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Lettuce Be

(2,355 posts)
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:13 PM Nov 2025

Just had my own "Karen" encounter in grocery store because I was trying to help someone

I saw a woman and child outside a store and went to give them some $ then asked if I could get them anything from inside. The woman answered, "milk?" So, I asked them to come inside with me and get what they needed. I expected to spend $200 or so, because that's about what it costs to fill your cart. We are inside, she keeps asking if things are okay, milk, eggs, bread, butter, all basics.

About this time a woman comes up and asks if she can "show me something over here," and she takes me aside and warms me about scammers. Yeah, lady, I know, I can tell if someone is a scammer, and, I told her, "They are not scamming, I offered." Well, she can't quite take that, so she proceeds to take a photo of me and the woman (I don't 'recall giving her permission so hope she doesn't post it, LOL), but she is on a tear now and gosh darn it, going to do something about it! The horror. A woman buying groceries for another woman with a small child.

She took time to tell the store clerk all about it, and how awful, and you should chase these people away from your store. The poor woman I'm helping was so sad. Her English was pretty good but not great, so it broke my heart a little to go from such a joyful state to now sad, because someone just cannot stand the thought of helping another. I told the clerk that the lady was wrong and I had offered, so no scam going on here. So that's my story, and I won't stop helping when I can.

