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Buddyzbuddy

(2,614 posts)
Sat Nov 1, 2025, 05:06 PM Nov 2025

We are patient, we will wait but we won't forget.

I for one remember the first bully I encountered in the first grade or the white teacher , Mr. Stanton that used a book to wallop my behind in the 1st grade because I was in the the boys room and couldn't make it back in time after recess. Yes some of this administration has a spot in that part of my memory that will remain until I am cremated. That is probably true of many of us.

One day soon, you will no longer be under the protection of the Federal Government, some sooner than others. I have no threat to make only the knowledge that one day you will be in a restaurant, bar, club, grocery store or golf club and the people that you threatened, intimidated or hurt will be there. That bump you feel in a crowd, that feeling of being watched or followed, that fear for you and your family is real. Suspicions about the food you're eating, the cigarette burn in your dry cleaning the anonymous letters you might recieve are all very real possibilities. Especially for those of you that aren't billionaires that must walk amongst the common folk. I am as sure as the sun rising tomorrow that some of you will experience what we have experienced. Who will be there for you? Not I, I can assure you, not I.

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We are patient, we will wait but we won't forget. (Original Post) Buddyzbuddy Nov 2025 OP
My first bully got a broken nose. CanonRay Nov 2025 #1
I didn't become a fighter until 14 after getting beaten up by my mom's boyfriend for 4 years. Buddyzbuddy Nov 2025 #2
I had a nasty temper as a kid CanonRay Nov 2025 #3
I too hate bullies and I learned to fight for survival. Buddyzbuddy Nov 2025 #5
Btw, I was a very timid boy who hated fighting. Buddyzbuddy Nov 2025 #6
Yes SuzyandPuffpuff Nov 2025 #4

Buddyzbuddy

(2,614 posts)
2. I didn't become a fighter until 14 after getting beaten up by my mom's boyfriend for 4 years.
Sat Nov 1, 2025, 05:57 PM
Nov 2025

Then I couldn't stop the rage within, for 5 years. I know anger like a warm blanket on a cold night. I've since learned patience and control.

CanonRay

(16,171 posts)
3. I had a nasty temper as a kid
Sat Nov 1, 2025, 06:33 PM
Nov 2025

And I still hate bullies. The one useful thing my father taught me was how to fight.

Buddyzbuddy

(2,614 posts)
5. I too hate bullies and I learned to fight for survival.
Sat Nov 1, 2025, 06:58 PM
Nov 2025

I learned you don't talk about what you're going to do, just do it. Commit to the pain, yours and theirs. Fear can be a wonderful motivator.

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