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sunflowerseed

(520 posts)
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 10:07 AM Oct 2025

Are we on a preditory site?

Don't misunderstand I've been here through the bush jr yrs.

I went to renew my star membership and I don't want a pay pal account so I clicked cancel and return to merchant to be hit with "Activate Account" adds that if I were older would have fallen for.

What's up with that?

I found the pay with cc card option, why don't we put that one first?

I realize this site needs financial support to survive but couldn't someone police the adds 🙃

With All Loveing Kindness and a sincere desire to make DU safe for all.

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Are we on a preditory site? (Original Post) sunflowerseed Oct 2025 OP
I need to send in $$, too NJCher Oct 2025 #1
Paypal really is annoying to deal with here. ananda Oct 2025 #2
PayPal forced an account on me while donating here and blm Oct 2025 #3
Just send a personal check. multigraincracker Oct 2025 #4
That is what I do. SamKnause Oct 2025 #10
Maybe I'm just lucky, but... calguy Oct 2025 #5
same eShirl Oct 2025 #7
preditory? milestogo Oct 2025 #6
I wouldnt know, im a welder, the spelling sunflowerseed Oct 2025 #11
As ive thought of you sunflowerseed Oct 2025 #13
Unfortunately the ads cannot really be "policed" because EarlG Oct 2025 #8
I eventually found that, thank you, sunflowerseed Oct 2025 #12
I pay by check every year. SamKnause Oct 2025 #9
I have hundreds of them, lol but clicking sunflowerseed Oct 2025 #14

NJCher

(43,537 posts)
1. I need to send in $$, too
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 10:15 AM
Oct 2025

Hate this payment process so bad.

I had a six year nightmare with PayPal back when Musk owned it.

ananda

(35,520 posts)
2. Paypal really is annoying to deal with here.
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 10:15 AM
Oct 2025

I've tried to use CC only, and it always reverts
to Paypal.

I finally realized that I needed to cancel Paypal
directly from Paypal.

I no longer have a Paypal account (I hope).

blm

(114,765 posts)
3. PayPal forced an account on me while donating here and
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 10:16 AM
Oct 2025

they ignore every attempt to cancel. I think DU should stick to cards and keep it simple. Jumping through the PayPal hoops probably turns off a lot of people who simply want to use their debit or credit card donate.

calguy

(6,168 posts)
5. Maybe I'm just lucky, but...
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 10:20 AM
Oct 2025

I’ve had zero issues using Paypal for many years, and have always used it to make my donations to DU.

eShirl

(20,438 posts)
7. same
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 10:27 AM
Oct 2025

I've had paypal ever since eBay first starting accepting it. No problems yet...

sunflowerseed

(520 posts)
11. I wouldnt know, im a welder, the spelling
Mon Oct 13, 2025, 12:42 PM
Oct 2025

Police gave up on me in 2nd grade don't think your gonna teach me or change me, you can accept me or u can ...... what ever you choose, but I don't need to be around for it.

sunflowerseed

(520 posts)
13. As ive thought of you
Mon Oct 13, 2025, 12:51 PM
Oct 2025

A unwholesomeness (is that a word, so funny that I just don't care) has arisen in my mind. Your not creating good karma. May you have a nice day and a judgement free life.

Acceptance is the key to happiness 😊

EarlG

(23,716 posts)
8. Unfortunately the ads cannot really be "policed" because
Sat Oct 11, 2025, 10:35 AM
Oct 2025

different ads are served to different people, which is how Internet advertising works. We don't know what ads are going to be served ahead of time -- they are served directly to you by the advertisers, and DU just gets a cut for providing the space that they are served in. We can attempt to filter ads after the fact, but this is kinda like playing whac-a-mole, forever. For what it's worth, we are going to be changing our ad provider at the start of next year, so that might make a difference to the quality of the ads, but the fact is that without advertising revenue DU would not make anywhere near enough money to operate.

Also unfortunately, rebuilding DU's entire payment system to allow for payments from a service other than PayPal is going to be an arduous and complicated process, which is why we've resisted doing it for so long. However, we are going to look into making this a project for 2026, especially since PayPal seems to be making it more and more complicated to make a simple payment as a guest, without creating a PayPal account.

To be clear though, you do not need a PayPal account to make a payment to DU. Instructions for doing so can be found here:

https://www.democraticunderground.com/125629039

sunflowerseed

(520 posts)
12. I eventually found that, thank you,
Mon Oct 13, 2025, 12:46 PM
Oct 2025

Could we put it first? Pay pal found my old forgotten account even after I used cc only and gave me "payment protection" lol.

The Active Account ads have gotten alot of older people's information. I'm trying to help out

sunflowerseed

(520 posts)
14. I have hundreds of them, lol but clicking
Mon Oct 13, 2025, 12:53 PM
Oct 2025

Is more convenient. I was just trying to protect people.

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