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Coventina

(29,733 posts)
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 07:16 PM Dec 2025

Cruise passenger was served 33 drinks, pepper sprayed and restrained before he died, lawsuit says

A passenger who died on a Royal Caribbean cruise was doused with pepper spray and physically restrained by staff members after he was served 33 alcoholic drinks and became violent, according to a lawsuit the man’s family filed against the company.

Video from aboard the Royal Caribbean Cruises ship showed Michael Virgil at times screaming, kicking at a door, shirtless and then being restrained on the ground.

According to a lawsuit filed against the cruise line in Florida last week, crew members had served Virgil at least 33 drinks before he died on an all-inclusive, four-day journey from Los Angeles to Ensenada, Mexico, last year.

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The lawsuit says that Virgil, who was from Riverside, boarded the ship on Dec. 13, 2024, with his longtime fiancée, Connie Aguilar, and their 7-year-old son, but they were told to wait in a bar area with live music because their cabin was not ready.

https://www.latimes.com/california/story/2025-12-09/cruise-lawsuit-drinks-royal-caribbean

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The coroner ruled his death a homicide.

They injected him with a sedative! Is that legal?!?!?! Especially considering the ship had not left the dock yet!?!??!

I'm all for personal responsibility, but who in their right minds serves one person 33 drinks in a short period of time?!?!?!
I mean, at some point, he didn't know what he was doing.

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Cruise passenger was served 33 drinks, pepper sprayed and restrained before he died, lawsuit says (Original Post) Coventina Dec 2025 OP
Consumed 33 drinks in front of his fiancee and their 7 year old son. flvegan Dec 2025 #1
If it was in one go and nobody stopped him even though they knew, those people are complicit. SSJVegeta Dec 2025 #2
I agree Skittles Dec 2025 #3
In one of the reports I read, it said that the fiancee had taken their 7-year old niyad Dec 2025 #15
Not all "in front of" them muriel_volestrangler Dec 2025 #24
I'd like to read canetoad Dec 2025 #4
From the various reports I mentioned downthread, they were all at one bar. niyad Dec 2025 #13
I always knew cruises were purveyors of 'excess' -- but 33 drinks in a row? Jeez.... Blue Owl Dec 2025 #5
You should see swinger's cruises! usedtobedemgurl Dec 2025 #11
They got swingers cruises? miyazaki Dec 2025 #16
Yes. Look up Bliss cruises. usedtobedemgurl Dec 2025 #31
"Have fun, but don't go overboard..." NT GJGCA Dec 2025 #6
... leftstreet Dec 2025 #39
video Celerity Dec 2025 #7
Another weird thing. In the first photo under the video, he is wearing niyad Dec 2025 #14
Is there some archived version of this story? I won't agree to anything niyad Dec 2025 #8
In reading other articles about this dreadful event, several things stood out. niyad Dec 2025 #9
We always bought unlimited drink packages on our cruises. usedtobedemgurl Dec 2025 #12
In New Orleans DonCoquixote Dec 2025 #10
I think I had Everclear over twenty years ago fujiyamasan Dec 2025 #19
Everclear goes nice in a watermelon displacedvermoter Dec 2025 #28
No one poured those drinks down his throat. Talitha Dec 2025 #17
Dram shop laws newdeal2 Dec 2025 #25
Disgusting DET Dec 2025 #18
Given his height and weight fujiyamasan Dec 2025 #20
These cruise ships are huge. They have numerous bars on them Jose Garcia Dec 2025 #32
He was at least 4 times over the legal limit. LudwigPastorius Dec 2025 #21
Alcohol Poisoning Immediately came to mind... electric_blue68 Dec 2025 #44
There are several bars on ships. Xolodno Dec 2025 #22
Injecting him with anything is unbelievable Renew Deal Dec 2025 #23
He was fighting staff and too big. They couldn't get him under control. It's not like they went straight to injecting Melon Dec 2025 #34
So what? Renew Deal Dec 2025 #35
Royal Caribbean Cruises. oasis Dec 2025 #26
He was poisoned. It's gotta be a homicide. /nt bucolic_frolic Dec 2025 #27
Actually poisoned could be homicide.... Melon Dec 2025 #42
Post removed Post removed Dec 2025 #29
All you can drink is a really bad idea for some people Johnny2X2X Dec 2025 #30
From the video, this guy was completely out of control and dangerous to everyone around him Melon Dec 2025 #33
So why did the coroner rule his death a homocide? n/t Coventina Dec 2025 #36
Because his death wasn't natural....it doesn't apply fault. Melon Dec 2025 #37
Homocide is not suicide. n/t Coventina Dec 2025 #38
If I walk out into traffic without the right of way, not paying attention EdmondDantes_ Dec 2025 #40
Right. And it's not natural. It's one person causing the death of another. Melon Dec 2025 #41
33 drinks? That's crazy! MustLoveBeagles Dec 2025 #43

flvegan

(66,281 posts)
1. Consumed 33 drinks in front of his fiancee and their 7 year old son.
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 07:20 PM
Dec 2025

I'm sorry for their loss. I'll just leave it there.

