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CaliforniaPeggy

(156,567 posts)
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 07:20 PM Feb 25

FINALLY. I have a surgery date.

For those of you who may not remember the back story, here's a couple of links:

https://www.democraticunderground.com/1036153011

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100220893845

Apparently, scheduling a surgery takes longer than you might expect. But there are various things that need to happen before scheduling. For instance, the drug I'm on (Tagrisso) needs to be on board for 90 days. I just passed that date a few days ago. Also, an appropriate hospital needs to be on the list (it is.) and the doctor doing the surgery needs to have privileges there, which she does.

I don't yet have a time when the surgery will start. But the day is definitely fixed:

MONDAY, MARCH 16TH, 2026.

There are other small procedures to be done, but this is the important one.

Now, I need to ready myself, my psyche and my body, for this unprecedented surgery. I've never had a surgery like this before and it looks a little scary. All my joint replacements got to be routine. This is not.

As I did before, I will give each response a rec when I've read it.

My love and thanks to all of you!

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FINALLY. I have a surgery date. (Original Post) CaliforniaPeggy Feb 25 OP
Sending you my best, Peggy. LuckyCharms Feb 25 #1
Ty, Peggy! SheltieLover Feb 25 #2
Good luck, CP! senseandsensibility Feb 25 #3
So just a few more days till they take it out and you can heal. Scrivener7 Feb 25 #4
Wishing you all the best! HAB911 Feb 25 #5
Wishing you all the best MustLoveBeagles Feb 25 #6
Boy, what an ordeal for you.. Permanut Feb 25 #7
Best wishes ! 🙏❤️ surfered Feb 25 #8
All the best, Peggy peggysue2 Feb 25 #9
All the best to you dear Peggy MizLibby Feb 25 #10
I love you, Peggy. All my thoughts and hopes for a full recovery. Solly Mack Feb 25 #11
FWIW... buzzycrumbhunger Feb 25 #12
I wish you the very very best, and of course you have a special Medicinal benefit that not many others have, JMCKUSICK Feb 25 #13
Spending hugs Peggy. Will be holding positive livetohike Feb 25 #14
I will be thinking of you on 16 March. irisblue Feb 25 #15
Best wishes Peggy and the day before St. Pat's has got to be a blessed omen. SheilaAnn Feb 25 #16
All the best CP! BaronChocula Feb 25 #17
Much good energy and healing 🍀 Clouds Passing Feb 25 #18
Rooting for you sis malaise Feb 25 #19
My dear Ms Peggy, holding you in light and love. Vibes for swift and niyad Feb 25 #20
CaliforniaPeggy, you have a huge family pushing for you here. bluestarone Feb 25 #21
Wishing you all the best, Peggy. Swede Feb 25 #22
Sending positive vibes your way! awesomerwb1 Feb 25 #23
Holding you on my... 2naSalit Feb 25 #24
Sendin positive thoughts. Dear_Prudence Feb 25 #25
You're in my prayers, Peggy. Beartracks Feb 25 #26
I will be thinking about you on the 16th, Peggy. Diamond_Dog Feb 25 #27
Wish you the best outcome Peggy. GoodRaisin Feb 25 #28
Hoping everything goes smoothly Bettie Feb 25 #29
Good luck! lonely bird Feb 25 #30
I continue to have faith in your strength. Tell that cancer to get the hell out of LoisB Feb 25 #31
Best wishes for a swift recovery, CaliforniaPeggy Grim Chieftain Feb 25 #32
Best wishes for you Peggy! Stay strong! boston bean Feb 25 #33
All I can say Figarosmom Feb 25 #34
Sending you a big virtual hug. I hope everything goes well and you're soon feeling great. Lonestarblue Feb 25 #35
Congratulations CaliforniaPeggy!!! spanone Feb 25 #36
YOU GOT THIS, MS. PEGSTER Skittles Feb 25 #37
Love you, Peggy. Nevilledog Feb 25 #38
It sounds like everything is finally falling into place. badhair77 Feb 25 #39
Very best wishes Peggy canetoad Feb 25 #40
I hope it completely does the job and your recovery is fast and easy. diane in sf Feb 25 #41
All the best, Peggy! Whyisthisstillclose Feb 25 #42
I'm glad you have a date. I'll be thinking of you on March 16. Jim__ Feb 25 #43
I'll be thinking good thoughts for you, CP. As I always do. Buddyzbuddy Feb 25 #44
A favorite mantra of mine when I'm facing something unpleasant... llmart Feb 25 #45
Go girl. cachukis Feb 25 #46
Best wishes for the surgery! n/t Ms. Toad Feb 25 #47
Sending best wishes. Hope your hospital staff treats you well and you don't have to threaten to jump out sinkingfeeling Feb 25 #48
Best wishes! leftstreet Feb 25 #49
Best wishes for your surgery and recovery!! dalton99a Feb 25 #50
Peggy, you got this. Draw on the strength within you that is absolutely up to the task and the strength of all your DU MLAA Feb 25 #51
We are with you, now and on that date. JohnnyLib2 Feb 25 #52
You've got this, Peggy - TBF Feb 26 #53
Wishing you all the best Peggy. gademocrat7 Feb 26 #54
Best wishes for the surgery to go perfectly and you to recover amazingly fast. highplainsdem Feb 26 #55
Wishing you (and your surgeon) luck, Peggy! 70sEraVet Feb 26 #56
Sending good thoughts your way! Mz Pip Feb 26 #57
Good luck 🙏 healing vibes 💙 you will be okay TommieMommy Feb 26 #58
I feel you. I was first referred for surgery in mid-September. It happened January 30. Pacifist Patriot Feb 26 #59
Oh, yes! You must be feeling apprehensive. Sending my own best wishes to you. CTyankee Feb 26 #60
Best of luck, keep fighting. joanbarnes Feb 26 #61
We are with you Peggy! All good vibes to you! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Feb 26 #62
We, of course, have the highest hope for full remission for our much admired... NNadir Feb 26 #63
Wishing you all the very best, Peggy. hamsterjill Feb 26 #64
💜💜💜 🤟🏼 🤟🏼 🤟🏼 1WorldHope Feb 26 #65
Healing energy and prayers with be sent your way Peggy MuirHero Feb 26 #66
Your good karma is world class. rubbersole Feb 26 #67
So glad you finally have a date! lark Feb 26 #68
Sending good vibes cate94 Feb 26 #69
Yay!! bluescribbler Feb 26 #70
I wish you peace CP ohtransplant Feb 26 #71
I will be thinking of you murielm99 Feb 26 #72
You've already done so much to get here Torchlight Feb 26 #73
We are all right there with you CP popsdenver Feb 26 #74
I wish you all the best! Marthe48 Feb 26 #75
Sending lots of positive thoughts Laurelin Feb 26 #76
Not for the same cancer, but I know surgery is scary TexLaProgressive Feb 26 #77
You can do it, you will be successful. The Wizard Feb 26 #78
Please get well soon. multigraincracker Feb 26 #79
Sending you good thoughts ❤️ blogslug Feb 26 #80

