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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsHow many others feel the same?
My wife (77) and I (78) are at our breaking point. Yesterday I wrote: As we all watch, seemingly helpless, as DJT tears down our country as we know it. That post received 210 recommendations proof that others feel this same weight.
https://www.democraticunderground.com/100220592451
We already contribute more than $100 a month to causes and groups fighting for a better cause. Still, my inbox is buried under 1825 of these requests every single day.
And heres the real cost: weve missed messages from friends. Weve missed healthcare notices we need to respond to. Our personal lifelines are getting lost in the noise of pleas that never stop.
I regret letting my email become overrun like this. What started as a genuine desire to stay engaged and support our country has turned into an overwhelming assault on daily life.
Does anyone else feel trapped in this same cycle?
Sogo
(7,150 posts)"And heres the real cost: weve missed messages from friends. Weve missed healthcare notices we need to respond to. Our personal lifelines are getting lost in the noise of pleas that never stop."
spooky3
(38,521 posts)simply MUST devise a better, more focused and targeted way to fund-raise, because these constant haranguing messages and emails are turning off their strongest supporters.
yellow dahlia
(5,560 posts)Also - Ken Martin is not the leader needed at the DNC, in this moment. IMHO
Pachamama
(17,554 posts)yellow dahlia
(5,560 posts)I am glad to see people are smarter than me saying the same thing, lately. Malcolm Nance had a pod cast discussion w/ Steve Schmidt, where they were critical of the consultants. Schmidt oughta know.
If you take hits on the topic, I'll back you up.
The stake are too high right now to hold back.
Pachamama
(17,554 posts)I love this place and feel fortunate to have my DU family. I learn a lot, share a lot and have felt at home here with the many people who love democracy and want to support and help grow support for the Democratic Party. There are always going to be disagreements in families about topics at times. But the one rule that I think is important is respect and agreeing to disagree at times. Not attacking and insulting. Unfortunately every family has the family member or two that doesnt respect and attacks. Cognitive dissonance is a sad thing to witness.
yellow dahlia
(5,560 posts)I'm a newbie here. And so glad I joined the community.
Clouds Passing
(7,785 posts)FirstLight
(15,771 posts)Even Gavin newsom's office when they text me I send a stop message and stop receiving whatever I can because I am done.
I'm just past all of the bullshit... we're not even playing by normal rules anymore so fundraising is really out the window when it comes down to it. No election, no point.
Give Peace A Chance
(155 posts)Move to spam/junk file.
Block them. pretty soon many of them go away.
Just stop giving them money.
When you donate they pass your info along to 'The List".
Then you start hearing from all of them.
llmart
(17,529 posts)Also if it's texts you can just reply STOP.
I get hardly any lately.
Attilatheblond
(8,673 posts)When our contact info gets handed out or sold to anybody, it sets us all up to be hounded at best, and victimized by scammers in too many instances.
DNC needs to address the problem, find a better solution, or they will find people unwilling to donate and then get deluged with junk mail and texts.
On a practical note: UNSUBSCRIBE helps. I use Thunderbird as my email program as it allows for creation of many filters. Not sure if Outlook does that as I never liked it and won't use. When unwanted emails keep coming, I set up filters that will toss 'em in the trash before I even see them in my inbox. It is helpful against marketing emails and requests for donations from groups I do not wish to engage with.
Edited to add: I also set filters to tag certain email senders, color code some topics, and even "Copy To" for email from people I do want to stay in touch with. I have files for 'political pals', 'friends & family', Medical/Health Insurance/ Medicare, one for Social Security, and some files for specific vendors I do want to hear from. Those folders save stuff I want and allow me to find them.
In my old age, I find filters for emails are very helpful. And filters to toss the crap are REALLY helpful.
usaf-vet
(7,789 posts).... That was a job that was unwinnable. I could tighten the filter at eight in the morning, and by post-lunch, the website was up and running, and the kids in the building had found it.
Now, to Gmail, you say filters. I have so many filters written that I could sell each one for a buck; I could take a month-long fly fishing trip anywhere they were biting.
The only solution 30 years of supporting networks has taught me. It is a losing battle. Ironically, the ONLY SOLUTION is for the government to enter the fight and make it a priority. BUT that is when they want the First Amendment to protect them.