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Just had my own "Karen" encounter in grocery store because I was trying to help someone (Original Post) Lettuce Be Nov 2025 OP
Bless you for your kindness AZJonnie Nov 2025 #1
Ditto! n/t BaronChocula Nov 2025 #4
+1 Scott Alan Swaggerty Nov 2025 #87
You are kind, generous, and brave. yardwork Nov 2025 #2
Yes, deplorable is the correct word. Prof. Toru Tanaka Nov 2025 #81
Truly Scott Alan Swaggerty Nov 2025 #90
Believe me... the lady you helped will NEVER forget your kindness. And the other one? Fuck her CurtEastPoint Nov 2025 #3
Wow, it amazes me how people go out of their way to be nasty. walkingman Nov 2025 #5
Surprised? SeeSquare Nov 2025 #93
I still reject the idea this is normal. BTW - Welcome to the forum, look forward to your ideas.....Happy Thanksgiving! walkingman Nov 2025 #94
Welcome to DU LetMyPeopleVote Nov 2025 #95
Next time, just say "Oh she's with me" n/t leftstreet Nov 2025 #6
Why can't everyone be like you? Bluestocking Nov 2025 #7
This message was self-deleted by its author wcmagumba Nov 2025 #8
And here I always thought that conservatives celebrated private charity over the government dole Justice Brandeis Nov 2025 #9
And conservatives want people to be free to do what they want with their own money. markodochartaigh Nov 2025 #12
A lot of people have mental health issues mr715 Nov 2025 #13
Oh, good one! 👍😄 electric_blue68 Nov 2025 #26
Right? Scott Alan Swaggerty Nov 2025 #88
Insist the woman get away from you IMMEDIATELY and show her your phone dialing 911 Maru Kitteh Nov 2025 #10
You will be remembered as evidence of human kindness mr715 Nov 2025 #11
How does that other woman know Wednesdays Nov 2025 #14
She'd seen them outside the store, most likely. She knew they needed help but wouldn't bother. mucholderthandirt Nov 2025 #92
Thank you. You are a great human being. CentralMass Nov 2025 #15
The Thanksgiving Spirit sure skipped over that one C_U_L8R Nov 2025 #16
Don't let her harsh your joy Keepthesoulalive Nov 2025 #17
Thank you so much for your kindness Lettuce Be JMCKUSICK Nov 2025 #18
That's Republican Jesus for you Jerry2144 Nov 2025 #19
I'm not a practicing Christian, but I'd bet that nasty lady identifies as such robbob Nov 2025 #84
Pretty much Scott Alan Swaggerty Nov 2025 #89
I wonder who the "Karen" voted for president in the 2024 election? Fil1957 Nov 2025 #20
Fascists have no shame! Emile Nov 2025 #21
I think I would have only done one thing differently UpInArms Nov 2025 #22
I am stealing your "Are you trying to rob me?" line! niyad Nov 2025 #36
I know. That one's good. I'm still laughing. Iggo Nov 2025 #43
Didn't think of that soldierant Nov 2025 #67
Thank you for your kindness and generosity. sheshe2 Nov 2025 #23
A scam to get groceries? Glaisne Nov 2025 #24
Lettuce be pellucidly clear malaise Nov 2025 #25
You should have taken a photo of her too. spudspud Nov 2025 #27
Bless your kind heart. LoisB Nov 2025 #28
You've done a very good deed! TY.... electric_blue68 Nov 2025 #29
You are a kind and loving person. The busybody, on the other hand, is niyad Nov 2025 #30
It says to feed the hungry, it doesn't say means test them anywhere. Did she think that food was going to end up in ... marble falls Nov 2025 #31
The photo thing is weird. That would have pissed me off to no end. chowder66 Nov 2025 #32
Yeah - what's that about????!!!! I hope you don't have ICE agents where you live. kerry-is-my-prez Nov 2025 #33
Ugh, a very good point! niyad Nov 2025 #37
You are too kind AverageOldGuy Nov 2025 #34
Ding ding malaise Nov 2025 #75
I would call that interning person a J D Vancer. nt delisen Nov 2025 #35
You are kind and that woman will forever remember the kindness. Fla Dem Nov 2025 #38
Did she think the woman will be selling milk on the street for booze or drugs? nuxvomica Nov 2025 #39
Thank you for your kindness kimbutgar Nov 2025 #40
The store doesn't care iemanja Nov 2025 #41
Screw them popsdenver Nov 2025 #42
You get an "A" for Angel! wolfie001 Nov 2025 #44
Yup SuzyandPuffpuff Nov 2025 #45
This is pure, late-stage, Trump-Era capitalism. Aristus Nov 2025 #46
I wonder if it isn't a situation of knowning, deep down in a desperately niyad Nov 2025 #60
Pay It Forward Bayard Nov 2025 #47
Thank you for your kindness LetMyPeopleVote Nov 2025 #48
Thank You For Being A Kind Person. BurnDoubt Nov 2025 #49
You were their savior today. Joinfortmill Nov 2025 #50
Nice work. Thanks for posting. I could go on, but we know these people and their zero empathy or even understanding... Evolve Dammit Nov 2025 #51
We always give at least a few bucks to people who ask mcar Nov 2025 #52
It's a shame how heartless people like that Karen can be. BlueKota Nov 2025 #53
Thank you Wild blueberry Nov 2025 #54
Thank you for your kindness. MIButterfly Nov 2025 #55
Blessings on you AND the lady and child! colorado_ufo Nov 2025 #56
Merry fucking Christmas, Karen. OAITW r.2.0 Nov 2025 #57
People need to mind their own fucking business spawnoflinthead Nov 2025 #58
I did the same for an elderly women having trouble paying for her $35 bad of groceries. I intervened and told the clerk OAITW r.2.0 Nov 2025 #59
A wonderful story. Frankly I've become convinced B.See Nov 2025 #61
Post removed Post removed Nov 2025 #62
If for some reason you do get scammed someday mdbl Nov 2025 #63
You did a good thing relayerbob Nov 2025 #64
Thank you for helping. Warpy Nov 2025 #65
At it forward. Good on you. mjvpi Nov 2025 #66
I would have told her Figarosmom Nov 2025 #68
that was wonderful what you did to help that woman and her child. orleans Nov 2025 #69
I'm glad you were able to help her wendyb-NC Nov 2025 #70
Thank you so kindly for correcting the record. calimary Nov 2025 #71
Well, Lettuce Be, that Karen was wrong on every level, and thank you for helping that lady and her child! HeartsCanHope Nov 2025 #72
What you did was beautiful. You made the world a better place halobeam Nov 2025 #73
You should have added your own complaint (to store employee, and possibly management?) stopdiggin Nov 2025 #74
good for you. Javaman Nov 2025 #76
Thank you for helping that family! MaryMagdaline Nov 2025 #77
Loaves and fishes... meanwhile we are scammed daily by corporate monsters lostnfound Nov 2025 #78
The dividing line in our society is not Bluetus Nov 2025 #79
Sometimes you can enjoy other people's anger at you Farmer-Rick Nov 2025 #80
Nothing gets the Right angrier than helping people Johnny2X2X Nov 2025 #82
Money says "Karen" is also a Bible-humping Xitian MAGAt. OMGWTF Nov 2025 #83
I would have cannabis_flower Nov 2025 #85
K&R Scott Alan Swaggerty Nov 2025 #86
I found this video today, Lettuce Be, and it reminded me of your good deed. HeartsCanHope Nov 2025 #91

Prof. Toru Tanaka

(2,919 posts)
81. Yes, deplorable is the correct word.
Thu Nov 20, 2025, 12:12 PM
Nov 2025

I think a large majority of normal people with a heart would have praised Lettuce’s kindness and generosity.

