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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsHow do you reason with people like this?
The son of a FB friend of mine posted a rant the other about how he "deserved" his arsenal of legally-acquired weapons. He was in some sort of law-enforcement or security detail, and bragged that he never left the house without packing heat. He had "dozens" of various weapons and he "deserved them." His dad chimed in about how proud he was of his son. Apparently dad is a corrections officer or something.
Then dad posted some NRA support ad featuring a big black Dodge Charger, and a screed about the car, with its 400hp V8, was "specifically designed to kill innocent people" and therefore it should banned. The ad included the number of auto-related deaths annually.
Well, I couldn't help myself, and pointed out the ridiculousness of his statement, that the car was "specifically designed" to kill innocent people. Guns, however, are "specifically designed" to kill. That is their only purpose. As you might expect, the name calling from his circle of friends began quickly.
"Guns are only designed to fire bullets. It is people who do the killing!" Hell, how does one begin to argue with such a mindset? A car is "specifically designed to kill innocent people" -- not just people, mind you, but innocent people -- because it has a big engine, but guns are merely for shooting bullets. If that's the case, why does the dude pack a weapon 24/7? In case he gets the sudden urge to do some target shooting?
I'm not anti-gun, but people like this are frightening.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)Granted our deaths come in the form of an uninhabitable planet rather than metal ramming through our flesh (Well, for most of us) but, by all means; let's get back to horses and bicycles, I won't cry.
But do take the guns with 'em.
freedom fighter jh
(1,784 posts)Neoma
(10,039 posts)There needs to be more of those things
freshwest
(53,661 posts)Wingnuts are voting against public services and infrastructure project because they entertain such thoughts.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)"But don't trains, like, make noise? That would so disrupt my zen"
freshwest
(53,661 posts)AverageJoe90
(10,745 posts)Sorry, man, I just couldn't resist.
Ilsa
(64,382 posts)Change their minds, unless something horrible happens to them or someone they love, and even then, it's a longshot.
And these people can't argue logically if a car is "designed to kill innocent people."
We need to find a way to re-educate the next generation about whose "rights" vs prudence, and what they "deserve".
PerpetuallyDazed
(816 posts)And the numbers on guns being discharged for defense vs. guns discharged for murdering purposes. I think the crux of the argument is willfully ignored by these gun nuts; it's about certain people who shouldn't have access to guns. The majority of gun enthusiasts aren't willing to sacrifice their recreational use of high-powered ammo, large capacity magazines and semi-automatic weapons, even if it will make us safer in the long run.
littlemissmartypants
(33,672 posts)He drove at high speed into the biggest tree in the county. He was a great guy. Peace. LMSP
Chico Man
(3,001 posts)Not sure if it is more common than suicide by gun, but is certainly seems more easily accessible.
littlemissmartypants
(33,672 posts)Chico Man
(3,001 posts)I think there are about 50000 vehicular homicides a year. More than gun related deaths. Just saying.
drm604
(16,230 posts)That seems large.
99Forever
(14,524 posts)I pulled up some stats from a quick Google that show it to be complete bull shit. Took 5 secs.
Chico Man
(3,001 posts)Guns are obviously more dangerous.
99Forever
(14,524 posts)You missed the mark by a factor of at least 20x.
Nobody, I repeat nobody, is in favor of drunk driving, except maybe the drunks doing it.
But there are LOTS of idiots in favor of putting more and more deadly weapons in the hands of people who shouldn't have them.
See the difference yet?
Chico Man
(3,001 posts)And get away with it?
How many people speed, drive recklessly, or text and drive?
Like I said, I'm way more concerned about driving hazards than I am about some crazy person shooting up my daughters classroom.
And no-one, sans Nancy Lanza and a handful of other freaks is in favor of arming the mentally ill.
The vast majority of gun related deaths are gang/drug related and suicides. The occasional crime of passion and mass slaughter have been taking place since the dawn of man. I'm not going to live in fear of that.
