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A Department of Homeland Security deputy assistant secretary for counterterrorism has been accused of picking up men on a sugar daddy website.
Julia Varvaro, 29, allegedly had a profile on Seeking.com, a site that is often used by young, attractive singles looking for older, wealthier partners to help fund their luxury lifestyles, according to the Daily Mail.
The profile, which was under the name Alessia, said its owner worked for a government agency and offered seductive sophistication.
It used the same photo as Varvaros Instagram account and described Alessia as flirty, fun, and fond of sultry spaces, as well as drawn to a masculine man whos attentive, protective, and quietly playful for mutually beneficial experiences.
The profile was revealed by Varvaros ex-boyfriend, an older executive and divorced father identified by the Daily Mail as Robert B.
The two met on a different dating app, Hinge, and he spent $40,000 on her over the course of three months, including first-class trips to Aruba and Italy.
The relationship ended after Robert refused to spend even more on her, according to text messages he shared with the publication. He has since filed a complaint with DHSs Office of the Inspector General exposing the alleged Seeking.com profile.
https://www.thedailybeast.com/top-donald-trump-terror-official-julia-varvaro-exposed-on-sugar-daddy-site/
More shit from the Shitlerians. Who's surprised? Not I.
Krazy_Kat
(111 posts)Jilly_in_VA
(14,492 posts)which is also kind of questionable.
bucolic_frolic
(55,527 posts)Lochloosa
(16,776 posts)Jilly_in_VA
(14,492 posts)Lochloosa
(16,776 posts)Last edited Wed Apr 22, 2026, 02:06 PM - Edit history (1)
He didn't get what he thought he paid for, I guess so he doxed her. He should have accepted the loss and tucked his tail and walked away.
"The relationship ended after Robert refused to spend even more on her, according to text messages he shared with the publication. He has since filed a complaint with DHSs Office of the Inspector General exposing the alleged Seeking.com profile."
Jilly_in_VA
(14,492 posts)while working for the government. She can do one or the other, not both.
Lochloosa
(16,776 posts)It is an issue concerning the position that she holds, but he would have done this even if she was in the private sector.
He's an asshole.
RockRaven
(19,626 posts)sex work AND hold that government position. That made it everyone else's business.
So while he is an asshole, so is she, and it doesn't deserve to be a secret since there are national security implications.
Lochloosa
(16,776 posts)LetMyPeopleVote
(181,030 posts)dalton99a
(94,870 posts)

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