And perhaps would have helped fill her cart by purchasing some necessities themselves.

Good on Lettuce Be for standing up to this mean, bitter and nosy person.

CurtEastPoint

(19,959 posts)
3. Believe me... the lady you helped will NEVER forget your kindness. And the other one? Fuck her
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:18 PM
Nov 2025

SeeSquare

(3 posts)
93. Surprised?
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 02:36 PM
Nov 2025

I'm surprised you are surprised! Nastiness has flourished under the orange regime...flowing literally from the top!

walkingman

(10,684 posts)
94. I still reject the idea this is normal. BTW - Welcome to the forum, look forward to your ideas.....Happy Thanksgiving!
Tue Nov 25, 2025, 02:39 PM
Nov 2025

Response to Lettuce Be (Original post)

 

Justice Brandeis

(405 posts)
9. And here I always thought that conservatives celebrated private charity over the government dole
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:22 PM
Nov 2025

Guess not.

markodochartaigh

(5,385 posts)
12. And conservatives want people to be free to do what they want with their own money.
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:26 PM
Nov 2025

Until someone wants to use their own money for something which the conservative disapproves of.

mr715

(3,365 posts)
13. A lot of people have mental health issues
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:27 PM
Nov 2025

And I suspect a lot of MAGA conservativism is rooted in deep daddy issues.

Maru Kitteh

(31,560 posts)
10. Insist the woman get away from you IMMEDIATELY and show her your phone dialing 911
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:26 PM
Nov 2025

That’s how I would handle that shit.

You did a good thing.

mr715

(3,365 posts)
11. You will be remembered as evidence of human kindness
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:26 PM
Nov 2025

in times of trial. Your actions gave the woman and her family not just food, but hope and trust in the goodness among us.

The other lady? She's as asterisk. She's low and less. Thank you for your kindness, your sense of justice, and your story.

Wednesdays

(22,332 posts)
14. How does that other woman know
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:27 PM
Nov 2025

...that the people you were helping weren't friends or next-door neighbors?
Or, if they were of similar race, they weren't actual relatives?

So many busybodies abound.

mucholderthandirt

(1,780 posts)
92. She'd seen them outside the store, most likely. She knew they needed help but wouldn't bother.
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 04:42 AM
Nov 2025

There used to be people hanging out at one of our local Walmart stores, obviously asking for handouts (I mean, there's nothing there to just stay around for, sitting on the concrete in the sun). There's now private security riding around, so that doesn't happen anymore.

I think people should mind their own business, frankly. It's fine to maybe ask someone if they know what they're doing, if they look like they're being scammed, but then move on. This hatred that Trump and his ilk are encouraging is just not helping anyone.

C_U_L8R

(49,259 posts)
16. The Thanksgiving Spirit sure skipped over that one
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:30 PM
Nov 2025

Maybe she’ll get some Christmas Ghost visits instead.

Keepthesoulalive

(2,225 posts)
17. Don't let her harsh your joy
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:31 PM
Nov 2025

She like her god trump take joy in hurting others. This is our new reality, let’s work to push them back in the sewers where they were before Maga.

robbob

(3,748 posts)
84. I'm not a practicing Christian, but I'd bet that nasty lady identifies as such
Thu Nov 20, 2025, 02:55 PM
Nov 2025

So I would have been very tempted to go all biblical on her sorry ass. Ask her what Jesus would do, start quoting my (somewhat limited) repertoire of scripture, feeding the poor, helping our neighbours, etc. etc.

The look on her face would have been priceless.

UpInArms

(54,702 posts)
22. I think I would have only done one thing differently
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:45 PM
Nov 2025

And that would be to loudly proclaim to Karen (so everyone could hear):

What is YOUR problem?

Are you trying to rob me?

ETA:

Thank you so much for your kindness. You make the world a better place.