Skittles
(171,724 posts)THAT IS THE FUCKING PROBLEM
RetroLounge
(37,250 posts)RL
Skittles
(171,724 posts)we've always had mass murder, don'tcha know!!! OMG
Chico Man
(3,001 posts)Bath school disaster was pretty bad
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bath_School_disaster
But all caps does scare me.
Atman
(31,464 posts)If it was correct, the nutters surely would have used it.
Chico Man
(3,001 posts)But this whole argument is completely worthless anyways.
To question the validity of death by vehicle compared to death by firearm is incredibly insulting to many affected by vehicle related deaths (especially those caused by negligence).
drm604
(16,230 posts)You dismiss the argument as worthless, then claim that it's insulting to innocent people, thereby avoiding the discussion all together and making your opponents seem insensitive.
I could do the same to your arguments, and it would be just as worthless a rhetorical tactic as when you do it.
You gave a figure. Back it up. Apparently you can't or you wouldn't try to divert the discussion.
Chico Man
(3,001 posts)I didn't cite it, and just threw it out there, "I think".
The figures are pointless in the discussion, LOTS of people die by vehicle. LOTS of people die via gun violence. LOTS more innocent people die by vehicle. That's why I'm far more concerned about the drunk driver than I am about the gun toting maniac.
tabasco
(22,974 posts)for your claim that "more innocent people die by vehicle."
Are victims of gun violence not innocent? Was the room full of first graders somehow to blame?
Really - no need to respond. You are clearly pulling shit out of your ass to foist an agenda.
Your postings indicate a lack of intelligence.
Chico Man
(3,001 posts)The car was still running. do you think he was innocent?
Edit: by the way, his name was Pookie. Look it up: "Pookie Providence Shooting" on google.
I don't live there anymore.
99Forever
(14,524 posts)Or did you just pull that factoid from your butt?
What you "think" really doesn't count.
Let's start here:
"In 2011 - the latest year for which detailed statistics are available - there were 12,664 murders in the US. Of those, 8,583 were caused by firearm"
http://www.guardian.co.uk/news/datablog/2011/jan/10/gun-crime-us-state
Your move.
Chico Man
(3,001 posts)What an insulting position to so many affected by vehicular related deaths.
32,000 deaths in 2011. I'm sure you'll claim checkmate. You WIN!
99Forever
(14,524 posts)More than gun HOMICIDES. That is precisely what YOU said. Clearly and provably a lie. In fact, it's not even close.
Your move, smart guy.
Chico Man
(3,001 posts)And I'm still far more concerned about some drunk driver mowing over myself and my kids than I am about some psycho entering my daughters first grade class with assault weaponry and gunning her down.
I'd be pretty dumb to think otherwise (unless I were a drug dealer.. then I'd be even dumber).
99Forever
(14,524 posts)So far, about the only thing you've shown is your ability to say almost nothing of value.
Chico Man
(3,001 posts)Well glad I was able to get at least something of value. I guess it was when I called you a winner.
Skittles
(171,724 posts)very, VERY deep
Chico Man
(3,001 posts)This in an Internet discussion board after all.
Zoeisright
(8,339 posts)They mean that the person driving didn't have control of the car. That is NOT the same thing as someone who goes out with a gun intending to kill people.
That has to be the most stupid false equivalency ever.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)Homicide just means "someone was killed by someone else."
it's when you add motive, that it becomes murder, manslaughter, or justified, etc.
neverforget
(9,513 posts)67.7% of all murders in 2011 were by guns.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/news/datablog/2011/jan/10/gun-crime-us-state
Chico Man
(3,001 posts)littlemissmartypants
(33,672 posts)if one cannot mourn the dead and reflect on life's passing they have a problem.