SSJVegeta

(2,849 posts)
2. If it was in one go and nobody stopped him even though they knew, those people are complicit.
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 07:26 PM
Dec 2025

Theres something seriously wrong if anybody knowingly allows their friend or family member to consume that much alcohol at once. Especially in public.

niyad

(132,446 posts)
15. In one of the reports I read, it said that the fiancee had taken their 7-year old
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 11:31 PM
Dec 2025

autistic son out of the noisy (live music) bar because he was becoming anxious and upset. There are so many weird things in this story, in all the reports I read. Nothing adds up.

muriel_volestrangler

(106,212 posts)
24. Not all "in front of" them
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 09:13 AM
Dec 2025
Virgil’s son and Aguilar left at one point to check on their cabin, but the suit alleges Virgil was served at least 33 alcoholic drinks shortly after boarding the ship.
...
While intoxicated, the suit alleges, Virgil became frustrated when he got lost and was unable to locate his family’s room.

We can't tell exactly what was served when from the article, but that sounds like his fiancée and their son left, and weren't with him at the end of the binge - if just "he" got lost.

canetoad

(20,769 posts)
4. I'd like to read
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 08:02 PM
Dec 2025

An unemotional, accurate report. The drinks may have been served by several bars, each unaware of the other. We don't know and until we do, it's wise not to make a judgement.

usedtobedemgurl

(2,050 posts)
11. You should see swinger's cruises!
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 09:32 PM
Dec 2025

They are drinking at 6 AM and you can instantly tell they have blue pills. Excess does not begin to describe it.

usedtobedemgurl

(2,050 posts)
31. Yes. Look up Bliss cruises.
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 02:08 PM
Dec 2025

Some decks you can be naked on, until you are within so many miles of port. you can swim naked. No kids, so a number of folks we met were just nudists, wanting a cruise with no children around.

niyad

(132,446 posts)
14. Another weird thing. In the first photo under the video, he is wearing
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 11:24 PM
Dec 2025

a t-shirt. In the next photo, he is bare-chested, and there appears to be a luggage handle, or something similar, at the bottom edge of the image, and no sign of the t-shirt.

niyad

(132,446 posts)
9. In reading other articles about this dreadful event, several things stood out.
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 09:05 PM
Dec 2025

Knowing how pricey drinks are on a cruise ship, I shuddered to imagine what a 33-drink bar tab looked like. (I was also trying to imagine how one could consume 33 drinks
in just a few hours.) Then I read that he had paid for an "unlimited, top-shelf" bar package (anhere from $55-$200/day, depending on the package).. But still. .33 drinks in just a few hours??? Then I read that he was 6' 5"/370 pounds, and wearing steel-toed shoes. Who, as a passenger, wears steel-toed shoes on a cruise ship??? His family claims he was a "gentle giant" who had never behaved like this, drunk, violent, spewing out vulgar racial slurs and threats? The door he was attempting to kick in? A crew member had locked themselves into the towel room to get away from him.There are so many questions about this bizarre case.

usedtobedemgurl

(2,050 posts)
12. We always bought unlimited drink packages on our cruises.
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 09:38 PM
Dec 2025

One as short as he was on, was probably only $199 at most.

DonCoquixote

(13,961 posts)
10. In New Orleans
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 09:26 PM
Dec 2025

there is a drink called the "hand grenade" , they tell you NOT to have four of them. Well, what did my brother in law do. He went through the French quarter, to the various locations of the bare that served this, and got 6 total. Keep in mind, the alleged secret recipe includes everclear and 151 rum; one of them can kill some people.

fujiyamasan

(1,695 posts)
19. I think I had Everclear over twenty years ago
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 03:32 AM
Dec 2025

I don’t think they sold it in Michigan. A friend had bought it in Indiana. I don’t know if I’ve ever tried 151.