Don't block my (their) point of view from being SEEN and heard.
regnaD kciN
(27,594 posts)one of the things that has fueled my irritation at the establishment Democratic Party is that I will get deluged with both e-mails and texts (including from politicians in districts far from mine) that begin with dire warnings about how Trump is trying to establish a dictatorship, and offer no possible routes to fighting it except to chip in $10 or more to their campaign. So that they can do what send another strongly-worded letter?
Mike Niendorff
(3,646 posts)Create a centralized "Dems" website/app -- it could even be done in partnership with ActBlue.
Dem campaigns register there, and agree to centralize their fundraising there.
Small-dollar donors, go there.
Big-dollar donors, go there.
If all the major campaigns agree to it, then this deluge of "sky is falling! we're losing! donate now!" crap can end. It can come down to a centralized page listing the critical battlegrounds where funds are needed (top-10 style?), maybe an "act locally" page (again, top-10 style), a way to set up weekly/monthly/annual/one-off donations, and a way to set up either a list of recipients or a %-based auto-split.
It would expose a lot of phony/scam appeals, because they would be screened out. And I am very much of the opinion that many -- parhaps most -- of these relentless "help us! we're weak!" texts are NOT coming from legit Democratic Party sources.
Anyway, this seems to me to be a pretty simple way to correct this problem. And if it's obvious to me, it's gotta be obvious to people much more in the loop than I am.
So, anybody listening?
MDN
markodochartaigh
(5,390 posts)Even unsubscribing only slowed the tidal wave of emails, many of them from states I have never been to. A few years back another site I used to spend a lot of time on would run a request to donate to several candidates simultaneously. Even though I got banned from that site years ago they still send me requests for money almost daily. I have no idea if they or some of those candidates "shared" my information. Until the last few months I only received a couple of emails a day from random candidates or causes.
But I started getting 75-100 emails a day. Unsubscribing helped some, but only for a few days.
So for family, banking, etc. I just abandoned that old email. Protonmail has free email.
Now, however, I have started to get phone calls and texts. I'm not sure how they got my phone number. Here in Florida everyone gets a couple of spam calls a day. Maybe that is a countrywide thing now. But at least one or two a day are identifiable as Democratic politicians, groups, or causes.
I never answer for unknown callers, and never empty my messages, so it isn't a major issue yet, but I wonder if my phone number will have to be changed like my email.
And, if I was a Republican who wanted to trash the Democratic small donor fundraising system what I would do is spread emails and phone numbers far and wide so that people would stop responding.
Ironically, I have very little to give now that I'm retired.
Mike Niendorff
(3,646 posts)Or they could just set up fake, spam-based campaigns and pocket the money. Which I am sure is being done as we speak.
MDN
usaf-vet
(7,789 posts)..... THIS IS OUR SAND BOX. YOU ARE NOT WELCOME!
MadameButterfly
(3,964 posts)usaf-vet
(7,789 posts).... just two things. OCCUPING a SEAT and using it to enrich themselves. Those who will not leave when their time comes because it's the best-paying, cushy job a person can have. HE RIGHTFULLY wanted to find new, younger challengers to occupy those seats.
So, depending on your point of view, he was pushed out, he got tired of
Or he quit to continue his work from the outside of their sandbox, so he at least doesn't start his day by having to
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He is still finding and supporting challengers to the do-nothings. We still help with his activity by sending him a check every month.
A check with no names, addresses, or other IDing info. Just the necessary stuff to make it work. IS he the answer? Who knows, but he's doing something by kicking sand in the faces of those doing nothing.
At 78, you know when it is time to hire younger help.
summer_in_TX
(4,114 posts)I set up two new emails. My personal one and my more political one. It has helped a lot. Before that, I couldn't find my friends emails buried in the junk.
The latter email address is the one I give to retailers too, not just for donations and subscriptions. Much of the time, all I can do with that account is mark them all read, after a quick scan of subject heads. Sometimes not even that.
In the run up to the 2024 election I made some mistakes keeping the two email addresses separate and now the level of commercial/political stuff is starting to creep up. I'm going through and unsubscribing.
It's tedious but once I get it done, it's freeing. I used to have trouble making myself unsubscribe from emails from those I admire. But I've been following wise advice lately: protect your time so you have it to invest in other areas.
markodochartaigh
(5,390 posts)your time so you have it to invest in other areas."
This is so important. I'm coming to the end much more rapidly than I ever expected and I have a lot of things that I need to get done before I pass. But it is very important advice for young people too.
summer_in_TX
(4,114 posts)bring about a change of mind, just to waste our time. Keeping us occupied with those sorts of things distract us from the important work of organizing, and also keep us so stirred up that our mental and physical health suffer.