Scrivener7

(59,335 posts)
4. So just a few more days till they take it out and you can heal.
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 07:25 PM
Feb 25

That is great news, and I wish you total success. You hang in there.

Permanut

(8,299 posts)
7. Boy, what an ordeal for you..
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 07:47 PM
Feb 25

At last, a light at the end of the tunnel. I happen to know that you can do this.

peggysue2

(12,502 posts)
9. All the best, Peggy
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 07:53 PM
Feb 25

You have a mega prayer and blessings group at DU. All those vibes are headed in your direction for a successful surgery and healing outcome.

Take care of yourself.

buzzycrumbhunger

(1,859 posts)
12. FWIW...
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 07:58 PM
Feb 25

I did acute care transcription for 15 years. The fact you have NO lymph node involvement is the biggest thing in your favour. The fact that they're fiddle-farting around to get you to surgery just bolsters your odds. If you were "really" in trouble, you would have been under the knife urgently.

I despise how insurance makes everything such an ordeal (I'm a pharmacy tech now) but I get a good vibe here. I think you've got this, except for the anxiety of waiting for it to be over. 👍

JMCKUSICK

(5,864 posts)
13. I wish you the very very best, and of course you have a special Medicinal benefit that not many others have,
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 07:59 PM
Feb 25

The LOVE of so many of us to cushion, comfort and accompany you through this journey.

God Speed CaliforniaPeggy

niyad

(131,772 posts)
20. My dear Ms Peggy, holding you in light and love. Vibes for swift and
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 08:15 PM
Feb 25

successful surgery, and easy and complete recovery and healing.

You might want to hint gently to your team that they REALLLLLLLY do not want me having to come out there!

hugggggs and love

bluestarone

(22,030 posts)
21. CaliforniaPeggy, you have a huge family pushing for you here.
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 08:15 PM
Feb 25

We will be like a BLUE WAVE behind you! YOU got this girl!!

2naSalit

(102,118 posts)
24. Holding you on my...
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 08:27 PM
Feb 25

Special list (short) of people who need good energy when I burn sage in the morning.

Diamond_Dog

(40,362 posts)
27. I will be thinking about you on the 16th, Peggy.
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 08:35 PM
Feb 25

I will wish with all my heart that your surgery goes well and you have a full and speedy recovery!!



Don’t forget to keep us updated when you can!

lonely bird

(2,893 posts)
30. Good luck!
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 08:45 PM
Feb 25

I hope it goes well and you get good results.

Btw, your surgery is 3 days after my wife is having her hip replaced. The surgeon described the ball is like a square peg in a round hole.

LoisB

(12,843 posts)
31. I continue to have faith in your strength. Tell that cancer to get the hell out of
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 08:47 PM
Feb 25

here. "You got this, Peggy". I will still pray.

Grim Chieftain

(1,603 posts)
32. Best wishes for a swift recovery, CaliforniaPeggy
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 08:48 PM
Feb 25

You are in my thoughts, dear lady. Please keep us posted.

