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Jilly_in_VA

(14,492 posts)
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 12:53 PM Wednesday

Top Trump Terror Official Exposed on 'Sugar Daddy' Site

A Department of Homeland Security deputy assistant secretary for counterterrorism has been accused of picking up men on a sugar daddy website.
Julia Varvaro, 29, allegedly had a profile on Seeking.com, a site that is often used by young, attractive singles looking for older, wealthier partners to help fund their luxury lifestyles, according to the Daily Mail.

The profile, which was under the name “Alessia,” said its owner worked for a government agency and offered “seductive sophistication.”

It used the same photo as Varvaro’s Instagram account and described Alessia as “flirty, fun, and fond of sultry spaces,” as well as “drawn to a masculine man who’s attentive, protective, and quietly playful for mutually beneficial experiences.”

The profile was revealed by Varvaro’s ex-boyfriend, an older executive and divorced father identified by the Daily Mail as Robert B.

The two met on a different dating app, Hinge, and he spent $40,000 on her over the course of three months, including first-class trips to Aruba and Italy.

The relationship ended after Robert refused to spend even more on her, according to text messages he shared with the publication. He has since filed a complaint with DHS’s Office of the Inspector General exposing the alleged Seeking.com profile.

https://www.thedailybeast.com/top-donald-trump-terror-official-julia-varvaro-exposed-on-sugar-daddy-site/

More shit from the Shitlerians. Who's surprised? Not I.

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Top Trump Terror Official Exposed on 'Sugar Daddy' Site (Original Post) Jilly_in_VA Wednesday OP
Is this how KKKaroline snagged her old man? Krazy_Kat Wednesday #1
I thought he was her history teacher or something Jilly_in_VA Wednesday #5
This one is not low profile bucolic_frolic Wednesday #2
Robert H. Is an asshole. IMO Lochloosa Wednesday #3
Aren't they both? Jilly_in_VA Wednesday #6
She's making a choice concerning her body and ethics. Agree or not, I'm not judging her. Lochloosa Wednesday #7
She should not be doing this Jilly_in_VA Wednesday #8
Ok, let me clear this up. I'm not defending her. Lochloosa Wednesday #10
It is a security/blackmail/kompromat risk. She can do sex work, but she can't do RockRaven Wednesday #9
See my post #8 above. Lochloosa Wednesday #11
Trump's counterterrorism asec Julia Varvaro caught in 'SUGAR DADDIES' sex scandal LetMyPeopleVote Wednesday #4
. dalton99a Wednesday #12
This message was self-deleted by its author anciano Wednesday #13
I suspect most female trumpers have similar daddy issues. Scrivener7 Wednesday #14

Lochloosa

(16,776 posts)
7. She's making a choice concerning her body and ethics. Agree or not, I'm not judging her.
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 01:26 PM
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Last edited Wed Apr 22, 2026, 02:06 PM - Edit history (1)

He didn't get what he thought he paid for, I guess so he doxed her. He should have accepted the loss and tucked his tail and walked away.

"The relationship ended after Robert refused to spend even more on her, according to text messages he shared with the publication. He has since filed a complaint with DHS’s Office of the Inspector General exposing the alleged Seeking.com profile."

Jilly_in_VA

(14,492 posts)
8. She should not be doing this
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 01:32 PM
Wednesday

while working for the government. She can do one or the other, not both.

Lochloosa

(16,776 posts)
10. Ok, let me clear this up. I'm not defending her.
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 02:05 PM
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It is an issue concerning the position that she holds, but he would have done this even if she was in the private sector.

He's an asshole.

RockRaven

(19,626 posts)
9. It is a security/blackmail/kompromat risk. She can do sex work, but she can't do
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 01:46 PM
Wednesday

sex work AND hold that government position. That made it everyone else's business.

So while he is an asshole, so is she, and it doesn't deserve to be a secret since there are national security implications.

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