GoodRaisin
(10,853 posts)If you go to the top of the email and click on the name of the sender, you will get on option to block the sender. That will send them to your trash from now on when that sender tries sending you another political request for money.
What I found out after doing this a few times, a lot of those different emails actually have the same sender. So the number of emails started dropping rapidly as they were all automatically going to the trash folder as I kept blocking new senders until I had just about all of them nailed. There actually were only relatively few senders I needed to block to clear them all out of my in box.
Soon, I could see my email in box much more clearly because most of the political emails were all gone to the trash folder.
Every now and then you can click on your trash folder and clear it out with a couple of clicks using a select all command.
I use iPhones and iPads but I expect that Android phones must have similar capabilities.
Hope this helps.
spooky3
(38,521 posts)I get solicitations from every candidate for dog catcher across the country. They do not use the same sending address, unfortunately, so the blocks/unsubscribes are of limited use. I asked ActBlue not to share my info, but they replied that they could do nothing, legally. That's why I think it is time for the Dem leadership to recognize this problem and how it is hurting themselves, and do something about it.
GoodRaisin
(10,853 posts)drowned in political emails and blocking soon stopped the problem for me. I guess there could be a difference is the effectiveness of blocking in different systems/software, but it works great on my Apple devices. Now I only see an occasional political email from a new sender.
I tried using unsubscribe and it didnt work. When people try to use unsubscribe they are relying on someone else to take action. Using block is taking the situation in ones own hands.
spooky3
(38,521 posts)It onto the spam text lists yethope your luck holds out.
GoodRaisin
(10,853 posts)I dont get much spam on texts. The little I get I just wipe away.
usaf-vet
(7,789 posts)spooky3
(38,521 posts)iemanja
(57,721 posts)The rest go to the parasitic fundraising companies. I will never give again until they sort that out.
MadameButterfly
(3,964 posts)I avoid the sensation captions and wonder about all the organizations I haven't heard of, but I tend to trust emails from known politicians. The idea that 98% of these donations are wasted seems extreme. And if true is a major scam we can't afford. Nor can we be ignoring real Democratic causes that need money.
iemanja
(57,721 posts)I don't have it handy now. If you post about it in GD, someone may be able to point to it.
MadameButterfly
(3,964 posts)Thanks
LeftInTX
(34,094 posts)Our treasurer gives a report every month. My donation, matches my ActBlue contribution.
I know where my money is going.
Also, the state posts contributions on Texas Ethics Commission site. I pay via ActBlue and my payments are on the candidates' financial statements.
________________
I also read that somewhere. Who wrote it and what was their motivation? What are they trying to accomplish? Think about it!
OldBaldy1701E
(10,927 posts)(Worse than a pandemic...
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maspaha
(733 posts)Have yall heard of this organization? Nicole Sandler discussed them on her podcast. Their specialty is targeting older folks for small donations and most of the donation goes to MS overhead. Very republican in nature, kinda grifty.
Celerity
(54,130 posts)How a single consulting firm extracted $282 million from a network of spam PACs while delivering just $11 million to actual campaigns.
https://data4democracy.substack.com/p/the-mothership-vortex-an-investigation

The digital deluge is a familiar annoyance for anyone on a Democratic fundraising list. It's a relentless cacophony of bizarre texts and emails, each one more urgent than the last, promising that your immediate $15 donation is the only thing standing between democracy and the abyss.
The main rationale offered for this fundraising frenzy is that it's a necessary evilthat the tactics, while unpleasant, are brutally effective at raising the money needed to win. But an analysis of the official FEC filings tells a very different story. The fundraising model is not a brutally effective tool for the party; it is a financial vortex that consumes the vast majority of every dollar it raises.
We all have that one obscure skill weve inadvertently maxed out. Mine happens to be navigating the labyrinth of campaign finance data. So, after documenting the spam tactics in a previous article, I told myself Id just take a quick look to see who was behind them and where the money was going.
That "quick look" immediately pulled me in. The illusion of a sprawling grassroots movement, with its dozens of different PAC names, quickly gave way to a much simpler and more alarming reality. It only required pulling on a single threadtracing who a few of the most aggressive PACs were payingto watch their entire manufactured world unravel. What emerged was not a diverse network of activists, but a concentrated ecosystem built to serve the firm at its center: Mothership Strategies.
From Party Insiders to Extraction Engineers................
