My answer is irrelevant. I know it's "important" to make this about me, but I'm not participating in that game.
This bizarre level of irrelevant "curiosity" (or prolonged assumption-making) reveals much. It's odd to me when anyone persistently starts asking things about me that are literally none of their business. It's also curious how someone would try to pretend that if I do not answer the intrusive questions to their satisfaction, then they would feel free to make the most negative assumptions in an effort to somehow "disqualify" me. Or, to be dismissive and to cast doubts on the validity of my answers, observations, experiences and... opinions. It's borderline harassment and bullying. Nice try. I'm not playing that game. Sorry. 
Bye, Kaleva.
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