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MarineCombatEngineer

(18,161 posts)
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 10:48 PM Wednesday

So a follow up on my new romance,

I did the most corniest thing, but not for mine and her generation, I invited her to a nice restaurant and halfway through dinner, I got down on one knee and proposed to her and she said....YES!!!

A new chapter in my life is starting and I'm giddy with happiness.
Excuse me, I've had a couple of shots of Vodka to celebrate my coming 2nd marriage.

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So a follow up on my new romance, (Original Post) MarineCombatEngineer Wednesday OP
I'm giddy with happiness for you! I love that our generation's romantic gestures are alive and well Deuxcents Wednesday #1
Absolutely. MarineCombatEngineer Wednesday #3
Congrats! montanacowboy Wednesday #2
We haven't set a date yet, but we're looking at late June-early July. MarineCombatEngineer Wednesday #4
July 4th. mercuryblues Thursday #115
That would be appropriate and my fiance is insisting I wear my Dress Blues, MarineCombatEngineer Thursday #116
Glad I read this before ... oldsoldierfadingfast Thursday #125
Congratulations! LoisB Wednesday #5
Congratulations, that is wonderful wendyb-NC Wednesday #6
So I'm guessing you're over the blues and into the Carpenters! Congrats! marble falls Wednesday #7
Congratulations! chowder66 Wednesday #8
Congratulations to you both on your engagement! May joy be yours, forever! CaliforniaPeggy Wednesday #9
Congratulations! Diamond_Dog Wednesday #10
Congratulations, MCE! sheshe2 Wednesday #11
Thank you sheshe2. MarineCombatEngineer Wednesday #13
I am so happy for you both. sheshe2 Wednesday #17
HOLY SHIT!!!! I've been waiting for this 'update' for a while, Jack Valentino Wednesday #12
Thank you very much. MarineCombatEngineer Wednesday #19
So very happy for the two of you. Wishing you all the best. Thank niyad Wednesday #14
Yes she does, and she knows that my rather large family, including DU, approves of this coming marriage MarineCombatEngineer Wednesday #21
Congrats Lifeafter70 Wednesday #26
Consider it done. MarineCombatEngineer Wednesday #29
In uniform? Lifeafter70 Wednesday #32
We've discussed that and she wants me to and I'm inclined to do so, although, I'll have to have my MarineCombatEngineer Thursday #36
Naw just step it up at the gym Lifeafter70 Thursday #46
Congratulations! Best wishes to you both. Srkdqltr Wednesday #15
Swooning here at the old fashioned romantic gesture. Congratulations and wishing you Marie Marie Wednesday #16
Hearty congratulations MCE. kairos12 Wednesday #18
So very happy for you both! Grim Chieftain Wednesday #20
WOW! Omaha Steve Wednesday #22
How wonderful MCE! Congratulations! electric_blue68 Wednesday #23
Congrats! May you both be blessed! n/t PatrickforB Wednesday #24
Wonderful news - best wishes to you both!!! TBF Wednesday #25
Congratulations Dan Wednesday #27
Congratulations! Thanks so much for sharing your happy news, MCE!! ❤️ littlemissmartypants Wednesday #28
Congratulations Sir! JMCKUSICK Wednesday #30
Congratulations! area51 Wednesday #31
Congratulations! yonder Wednesday #33
Oops! Intended for MCE but congrats anyway yonder 11 hrs ago #133
Wow, how great that is.👩‍❤️‍👨 Figarosmom Thursday #34
🥂 blm Thursday #35
Congratulations! 🥂 BlueKota Thursday #37
Hey MCE popsdenver Thursday #38
This message was self-deleted by its author betsuni Thursday #39
Congratulations to the both of you!!!! FemDemERA Thursday #40
Terrific news, MCE! summer_in_TX Thursday #41
Congratulations! PufPuf23 Thursday #42
Congrats! SheltieLover Thursday #43
Congratulations!! Chellee Thursday #44
Congratulations! Wah_Guy Thursday #45
Congrats we all need some good news Tree Lady Thursday #47
Yeah - it is nice isn't it? jfz9580m Thursday #83
Hubby and I went to the movies Tuesday Tree Lady Thursday #90
I watch sitcoms or romcoms just before falling asleep jfz9580m Thursday #95
So happy for you both! HeartsCanHope Thursday #48
Congrats! DET Thursday #49
It was a whirlwind romance and we just......clicked and knew we belonged together. MarineCombatEngineer Thursday #50
That's nice RussBLib Thursday #92
My granddaughter has pretty much taken over the business and is doing quite well. MarineCombatEngineer Thursday #110
Good for you....nothing like shared love!! walkingman Thursday #51