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dickthegrouch
(4,458 posts)They have completely lost me as any form of donor. For good.
littlemissmartypants
(32,807 posts)Celerity
(54,130 posts)littlemissmartypants
(32,807 posts)MadameButterfly
(3,964 posts)How do we compete with Billionaires if their money goes directly to their cause and ours us used up by fundraisers?
This is making us powerless and the DNC is complicit
I am furious. THis is an emergency.
What can we do about it?
Celerity
(54,130 posts)LeftInTX
(34,094 posts)Polls about Kamala, that led to a fundraiser to a PAC that I never heard of before.
Donate directly to candidates or if you are familiar with a PAC...(For instance Planned Parenthood Action), donate to them.
Here is what Mothership Strategies says about that report:
Setting the Record Straight: How Mothership Strategies Powers Progressive Change
https://medium.com/@mothershipstrategies/setting-the-record-straight-how-mothership-strategies-powers-progressive-change-136dc803fbdc
https://mothershipstrategies.com/
PACs spends money on:
Training programs for first-time candidates
Field organizers who knock on thousands of doors
Digital persuasion campaigns that reach millions of voters
Independent expenditures supporting Democratic candidates
Voter registration and turnout operations in critical swing districts
Field organizers need to eat. They're the bread and butter of many campaigns. PACS also work for numerous candidates, not just one. It's called a "Coordinated Campaign".
Don't contribute if you don't feel comfortable. But I feel this type of stuff is purposely put out there to hurt Democrats!
Evolve Dammit
(21,711 posts)IbogaProject
(5,792 posts)While I will still vote and make donations, their email marketing swirl is dead to me. I reply stop to each and every one. The only one I am still not replying "Stop" to is ActBlue, but I may have to do that too. The msg have gotten too prolific and I am tired of this. The party needs small donors but they talk past and over us and still serve the big money donors. We need to step away from big money donors and run a people's party. This isn't rocket science, our whole revolution was done via pamphleteering. The issues are simple and the majority want what we want. Universal health care, single payer, and a progressive tax system that has Bezo, Zuckerberg, Musk and the old inherited money crowd paying a much larger share of our national costs. These tax cuts for the filthy rich harm us all by slowing the economy down. And this patch work health system leads to ER crowding which puts us all at risk.
Wisky64
(9 posts)These commercialized fund raisers, even on the Democratic side are quite scammy. The fund raiser gets a big cut and then sub contracts the actual work to himself at very generous rates. The National Committee then takes a cut and if there is anything left it goes to the candidate you were trying to support. The candidates often receive less than 10% of your contribution. Mass communication fund raising is a scam whether for charities or political candidates. Give directly to the charity or the candidate. NEVER donate ANYTHING to a mass communication fundraiser.
JoseBalow
(9,417 posts)You can generate unlimited free anonymous email addresses that never expire, and that you can disable at any time. I create a new address every time I sign up for anything. By far the easiest and most efficient system I have found to date.
I recommend you check it out, you will love it!
Hekate
(100,133 posts)Dont worry the ones you want to help will still find you (unfortunately, so will the ones you dont want, but thats another story)
Thank you for a lifetime of service, which I see runs in the family.
Be well
Jarqui
(10,896 posts)Can't seem to land a meaningful punch
50 Shades Of Blue
(11,358 posts)I just deleted 8 more of them. Typing "Stop" in response doesn't do a damn thing. Delete/reporting as junk doesn't stop them either. I finally set my default text tone to "none" so I would not be continually interrupted by the deluge.
madamesilverspurs
(16,495 posts)The ones that really aggravate are the emails with surveys embedded; you answer the questions, and the last one is about how much you can donate, no option to participate in the "survey" without donating. Nope, not gonna play.
I already feel bad that I can't normally donate, my monthly budget just doesn't stretch. On the rare occasion that I can contribute, I send that donation to our local Democratic party office; helps a little to pay the rent and the phone bill, buy postage stamps, and just keep the door open. Back when I could volunteer in that office, it was always invigorating when someone would walk in to ask questions about issues or candidates (especially when they'd leave with a yard sign or two). Keep our doors open, I say.
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littlemissmartypants
(32,807 posts)I expect returns on my investments. Until then, unsubscribe is my recommendation.
We are not bottomless pits and each of us deserves not to be treated like one.
❤️
bamagal62
(4,464 posts)I just delete them all. Im tired of it.
