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Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin

(137,429 posts)
Tue Sep 30, 2025, 02:43 PM Sep 2025

Father of Michigan church shooter apologizes to victims

The father of a former Marine who police say carried out a horrifying attack on a Michigan church full of worshippers is apologizing in an exclusive interview with the USA TODAY Network as the community grieves and looks for answers.

What should have been a peaceful Sunday of worship turned into the stuff of nightmares when police say 40-year-old Thomas Jacob Sanford rammed a GMC pickup truck bearing two American flags into the church on Sunday, Sept. 28. He then opened fire on hundreds of worshippers and used gasoline to set the building ablaze, killing four people and injuring eight others, including one who was in critical condition, authorities said. Sanford was killed in a gunfight with police.

Sanford's father, Thomas Sanford, spoke about his son during a brief phone interview with the Detroit Free Press, part of the USA TODAY Network, on Monday Sept. 29. He apologized to the families of the victims.

"I feel terrible about all the families that have been hurt and they're under the same crap that I'm going under, that my wife and I are going under," the elder Sanford said, his voice breaking slightly as he spoke. "I apologize for that."

https://www.yahoo.com/news/articles/authorities-search-more-potential-victims-111615738.html

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Father of Michigan church shooter apologizes to victims (Original Post) Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Sep 2025 OP
How about his mother who is pictured dancing around a tRump statue in a tRump shirt waving tRump flags? ImNotGod Sep 2025 #1
This is his father apologizing obamanut2012 Sep 2025 #2
agreed proud patriot Sep 2025 #5
Imagine raising a psycho killer, they should scrutinize the family, see where they fucked up. Blues Heron Sep 2025 #3
"... they're under the same crap that I'm going under, that my wife and I are going under"? maxsolomon Sep 2025 #4
I agree. When I read it, I was wondering. hamsterjill Sep 2025 #6
Yeah that didn't sit well with me Prairie Gates Sep 2025 #7
Their son is dead, too, that's what they have in common. intheflow Sep 2025 #8
I guess he's doing the best he can. maxsolomon Sep 2025 #9

ImNotGod

(1,217 posts)
1. How about his mother who is pictured dancing around a tRump statue in a tRump shirt waving tRump flags?
Tue Sep 30, 2025, 02:46 PM
Sep 2025

where is her apology?

maxsolomon

(39,127 posts)
4. "... they're under the same crap that I'm going under, that my wife and I are going under"?
Tue Sep 30, 2025, 03:14 PM
Sep 2025

what does that mean? what are they "going under"? does he mean "going through"?

It sounds self-pitying as well.

hamsterjill

(17,759 posts)
6. I agree. When I read it, I was wondering.
Tue Sep 30, 2025, 03:47 PM
Sep 2025

I give the man credit for trying to make an apology, but when I read his words, it feels like he's saying he and his wife are feeling the same pain that the victim's families are feeling. I guess they are. But to verbalize it that way is disingenuous to me. It sounds like he's trying to equalize the suffering.

Their pain is because of direct action that their son took; the victims' families were just there. To me, there's a difference.

intheflow

(30,249 posts)
8. Their son is dead, too, that's what they have in common.
Tue Sep 30, 2025, 04:06 PM
Sep 2025

This man is volunteering an apology for his son’s heinous actions; he appears sincere. I think he’s brave to have done this.

maxsolomon

(39,127 posts)
9. I guess he's doing the best he can.
Tue Sep 30, 2025, 04:42 PM
Sep 2025

It is brave to apologize publicly even if its imperfect.

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