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Enter stage left

(4,179 posts)
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 09:58 PM Sep 2025

My mother always told me, "if you can't say something good or nice about someone who's dead...

Don't say anything at all.

I promised her I would always live by that rule.

So here it goes about Charlie Kirk...

"It's good that he can no longer spew hatred towards the people he hates, and I think that's nice!

There mom, I did what I promised!

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My mother always told me, "if you can't say something good or nice about someone who's dead... (Original Post) Enter stage left Sep 2025 OP
!!! niyad Sep 2025 #1
"if you can't say something good or nice about someone who's dead... Buzz cook Sep 2025 #2
But I made a promise! Enter stage left Sep 2025 #3
Understood. Buzz cook Sep 2025 #7
I'm always deRien Sep 2025 #4
We've been doing that and got a fascist regime. usonian Sep 2025 #5
My mom said that too. edbermac Sep 2025 #6
My mother never told me that... Jack Valentino Sep 2025 #8
Your mother didn't say that stopdiggin Sep 2025 #9
if you don't have anything nice to say about someone Skittles Sep 2025 #10
The way I heard it was: if you don't have anything nice to say to someone, CTyankee Sep 2025 #11
YESSSSSSSSS Skittles Sep 2025 #12
"If you don't have anything nice to say, come sit here by me." Heidi Sep 2025 #14
there ya go! Skittles Sep 2025 #15
I coulda sworn it was Dorothy Parker. She was pretty snarky. CTyankee Sep 2025 #16
"... then piss on their grave" pcdb Sep 2025 #13

Buzz cook

(2,828 posts)
2. "if you can't say something good or nice about someone who's dead...
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 10:22 PM
Sep 2025

they must have been a real asshole".

deRien

(316 posts)
4. I'm always
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 10:29 PM
Sep 2025

reminded of Thumper from the movie, Bambi. He had that cute little voice when he said, If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all.

usonian

(23,045 posts)
5. We've been doing that and got a fascist regime.
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 10:38 PM
Sep 2025

When the God's honest truth is seen as violent treasonous vile ...

Jack Valentino

(4,220 posts)
8. My mother never told me that...
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 10:48 PM
Sep 2025

although, back in those days, it seemed less necessary to tell someone that---

since the dead had committed less crimes or spoken less hatred against others...

stopdiggin

(14,881 posts)
9. Your mother didn't say that
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 11:29 PM
Sep 2025

you stole that straight from Thumper. ( -Bambi- )

Nice try though ...

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Skittles

(169,100 posts)
10. if you don't have anything nice to say about someone
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 11:45 PM
Sep 2025

you're probably a lot of fun to talk to

can't remember where I heard that

CTyankee

(67,693 posts)
11. The way I heard it was: if you don't have anything nice to say to someone,
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 11:54 PM
Sep 2025

then come over here and sit by me.

Skittles

(169,100 posts)
15. there ya go!
Fri Sep 12, 2025, 02:41 AM
Sep 2025

I heartily agree

I also liked the quote from Jeff Goldblum's character in The Big Chill: "I only like gossip if it is really ugly"

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