Congratulations, good sir! Jedi Guy Thursday #52
Congrats GrapesOfWrath Thursday #53
Congrats mr715 Thursday #54
.. BlueWaveNeverEnd Thursday #55
Wow!!! Did you plan that or were you swept away in the moment? 3catwoman3 Thursday #56
Congratulations! UpInArms Thursday #57
Congratulations! Hey Joe Thursday #58
Well this is delightful news! Wishing you both every happiness!!🩷🩷 KitFox Thursday #59
So amazing!!! hamsterjill Thursday #60
You can't keep a hard charging Marine down Submariner Thursday #61
CONGRATS MCE! BaronChocula Thursday #62
Happy engagement/incoming nuptials MCE! Celerity Thursday #63
How sweet! Best wishes to you both! Nt spooky3 Thursday #64
Congratulations, man! AZJonnie Thursday #65
Congratulations! democrank Thursday #66
It's so great to hear good news! redwitch Thursday #67
Congratulations to both of you! So happy for livetohike Thursday #68
Congratulations Emile Thursday #69
Congratulations. live love laugh Thursday #70
I can feel the joy in your post, and it makes my day. May you both always be as happy as you are today. Scrivener7 Thursday #71
Congratulations!! PCIntern Thursday #72
Sweet malaise Thursday #73
Congratulations! Solomon Thursday #74
Congrats to you both. BoomaofBandM Thursday #75
Congratulations! orangecrush Thursday #76
Awesome!!!! gay texan Thursday #77
THAT is bravery. /nt bucolic_frolic Thursday #78
Love is wonderful! Congratulations and all best wishes. Passages Thursday #79
Holy shit - that was fast jfz9580m Thursday #80
She has pretty much taken over the business and is doing quite well. MarineCombatEngineer Thursday #112
Yay jfz9580m Yesterday #128
Congratulations 👏🎉 MustLoveBeagles Thursday #81
How wonderful for both of you! CozyMystery Thursday #82
Well shit, there goes the neighborhood. Prairie_Seagull Thursday #84
Congrats, and wishing you and your fiance long and happy lives together! 70sEraVet Thursday #85
Mazeltov! barbtries Thursday #86
Praise the Lord 🙌 I am happy for you both? 1WorldHope Thursday #87
WOW, that is great. You have me all smiles. Best MCE, to you and your betrothed. c-rational Thursday #88
Betrothed? MarineCombatEngineer 12 hrs ago #131
Mazel tov! Grumpy Old Guy Thursday #89
WOW !!! Congratulations! It seems you have a happy future ahead of you! liberalla Thursday #91
Awwwwwwww... and even on bended knee! Sigh! calimary Thursday #93
Congratulations, old jarhead!!!!!!!!!!!! AverageOldGuy Thursday #94
As dark as the world is these days Bettie Thursday #96
Well I am pissed off!!!!! tavernier Thursday #97
Stockings with seams? 3catwoman3 Thursday #101
LOL, loved your post, MarineCombatEngineer Thursday #113
Congrats To Both Of You ProfessorGAC Thursday #98
Very cool Joinfortmill Thursday #99
Congratulations MCE! bluestarone Thursday #100
Very Best Wishes MarineCombatEngineer to you and your Lucky Lady!! Way to go!! George McGovern Thursday #102
That's Awesome News! kooth Thursday #103
Wow! That's wonderful! Congratulations Ilsa Thursday #104
Congrats! senseandsensibility Thursday #105
Best news I've read all day! Congratulations, and forever long may you two be happy. Efilroft Sul Thursday #106
Congratulations, and if it matters....... DFW Thursday #107
After we had been a couple for about 2 years, I proposed to my husband and he turned me down. 3catwoman3 Thursday #122
With us, there was more to it than that. It was my brother who invited us to our wedding. DFW Yesterday #129
Oh my! SimplyHadEnough Thursday #108
Congratulations! cate94 Thursday #109
Great news! Best wishes to you both! LuckyCharms Thursday #111
Congratulations!! 58Sunliner Thursday #114
Yay! Love and marriage! planetc Thursday #117
So cool. Congrats!! n/t iluvtennis Thursday #118
Well congrats, MCE! OldBaldy1701E Thursday #119
Excellent ❤️ Much good fortune to come 🍀 Clouds Passing Thursday #120
You must have done something right! Permanut Thursday #121
Congratulations! Trueblue Texan Thursday #123
Hey, this is awesome! I'm so happy for you and your new partner! FakeNoose Thursday #124
Big congrats, MCE! Bayard Thursday #126
Beautiful. AloeVera Thursday #127
Thank you AloeVera. MarineCombatEngineer 12 hrs ago #132
congratulations, and all good wishes! mike_c Yesterday #130
Congrats again, MCE, and a happy road ahead for you both! yonder 11 hrs ago #134
Congratulations!! mountain grammy 11 hrs ago #135
You are correct on your dare I say it. MarineCombatEngineer 11 hrs ago #136

