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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsSad to report that my mom passed away
At about 7:15 this morning. Age 92.
Justice
(7,270 posts)Keeping you in my thoughts. Tell us about her when you are up to it.
mahatmakanejeeves
(70,746 posts)Its a tough one.
1WorldHope
(2,158 posts)bullimiami
(14,075 posts)I know how tough this is.
radical noodle
(10,690 posts)I'm so sorry to hear this.
LetMyPeopleVote
(182,068 posts)Diamond_Dog
(41,053 posts)When you are ready to, wed love to hear about her.
walkingman
(11,160 posts)...although it is sad to lose your Mom, always remember how fortunate you were to have gotten to know her, love her, and have her for such a long time.
MineralMan
(151,561 posts)sinkingfeeling
(58,042 posts)SheilaAnn
(10,780 posts)imanamerican63
(16,414 posts)judesedit
(4,602 posts)gademocrat7
(12,028 posts)To you and your family, on the loss of your beloved mother.
DFW
(60,436 posts)My parents never even made it to 80, so that was important for me.
surfered
(14,294 posts)peggysue2
(12,597 posts)Long life! My mother died just shy of 91 years. Losing a parent is hard. Even when we expect it, the moment still comes as a shock.
Take care of yourself.
70sEraVet
(5,616 posts)I am so sorry for your loss, mac.
Peacetrain
(24,291 posts)Grim Chieftain
(2,046 posts)You're in my thoughts.
Deuxcents
(27,708 posts)area51
(12,755 posts)orangecrush
(31,154 posts)Sorry to hear this.
Solly Mack
(97,271 posts)Iris
(16,890 posts)MiHale
(13,175 posts)TygrBright
(21,390 posts)SheltieLover
(81,720 posts)Healing vibes on the way to you.
mountain grammy
(29,216 posts)SocialDemocrat61
(8,037 posts)whopis01
(3,931 posts)I lost my mom back in February. She was 86.
Everybody's journey is unique of course - but I hope you take comfort in knowing that she lived a good, long life and had people thinking of her right up till the end.
malaise
(297,964 posts)Give thanks for her long life.
May lovely memories replace your grief.
pandr32
(14,307 posts)Even though her life was long and the end finally comes we are never ready.
MIButterfly
(3,143 posts)I extend to you and your family my deepest sympathy at this sad time.
Love,
MIButterfly
berniesandersmittens
(13,211 posts)In memory of your mom
JMCKUSICK
(6,618 posts)I pray you have ample room and support to grieve.
forgotmylogin
(7,964 posts)My mom passed in 2022 and my cousin gave me the best advice: Grief is like a bitter hard candy lodged in your throat and it will be there a long time unless you accept it and allow yourself to taste it in small increments so it slowly melts. If you don't do that it's going to choke you all at once when you least expect it.
I wish for you that your grief is cathartic and productive and filled with the best memories.
3catwoman3
(29,807 posts)Thank you for sharing this eloquent thought.
aurora the great
(142 posts)Thank you for sharing this. I comes at a time of my life that I really needed to hear it.
StarryNite
(12,169 posts)Tree Lady
(13,384 posts)Lost my mom 1 1/2 yrs ago. We can be thankful they made it to their 90's, mine was 96 and mostly healthy.
Liberty Belle
(9,709 posts)May her memories always be with you. I am sorry for your loss.
It was both hard and heartening going through all of Mom's things, but looking at all the old photos and memorabilia was comforting to me, and finding ways to save a few of her treasures and some family heirlooms, like my grandfather's fiddle and grandmother's hand-made quilts.
Her generation saw so many changes--my Mom grew up on a farm without electricity, running water or telephones and lived long enough to see astronauts on the moon, computers and smart phones. They survived the Depression, two world wars and a global pandemic. We can all learn a lot from their tenacity and resiliency.
Nevilledog
(55,137 posts)Wicked Blue
(9,022 posts)Jay25
(437 posts)spanone
(142,062 posts)a lot.
littlemissmartypants
(34,377 posts)I hope that you find comfort in the happy memories that she left behind.
❤️
bluestarone
(22,466 posts)So sorry.
chowder66
(12,514 posts)Clouds Passing
(8,195 posts)KT2000
(22,221 posts)It is always tough to lose our mother. Peace to you.
Ziggysmom
(4,158 posts)ecstatic
(35,135 posts)🫂
democrank
(12,680 posts)Cherish your memories of her and take good care of yourself.
lindalou65
(395 posts)to you and yours.
essaynnc
(993 posts)I hope she had a wonderful life and a peaceful passing. And that you have warm memories of her during and after your grieving.
livetohike
(24,425 posts)to you, the family and all who knew and loved her. May your good memories always comfort you
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applegrove
(133,103 posts)IbogaProject
(6,074 posts)I hope she passed easily.
