keep a zero balance" thing into unmanageable credit card debt for many people who have always felt secure and have been financially squared away.

Johnny2X2X

(24,440 posts)
55. I'll never forget orientation for college
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 12:34 PM
Aug 2025

Was a big fair, with booths and giveaways all over campus. They were giving you literal cash to sign up for credit cards. "Want $20? Here, just sign up for this card and you can have this $20 bill." So I did, and didn't use the card for a while, then the end of semester one year I ran out of food so I used the card, but just for food...and then to help pay for books the next semester. I carried that debt for years.

And then I got my first job out of college, first order was to finally pay those cards off. Until my car needed new brakes and then a new transmission. Next thing you know, that $1200 in credit card debt was $5500. Finally, paid it down to $1000,saw the end in sight, then my dog got sick and needed surgery, $1200 here, $800 there. Dog passed, had to put it's final pink shot on a card as well as cremation.

Then I started to make some real money, go some savings, cards being paid down. Car repair, oops, cards back higher. And then the big one, our adopted terrier diagnosed with cancer and given 4-6 months to live without treatment. Best dog ever. No way could I let her go at 5 years old. $3200 for surgery, $2400 for Chemo, another $2900 for a 2nd round of chemo. $2000K for other vet bills. Best $10K I ever charged in my life, she turned 12 this Spring.

Was chipping away at it for a good couple years solid, then I got a promotion at work that put me in the bonus program, that first bonus was $12,000 take home, presto, no more credit card debt. Step 2 was get $10K in the bank, done. Step 3 was to get 6 months bills into savings, just got there.

Would have been nice to have folks that I could turn to for emergency expenses in college or shortly after, but that wasn't my situation. Sure, I did make some mistakes. And I learned some good lessons from those mistakes. But I can probably count on 1 hand the times I used a credit card for anything but an emergency or absolute necessity like food or gas.

DU has an older crowd, many people are well off because they're later in their careers like I am. And I am pretty financially astute now, but I am not going to look down on people who have a bunch of debt on cards because I don't know their situation and I was there myself. And I was fairly disciplined, but more than anything I was able to pay them off just because I got further in my career.

Happy Hoosier

(9,632 posts)
59. Sounds like my early life.
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 02:44 PM
Aug 2025

My parents ALWAYS had debt. I assumed it was "normal." I didn't really figure it out until years later. Now I am debt-free (except for my mortgage, which is ALMOST paid off). It's astounding how much life changes when you don't have those payments.

Johnny2X2X

(24,440 posts)
64. I pay attention to this issue a lot these last several years
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 03:23 PM
Aug 2025

So many people struggling. I try to think of a common thread, I'm not sure what it is. Because I see people from all backgrounds struggling. I've seen financially astute parents pound these lessons into their children only to have their children run up credit cards anyway. And often times making more money is the only way out, but not always, I know couples making $200K a year with $150K in credit card debt that costs a fortune to service.

What I see most often is people charging car and home repairs because they don't have other options. Mother in law's septic system went bad, $15K to replace it, she charged it. She had a major flood and they didn't offer flood insurance, $12K to replace the furnace, hot water heater, water softener and electrical in her basement after.

Only 41% of Americans can afford a $1000 unplanned expense with savings. This about that, 3 in 5 would have to go into debt for any expense of $1000 or more. It's just incredibly hard to save for too many families because wages haven't kept up for 40+ years.

Raftergirl

(1,863 posts)
62. I charge every possible thing to my CC so I get miles. I pay it off every month. I also have a large amount of
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 03:08 PM
Aug 2025

disposable income coming in every month, and I have a cash stash that is usually somewhere between 30k and 50k, that I use to pay for big purchases that I cannot use my CC for or to pay off those big purchase. For example, we bought a whole house generator that was $11K, that I put on my CC. But when I remodeled my laundry room, my contractor only allowed $5k to be put on a CC, so the rest of the balance ($35k) came out of my cash stash. Same for when we redid our front entryway into house - $9k came out of my stash. I also paid for new fencing ($11k) in back yard from my stash. We usually have one of these big budget items every year or two, so I build my stash up during lulls.

Last month we had an unexpected emergency, half of our huge Russian Elm tree came crashing down. Tree was severely compromised. The town removed everything that was on the ground, even what was on our property (it fell across the whole street) but the rest we needed to get tree service to take down, remove, grind the stump and bring in topsoil. The trunk alone weighed 12,000 lbs. it was only $2300 and I put it on my CC, which I just paid off in full yesterday, without having to take money out of my stash.

I am going to turn the spot into a flower garden next summer. Can’t wait!

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