Deuxcents

(27,378 posts)
1. I'm giddy with happiness for you! I love that our generation's romantic gestures are alive and well
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 10:55 PM
Wednesday

With this news, you know we’re gonna want to follow you thru your engagement, right?!

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,161 posts)
4. We haven't set a date yet, but we're looking at late June-early July.
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:02 PM
Wednesday

I'll let DU know when we've set a definite date.

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,161 posts)
116. That would be appropriate and my fiance is insisting I wear my Dress Blues,
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 07:27 PM
Thursday

although I'll have to have them altered to compensate for the pounds I've put on since I retired from the Corps.

125. Glad I read this before ...
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 10:24 PM
Thursday

posting as I was going to warn you to try them on first! LOL
CONGRATULATIONS! May you both live a long, happy life together.

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,161 posts)
13. Thank you sheshe2.
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:25 PM
Wednesday

I know it was a fast romance and proposal, but when the heart speaks, one listens and we both listened.

Jack Valentino

(5,156 posts)
12. HOLY SHIT!!!! I've been waiting for this 'update' for a while,
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:21 PM
Wednesday

since the post about your upcoming 'first date'---
but seems you've been busy in the meantime!

My sincere congratulations !!!!



niyad

(133,326 posts)
14. So very happy for the two of you. Wishing you all the best. Thank
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:26 PM
Wednesday

you for sharing your joyous news with us!

Does your lady know that you come with a whole group of EXTREMELY nosy friends, who will want alll sorts of details?

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,161 posts)
21. Yes she does, and she knows that my rather large family, including DU, approves of this coming marriage
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:35 PM
Wednesday

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,161 posts)
36. We've discussed that and she wants me to and I'm inclined to do so, although, I'll have to have my
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:02 AM
Thursday

Dress Blues altered to compensate for the extra pounds I've put on since retiring from the Corps.

Lifeafter70

(1,157 posts)
46. Naw just step it up at the gym
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:15 AM
Thursday

Or evening walks with your fiancee.

Your a Marine, if you can get through boot camp you can do it. I have faith in you.

Just in case get those dress blues altered.
My favorite pics of my son are from when he was in the corps.

Thanks for chatting with me. It broke up my evening caring for my son.

Du has the best people. Wishing you and your lovely lady many years of joy and happiness.

Marie Marie

(11,412 posts)
16. Swooning here at the old fashioned romantic gesture. Congratulations and wishing you
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:30 PM
Wednesday

both a long and happy marriage.

Grim Chieftain

(1,901 posts)
20. So very happy for you both!
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 11:31 PM
Wednesday

May the days ahead be filled with love, laughter and joy.

Congratulations!

yonder

(10,303 posts)
133. Oops! Intended for MCE but congrats anyway
Fri Apr 24, 2026, 10:36 PM
11 hrs ago

. . . for any congratulationable (word? don't think so) events of your own!

Figarosmom

(12,634 posts)
34. Wow, how great that is.👩‍❤️‍👨
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:00 AM
Thursday

That's also a big step. There's a lot to think about. Who's house etc. type stuff. Big wedding or small? Pulling out all the stops? How life can change in one month. Wow, wow. Wow.

popsdenver

(2,420 posts)
38. Hey MCE
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:07 AM
Thursday

I am very happy to hear that news!!!!!!!!! Second marriages are the best!!!!!!! In many cases the first marriage, I call
a Practice Marriage.....LOL
Have a joyous life together, full of fun and endearing times!