Lost mine at 93 two years ago, my son's final grandparent.
barbtries
(31,353 posts)and free of suffering. Condolences
live love laugh
(16,484 posts)Pas-de-Calais
(10,295 posts)Bayard
(30,283 posts)haele
(15,598 posts)Whether expected or not. Take care of yourself, take the time you need.
Beacool
(30,524 posts)My sincere condolences to you and your family.
godsentme
(237 posts)I get it. 🙏☮️
hamsterjill
(17,760 posts)92 is a lot of years, but it's still an empty chair at the table. Peace and comfort to you and your family. Take care of yourself.
hibbing
(10,609 posts)My mother passed at 84 and she was pretty clear about being ready to die, she had an amazing life, but got the dreaded Alzheimer's.
92! Imagine seeing so many amazing changes in every area of life through the decades.
My experience has been that only time can soothe the agony of mourning.
BlueKota
(5,554 posts)Mblaze
(1,104 posts)JoseBalow
(9,742 posts)I hope you feel better soon.
senseandsensibility
(25,521 posts)I know from experience how difficult it is to lose your mother. In my case, it's been a process that is still unfolding three years later. But I have found comfort in the Jewish saying "May their memory be a blessing", although I'm not Jewish. At first that didn't comfort me at all, but it does now. So that's progress? Sending good thoughts your way, my friend.
yardwork
(69,646 posts)Danmel
(5,805 posts)May sweet memories of your beloved mom bring you comfort and peace.
MLAA
(19,800 posts)3catwoman3
(29,807 posts)marble falls
(72,531 posts)DarthDem
(5,465 posts)May her memory be a blessing.
BumRushDaShow
(172,286 posts)mwmisses4289
(4,734 posts)Mz Pip
(28,507 posts)Cherish your memories.
PCIntern
(28,592 posts)mercuryblues
(16,515 posts)calimary
(90,797 posts)I hope youre okay, and that youre finding peace and consolation. And if you dont feel it now, it WILL eventually come to you. Having lost both my parents, thats one big thing I learned.
HeartsCanHope
(1,763 posts)I will keep you all in my thoughts.
irisblue
(37,926 posts)blogslug
(39,221 posts)❤️ ❤️ ❤️
CaptainTruth
(8,257 posts)brer cat
(27,688 posts)Im so sorry, mac.
LoisB
(13,485 posts)B.See
(8,867 posts)NEOBuckeye
(2,925 posts)Tetrachloride
(9,705 posts)aurora the great
(142 posts)I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and all that love her. Blessing to all.
pazzyanne
(6,761 posts)Grieving is hard work. Take good care of yourself.
BigmanPigman
(55,527 posts)Her brother, 92, died 2 months ago. She stays active and her mother died at 104 so we have long-life DNA I guess.
If you have any "dreams" of her visiting you, write them down as soon as you "wake up". My dad visited me the night he died but I was unaware of it until the next day. I was 100% awake and reading and I heard him at 12:45 AM and even got my neighbor involved since I heard his shoes (hard soles) in the empty apt above mine. He visited me again after my dog died while I was trying to take a nap and he showed me her walking around the corner of a hallway above the ground with him and they disappeared together.
I am an atheist but this is proof that something happens to your "life energy" after you die. Once these odd things happen to you personally you KNOW something is going on.
Dem4life1970
(1,056 posts)Ilsa
(64,574 posts)choie
(7,002 posts)My deep condolences on the passing of your dear mom.
MerrilyMerrily
(230 posts)LeftInTX
(34,852 posts)Doodley
(12,079 posts)pacalo
(24,857 posts)Heidi
(58,846 posts)summer_in_TX
(4,277 posts)electric_blue68
(27,323 posts)no "right way" to grieve.
I hope you'll have all support you need.
SimplyHadEnough
(89 posts)DownriverDem
(7,026 posts)Keep the good memories close.
TommieMommy
(3,078 posts)cate94
(3,124 posts)FemDemERA
(912 posts)Hold on tight to loved ones and precious memories.
ihavenoidea
(16 posts)I can't even begin to understand what it's like to lose a parent, but I'm glad she got to live a long life with people who loved her, and who love&remember her even after she passed away.
LetMyPeopleVote
(182,068 posts)Raine
(31,237 posts)R-I-P 🙏
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