Figarosmom

(11,470 posts)
34. All I can say
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 08:57 PM
Feb 25

Is hang in there. You'll get through it okay. I'm sure the doctors know what they are doing. Stay positive and remember everyone is afraid, don't let it take over.

badhair77

(5,170 posts)
39. It sounds like everything is finally falling into place.
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 09:25 PM
Feb 25

That’s a plus and I see it as a good omen. So many well-wishes heading your way, and that’s just from me! Sending you the best thoughts, vibes and earnest prayers for you, your medical team and your thorough healing.

Buddyzbuddy

(2,465 posts)
44. I'll be thinking good thoughts for you, CP. As I always do.
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 09:55 PM
Feb 25

Get well, be well, think good thoughts.

llmart

(17,554 posts)
45. A favorite mantra of mine when I'm facing something unpleasant...
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 10:01 PM
Feb 25

"This too shall pass". One day it'll be just a memory and you will be able to look at it as just another part of the story of your life. It's easy to say and harder to do, but don't fret too much. You've got this Peggy. We're all rooting for you.

sinkingfeeling

(57,718 posts)
48. Sending best wishes. Hope your hospital staff treats you well and you don't have to threaten to jump out
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 10:10 PM
Feb 25

the window like I did, to be released.

MLAA

(19,718 posts)
51. Peggy, you got this. Draw on the strength within you that is absolutely up to the task and the strength of all your DU
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 10:51 PM
Feb 25

friends that care deeply and consider you a DU treasure. 🩷

JohnnyLib2

(11,329 posts)
52. We are with you, now and on that date.
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 11:09 PM
Feb 25

And also with your husband! Love and best wishes from here.

gademocrat7

(11,892 posts)
54. Wishing you all the best Peggy.
Thu Feb 26, 2026, 12:19 PM
Feb 26

Sending you lots of love, prayers and hugs. We are with you on this journey.🤗💙🙏

highplainsdem

(61,595 posts)
55. Best wishes for the surgery to go perfectly and you to recover amazingly fast.
Thu Feb 26, 2026, 12:19 PM
Feb 26

Sending hugs and healing vibes.

Mz Pip

(28,433 posts)
57. Sending good thoughts your way!
Thu Feb 26, 2026, 12:39 PM
Feb 26

It’s scary but fortunately you don’t have too long of a wait.

Pacifist Patriot

(25,210 posts)
59. I feel you. I was first referred for surgery in mid-September. It happened January 30.
Thu Feb 26, 2026, 12:50 PM
Feb 26

This was surgery number 10. Lots of joint work in my extremities previously but this was them working inside my face. The anxiety was awful and the recovery has been very very different from past procedures.

I will be thinking of you and wishing for a very speedy recovery!

CTyankee

(68,090 posts)
60. Oh, yes! You must be feeling apprehensive. Sending my own best wishes to you.
Thu Feb 26, 2026, 01:13 PM
Feb 26

Where is the surgery being done?

NNadir

(37,863 posts)
63. We, of course, have the highest hope for full remission for our much admired...
Thu Feb 26, 2026, 01:25 PM
Feb 26

...Manhattan Beach DU wonder.

I have in my family, long term cancer survivors and our DU family we all hope to add to that group.

Thank you for sharing with us your status and the strength with which you share it.

Good luck!

hamsterjill

(17,487 posts)
64. Wishing you all the very best, Peggy.
Thu Feb 26, 2026, 01:28 PM
Feb 26

I will remind myself to pray for you on Monday, March 16th. That is my practice.

You got this!!!!

lark

(26,050 posts)
68. So glad you finally have a date!
Thu Feb 26, 2026, 02:56 PM
Feb 26

I know what it's like to have something life threatening but have to wait for the right surgeon to be available. While I had to wait the 3 months, I was told that if I fell, I probably died. The reason I had this was because of 2 previous falls, so not like it was likely. Grrr, it made me so mad and it was difficult to get through, but I made it through the difficult surgery and with time and work, had only minor difficulties. Hope you can say the same soon!

Best wish for a great result!!

ohtransplant

(1,498 posts)
71. I wish you peace CP
Thu Feb 26, 2026, 04:47 PM
Feb 26

I don't post often but read yours always! You are of great counsel to many. You know what to do. It's just different when it's ourselves.

You got this. Remember the serenity prayer.

Sending good vibes, prayers, and well wishes your way.

And thank you for all you do. Looking forward to your next post...

Torchlight

(6,719 posts)
73. You've already done so much to get here
Thu Feb 26, 2026, 04:54 PM
Feb 26

you've handled everything so far with more strength and clarity than most of people I know would. I'm rooting hard for you... you’ve got this!

Marthe48

(23,040 posts)
75. I wish you all the best!
Thu Feb 26, 2026, 06:39 PM
Feb 26

One of my friends surgery last summer and she has done so well. Sending you healing thoughts 💪

TexLaProgressive

(12,718 posts)
77. Not for the same cancer, but I know surgery is scary
Thu Feb 26, 2026, 07:40 PM
Feb 26

You are one of my favorites here, wishing you well and lessening anxiety.

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