Response to MarineCombatEngineer (Original post)

PufPuf23

(9,901 posts)
42. Congratulations!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:10 AM
Thursday

Nice for your bride that you will not be on the road so much too.

Wish you years of peace and happiness.

jfz9580m

(17,489 posts)
83. Yeah - it is nice isn't it?
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 09:36 AM
Thursday

The last time I smiled was at GreatAuntofTriplets’ thread about one of the triplets getting into med school.

Happy for MCE.

Tree Lady

(13,343 posts)
90. Hubby and I went to the movies Tuesday
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:02 PM
Thursday

First time in a long time and saw Hail Mary with Ryan Gosling cute feel good movie. Those are the kind of things we need to do.

I feel like every day we are washed in dirty mucky chemical filled stinky water, need to rinse off!

jfz9580m

(17,489 posts)
95. I watch sitcoms or romcoms just before falling asleep
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:14 PM
Thursday

I get this, but admit to enjoying some circuses as the bread is stale and mouldy:

https://www.currentaffairs.org/news/the-banal-horror-of-jimmy-fallon

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,161 posts)
110. My granddaughter has pretty much taken over the business and is doing quite well.
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 07:07 PM
Thursday

I think I'm going to finally fully retire and spend the time I have left on planet earth with my soon to be wife.

Jedi Guy

(3,489 posts)
52. Congratulations, good sir!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:33 AM
Thursday

I wish you many years with your beloved and as much joy as your heart can stand!

mr715

(3,807 posts)
54. Congrats
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:42 AM
Thursday

I'm very, very, very, very happy for you.

There is a lot of beauty in this world. There is a lot worth fighting for.

Had I some vodka, I'd do one with you. Just accept this one in spirit. Spirit spirits.

Congratulations.

May you have many years of happiness, and may each year be better than the last.

I'm so happy for you.


MR

3catwoman3

(29,621 posts)
56. Wow!!! Did you plan that or were you swept away in the moment?
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:50 AM
Thursday

I’m somewhat envious of the lightning speed of your love story. My husband and I were a couple for 4 years before he was ready to take a second chance on marriage. Understandable, as it was a nasty divorce, but it was a long wait. First time around for me.

All the best to both of you!

hamsterjill

(17,673 posts)
60. So amazing!!!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:07 AM
Thursday

Congratulations. Wishing you and the soon-to-be bride all the happiness in the world.

Submariner

(13,395 posts)
61. You can't keep a hard charging Marine down
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:09 AM
Thursday

Congratulations and the best of luck to the both of you.

AZJonnie

(3,845 posts)
65. Congratulations, man!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 02:57 AM
Thursday

My partner and I were engaged end of August last year in Honolulu.

2nd's for both of us as well.

democrank

(12,648 posts)
66. Congratulations!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 03:04 AM
Thursday

A new day, a new life. What a heartwarming thing love is. My best to both of you.

livetohike

(24,351 posts)
68. Congratulations to both of you! So happy for
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 06:01 AM
Thursday

you MCE. Wishing you many years of love and laughter .

Scrivener7

(59,871 posts)
71. I can feel the joy in your post, and it makes my day. May you both always be as happy as you are today.
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 07:03 AM
Thursday

jfz9580m

(17,489 posts)
80. Holy shit - that was fast
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 09:29 AM
Thursday

Congratulations . I just thought of you today MCE. Well your granddaughter to be more precise. Hope her job is going well.

I am really happy for you .

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,161 posts)
112. She has pretty much taken over the business and is doing quite well.
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 07:13 PM
Thursday

I plan to fully retire and we're going to do some traveling, I want to take her to some of the countries I was stationed in, like Italy, Vietnam, Great Britain, etc.

Prairie_Seagull

(4,760 posts)
84. Well shit, there goes the neighborhood.
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 09:43 AM
Thursday

One knee, oh that's a corny marine move.

Really though,

CONGRATS MCE,

liberalla

(11,157 posts)
91. WOW !!! Congratulations! It seems you have a happy future ahead of you!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:17 PM
Thursday

My best and warmest wishes are heading your way!


calimary

(90,398 posts)
93. Awwwwwwww... and even on bended knee! Sigh!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:27 PM
Thursday

That’s NOT “corny”, my friend.

That’s gallant, impressive, breathtaking, and a whole lotta fabulous!!!