Glaisne

(638 posts)
24. A scam to get groceries?
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:47 PM
Nov 2025

If you're desperate enough to commit a "scam" for groceries, then you're desperate for groceries! I'm buying you groceries! It's not like it's someone trying to steal my personal information to open credit cards in my name or some other real scam that come into your email inbox. Some people need to find better things to do.

malaise

(295,114 posts)
25. Lettuce be pellucidly clear
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:51 PM
Nov 2025

You are too damn decent - I would have told her to MYOB and eff off with the sweetest smile. 😀
That is all.
Thank for your kindness

spudspud

(643 posts)
27. You should have taken a photo of her too.
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:54 PM
Nov 2025

And when she went to the clerk complaining you should have told the clerk that this lady was harassing you and other shoppers, didn't appear to be stable, you felt unsafe, and they should call the police on her. Watch how fast she shuffles out of the store.

niyad

(131,543 posts)
30. You are a kind and loving person. The busybody, on the other hand, is
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:57 PM
Nov 2025

an insult to decent people. It is difficult to know how to respond when faced with scum, unless one has a great deal of practice. Sadly, I do. I would have told her she had exactly two seconds to get out of my face before I got management and the police, to file charges for harassment and assault. And I would have taken HER photo. I do not suffer fools or assholes at all, and I have ZERO patience.



May that interfering twit receive everything she deserves.

marble falls

(71,587 posts)
31. It says to feed the hungry, it doesn't say means test them anywhere. Did she think that food was going to end up in ...
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:58 PM
Nov 2025

... in a pawn shop or the local black market?

AverageOldGuy

(3,691 posts)
34. You are too kind
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 06:06 PM
Nov 2025

I would have told the woman who attacked you to “Lady, go fuck yourself!”

Sorry but I’m done turning the other cheek.

nuxvomica

(14,020 posts)
39. Did she think the woman will be selling milk on the street for booze or drugs?
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 06:22 PM
Nov 2025

For such people as this "Karen", their paranoia is only exceeded by their monumental stupidity. And I detect possibly another derangement as well: a Trump supporter hell-bent on denying the effects of his cruel policies.

kimbutgar

(27,123 posts)
40. Thank you for your kindness
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 06:23 PM
Nov 2025

This country needs more people like yu who have love and compassion. F that Karen and I wouldn’t be shocked if you found out she is a xtian magaloon.

Many hugs and kisses to you! 🤗🥰

popsdenver

(2,095 posts)
42. Screw them
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 06:24 PM
Nov 2025

I truly believe that they will all get their shit back to them in Spades.............

I always try to help all I can, especially if they have children. Look at their shoes, it often tells the story.

Thank you for trying to help out where you can........

Aristus

(72,019 posts)
46. This is pure, late-stage, Trump-Era capitalism.
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 06:38 PM
Nov 2025

People aren’t just cruel to others; they hate it when they see people being kind to one another. As if it’s the kindness and not the cruelty that’s the problem.

Thank you for your kindness.

niyad

(131,543 posts)
60. I wonder if it isn't a situation of knowning, deep down in a desperately
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 07:53 PM
Nov 2025

ignored part of themselves, that they are, in fact, total scum. They hate having the mirror showing them up.

BurnDoubt

(1,613 posts)
49. Thank You For Being A Kind Person.
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 07:08 PM
Nov 2025

I would still think you are a kind person if you had told a busybody to "MIND YOUR OWN ******* BUSINESS”.
And, yes, you should have taken her photo and posted it for ALL TO SEE!
Maybe someone could “help” her to learn how to be a courteous neighbor.
Courtesy IS a sign of weakness in MAGAmerica.

Evolve Dammit

(21,710 posts)
51. Nice work. Thanks for posting. I could go on, but we know these people and their zero empathy or even understanding...
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 07:09 PM
Nov 2025

mcar

(45,909 posts)
52. We always give at least a few bucks to people who ask
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 07:13 PM
Nov 2025

I told my kids, if they are scammers it's on them. You followed your instincts and did the right thing.

BlueKota

(5,250 posts)
53. It's a shame how heartless people like that Karen can be.
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 07:17 PM
Nov 2025

I am glad there are people like you to help balance the scale. That's a wonderful thing you did.

