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Amaryllis

(11,430 posts)
Mon Sep 15, 2025, 10:56 AM Sep 2025

Timothy Snyder: Always be kind: An unexpected wartime slogan (Ukraine)

https://snyder.substack.com/p/always-be-kind?

I see the world as a parent. Before my children were born, I was judgmental. After fifteen years with kids, I look at dads and moms and think “Wow, they are doing a good job.”

I just had a moment like that in Ukraine, talking about drone warfare. I was in Kyiv, on St. Michael’s Square, recording a video about the work we have done these last three years to raise funds for drone defense, a system that is protecting Ukrainians right now. Passersby knew what I was talking about; the worst drone attack on Kyiv had taken place just a few days before.

To my left I sensed a presence. It was a family: mom and dad, boy of about six. When the filming was done, the mom came over to say a friendly word. As I smiled goodbye to the three of them, I saw the message on her son’s t-shirt:

Always be kind.

War and parenting are close. Children are killed and parents live on. Parents are killed and children live on.

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In Ukraine, and in other war zones, and amidst other catastrophes and difficulties, parents raise children, or mourn them. And what is to admire, or what I admire at least, is parenting that teaches children how to be with others, how to do things, and also how to imagine a world that is different than this one, that is better. It is a challenge, not an escape, to teach:

Always be kind.
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Timothy Snyder: Always be kind: An unexpected wartime slogan (Ukraine) (Original Post) Amaryllis Sep 2025 OP
Good message, bad timing. No one I know is in any mood to give the puke/Nazis anything but constant shit Blues Heron Sep 2025 #1
This is another great message from Timothy Snyder. He's seen some of the worst erronis Sep 2025 #2

Blues Heron

(9,035 posts)
1. Good message, bad timing. No one I know is in any mood to give the puke/Nazis anything but constant shit
Mon Sep 15, 2025, 11:10 AM
Sep 2025

This should have been a thanksgiving or Christmas message. These are fighting times right now. Be kind, but not to Nazis!

erronis

(24,541 posts)
2. This is another great message from Timothy Snyder. He's seen some of the worst
Wed Sep 17, 2025, 12:35 PM
Sep 2025

and still can find some good in these horrible times.

I came to post but glad to see you beat me!

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