WELL DONE, sir. WELL DONE!!!

AverageOldGuy

(4,031 posts)
94. Congratulations, old jarhead!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 12:49 PM
Thursday

And lots of congratulations to the nice lady.

Sometimes it just the right thing to do . . . good on both of you for recognizing this is one of those times!!!

Bettie

(19,791 posts)
96. As dark as the world is these days
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:17 PM
Thursday

You've managed to show that a little light can shine through.

Congratulations!

tavernier

(14,478 posts)
97. Well I am pissed off!!!!!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:26 PM
Thursday

I thought you might consider an older lady, someone with roots going back to World War Two, Swing Music, chocolates and stockings on a date.

Oh well… guess I’m still single and looking.



Congratulations and save me a dance on your special day.

3catwoman3

(29,621 posts)
101. Stockings with seams?
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:36 PM
Thursday

I remember my mother, born in 1922, telling me that if young ladies didn’t have stockings with seams they would use eyebrow pencils to draw faux seams on their legs.

Getting those lines straight must have been tricky, or maybe they helped each other out.

bluestarone

(22,343 posts)
100. Congratulations MCE!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:31 PM
Thursday

WOW! happy for you both!! If you need another reason to hug her, there are thousands here saying GIVE HER A HUG from us!!! LOL Best of luck to BOTH of you!!

kooth

(239 posts)
103. That's Awesome News!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 01:50 PM
Thursday

Congratulations and much happiness to both of you! And, of course, thanks for your service!

DFW

(60,332 posts)
107. Congratulations, and if it matters.......
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 03:56 PM
Thursday

It sounds like you got a far more enthusiastic response to your proposal than I did to mine, which was the German equivalent to "works for me."

3catwoman3

(29,621 posts)
122. After we had been a couple for about 2 years, I proposed to my husband and he turned me down.
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 08:58 PM
Thursday

2 years later, when it was his idea, he merely said, "So when would you like to get married?" High school boys do a better job asking a girl to prom!

DFW

(60,332 posts)
129. With us, there was more to it than that. It was my brother who invited us to our wedding.
Fri Apr 24, 2026, 02:46 AM
Yesterday

We had been together for more than seven and a half years. My brother‘s girlfriend was from Japan, and was eager to join him in northern Virginia, where we were originally from. Getting married was the easiest solution for them, and they went through the paperwork and set a date.

When the date and place (Arlington, Virginia) were firm, he tracked me down to our Boston office and asked me if I wanted to be best man at a wedding. I said sure! and said I would ask my girlfriend in Germany if she could make it, too. My brother spontaneously said, „well if you both are gonna be there, we might as well make it a double wedding.“ Not only did that sound like a cool idea, but I thought „no arrangements!“ I said I would call her in Germany right away.

So I called my then-girlfriend, and told her that my brother and his girlfriend would be getting married in Virginia the next spring, and did she think she could make it? She said absolutely, and there was mo way she would miss it. I then told her his idea about the double wedding idea, whereupon she said, “works for me.” Don’t forget, after nearly eight years together, it’s not like we were strangers taking a big risk. The biggest laugh of the reception night came when my best man remarked, “I know many of you think by they are rushing into this.” The truth was more that some people, including my wife’s parents, were wondering if we were going to get married before or after reaching retirement age.

planetc

(8,948 posts)
117. Yay! Love and marriage!
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 07:38 PM
Thursday

Oh, boy, did we need some delightful news. Pictures! Don't forget the pictures!

AloeVera

(4,328 posts)
127. Beautiful.
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 10:48 PM
Thursday

Like everyone else, I am tickled at this turn of events and absolutely thrilled and happy for you MCE! Goes to show that it's true that love will find us when we are ready for it and even when we least expect it. Your heart must be so full of wonder and excitement that just thinking of it makes me smile. Thank you for sharing this wonderful news, we all needed to be reminded that in spite of everything, life is good and full of surprises still.

I wish you both many years of happiness, love and joy together!

mike_c

(37,110 posts)
130. congratulations, and all good wishes!
Fri Apr 24, 2026, 05:30 AM
Yesterday

Wonderfulness can slap you upside the head every now and then.

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,161 posts)
136. You are correct on your dare I say it.
Fri Apr 24, 2026, 10:55 PM
11 hrs ago

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She is now my fiancée and I couldn't be happier.

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