MIButterfly

(2,530 posts)
55. Thank you for your kindness.
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 07:29 PM
Nov 2025

You did a very compassionate thing for another human being. I wish there were more people like you. The world would be a much better place.

As for that Karen, she should STFU and mind her own business. What a despicable human being she is.

OAITW r.2.0

(31,961 posts)
59. I did the same for an elderly women having trouble paying for her $35 bad of groceries. I intervened and told the clerk
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 07:52 PM
Nov 2025

"I'll pay for it." Didn't expect anything, but felt really good for doing this simple act of kindness.

B.See

(8,231 posts)
61. A wonderful story. Frankly I've become convinced
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 08:05 PM
Nov 2025

that anyone who voted for Trump/MAGA, in spite of all he/they have done, said, and PROMISED,

and who supports, embraces that mindset, STILL, in spite of all that's followed,

MUST be of such a malevolently cruel and SICK-MINDED nature, that it almost defies COMPREHENSION.

Response to Lettuce Be (Original post)

mdbl

(8,505 posts)
63. If for some reason you do get scammed someday
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 08:12 PM
Nov 2025

Your karma will be clean - their's will be something they have to deal with. But do be careful. Even losing a couple of hundred dollars isn't going to break anyone but some scams are getting tens of thousands from people.

Warpy

(114,547 posts)
65. Thank you for helping.
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 08:17 PM
Nov 2025

A scammer would have gone for meat. She sounds like someone who might have been afraid to go to work because of ICE raids.

In any case, Mrs. Buttinsky would have gotten a "Fuck off!" from me, which is what she richly deserved. If you'r the polite sort, maybe a repeat performance could garner a "Mind your own business." I'm sure her business could stand some minding.

You did good, kid, that lady will eat and quite possibly her kids will, too.

Figarosmom

(11,344 posts)
68. I would have told her
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 10:14 PM
Nov 2025

She was the one running a scam taking our picture so she can post it for money on line. Also she should mind her own business.

orleans

(36,817 posts)
69. that was wonderful what you did to help that woman and her child.
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 10:26 PM
Nov 2025

thank you.

never let assholes deter you from doing what you know is the right, humane thing.


wendyb-NC

(4,661 posts)
70. I'm glad you were able to help her
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 11:13 PM
Nov 2025

The world needs more compassion and generous hearts like you. We definitely need less nosy passers by who seek to degrade people who are poor, and disenfranchised by this broken system. Thank you for helping them.

calimary

(89,688 posts)
71. Thank you so kindly for correcting the record.
Thu Nov 20, 2025, 01:03 AM
Nov 2025

It’s hard to understand, sometimes, where that kind of cruelty comes from.

HeartsCanHope

(1,623 posts)
72. Well, Lettuce Be, that Karen was wrong on every level, and thank you for helping that lady and her child!
Thu Nov 20, 2025, 01:05 AM
Nov 2025

Some people are so broken inside that they can't show kindness to anyone. In Karen's case she wanted to take that joy from you, too. I paid for groceries once when the person in front of me forgot their wallet. The lady behind me told me I shouldn't do that because some people do that to get out of paying. I said, "Well, I believe the Good Book tells us to do good whenever we can, and it is my honor to help my neighbor! The cashier replied, "Amen," and the lady behind me shut up. I continue to pay when someone doesn't have enough money, and I applaud your choice to do so, too. We're all in this together!

halobeam

(5,094 posts)
73. What you did was beautiful. You made the world a better place
Thu Nov 20, 2025, 01:44 AM
Nov 2025

especially for that woman and her child.

I do feel it's really important to remind people that to use a common name in a derogatory way, such as Karen is being used, is unkind.

What if that was your daughter, sister or mother's name? Like it's my daughter's name, and a number of people I know who have a family member who bear that name.

First hand knowledge, they are upset by it, as are their family members. It's really getting old. Can we please be more thoughtful of others?

Today you made someone feel cared for and you made someone upset. Both are fact.

There's an episode in Friends where they showed Monica mess up and iirc, I think her mom said, "You pulled a Monica". Even a sitcom showed the obvious hurt it caused, and how no one would want someone to use their name in that manner. It's just wrong to do to someone.

Think of how many women there are with the name Karen, that have been dealing with this for too long already.