Frosty1
(1,823 posts)"If the primary function of cars was to kill, there might be more power in this argument. Atomic bombs don't kill people. People who drop atomic bombs kill people. Therefore, there should be no restrictions on possessing atomic bombs. Knives seem to be half-way in-between. Knives can certainly be used as weapons, but most knives are tools used for cutting.
Cars can be fitted with devices that prevent intoxicated drivers from starting them. If guns could be fitted with a similar safety device (rage and "crazy" detector?), then the argument would have more merit. I'm afraid the genie is out of the bottle. There are over 300,000,000 guns in this country. Most gun owners are responsible, but the existence of many, many, many irresponsible gun owners makes the problem critical."
GoCubsGo
(34,919 posts)You can't reason with people who are overwhelmed with fear, and overwhelming fear is why most of these people arm themselves like that. Your friend is too afraid to leave his home without a gun? It's got to suck to live in such constant fear all the time, especially when the things you fear the most don't even exist, or those which you are extremely unlikely to encounter.
Maineman
(854 posts)and you develop a phobia. With a phobia toward the outside world, outside your own home, you have a mental health problem. I suggest that people who will not leave home without carrying a gun for protection have a mental health problem. (The best way to get over a phobia is to gradually confront your fear.)
Terms like gun nuts and crazies may be more accurate than we realize. Perhaps focusing on their mental health issues would help tame their psychological need to be gun-toting tough guys who identify with fictional characters from tv shows and movies. Maybe we could also ask them to grow up.
caraher
(6,361 posts)I think my FB friend got it from Drudge's site. There was so much illogic in the image that I wound up resorting to a one-word reply:
"Derp."
I think the answer is that you can't reason with them...
RVN VET
(492 posts)They should have been astute enough to add "except for dumb asses who brag about their guns" to the end of the Second Amendment.
d_r
(6,908 posts)Have to be registered and have insurance and pass inspections have seat belts and airbags. Testing and engineering to improve safety. Have to pass a test a.nd have a license to drive. Can not go 100 mph down interstate society sets limits to protect others.
exboyfil
(18,359 posts)In a sane world you should not have a 30 round Bushmaster or a 400 hp Dodge Charger. Neither are necessarily dangerous in most individual's hands, but both carry additional risk that society has to bare if they are misused. (Same reasoning for real tight licensing restrictions on someone hauling a tanker car full of gasoline).
A tricked out .223 Bushmaster with a 100 round magazine and slide fire sets you back about $1,500.
A 400 hp Dodge Charger costs $35K
What other things are low expense, low complexity, and high lethality
Bombs take time to make - you can't get loaded up to kill in an afternoon or with one theft
Stealing a bulldozer or a tanker car full of gasoline can yield high lethality
Fumesucker
(45,851 posts)The entire point of a gun is to kill people or animals, there is no other truly useful purpose for it, if I wanted holes punched in pieces of paper it would be much easier just to do it with a pencil or something like that right in front of me.
A car on the other hand is designed with a benign purpose, transportation of people and goods from point to point.
The gun is the product that kills when operated exactly as intended by the manufacturer.
etherealtruth
(22,165 posts)I keep my FB circle of friends fairly small because I am not dealing with stuff like that.
Gun nutttery is a fetish ... there is no undoing that.
H2O Man
(79,058 posts)"how" you deal with them, it's "why" you deal with them. Attempt to make friends with good people.
Atman
(31,464 posts)He's not a "friend" I hang out with. I never asked about his job or political views. It came up only as a result of Newtown. We both live in CT.
thucythucy
(9,103 posts)It's like arguing with a dyed in the wool homophobe about gay marriage.
The people we need to reach are the vast majority of the reasonable, including reasonable gun owners, who can be swayed and are being swayed to see the logic and tragic necessity of reversing the "any gun anyone wants anytime everywhere" mentality of the NRA.
