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littlemissmartypants

(34,344 posts)
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 05:20 AM Sep 2025

9/11 Honor & Reminiscence Thread: Where were you, what were you doing, how did it change you, if at all?

I was making rounds at the hospital. The staff and hospital in general were eerily quiet.

It was like time stood still for hours as the details unfolded. Many staff members had far away looks in their eyes. Looks of concern that communicated a desire to stop working and call to check on loved ones.

Each patient that I visited, who was awake and lucid, was watching the news. It seemed like everyone was watching the exact same channel. The reports echoed down the hallways.

I remember one extremely upset lady in tears and having trouble breathing. She had been deeply affected by WWII and was just sure that her grandchildren were going to be forced to join the service and go to war. I tried to comfort and reassure her the best way that I knew how.

I honestly felt some of her same fears.

What did the future hold for us, I wondered.

After a few days, I found a flag pin to wear. Then, later, I started wearing an enameled pin in the shape of an apple that was red, white, and blue on my labcoat every day. For NYC, the Big Apple.

I put an American flag magnet on my car. Soon, American flags and other patriotic symbols were everywhere. On cars, houses, shops, jewelry, clothing. Everywhere.

It's difficult to think about how so many of us were forced to change.

Change goals, dreams, and senses of stability and security. The shock in the loss of the feelings of safety.

The monotony of the daily routine was erased by the fear of another unexpected disaster.

How the feelings of being untouched, undisturbed, trusting of almost everyone just disappeared in a single day.

All of the unnecessary lives lost on that day and every other day since as a result of it.

It was a day that never really ended, still living in my heart.

Where were you?

(@2diamondeyes.bsky.social) 2025-09-11T09:19:38.091Z

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9/11 Honor & Reminiscence Thread: Where were you, what were you doing, how did it change you, if at all? (Original Post) littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 OP
I was just getting up... 2naSalit Sep 2025 #1
... littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 #4
My husband is an FDNY survivor. lapucelle Sep 2025 #2
... littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 #3
9/11/2001 is the day I found out I was pregnant with my oldest daughter. madibella Sep 2025 #5
I hope that your daughter's doing well, madibella. littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 #6
She is! And thank you for asking. madibella Sep 2025 #15
I'm so glad to hear it! She sounds delightful. 🙏💐 littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 #16
I was in Lower Manhattan Prairie Gates Sep 2025 #7
I'm so sorry, Prairie Gates. littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 #8
September 11th was such a horrific, life-changing day. democrank Sep 2025 #9
The worst single day of life for so many with many more lives years after... littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 #10
Worked afternoons. Had woke up and was multigraincracker Sep 2025 #11
Wow, so everything was pandemonium when you woke up. littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 #12
It was a WTF moment. multigraincracker Sep 2025 #13
It was horrible for the people that died and traumatizing to watch the coverage. littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 #14
My DH was teaching a class on HVAC sales in Florida Bettie Sep 2025 #17
It had to have been very sad for all of you. ... littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 #19
I was getting ready to leave home for work malaise Sep 2025 #18
Transfixed is an excellent description, malaise. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 #20
I was at work. That act was the beginning of opening my eyes Autumn Sep 2025 #21
my then hubs was at a conference in toronto, but mopinko Sep 2025 #22
💔 A Memory littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 #23
Waking up to hear NPR IzzaNuDay Sep 2025 #24
Wow! You just reminded me... littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 #25
overseas visiting family Eugene Sep 2025 #26
Thanks so much for sharing this, Eugene. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 #28
Sad Morning Squeaky41 Sep 2025 #27
So sorry, Squeaky41. So many untold stories. So many... littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 #29

2naSalit

(103,806 posts)
1. I was just getting up...
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 05:37 AM
Sep 2025

It was early morning in the Rocky Mountains, and NPR was on and I heard Bob Edwards suddenly turn serious and took a call from an eye witness who was on the phone with Bob when the second plane hit.

I had just received my Master's degree 30 days prior and was negotiating a really good position with a great nonprofit that dissipated into thin air a few days later. I never recovered professionally or financially from the setbacks that took place thereafter. All these years later I am retired with far less than I had tried to plan for all this time.

I no longer plan ahead any more than a couple weeks into the future anymore. I decide to avoid international travel, embarrassed by my USA passport.

lapucelle

(21,129 posts)
2. My husband is an FDNY survivor.
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 05:43 AM
Sep 2025

His fire company was first due, and he helped evacuate the the south tower. They were getting ready to go back in when the tower collapsed.

Among his most vivid memories are the sounds of the tower floors falling one upon the other and the sounds of bodies hitting the ground, not with a thud, but with a pop, like an explosion.

My family was very lucky that day. Today we remember those friends we lost.


madibella

(208 posts)
5. 9/11/2001 is the day I found out I was pregnant with my oldest daughter.
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 06:09 AM
Sep 2025

I took the blood test the day before and was told to call the office after 10 am the following day which was September 11th. I was on the phone watching the tv which I had been watching for a few hours at this point.

My mom worked for Raytheon and I was very concerned as they contract for government defense.

Stunning to think that while we were celebrating such wonderful news, the world was forever changing. We felt the highest highs paired with absolute heartbreak over all the innocent live lost.

I always say that watching it live was like watching the titanic sink.

