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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsFINALLY. I have a surgery date.
For those of you who may not remember the back story, here's a couple of links:
https://www.democraticunderground.com/1036153011
https://www.democraticunderground.com/100220893845
Apparently, scheduling a surgery takes longer than you might expect. But there are various things that need to happen before scheduling. For instance, the drug I'm on (Tagrisso) needs to be on board for 90 days. I just passed that date a few days ago. Also, an appropriate hospital needs to be on the list (it is.) and the doctor doing the surgery needs to have privileges there, which she does.
I don't yet have a time when the surgery will start. But the day is definitely fixed:
MONDAY, MARCH 16TH, 2026.
There are other small procedures to be done, but this is the important one.
Now, I need to ready myself, my psyche and my body, for this unprecedented surgery. I've never had a surgery like this before and it looks a little scary. All my joint replacements got to be routine. This is not.
As I did before, I will give each response a rec when I've read it.
My love and thanks to all of you!
LuckyCharms
(22,494 posts)You're going to do great!
SheltieLover
(79,689 posts)Healing vibes still flowing to you.
senseandsensibility
(24,803 posts)Your surgery date is close to St. Patrick's Day. May the luck o' the Irish be with you!
Scrivener7
(59,335 posts)That is great news, and I wish you total success. You hang in there.
HAB911
(10,417 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(15,917 posts)Permanut
(8,299 posts)At last, a light at the end of the tunnel. I happen to know that you can do this.
surfered
(13,042 posts)peggysue2
(12,502 posts)You have a mega prayer and blessings group at DU. All those vibes are headed in your direction for a successful surgery and healing outcome.
Take care of yourself.
MizLibby
(395 posts)Solly Mack
(96,822 posts)buzzycrumbhunger
(1,859 posts)I did acute care transcription for 15 years. The fact you have NO lymph node involvement is the biggest thing in your favour. The fact that they're fiddle-farting around to get you to surgery just bolsters your odds. If you were "really" in trouble, you would have been under the knife urgently.
I despise how insurance makes everything such an ordeal (I'm a pharmacy tech now) but I get a good vibe here. I think you've got this, except for the anxiety of waiting for it to be over. 👍
JMCKUSICK
(5,864 posts)The LOVE of so many of us to cushion, comfort and accompany you through this journey.
God Speed CaliforniaPeggy
livetohike
(24,212 posts)thoughts for you and your surgical team
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irisblue
(37,340 posts)You are gonna rock your post op
SheilaAnn
(10,703 posts)BaronChocula
(4,443 posts)Just weeks away.
Clouds Passing
(7,850 posts)malaise
(295,324 posts)niyad
(131,772 posts)successful surgery, and easy and complete recovery and healing.
You might want to hint gently to your team that they REALLLLLLLY do not want me having to come out there!
hugggggs and love
bluestarone
(22,030 posts)We will be like a BLUE WAVE behind you! YOU got this girl!!
Swede
(39,178 posts)You're gonna come through this better than ever.
awesomerwb1
(5,084 posts)I'm sure the surgery will be a complete success.
2naSalit
(102,118 posts)Special list (short) of people who need good energy when I burn sage in the morning.
Dear_Prudence
(1,158 posts)I hope it goes smoothly for you.
Beartracks
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Diamond_Dog
(40,362 posts)I will wish with all my heart that your surgery goes well and you have a full and speedy recovery!!
Dont forget to keep us updated when you can!
GoodRaisin
(10,860 posts)Bettie
(19,591 posts)and that your recovery is full!
lonely bird
(2,893 posts)I hope it goes well and you get good results.
Btw, your surgery is 3 days after my wife is having her hip replaced. The surgeon described the ball is like a square peg in a round hole.
LoisB
(12,843 posts)here. "You got this, Peggy". I will still pray.
Grim Chieftain
(1,603 posts)You are in my thoughts, dear lady. Please keep us posted.
boston bean
(36,925 posts)Figarosmom
(11,470 posts)Is hang in there. You'll get through it okay. I'm sure the doctors know what they are doing. Stay positive and remember everyone is afraid, don't let it take over.