As with homophobes, the more progress we make the more desperate and unhinged the gun lovers will become. And the more unhinged and unreasonable their arguments (re: NRA presser last Friday) the easier it will be to swing the vast middle in our direction.
obama2terms
(563 posts)What a creeper I'd steer clear of him!
slampoet
(5,032 posts)BTW - I've never seen a corrections officer who didn't know someone who killed themselves with a gun. I had a landlady who was a prison guard for decades and she could list 12 suicides w detail at the drop of a hat.
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Just keep asking them who Jesus wants to have assault weapons.
Festivito
(13,891 posts)trains them on how to use and not use guns, and, also, a profession that can train on how to safely secure his other weapons while he is away.
Law enforcement is oft a 24/7 job.
As to the car, suggest that we would need a horsepower to weight ratio that if exceeded would require a health card and log the same as vehicles over a certain weight do now.
sulphurdunn
(6,891 posts)The gun nuts have made if perfectly clear that the mass slaughter of little children is not too high a price to pay so they can keep their deadly toys, nor are they averse to making thinly veiled threats of open insurrection to do so. They are mostly folks who have a whole lot of loose and missing screws.
loyalkydem
(1,678 posts)and I'm tired of people telling me I'm wrong. If i thought these folks would be open to hearing my view I would engage them but in EVERY case, I got called names for my position. This is my personal view
time & energy waster to even speak to these low life types imo
geckosfeet
(9,644 posts)from both sides and everyone in the middle right now. It is quite fascinating to observe. Emotions are getting the better of many.
Intellectually-honest and intellectually-dishonest debate tactics
(NOTE: Pardon the link to an obviously RW blog, but there ARE some interesting insights here. This link is far less objectionable than some of the links to the freepland cesspool that are frequently seen on DU.)
Here is another:
A List Of Fallacious Arguments
Almost all arguments consist of one intellectually-dishonest debate tactic after another. It is one of the reasons why our country has gotten so screwed up.
There are two intellectually-honest debate tactics:
1. pointing out errors or omissions in your opponents facts
2. pointing out errors or omissions in your opponents logic
CanonRay
(16,173 posts)that is ruining the country.
Iggy
(1,418 posts)There's all kinds of actual, recent events provding ample proof for the above. One being the recent case of the father who shot his son dead outside their home-- he thought his son was a robber.
One can only hope the gun "enthusiast" described above will blow his own nuts off while playing with his guns.. or maybe his foot.
Skittles
(171,724 posts)they're still investigating that "accident"
http://www.newstimes.com/policereports/article/Lawyer-Giuliano-case-headed-for-2013-4062437.php
proving the father shot his son intentionally.
any eye witnesses to the shooting??
Skittles
(171,724 posts)but they are well aware the father's story makes no sense
JanMichael
(25,725 posts)makes rules and laws that they are forced to live with. I don't give a shit what they "think" about it.
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Gman
(24,780 posts)With them. I suggest you unsubscribe to their news feed so you won't see their crap. Click on Friends and click unsubscribe.
Or just unfriend them.
BeyondGeography
(41,107 posts)dvhughes
(50 posts)Of course, the answer is that we already restrict the use of Automobiles. In fact, Automobiles may be one of the most heavily regulated items in the nation.
TreasonousBastard
(43,049 posts)that isn't open to rational thought. It's a specious argument that allows its owner to maintain his position when rational arguments won't support it. I don't remember what it's called, but I'm pretty sure it has a name that psychologists should recognize.
Anyway the car was invented to get you and your stuff from here to there. A bigger or more powerful car might be more lethal in some circumstances, but it's primary use is still to get you from here to there, if faster.
The gun was designed for lethality. It's primary purpose is to kill something-- food, enemies, dangerous animals... The size of the gun only increases its effectiveness and, again, does not change its purpose.
Simple, no?
Vietnameravet
(1,085 posts)They are suffering from "rectal cranial inversion!"
WhoIsNumberNone
(7,875 posts)Guns = Cars
Guns = Spoons
Shit like that.