AverageOldGuy
(3,694 posts). . . even bother to own and read email, texts, or snail mail from candidates or parties. Just delete or toss in the trash
NBachers
(19,367 posts)3Hotdogs
(15,270 posts)For some reason, I get very few emails that ask for $.
xuplate
(196 posts)Let it sit there a couple of days before deleting so your email security takes note of it. Its not readily apparent how to block itat least on my iPadbut it it very simple once someone shows you how. I must have blocked hundreds of these once I learned how to do itdid one just this morningsome politician Ive never heard of.
Totally Tunsie
(11,761 posts)text, e-mail, or snail mail that continues with "and now can you help us out with another...". Geez, I haven't yet received the credit card bill for the first donation, and their hand is out again. It never stops.
There are certain charities that I do like to regularly support such as Special Olympics or Habitat for Humanity, but they need to let me take a breath between requests. If I were to give as often as they ask, I would, in fact, become one of the needy that they supposedly help.
My daily texts/e-mails come in from candidates I've never heard of in states I've never visited. I suspect ActBlue has been receiving good payment for the lists of donors upon which I appear. There seems to be a direct connection.
Lastly, dear Colin Allred: You seem like a top-notch guy who presents well as a candidate. I happily supported you when you ran against Cancun Cruz last year even though I don't live in TX, but it was not to be. I get it. You're now running against John Cornyn in 2026, but anyone viewing my text log would be convinced you and I are embroiled in a hot and crazy affair based on how often you're in touch. Just stop it!
peacebuzzard
(5,856 posts)Every few days when I am stuck on a commute to work or home I go through the emails and either unsubscribe or lately I have been marking it Junk and delete.
I am stuck on these commutes but in a situation where I have the time to do so. Usually in a crowded area or waiting room or lounge where it is difficult to concentrate on much else so I try to clean up my emails. But it is endless. And a great waste of time.
I am going to try to figure out what one poster stated regarding a centralized website.
orangecrush
(29,877 posts)And I'd love to hear the story of the jungle LP
patphil
(8,949 posts)Since then I get 3-4 mail solicitations and about 6-7 e-mail solicitations each day for all sorts of stuff.
I refuse to contribute to any campaign or party before July of 2026.
And, I only give to deserving causes when I have the money, which means a few times a year. The only one I give to each month is my regional food bank.
I know how important money is in elections, but I refuse to just throw money out there without any expectation of how it will actually be used.
When the actual campaigs start, I'll give what I can.
moonshinegnomie
(3,991 posts)until i see real action im done. and if i do ever donate again im giving them a google voice phone number and a spam catcher email address. Im tired of the daily asks for me to "chip in" from across the country.
its one of teh reasons m not a fan of act blue
CaptainTruth
(8,161 posts)However, I don't feel trapped, I feel ready to fight like hell, & I feel like that fight hasn't even yet begun.
LogDog75
(1,240 posts)I gave my stimulus check to three organizations.
One was to a food bank.
One was to Meals on Wheels.
One was to a kitchen that provide nutritional meals to those at risk of malnutrition due to critical illness such as HIV, cancer, congestive heart failure, type 2 diabetes, and chronic kidney disease.
I keep getting mail from them asking me to donate. I don't mind donating but I don't want them to keep asking me for more money. I'd rather donate cash anonymously than keep getting their mail.
Jack Valentino
(4,853 posts)and don't give it to anyone else...
and don't donate from it, ever...
Let those donation request pile up in your previous account,
and request unsubscription from them
Oeditpus Rex
(43,094 posts)to "no party preference."
I haven't gotten a political begging e-mail since I changed mine 21 years ago.
Raine
(31,154 posts)constant dunning for money. It takes me forever to go thru my mail ... I'm done!
Scrivener7
(59,262 posts)all my money this time around will be going to him. It has been a relief not to get those emails.
Choose the specific ones you want to donate to and unsubscribe to all the rest.
Linda ladeewolf
(1,133 posts)More than a thousand emails every week, most asking for money.
Mblaze
(972 posts)I unsubscribe to any of the group appeals. When asked to supply a reason, I write "inundation".
MLAA
(19,709 posts)and multiply over night. Its like Ive lost use of my email.
k55f5r
(515 posts)when I sign onto any site that's not my business or an interaction with close personal friends , I use a yahoo.mail account which I purge every week.
homegirl
(1,957 posts)DCCC
430 South Capitol Street SE
Washington, D.C. 20003
ATT:Chairwoman Suzane DelBene
July 17, 2025
Dear Ms. DelBene,
For many years I have been receiving petitions, questionnaires and requests for funding from the DCCC, I assume this is based on my lifelong voter participation, from the age of 21, when I voted for Adlai Stevenson for President.