A drink combining both? Yikes.

displacedvermoter

(4,503 posts)
28. Everclear goes nice in a watermelon
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 09:58 AM
Dec 2025

Cut a hole, pour it in, and replug the hole. Refrigerate, and then enjoy. Responsibly....😊

Talitha

(7,989 posts)
17. No one poured those drinks down his throat.
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 12:02 AM
Dec 2025

I feel bad that they needed to control him but TBH, he'd still be alive if he'd been responsible for his own actions.

newdeal2

(5,417 posts)
25. Dram shop laws
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 09:20 AM
Dec 2025

In most states businesses are responsible if overserving a customer.

Not sure what laws could apply in this case. One reason I don’t like the idea of cruises, they seem kinda lawless.

DET

(2,501 posts)
18. Disgusting
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 03:26 AM
Dec 2025

Looks exactly like I thought he would. Thirty-three drinks - who does that? And who serves that? Isn’t that a lethal amount of alcohol? Plenty of blame to go around here. I feel bad for the young son; this will be the last memory of his father.

fujiyamasan

(1,695 posts)
20. Given his height and weight
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 03:37 AM
Dec 2025

I’d be curious what his BAC was. I don’t think any bartender in their right mind or manager would keep serving that many drinks over such a short time span, if not for actual ethical reasons — but financial alone. I would assume they would water the drinks down, and if he’s drinking hard liquor, he would have basically had several bottles worth. It makes no sense.

LudwigPastorius

(14,728 posts)
21. He was at least 4 times over the legal limit.
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 03:52 AM
Dec 2025

If he had survived, he wouldn't have remembered any of his actions. Blackout drunk it's called.

The family will likely get a hefty settlement, because he was overserved to the point of alcohol poisoning, then injected with a sedative, which finished the job.

It is a bartender's moral imperative to cut someone off who is clearly intoxicated, as after the first 5 or 6, they are unable to accurately assess their own inebriated state.

electric_blue68

(26,856 posts)
44. Alcohol Poisoning Immediately came to mind...
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 10:35 PM
Dec 2025

then a seditive?!

If he just drank at that one bar...the bartender sure seems...culpabile?

Xolodno

(7,350 posts)
22. There are several bars on ships.
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 03:54 AM
Dec 2025

If one cut him off, he could have easily went to another.

Either way, I think he would be dead either way. I once bought a unlimited drink package for a bar at a restaurant in Las Vegas for an hour. My wife and I cut ourselves off.

Renew Deal

(85,169 posts)
23. Injecting him with anything is unbelievable
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 08:54 AM
Dec 2025

How is that legal anywhere? And how is that not the headline?

Melon

(1,525 posts)
34. He was fighting staff and too big. They couldn't get him under control. It's not like they went straight to injecting
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 04:03 PM
Dec 2025

after a warning.

Renew Deal

(85,169 posts)
35. So what?
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 05:20 PM
Dec 2025

It's one thing to take external measures. It's completely different to use something internal that can have any number of unpredictable side effects.

Response to Coventina (Original post)

Johnny2X2X

(24,210 posts)
30. All you can drink is a really bad idea for some people
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 10:35 AM
Dec 2025

When you do all inclusive, some people just overdo it because in their minds, they already paid for it and they're going to get their money's worth. 33 drinks is crazy, even for someone almost 400 pounds.

And in a situation like this, the bartenders are trained to not overserve, but it's hard to know wo's who on a boat and there could have been multiple bartenders. There are all types of drunk people. Some people are totally fine for hours and then a switch flips and they're a mess. Others it's a slow build to blackout drunk.

Terrible situation.

Melon

(1,525 posts)
33. From the video, this guy was completely out of control and dangerous to everyone around him
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 04:02 PM
Dec 2025

They are on a cruise ship. The staff is not receiving near enough wages to fight 400 pound super drunk guys. They did their best to restrain him. I'm sorry, but it's on him. This is personal accountability and he isn't owed a dime from anyone.

EdmondDantes_

(1,798 posts)
40. If I walk out into traffic without the right of way, not paying attention
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 06:55 PM
Dec 2025

Get hit by a bus that was too close to stop, and die, that's a homicide but the bus driver isn't responsible. Homicide merely means not suicide and not natural causes.

MustLoveBeagles

(16,411 posts)
43. 33 drinks? That's crazy!
Wed Dec 10, 2025, 07:17 PM
Dec 2025


Even for a man his size. There's plenty of blame to go around. I feel sorry for his son.


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