Skidmore
(37,364 posts)That is the official NRA position. We need to organize against them. Millions of us need to reclaim the union of our nation. We are not one another's enemies.
JoePhilly
(27,787 posts)JoePhilly
(27,787 posts)on what you want to drive. For instance, I can drive a car, but I can't drive an 18 wheeler. To do so, I need a special license.
So point out this fact, and then tell him you AGREE that people should need graded licensees for gun ownership, and that its a GREAT IDEA. And then thank him for the great idea!!!
And send HIS idea to everyone you know.
Then watch his head explode.
n2doc
(47,953 posts)All I say is, "Bring t on". We live in a democracy, and if enough people decide to ban assault weapons, it will be done. We will fight for civility and a safer world. And if we win and they resist, they can go to jail or worse. Matters not to me.
There is no reasoning with these people. Brute force is all they respect.
Evasporque
(2,133 posts)not gophers...
Recursion
(56,582 posts)Even coyotes are a little too big for a .223 to be reliable.
ProfessionalLeftist
(4,982 posts)samsingh
(18,426 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)The rest of us deserve to have someone as crazy as he is unarmed. Who knows if he isn't the next one to snap? I'd start going head to head against them like that.
jody
(26,624 posts)disparate things with different needs.
If that's not feasible, try to vilify the person and be sure and throw in a few curse words.
Zoeisright
(8,339 posts)And preferably far, far away.
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)Atman
(31,464 posts)I don't just remove everyone from my live with whom I disagree. Remember, this was just a FB friend. The guy show said the most offensive stuff (the one who felt he "deserved" guns and always packed when he left the house) was his son. So my FB friend posted the sill Charger ad. For that I must remove him from my life? Wow. And you call my op ridiculous?
ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)For example, agree with them, and then latter, assert your right to own vials of contagious diseases. Perhaps an HIV Super Soaker, a black plague mister, and a polio dart gun. Obviously those are silly, and probably wouldn't work very well, if at all, but you have the right to have them. There is nothing in the 2A that says your arms have to be practical. If they disagree with you, then ask why. If they do agree with you, then that is kind of funny. Win/win.
patrice
(47,992 posts)AverageJoe90
(10,745 posts)I mean, if somebody really, truly believes that a '60s muscle car, of all things, was designed to kill people on its own, and not a gun which fires projectiles at close to a thousand miles an hour, then, well......they're really not worth your time, IMHO.
patrice
(47,992 posts)Can you stand hundreds, even thousands, of feet away from someone with your Dodge Charger and kill them from that distance?
Can a Dodge Charger be simply pivoted through as much as a 360 degree arc and kill everything in the sweep of that arc without moving any more than that?
How many Dodge Chargers can someone with an average income afford? Store? Maintain? How many can someone one use at the same time?
How well do Dodge Chargers get around without a road?
How many sources for the purchasing of Dodge Charger fuel are there? compared to ammunition?
How likely is it that a 2 year old can kill him/herself and/or others with a Dodge Charger?
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patrice
(47,992 posts)would not fall under the heading of "Gun Control", because, once again!, guns and Dodge Chargers are not the same thing, therefore their uses are not as similar as some people want us to think.
You don't handle a Dodge Charger carrying explosives the same way you would handle any one of a wide variety of guns. Access to explosives & their use is not as easy as ammunition. People with the ability to use guns are FAR more common than people who will drive your Dodge Charger on the mission you describe.
And if you're telling me that you, and those like you, neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed your gun in case you come across a Dodge Charger carrying explosives being driven into a school bus, I could live with that if the firepower you are trying to claim was not so inappropriate to the task. Assault weapons are for organized combat professionals to use in defense of the people's collective known as the state. And I personally do not find your non-assault weaponry all that problematic as long as my choices in regards to YOUR choice are respected by OPEN CARRY.