Lonestarblue
(13,444 posts)spanone
(141,383 posts)Skittles
(171,163 posts)AND WE ARE HERE FOR YOU
Nevilledog
(55,012 posts)Holding you close in my thoughts.
badhair77
(5,170 posts)Thats a plus and I see it as a good omen. So many well-wishes heading your way, and thats just from me! Sending you the best thoughts, vibes and earnest prayers for you, your medical team and your thorough healing.
canetoad
(20,673 posts)Enjoy the anaesthetic!
diane in sf
(4,242 posts)Whyisthisstillclose
(634 posts)Jim__
(15,189 posts)Buddyzbuddy
(2,465 posts)Get well, be well, think good thoughts.
llmart
(17,554 posts)"This too shall pass". One day it'll be just a memory and you will be able to look at it as just another part of the story of your life. It's easy to say and harder to do, but don't fret too much. You've got this Peggy. We're all rooting for you.
cachukis
(3,868 posts)Ms. Toad
(38,525 posts)sinkingfeeling
(57,718 posts)the window like I did, to be released.
leftstreet
(40,219 posts)dalton99a
(93,741 posts)MLAA
(19,718 posts)friends that care deeply and consider you a DU treasure. 🩷
JohnnyLib2
(11,329 posts)And also with your husband! Love and best wishes from here.
TBF
(36,411 posts)sending all the positive vibes from here in TX!!
gademocrat7
(11,892 posts)Sending you lots of love, prayers and hugs. We are with you on this journey.🤗💙🙏
highplainsdem
(61,595 posts)Sending hugs and healing vibes.
70sEraVet
(5,433 posts)Mz Pip
(28,433 posts)Its scary but fortunately you dont have too long of a wait.
TommieMommy
(2,834 posts)Pacifist Patriot
(25,210 posts)This was surgery number 10. Lots of joint work in my extremities previously but this was them working inside my face. The anxiety was awful and the recovery has been very very different from past procedures.
I will be thinking of you and wishing for a very speedy recovery!
CTyankee
(68,090 posts)Where is the surgery being done?
joanbarnes
(2,116 posts)OldBaldy1701E
(10,976 posts)NNadir
(37,863 posts)...Manhattan Beach DU wonder.
I have in my family, long term cancer survivors and our DU family we all hope to add to that group.
Thank you for sharing with us your status and the strength with which you share it.
Good luck!
hamsterjill
(17,487 posts)I will remind myself to pray for you on Monday, March 16th. That is my practice.
You got this!!!!
1WorldHope
(2,009 posts)MuirHero
(138 posts)rubbersole
(11,164 posts)All the best to you, Ms Peggy.
lark
(26,050 posts)I know what it's like to have something life threatening but have to wait for the right surgeon to be available. While I had to wait the 3 months, I was told that if I fell, I probably died. The reason I had this was because of 2 previous falls, so not like it was likely. Grrr, it made me so mad and it was difficult to get through, but I made it through the difficult surgery and with time and work, had only minor difficulties. Hope you can say the same soon!
Best wish for a great result!!
cate94
(3,087 posts)And prayers your way.
bluescribbler
(2,499 posts)That date will come quicker than you think. Wishing you well.
ohtransplant
(1,498 posts)I don't post often but read yours always! You are of great counsel to many. You know what to do. It's just different when it's ourselves.
You got this. Remember the serenity prayer.
Sending good vibes, prayers, and well wishes your way.
And thank you for all you do. Looking forward to your next post...
murielm99
(32,934 posts)and praying for you.
Torchlight
(6,719 posts)you've handled everything so far with more strength and clarity than most of people I know would. I'm rooting hard for you... youve got this!
popsdenver
(2,179 posts)and in hopes for the best that can be..........
Marthe48
(23,040 posts)One of my friends surgery last summer and she has done so well. Sending you healing thoughts 💪
Laurelin
(878 posts)Take good care of yourself. ❤️
TexLaProgressive
(12,718 posts)You are one of my favorites here, wishing you well and lessening anxiety.
The Wizard
(13,691 posts)Positive attitudes pay dividends.
multigraincracker
(37,432 posts)blogslug
(39,144 posts)❤️ ❤️ ❤️