I have been a life long Democrat and have served on my local, Sonoma County CA Democratic Central Committee. My experience during that service on the committee was that expensive paper mailings DO NOT WORK! Even I, as a political participant do not open the political mailings, be it from the DCCC, local, state or -most obnoxious- out of state politicians. I have even purchased and utilized a RETURN TO SENDER stamp, unfortunately the USPS returns 95% of these mailings to me!
My assessment of the situation of the Democratic party-from the top down is lack of an aggressive program. Advertising should be highly visible in public venues.
Billboards,
Signs on trucks in communities, shopping centers,
Advertising to captive audiences in movie theaters, sports stadiums,
Small give away items: handy inscribed letter openers, key chains, nail clippers, emery boards, pens, email address books and similar small, inexpensive handy items, even kitchen pot holders and dispensers for BBQ sauces!
Door to door is obviously the very best out reach and the most difficult to staff, so lets move on to:
Programs designed and executed to enroll new young voters should be created, funded and implemented. My plan would:
Offer college credit to High School Seniors who participate in a credit earning Civics course, which would transfer the credits to a local college or junior college, or a college to which the student has been accepted.
And a voter registration opportunity tied to the Civics course. A Civics instructor from the local college or junior college would be contracted to run this program.
So, there you have it from a lifelong Democrat and proud American who is terrified at the path our country and my party is stumbling on. Get tough, playing nice is not going to defeat the Republican party that has surrendered to fascist, demented Donald Trump!
A favor, if possible, can you remove me from the mailing list? Thank you
Sincerely,
Qutzupalotl
(15,782 posts)Go to oath.vote and search for the candidate you want to support, or look for races close to flipping. They don't spam you and don't share your info.
Thanks to former DUer brooklynite for the tip. No more ActBlue, et al for me.
spooky3
(38,521 posts)evilhime
(372 posts)I have started unsubscribing to many of them (though others take their [places rapidly) - And while I realize that this is a national problem, candidates for whom I cant vote are not getting support from me at least not yet . .. And TBH, unless a political candidate/group has proven they are really fighting the good fight through actions and words, they arent getting my money. And I hate the click bait emails that want answers to a survey only to make the submission contingent on donation . . . they may or may not be legitimate surveys (though lately I tend to doubt them) but they are almost as exhausting as the debacle in DC.
Joinfortmill
(20,902 posts)Klondike Kat
(936 posts)You can create folders for the ones you consider important and then create a filter that will automatically file the incoming message in the appropriate folder. Some applications' filtering mechanisms work better than others, so your mileage may vary.
BobTheSubgenius
(12,194 posts)I FINALLY had the phone call I had been hoping for, and driving myself to ultimate frustration trying to get it done, because....just try to get through to the fed. income tax people on the phone. AND, that is the only form of communication they will recognize for most vital topics, and I desperately needed this call to get my dental insurance renewed. (Thank you, Canada!!!) That was partly caused by emails being buried bu the stream of beseechers looking for my money, but I can only do so much.
I thought I'd reached the point where retirement would be at least safe, if not comfortable, but FAR from lavish. We are under water, on a monthly average, of about $600. Peppered throughout has been (hopefully) one-time larger expenses, and the combination sure is enough to batter one's financial fortress.
I suppose there are things that we could give up, but my wife and I have become rather accustomed to living indoors and eating every day, so no complaints allowed there. I do have perspective.
But, beyond that, what do we forgo? House insurance? Seems foolhardy. Wi-fi package, so doing without Internet, telephone andor television? Seems kind of bleak. Our car? Being without one would be seriously inconvenient, and by no means free - still cab fare for the necessary trips and $20 doesn't get you very far, let alone back again.
Even groceries are scaled back. Not long ago, a stranger in the meat dept. of the supermarket we frequent held up a package of meat for me to see. A LOVELY-looking T-bone with a really big chunk of meat on the filet side. Easily enough to feed 2 people that aren't gluttons, but...$57??? A typical pack of chicken breast is now $25-30?
So, I'm afraid that the upshot of all this is that worthy causes are going begging. If I ever start using "thoughts and prayers", please bash me in the head with something solid. Or perhaps just a resounding slap - we are getting more and more fragile.