Concealed Carry mixes the "the good guys" with the bad guys and prevents me, and those like me, from having our rights to choose our associations, with either one of you "good" or bad, respected. You get your "right" to concealed carry & I don't get my right of free association, because I am kept in the dark by Concealed Carry.
Go ahead, buy a gun to protect us from Dodge Chargers carrying explosives, all that I ask is that the weapon you choose not create the possibilities of threatening circumstances to others. That means: #1. No assault weapons, because if you get to use your assault weapon for the purpose for which it exists and why you bought it in the first place, THAT's a situation in which a lot of people who had no chance whatsoever to make free decisions about actions and consequences, and that IS people all across this country when we're talking about the use of assault weapons, those people are DENIED their choices by you and your assault weapons. They suffer consequences, direct or otherwise, from YOUR BEHAVIORS that YOU did not allow them to choose. IOW, you fucked their rights for a PRIVILEGE that you did not earn. & 2. Non-assault weapons are okay as along as, once again, my, and those like me/our, FREE decisions about the fact that you or anyone else is carrying weapons are respected by means of OPEN CARRY. If I had my way, if you came into a mall in which I happened to be present, I would not consider it the slightest violation of your rights to carry that weapon, in fact I would consider it great respect for your right to carry, great augmentation of the 2nd Amendment, for your to enter that mall, in which I happen to be present, carrying your weapon extended above your head, so I can see you down the mall concourse and be allowed by FREE RIGHT as an American to make my OWN decisions and choices about that fact.
Chico Man
(3,001 posts)How will we rid ourselves of these assault weapons?
Mass murderers are going to figure out whatever means possible to kill. Solving that issue goes far beyond gun control: it's really because our society is simply fucked for more reasons I can describe. The msnbc glorified documentary of Timothy McVeigh today is one such example.
East Access to weaponry is certainly an issue for suicide and crimes of passion. No doubt these instances would drop if we enacted tighter gun laws, but most of these are committed with non assault weapons anyways.
The vast majority of remaining instances arise out of unlawful activity to begin with, so I'm pretty sure tighter gun laws will have no affect there.
So perhaps there would be a slight decrease of gun related deaths with an assault style weapon ban.. But honestly I don't think it will make a big difference. Our society is collectively mentally ill, and I'm afraid things are just going to get more horrific. Thanks technology and 24hr news.
tulsakatz
(3,122 posts)he's trying to figure out why guns are not the problem....because (in his mind), if guns are the problem, they might try to take his guns away!!
A car is "specifically designed to kill innocent people" -- not just people, mind you, but innocent people -- because it has a big engine, but guns are merely for shooting bullets.
They did something similar on an episode of Mad Men....except that they were using it related to cigarettes. They said that when you get in in a car, you could have an accident. Accidents happen every day, nothing can be done to change that.....but you still have to get where you're going. To which the client said, "that's your argument? You're going to die anyway, die with us!"
That argument didn't work on Mad Men & it doesn't work now! True, auto accidents can happen to anyone but cars weren't built to kill people....but guns are!! Whether you're aiming at a target, an animal or a person, guns do one thing....shoot bullets!!
ileus
(15,396 posts)Sure the car's 400hp is overkill for granny or soccer mom, but it's still a hoot to get on the skinny pedal at the right time and place. Same can be said for a 30 round mag dump at the range, not much use if you're shooting groups but a hell of a good time to pull out and plink away.
Firearms are designed to do one of three things. Save/protect lives when deployed in self defense, target shoot (100's of varieties), or hunt.
Any use that cause innocents harm is misuse, and like any device can and does get misused just like the 400hp charger.
cali
(114,904 posts)Guns were invented to kill. That is their primary use in the world today. The purpose of a car is transportation.
I'm not particularly anti-gun but I am particularly anti-bullshit. And you just slung a load of it.
ibegurpard
(17,081 posts)you find people who can have reasonable discussions and come up with reasonable solutions and you work around the nuts.