There have been a good number of posts in this thread that followed along. I ask any of you, How about using your own name, or the name of someone you love dearly instead? And by chance anyone thinks it's no big deal, then definitely use your own name if it doesn't matter much.

Sorry, but I'm sad for some that I love, who shy away from saying their name, or listen to some folks who snicker about it, and now dislike their name. Idk what is with some people anymore.

OP, obviously with a heart of gold, but like everyone of us, imperfect. We can all try to be better.

stopdiggin

(15,312 posts)
74. You should have added your own complaint (to store employee, and possibly management?)
Thu Nov 20, 2025, 01:52 AM
Nov 2025

Of how your 'shopping experience' was essentially ruined by an unwarranted and totally unnecessary 'intervention' - practically amount to 'assault' - by a completely random customer. And how the discomfort you were made to feel is completely out of bounds - and something you feel the store should be doing something about. In short - 'problem behavior' (and customers) are flagged every day in retail. And this is an example of something that shouldn't be tolerated in your store.

MaryMagdaline

(7,960 posts)
77. Thank you for helping that family!
Thu Nov 20, 2025, 07:15 AM
Nov 2025

I am sick to my stomach that a woman would attack a poor mother and child like that and then try to bully you and the store to push them out on the street. This country is full of such hateful people.

lostnfound

(17,474 posts)
78. Loaves and fishes... meanwhile we are scammed daily by corporate monsters
Thu Nov 20, 2025, 08:04 AM
Nov 2025

In so many ways.
But the messaging is all about the poor scamming the hard working americans.

Bluetus

(2,634 posts)
79. The dividing line in our society is not
Thu Nov 20, 2025, 10:42 AM
Nov 2025

race
religion
income
education
sexual orientation
ethnicity
language
positions on political/civic issues.

The most fundamental divide in our country is empathy. I suspect this is some combination of genetics and upbringing. But I just don't see people being "somewhat empathetic" or "moderately self-absorbed". Inside 60 seconds, one can usually determine which end of the empathy spectrum a person is on.

Where things get really strange is within the "Christian" community. Obviously, Jesus' talked consistently about caring for others. That is the heart of the Sermon on the Mount. And many Christians do try to live up to that. But then we have all these mega (MAGA) churches independent of any denomination that attract people at the opposite end of the empathy spectrum.

This divide has always been there, but Trump has glorified it to the point that your kind acts are seen as somehow villainous.

Farmer-Rick

(12,594 posts)
80. Sometimes you can enjoy other people's anger at you
Thu Nov 20, 2025, 10:44 AM
Nov 2025

When I do something that some idiot takes offense to, I got to laugh inside and smile to myself. Then finish up what I was doing. It makes it so much more worthwhile doing.

When stupid people want you to stop doing what you are doing, then you know you are doing the right thing.

Also, so what if it was a scam. If you have to scam people in order to get food then maybe it is ok to get scammed. What are they going to do? Sell the food? So, what? Maybe then that sad scammer will have a little money and won't have to beg so much.

Johnny2X2X

(23,986 posts)
82. Nothing gets the Right angrier than helping people
Thu Nov 20, 2025, 12:40 PM
Nov 2025

They'd rather 100 people starve than 1 person who might not pass their test as deserving of charity eat for free.

They absorb these memes about panhandlers all being scammers. I remember a coworker talking about an area of town and how all the panhandlers there are scammers who probably drive nice cars. I responded, "That doesn't seem likely, and you know why that part of town has a lot of homeless people? Because it's right by the VA and the homeless vets in our town still can get some services from the VA." That shut him right up.

OMGWTF

(5,073 posts)
83. Money says "Karen" is also a Bible-humping Xitian MAGAt.
Thu Nov 20, 2025, 02:34 PM
Nov 2025

This post reminds me of a bumper sticker I saw in the parking lot of Glacier National Park: Annoy a Republican and help someone.

cannabis_flower

(3,927 posts)
85. I would have
Thu Nov 20, 2025, 03:38 PM
Nov 2025

Opened the camera on my phone, started a video and said “Back off Karen, you are harassing me and this family. I have a right to help anyone I want. Do you really want to see your mean, ugly face on the internet?’’

HeartsCanHope

(1,623 posts)
91. I found this video today, Lettuce Be, and it reminded me of your good deed.
Fri Nov 21, 2025, 01:56 AM
Nov 2025

Thank you again for your empathy and kindness.

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