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niyad

(130,472 posts)
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 01:28 PM Jan 28

In honour of my late friend, may krasnov and his goons and enablers

rot in hell, experiencing every minute of the pain and sufferiing and chaos and terror they have inflicted on all of us.

A very dear friend died Saturday night. We had been through so much together, were there for each other. Daily texts, frequent calls about the shit show we are experiencing. I had been very worried about her all last week, recurring pneumonia, rapid weight loss, etc. Our last texts were about her anger and fear at the horror show. .and then. . . silence. And then the news from her son. I am so fucking angry that her last days and minutes were poisoned by the insanity we are living, that she feared for her children and grandchildren. For this, as for so much else, I can never forgive them. My one small hope is that at least maybe she was not aware of the horrors on Saturday.

Requiescat in pace, dear friend.

May all involved receive everything they deserve.

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In honour of my late friend, may krasnov and his goons and enablers (Original Post) niyad Jan 28 OP
Condolences for the loss of your friend MagickMuffin Jan 28 #1
Thank you so much. niyad Jan 28 #2
So sorry for your loss. hermetic Jan 28 #3
Thank you so much. niyad Jan 28 #4
So sorry for your loss MustLoveBeagles Jan 28 #5
Thank you so much. niyad Jan 28 #6
My deepest sympathy for your loss. sinkingfeeling Jan 28 #7
Thank you so much. niyad Jan 28 #8
Ohhh... gentle hug. So sorry for your loss. electric_blue68 Jan 28 #9
Thank you so much. niyad Jan 28 #11
Deepest condolences to you and peace to your friend. SheilaAnn Jan 28 #10
Thank you so much. niyad Jan 28 #12
Oh, niyad, I am so very sorry. May The Universe welcome her soul with open LoisB Jan 28 #13
Thank you so much. She was an amazing person. . feminist, niyad Jan 28 #17
I will never understand why we lose people like her and the assholes keep LoisB Jan 28 #21
Exactly. Friends and I have railed at Grim repeatedly for screwing niyad Jan 28 #26
Peace and condolences for your loss. Dulcinea Jan 28 #14
Thank you so much. niyad Jan 28 #18
K&R UTUSN Jan 28 #15
Thank you so much. niyad Jan 28 #19
Hard to lose friends malaise Jan 28 #16
You have my deepest sympathies. niyad Jan 28 #20
I'm so sorry for your loss, niyad. LuckyCharms Jan 28 #22
Thank you so much. niyad Jan 28 #24
My sympathies on the loss of your dear friend. yellow dahlia Jan 28 #23
Thank you so much. She does, indeed. niyad Jan 28 #25
Deepest condolences SheltieLover Jan 28 #27
hugggggs and thank you so much. niyad Jan 28 #31
Yw. Hugggggs back at ya! SheltieLover Jan 29 #45
My God, what a horrible loss.. Permanut Jan 28 #28
Thank you so much. Sadly, we are not in charge, or things would niyad Jan 28 #32
I'm so sorry you lost your friend! Ocelot II Jan 28 #29
Thank you so much. niyad Jan 28 #33
Thank you so much. niyad Jan 28 #34
So sorry for your loss. johnp3907 Jan 28 #30
Thank you so much. Yes, we both wanted that. niyad Jan 28 #35
I'm so sorry, niyad. Scrivener7 Jan 28 #36
Thank you so much. niyad Jan 28 #39
I'm so sorry niyad FullySupportDems Jan 28 #37
Thank you so much. She was a wonderful person. niyad Jan 28 #40
My condolences to Faux pas Jan 28 #38
Thank you so much. niyad Jan 28 #41
So sorry for your loss, niyad Dear_Prudence Jan 28 #42
Thank you so much. niyad Jan 29 #47
I'm so sorry, niyad. I wish your friend's last days hadn't been made worse by the craziness from Trump and highplainsdem Jan 28 #43
Yuppers! SheltieLover Jan 29 #46
Thank you so much for your beautiful, loving post. May it be so. niyad Jan 29 #48
I'm sorry for your loss, Niyad BlueSpot Jan 28 #44
Thank you so much. We are indeed working for that day. niyad Jan 29 #49

MagickMuffin

(18,212 posts)
1. Condolences for the loss of your friend
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 01:35 PM
Jan 28

Our country continues to lose the best among us.

May your friend's journey into the next phase with her Spirit Energy bring you Peace and comfort.



LoisB

(12,562 posts)
13. Oh, niyad, I am so very sorry. May The Universe welcome her soul with open
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 06:50 PM
Jan 28

arms. If she was your friend, I know she was a good person.

niyad

(130,472 posts)
17. Thank you so much. She was an amazing person. . feminist,
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 07:23 PM
Jan 28

environmentalist, animal lover, amazing wife and mother, incredible friend. So many times this week I have reached for my phone to text her something, only to have to remind myself.

LoisB

(12,562 posts)
21. I will never understand why we lose people like her and the assholes keep
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 07:56 PM
Jan 28

wasting space. My best friend (male) died in 2013; I still have "I have to tell Darrel" moments. There are some people who are the only ones we can have certain conversations with. She certainly sounds amazing.

yellow dahlia

(5,205 posts)
23. My sympathies on the loss of your dear friend.
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 09:06 PM
Jan 28

We will always miss yet one more conversation.

She may have left this mortal coil, but she walks with us as we carry in in the resistance.





Permanut

(8,134 posts)
28. My God, what a horrible loss..
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 09:30 PM
Jan 28

You were there for her. I want to say we needed her, but I guess we're not in charge of that.

Requiescat indeed.

Dear_Prudence

(1,112 posts)
42. So sorry for your loss, niyad
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 11:01 PM
Jan 28

The world spinning, but she had your support and loving friendship until the very end. And you had hers. Condolences.

highplainsdem

(60,825 posts)
43. I'm so sorry, niyad. I wish your friend's last days hadn't been made worse by the craziness from Trump and
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 11:06 PM
Jan 28

his goons.

But I believe they will get what they deserve - that when those human monsters cross over, they'll experience every bit of pain they caused others here, and be unable to avoid knowing just how evil their actions were. And I'm still hoping they'll get the prosecutions and punishments they deserve here, in this life.

Your friend has crossed over to peace and love, and to reunions with all her loved ones, human and animal, on the other side. Picture her young and healthy again. I believe that's her reality now (beliefs not based on any religion - I haven't followed any since leaving the Catholic Church in my teens - but on what I've learned of near death experiences and other experiences people have had, including a lot of people I met through grief support groups over the years). I hope she'll find some way of comforting you and reassuring you she's fine. And you know she'd want you to take care of yourself.

BlueSpot

(1,265 posts)
44. I'm sorry for your loss, Niyad
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 11:28 PM
Jan 28

Unfortunately, any caring person can look around on the day of their dying (if they are able to do so) and be troubled with the injustice and inequity clearly visible in the world around them.

For sure, right now is worse than average but I think it is always so at some level.

Wouldn't it be wonderful to get to a time that it wasn't so? I think that describes the struggle.

Rest in peace, Niyad's friend. Know that we're still working on it.

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