God bless all those lost, their families, friends and our world as a whole.

madibella

(208 posts)
15. She is! And thank you for asking.
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 09:58 AM
Sep 2025

She is a beautiful, smart and kindhearted person. I call her the mayor, she knows someone wherever we go lol

Yes, God Bless us all. ❤️

democrank

(12,680 posts)
9. September 11th was such a horrific, life-changing day.
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 06:35 AM
Sep 2025

Life was altered for so many people in so many ways.

littlemissmartypants

(34,344 posts)
10. The worst single day of life for so many with many more lives years after...
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 06:38 AM
Sep 2025

Still being affected.

multigraincracker

(38,040 posts)
11. Worked afternoons. Had woke up and was
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 07:33 AM
Sep 2025

surfing the net on my desktop and watching tv.
Remember the confusion and everyone thinking it was an accident.

littlemissmartypants

(34,344 posts)
12. Wow, so everything was pandemonium when you woke up.
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 08:33 AM
Sep 2025

It must have been really disorienting just waking up to so much chaos.

multigraincracker

(38,040 posts)
13. It was a WTF moment.
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 08:44 AM
Sep 2025

Saw the second plane hit. Then it became clear we were under attack. I really remember that moment the most.

littlemissmartypants

(34,344 posts)
14. It was horrible for the people that died and traumatizing to watch the coverage.
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 09:33 AM
Sep 2025

And they just kept playing it over and over and over. The tears that were shed that day and since as a result could fill an ocean.

Thanks for sharing your experience, multigraincracker. ❤️

Bettie

(19,873 posts)
17. My DH was teaching a class on HVAC sales in Florida
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 10:10 AM
Sep 2025

at a hotel. All of his students were from New York/New Jersey.

My oldest son was 6 months old and we were along to hang out by the pool.

I saw it on Good Morning America and at first thought "wow, that's a terrible accident". I was watching when the second plane hit.

So, I got my son dressed and we went downstairs to the conference room right before their morning break.

I called DH over to talk, so that those guys didn't walk out to the lobby and see it all on TV without any warning.

They were thankful that they were warned ahead of time.

The class continued as no one could fly, but it was a weird, sad week.

We went home on one of the first flights out when the airports reopened.

littlemissmartypants

(34,344 posts)
19. It had to have been very sad for all of you. ...
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 11:05 AM
Sep 2025

I'm sure it may not have seemed so at the time, but it was a blessing that you were there to help gently break the horrible news.

Thank you for sharing your experience, Bettie.



❤️

malaise

(297,936 posts)
18. I was getting ready to leave home for work
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 10:12 AM
Sep 2025

The TV was on NBC.
I was transfixed for a few minutes.

mopinko

(73,931 posts)
22. my then hubs was at a conference in toronto, but
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 11:16 AM
Sep 2025

1 of his coworkers wasnt sure where he was. the company had an office in the towers.
he called me- where is paul?
me- toronto. y do u ask?
he- turn on the tv.

everyone in their office got out safely.

he was afraid he’d b stuck in canada, cuz they announced that u had to have a passport or a birth cert to cross the border. i went downtown, in chgo, the next day to get it.
there were no cars except cop cars, idling w their lights flashing. creepiest thing ever.
i overnighted the cert. the conference went on, so it was friday by the time he left. by that time, canada had relented. he and a coworker got the last rental in toronto and drove home.

that overnighted letter bounced back here 3 mos later.

i went there in late october. only time i ever took gwb’s advice. i went and spent money. they were just starting to wash the dust off. i had to sit on the windowsill of my chelsea hotel room to get cell service.
i flew into newark and the smell hit me the minute i stepped off the plane. by then, the rot had set in. a mix of concrete and rotting flesh. i cd taste it. a smell i recognized instantly and will never forget.

IzzaNuDay

(1,333 posts)
24. Waking up to hear NPR
Sat Sep 13, 2025, 03:13 AM
Sep 2025

I was drowsy on the west coast. NPR report of a plane hitting WTC but commented that was strange since it was such a clear day in NYC.

My little one was in bed with me, and I really wanted to see what was happening on TV. So I held them close to me, flicked the remote, saw the CNN report for a few seconds, and quickly turned off the TV.

The spouse, little one and I went on with our day. But if anything, 9/11 confirmed one of my fears: airplanes used as weapons.

littlemissmartypants

(34,344 posts)
25. Wow! You just reminded me...
Sat Sep 13, 2025, 06:07 AM
Sep 2025

I thought the same thing at the time...

"...airplanes used as weapons."

Thanks so much for sharing, IzzaNuDay.



Eugene

(67,307 posts)
26. overseas visiting family
Sat Sep 13, 2025, 06:42 AM
Sep 2025

Narrowly missed getting caught in the air travel shutdown. Riding a minibus, I heard a radio bulletin of a plane crash in New York.

I later say TV monitor tuned to CNN, saying that two hijacked aircraft had crashed into the World Trade Center. I had to fight back tears, and I had to move on from that place.

I later watched with disbelief live coverage just after the towers collapsed.

I returned to the U.S. two weeks later. Air travel had resumed, but security was full paranoid.

Squeaky41

(436 posts)
27. Sad Morning
Sat Sep 13, 2025, 10:45 AM
Sep 2025

I was the early morning TV engineer at KPIX in San Francisco.
Saw events on satellite feeds.
Later learned sister station WCBS-TV engineers were doing maintenance at transmitter atop one tower.
News focus changed rapidly that day.

littlemissmartypants

(34,344 posts)
29. So sorry, Squeaky41. So many untold stories. So many...
Sat Sep 13, 2025, 12:02 PM
Sep 2025

Touched by that day in ways we'll never know unless we share. Thank you for sharing this.



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